Teaching classes in college is relatively easy, sometimes it is a theoretical class. You can usually not sit in a class without class hours. There are winter and summer vacations every year, so I have developed some hobbies, many of which I liked before, but some have not had time to try more before.
I have always liked reading books. Compared with today's e-books, I prefer the feeling of reading traditional paper books.
My dad has bought me many different kinds of books since he was a child. He often says that he has a low level of education and is unable to do many things. He hopes that I can use knowledge to change my destiny
Nowadays, in addition to professional books, I usually like to read books on history, classical poetry, biography, etc. I like real things, so I like to tell the truth, otherwise it would be better not to tell it, and of course I also like others to tell the truth.
Zeng Guofan once said that a person who likes to read will not have bad character; a person with good character will not have bad luck in his life.
I believe it deeply
I like swimming. What impressed me the most before my mother divorced was that I taught me swimming when I was 6 or 7 years old. She was very good at swimming. She has been growing up in the south and went to the north to take the exam to get my dad.
There is a saying that wise people enjoy water, benevolent people enjoy mountains
I dare not say that I am a wise man, but I really like water far more than I like mountains
When swimming, I feel that there is only one free person in the world. Some people say that swimming is a lonely sport. If it is true, then I just like this loneliness.
In the winter in the north, thousands of miles of ice are frozen and snow falls. The most attractive sport is ice and snow sports.
Sea fishing is called blue opium, golf is called green opium, skiing is called white opium. Although I think this metaphor is a bit inappropriate, the charm can be seen.
I haven't tried sea fishing, nor have I thought about it
After Golf got married, he had sex with his husband and his family twice, but he didn't feel very interested.
My friend and I have tried skiing several times and once, and I feel like it more and more. Compared to skating, I think skiing is easier. I really envious of the beautiful movements of figure skating on TV. It is worthy of being called ice ballet.
I thought it would be a big problem based on my physical coordination and stability, but after trying it, I realized that it was not the case. It was like a mountain. It seems that many things cannot be forced, but I still want to practice and try it if I have the chance.
Although I teach dance, I never give up on the idea of performing on stage. So through relationships, whenever I have the opportunity, I will participate in some small performances of dance troupes, sometimes even commercial performances.
During a performance, I met my ex-boyfriend. He was a photographer at the time. He fell in love with me at first sight. Under his sincere pursuit, I felt better and better about him. We fell in love quickly and spent the best time I have so far. During this period, we experienced a lot of passionate romance.
Finally, I broke up because of my father's objection. I don't want to talk about these things anymore.
I understand that my dad wants my life to be better in the future and hope I am happy
He may also know that happiness really has nothing to do with money
What is happiness?
Happiness is not about wealth and wealth, not about driving a good car, staying in a villa
Happiness is when someone is crying, and when someone is tired, it is every little wish that someone will fulfill for you. It is to have someone who loves you and understands yourself. No matter how many he has, he will always leave the best and most for you.
No matter how beautiful the scenery is, if no one appreciates it, there will be an inexplicable sadness; no matter how good the life is, if no one shares it, there will be an inexplicable sadness
No matter how bad the environment is, if someone is accompanying you, you will be inexplicably moved.
There is a saying that you don't want to last forever, you just want to have it once
I don't really agree with this sentence
This idea may be irresponsible, helpless, or just a free and easy
Even if some people are together every day, their hearts are not together, and they dream in the same bed and in different dreams, it can be said that they have been forever in form, but where does this come from?
What is the meaning of this kind of possession?
Some people and heaven are separated by one's own direction, and their hearts are in harmony, and they miss each other. In our opinion, isn't it also beautiful for them?
Otherwise, how could there be a relationship that lasts for a long time, but how could it resonate throughout the ages?
I think true love is the most important thing. It is the core thing in our emotional world and the only criterion for measuring whether it is worth paying.
So I still like that sentence more: affection is not as good as companion for a long time, it is better to miss it than to meet each other than to meet each other.
For me, some things have been possessed forever, because they have been in my heart and have never left
After getting married, my life changed a lot. I gradually became familiar with driving to and from get off work, including food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
I've had a driver's license for a long time, but I didn't have the chance to drive before
Because my parents divorced early and poor families started their own families early, some housework was not difficult for me.
On the contrary, the relationship with my husband's family took some thought. In addition to some differences in lifestyles, some concepts also differed.
At first, the general feeling for them was to be proud and love face
My husband and a younger brother, because they got married early, and when we got married, their children were two years old and lived with my father-in-law.
My mother-in-law died early, and my father-in-law is also single now, so I avoided the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, which is difficult to get along with. Maybe the two brothers are in my father-in-law's company and there is competition. Our sister-in-law relationship has always been bad, and neither of them looks down on each other.
She gives me the feeling that it is just a word,
Like to take advantage, often compare, and the main thing is to compare material things
I often show off my origins, implying that I am a Cinderella lover
Because my husband and I still have no children, she even relied on her own to mock us in front of her father-in-law and seek credit for her.
I know it's mainly for the benefit
So many times I don't want to argue with her
I think the biggest trouble for people is to compare with others. No one is perfect. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. The world will not be perfect. Life must have shortcomings. Everyone has their own unique qualities. They need confidence and contentment.
When people are sad, they don’t have beautiful shoes, it may be because they didn’t expect that some people have no feet at all.
Because everyone has different starting points, opportunities and specialties, this meaningless comparison can easily make us lose ourselves
The only person who needs comparison is himself
We are the ones who are most familiar with ourselves, but they are also the most difficult to surpass and overcome ourselves, and we may not necessarily truly understand ourselves.
Others don’t know that they are rich and talented. This may be called cultivation. Beautiful and decent, but you don’t know that they are. This may be called temperament.
So even if you have a look that everyone envies, supreme status, knowledge and inexhaustible wealth, you cannot prove your strength, because the strength of your heart is truly powerful
Shortly after getting married, I once performed Latin dance. My husband said he wanted to see it. Of course I was happy, but unexpectedly it became a turning point in my performance.
Because I haven't had a fixed dance partner for a long time, I have to be familiar with the temporary dance partner first and practice the movement connection briefly
I changed into Latin dance clothes and started practicing with him for a while. My husband seemed a little unhappy
Latin dance mainly expresses the beauty of the waist and hips, so most of the clothes are low-cut and back-released. In order to avoid exposing the bra strap, you don’t wear ordinary bras. You usually wear a breast patch, similar to silicone material, and buckle it in front, which is the so-called invisible bra. I have told him before. Later, he said that the most difficult thing to accept is some inevitable physical contact, fearing that if there is a spark of emotion.
Tell me not to perform again in the future
He still couldn't listen to the explanation, so he decided to open a dance training class to give me time to teach. I knew he wanted to take up my spare time
I feel more and more that he wants to control me
Actually, he doesn't know, maybe he doesn't want to know at all, love is not control, what control is definitely not love
I don't want to control him, even after knowing that he cheated
Trying to change the other person is futile, you can only work hard to adapt to the other person
Feelings are like sand in your hands. The tighter you hold, the more you may lose.
It should be like a kite. No matter how high a flight, there is always a thread in your hand.
Smart people always know how to keep a suitable distance, when they are far away, when they are tight, when they are loose
The training class was just a holiday, and taught children Latin dance during the winter and summer vacations. Later, he found that the benefits were good. He has developed to the point where he has hired more than 50 teachers. The training programs include Latin dance, ballet, folk dance, street dance, vocal music, art, taekwondo, yoga, etc.
He has to admire his ability to do business
Before I got married, one of my best friends joked with me: "Pibaxing" says that the door is cold and the horse is too cold. The boss married a businesswoman and you are young and elegant. Can you have a common language when you live with a businessman who is full of money-filled businessman.
I retorted: A person's character and quality have nothing to do with regional profession
I do not have any bias towards career
The world is bustling, all for profit, and all for profit
What's more, businessmen are originally aiming at maximizing interests.
There is nothing wrong with doing business
However, due to the different values and personal qualities of each businessman, the realm and pattern, they can be roughly divided into several types: unscrupulous merchants, trusted merchants, Confucian merchants, and Buddhist merchants. I think most of them are between unscrupulous merchants and trusted merchants.
Each industry has its own unique social contribution, no difference
But in certain specific historical environments, a certain type of person or industry will highlight its social status
For example, in the troubled times in history, strategists and military generals are particularly important, and civil servants will show their skills in peace and peace.
When society is extremely unreasonable and uncoordinated, reformers emerge
When the times change, talents who practice innovation are highly concerned
During the prosperous times, writers showed their elegance, and when national hatred and family hatred, generous warriors were famous in history
Now the whole society is in a historical period of about to achieve national rejuvenation. If we want to improve our comprehensive national strength, large enterprises with international influence are essential. Therefore, businessmen have never been as outstanding in history as they are today
My husband is also willing to let me learn to invest and manage stocks, and so on. Unfortunately, I don’t have this talent and don’t have much interest, so I just gave it a try.
After getting married, most of his property was still listened to me, and most of his property was also kept by me.
He took the initiative to ask that my dad be taken over and live with him, and he also told my dad many times that he had taken the initiative to do so.
But my dad firmly disagreed and said: No talk, I don't want to bother each other
I know my dad doesn't want to bother us
My husband knew that the one I was most worried about was my dad. He also discussed with me that he wanted to introduce a wife to my dad. In fact, I also told my dad that he would do it.
When my husband took the initiative to let my dad live together, I won’t say much love for me for now. At least I already know that my husband really wants to live a good life with me.
A person always looks up to and envys other people's happiness. When he turns around, he finds that he is looking up to and envied by others.
In fact, everyone is happy
But our happiness is often in the eyes of others
Instead of thinking about life hard, it is better to live simply
It is a kind of courage to raise your head and a kind of confidence to bow your head and be a kind of confidence to do things
Smiling is a mentality, and feeling it is a wisdom
Raising your head in adversity is a kind of tenacity, and bowing your head in good times is a kind of calmness
When you are in a low position, it is a kind of backbone, when you are in a high position, it is a kind of humility.
Raising your head when you are frustrated is a kind of confidence, and bowing your head when you are right is a kind of tolerance
My mother gave birth to my half-sister after remarriage, divorced and remarried. My sister and her stepfather now have a bad relationship. She started living in primary school. I went to see her when I had time and tried to help me if I needed it.
She had average junior high school grades and went to nursing directly after graduation. She must have been influenced by my mother as a doctor.
I helped her more after getting married. I was basically at my house during holidays, but I still control her pocket money.
But my husband said to me: Boys should be raised in poverty, girls should be raised in wealth, don’t let your sister’s money be too nervous. It will be beneficial to face her when you see her more often, and you won’t suffer any losses in the future.
Her internship is almost over, and my husband has promised me that he will do his best to help her spend money in a large hospital through relationships.
What surprised me the most after getting married is that he actually helped me to get closer to my mother.
Because my parents divorced, it was mainly my mother's fault. I didn't help us after the divorce. Although I had occasional contact with her, it was quite acceptable on the surface, but every time I think of my father's hard work, I couldn't let go, so my relationship with my mother has always been very weak.
Especially after my dad's surgery, she stood by and watched
My husband may think that he can get to know me and my mother's initial introduction, so after getting married, my husband also showed great respect and filial piety to my mother, which also greatly improved my relationship with my mother.
There is a saying that no matter how good a woman has a relationship with her husband, she will have a bad relationship with her mother-in-law.
No matter how bad the relationship between a man and his wife is, he will have a good relationship with his mother-in-law.
It's so incisive
By getting closer to my mother, my heart knot gradually opened up, and my relationship with my mother was normal
No matter what, this blood relationship can never be eliminated. There are no bad parents in the world, only bad children. Just as parents should not interfere with their children's marriage, children have no right to have a positive view of their parents' choice of marriage.
Since the training class was opened, the school and the training class were busy, and I have never performed dances on the stage. I have organized the students to participate in a children's group competition, and the results are pretty good.
I also feel quite fulfilled, and my heart is gradually stabilized. I don’t know whether it is good or bad
Through continuous in-depth understanding of my husband, I also liked many of his advantages, and the contrast with me actually formed a complementary relationship.
By teaching children's dance, I also like children more and more. Just one month after the training class, one night, my husband said to me very seriously: I want to have a child with you:
I smiled and said: Then you can try it
What you can't get is the best
It is easy to get, often not cherish
Sometimes, the person who loves you is close to you, but another person is concerned about you
You think this is love, but it's just human feelings
While I am scarred, I am also hurting the person who loves you
Love is often found after a lot of twists and turns, it turns out that it is always by your side.
In love, there are no rules, no wins, no right or wrong, no heroes, and no geniuses, in classic love, there are only two fools, holding each other's hands, loving them foolishly, living foolishly, and spending their lives foolishly
Life has progress and retreat, life has gains and losses
Nothing goes well in life, and everything will not go well in life
It's very interesting to go to heaven. Cats love to eat fish, but they can't go into the water. Fish love to eat earthworms, but they can't go to the shore.
This is how life is, possession and loss coexist, choice and giving up
Whether it is a man or a woman, growth is more important than maturity
Sometimes when growing up, you just look at your own ideals and your wishes are shattered one by one. Although you are sad, you are still living strongly.
A person's maturity is not age, but mentality
The maturity of the heart is not about experiencing many things, but about the attitude towards things
We must be serious, but not serious
Don't be serious with others, because it's not worth it
Don't be serious with yourself, because you can't afford to hurt
Don't be serious about the past because it doesn't make sense. Don't be serious about the reality because it's going to continue
Don't forget the past, cherish the present, and chase dreams
Happiness is completely a feeling in one's heart. Living in the present and being yourself well is a kind of happiness
The above three articles that I couldn't look back on before and after my marriage are some sporadic memories of my past, some thoughts when I wrote them, and some previous insights and comments were added. They are considered essays, but there is no overall idea.
It's said it's unbearable to look back, but in fact, I've been whining after writing it
I'm very sorry to waste everyone's time reading this, thank you for your attention, meeting here is a fate
Everyone who appears in our lives has a reason and a mission
People who like me gave me warmth and courage; people I like taught me to love and self-support; people I don’t like taught me to be tolerant and respect; people who don’t like me made me know about self-reflection and growth
No one appears for no reason. Everyone appears for fate, there are reasons, and they are worthy of gratitude.
Life is like a bumper car, touching the right direction, and a glorious life
Touch the right environment and feel comfortable for a lifetime
If you hit the right luck, you will be able to live your life
Touch the right hobby and enrich your life
Touch your lover, have a happy life
Touch the right lover, I miss you for a lifetime
Touch the right leader and spend a lifetime relaxing
Touch the right friend, have a happy life
Meet a god, and there is an afterlife
May all of us have a glorious, comfortable, smooth, fulfilling, happy and happy life
I have always liked reading books. Compared with today's e-books, I prefer the feeling of reading traditional paper books.
My dad has bought me many different kinds of books since he was a child. He often says that he has a low level of education and is unable to do many things. He hopes that I can use knowledge to change my destiny
Nowadays, in addition to professional books, I usually like to read books on history, classical poetry, biography, etc. I like real things, so I like to tell the truth, otherwise it would be better not to tell it, and of course I also like others to tell the truth.
Zeng Guofan once said that a person who likes to read will not have bad character; a person with good character will not have bad luck in his life.
I believe it deeply
I like swimming. What impressed me the most before my mother divorced was that I taught me swimming when I was 6 or 7 years old. She was very good at swimming. She has been growing up in the south and went to the north to take the exam to get my dad.
There is a saying that wise people enjoy water, benevolent people enjoy mountains
I dare not say that I am a wise man, but I really like water far more than I like mountains
When swimming, I feel that there is only one free person in the world. Some people say that swimming is a lonely sport. If it is true, then I just like this loneliness.
In the winter in the north, thousands of miles of ice are frozen and snow falls. The most attractive sport is ice and snow sports.
Sea fishing is called blue opium, golf is called green opium, skiing is called white opium. Although I think this metaphor is a bit inappropriate, the charm can be seen.
I haven't tried sea fishing, nor have I thought about it
After Golf got married, he had sex with his husband and his family twice, but he didn't feel very interested.
My friend and I have tried skiing several times and once, and I feel like it more and more. Compared to skating, I think skiing is easier. I really envious of the beautiful movements of figure skating on TV. It is worthy of being called ice ballet.
I thought it would be a big problem based on my physical coordination and stability, but after trying it, I realized that it was not the case. It was like a mountain. It seems that many things cannot be forced, but I still want to practice and try it if I have the chance.
Although I teach dance, I never give up on the idea of performing on stage. So through relationships, whenever I have the opportunity, I will participate in some small performances of dance troupes, sometimes even commercial performances.
During a performance, I met my ex-boyfriend. He was a photographer at the time. He fell in love with me at first sight. Under his sincere pursuit, I felt better and better about him. We fell in love quickly and spent the best time I have so far. During this period, we experienced a lot of passionate romance.
Finally, I broke up because of my father's objection. I don't want to talk about these things anymore.
I understand that my dad wants my life to be better in the future and hope I am happy
He may also know that happiness really has nothing to do with money
What is happiness?
Happiness is not about wealth and wealth, not about driving a good car, staying in a villa
Happiness is when someone is crying, and when someone is tired, it is every little wish that someone will fulfill for you. It is to have someone who loves you and understands yourself. No matter how many he has, he will always leave the best and most for you.
No matter how beautiful the scenery is, if no one appreciates it, there will be an inexplicable sadness; no matter how good the life is, if no one shares it, there will be an inexplicable sadness
No matter how bad the environment is, if someone is accompanying you, you will be inexplicably moved.
There is a saying that you don't want to last forever, you just want to have it once
I don't really agree with this sentence
This idea may be irresponsible, helpless, or just a free and easy
Even if some people are together every day, their hearts are not together, and they dream in the same bed and in different dreams, it can be said that they have been forever in form, but where does this come from?
What is the meaning of this kind of possession?
Some people and heaven are separated by one's own direction, and their hearts are in harmony, and they miss each other. In our opinion, isn't it also beautiful for them?
Otherwise, how could there be a relationship that lasts for a long time, but how could it resonate throughout the ages?
I think true love is the most important thing. It is the core thing in our emotional world and the only criterion for measuring whether it is worth paying.
So I still like that sentence more: affection is not as good as companion for a long time, it is better to miss it than to meet each other than to meet each other.
For me, some things have been possessed forever, because they have been in my heart and have never left
After getting married, my life changed a lot. I gradually became familiar with driving to and from get off work, including food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
I've had a driver's license for a long time, but I didn't have the chance to drive before
Because my parents divorced early and poor families started their own families early, some housework was not difficult for me.
On the contrary, the relationship with my husband's family took some thought. In addition to some differences in lifestyles, some concepts also differed.
At first, the general feeling for them was to be proud and love face
My husband and a younger brother, because they got married early, and when we got married, their children were two years old and lived with my father-in-law.
My mother-in-law died early, and my father-in-law is also single now, so I avoided the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, which is difficult to get along with. Maybe the two brothers are in my father-in-law's company and there is competition. Our sister-in-law relationship has always been bad, and neither of them looks down on each other.
She gives me the feeling that it is just a word,
Like to take advantage, often compare, and the main thing is to compare material things
I often show off my origins, implying that I am a Cinderella lover
Because my husband and I still have no children, she even relied on her own to mock us in front of her father-in-law and seek credit for her.
I know it's mainly for the benefit
So many times I don't want to argue with her
I think the biggest trouble for people is to compare with others. No one is perfect. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. The world will not be perfect. Life must have shortcomings. Everyone has their own unique qualities. They need confidence and contentment.
When people are sad, they don’t have beautiful shoes, it may be because they didn’t expect that some people have no feet at all.
Because everyone has different starting points, opportunities and specialties, this meaningless comparison can easily make us lose ourselves
The only person who needs comparison is himself
We are the ones who are most familiar with ourselves, but they are also the most difficult to surpass and overcome ourselves, and we may not necessarily truly understand ourselves.
Others don’t know that they are rich and talented. This may be called cultivation. Beautiful and decent, but you don’t know that they are. This may be called temperament.
So even if you have a look that everyone envies, supreme status, knowledge and inexhaustible wealth, you cannot prove your strength, because the strength of your heart is truly powerful
Shortly after getting married, I once performed Latin dance. My husband said he wanted to see it. Of course I was happy, but unexpectedly it became a turning point in my performance.
Because I haven't had a fixed dance partner for a long time, I have to be familiar with the temporary dance partner first and practice the movement connection briefly
I changed into Latin dance clothes and started practicing with him for a while. My husband seemed a little unhappy
Latin dance mainly expresses the beauty of the waist and hips, so most of the clothes are low-cut and back-released. In order to avoid exposing the bra strap, you don’t wear ordinary bras. You usually wear a breast patch, similar to silicone material, and buckle it in front, which is the so-called invisible bra. I have told him before. Later, he said that the most difficult thing to accept is some inevitable physical contact, fearing that if there is a spark of emotion.
Tell me not to perform again in the future
He still couldn't listen to the explanation, so he decided to open a dance training class to give me time to teach. I knew he wanted to take up my spare time
I feel more and more that he wants to control me
Actually, he doesn't know, maybe he doesn't want to know at all, love is not control, what control is definitely not love
I don't want to control him, even after knowing that he cheated
Trying to change the other person is futile, you can only work hard to adapt to the other person
Feelings are like sand in your hands. The tighter you hold, the more you may lose.
It should be like a kite. No matter how high a flight, there is always a thread in your hand.
Smart people always know how to keep a suitable distance, when they are far away, when they are tight, when they are loose
The training class was just a holiday, and taught children Latin dance during the winter and summer vacations. Later, he found that the benefits were good. He has developed to the point where he has hired more than 50 teachers. The training programs include Latin dance, ballet, folk dance, street dance, vocal music, art, taekwondo, yoga, etc.
He has to admire his ability to do business
Before I got married, one of my best friends joked with me: "Pibaxing" says that the door is cold and the horse is too cold. The boss married a businesswoman and you are young and elegant. Can you have a common language when you live with a businessman who is full of money-filled businessman.
I retorted: A person's character and quality have nothing to do with regional profession
I do not have any bias towards career
The world is bustling, all for profit, and all for profit
What's more, businessmen are originally aiming at maximizing interests.
There is nothing wrong with doing business
However, due to the different values and personal qualities of each businessman, the realm and pattern, they can be roughly divided into several types: unscrupulous merchants, trusted merchants, Confucian merchants, and Buddhist merchants. I think most of them are between unscrupulous merchants and trusted merchants.
Each industry has its own unique social contribution, no difference
But in certain specific historical environments, a certain type of person or industry will highlight its social status
For example, in the troubled times in history, strategists and military generals are particularly important, and civil servants will show their skills in peace and peace.
When society is extremely unreasonable and uncoordinated, reformers emerge
When the times change, talents who practice innovation are highly concerned
During the prosperous times, writers showed their elegance, and when national hatred and family hatred, generous warriors were famous in history
Now the whole society is in a historical period of about to achieve national rejuvenation. If we want to improve our comprehensive national strength, large enterprises with international influence are essential. Therefore, businessmen have never been as outstanding in history as they are today
My husband is also willing to let me learn to invest and manage stocks, and so on. Unfortunately, I don’t have this talent and don’t have much interest, so I just gave it a try.
After getting married, most of his property was still listened to me, and most of his property was also kept by me.
He took the initiative to ask that my dad be taken over and live with him, and he also told my dad many times that he had taken the initiative to do so.
But my dad firmly disagreed and said: No talk, I don't want to bother each other
I know my dad doesn't want to bother us
My husband knew that the one I was most worried about was my dad. He also discussed with me that he wanted to introduce a wife to my dad. In fact, I also told my dad that he would do it.
When my husband took the initiative to let my dad live together, I won’t say much love for me for now. At least I already know that my husband really wants to live a good life with me.
A person always looks up to and envys other people's happiness. When he turns around, he finds that he is looking up to and envied by others.
In fact, everyone is happy
But our happiness is often in the eyes of others
Instead of thinking about life hard, it is better to live simply
It is a kind of courage to raise your head and a kind of confidence to bow your head and be a kind of confidence to do things
Smiling is a mentality, and feeling it is a wisdom
Raising your head in adversity is a kind of tenacity, and bowing your head in good times is a kind of calmness
When you are in a low position, it is a kind of backbone, when you are in a high position, it is a kind of humility.
Raising your head when you are frustrated is a kind of confidence, and bowing your head when you are right is a kind of tolerance
My mother gave birth to my half-sister after remarriage, divorced and remarried. My sister and her stepfather now have a bad relationship. She started living in primary school. I went to see her when I had time and tried to help me if I needed it.
She had average junior high school grades and went to nursing directly after graduation. She must have been influenced by my mother as a doctor.
I helped her more after getting married. I was basically at my house during holidays, but I still control her pocket money.
But my husband said to me: Boys should be raised in poverty, girls should be raised in wealth, don’t let your sister’s money be too nervous. It will be beneficial to face her when you see her more often, and you won’t suffer any losses in the future.
Her internship is almost over, and my husband has promised me that he will do his best to help her spend money in a large hospital through relationships.
What surprised me the most after getting married is that he actually helped me to get closer to my mother.
Because my parents divorced, it was mainly my mother's fault. I didn't help us after the divorce. Although I had occasional contact with her, it was quite acceptable on the surface, but every time I think of my father's hard work, I couldn't let go, so my relationship with my mother has always been very weak.
Especially after my dad's surgery, she stood by and watched
My husband may think that he can get to know me and my mother's initial introduction, so after getting married, my husband also showed great respect and filial piety to my mother, which also greatly improved my relationship with my mother.
There is a saying that no matter how good a woman has a relationship with her husband, she will have a bad relationship with her mother-in-law.
No matter how bad the relationship between a man and his wife is, he will have a good relationship with his mother-in-law.
It's so incisive
By getting closer to my mother, my heart knot gradually opened up, and my relationship with my mother was normal
No matter what, this blood relationship can never be eliminated. There are no bad parents in the world, only bad children. Just as parents should not interfere with their children's marriage, children have no right to have a positive view of their parents' choice of marriage.
Since the training class was opened, the school and the training class were busy, and I have never performed dances on the stage. I have organized the students to participate in a children's group competition, and the results are pretty good.
I also feel quite fulfilled, and my heart is gradually stabilized. I don’t know whether it is good or bad
Through continuous in-depth understanding of my husband, I also liked many of his advantages, and the contrast with me actually formed a complementary relationship.
By teaching children's dance, I also like children more and more. Just one month after the training class, one night, my husband said to me very seriously: I want to have a child with you:
I smiled and said: Then you can try it
What you can't get is the best
It is easy to get, often not cherish
Sometimes, the person who loves you is close to you, but another person is concerned about you
You think this is love, but it's just human feelings
While I am scarred, I am also hurting the person who loves you
Love is often found after a lot of twists and turns, it turns out that it is always by your side.
In love, there are no rules, no wins, no right or wrong, no heroes, and no geniuses, in classic love, there are only two fools, holding each other's hands, loving them foolishly, living foolishly, and spending their lives foolishly
Life has progress and retreat, life has gains and losses
Nothing goes well in life, and everything will not go well in life
It's very interesting to go to heaven. Cats love to eat fish, but they can't go into the water. Fish love to eat earthworms, but they can't go to the shore.
This is how life is, possession and loss coexist, choice and giving up
Whether it is a man or a woman, growth is more important than maturity
Sometimes when growing up, you just look at your own ideals and your wishes are shattered one by one. Although you are sad, you are still living strongly.
A person's maturity is not age, but mentality
The maturity of the heart is not about experiencing many things, but about the attitude towards things
We must be serious, but not serious
Don't be serious with others, because it's not worth it
Don't be serious with yourself, because you can't afford to hurt
Don't be serious about the past because it doesn't make sense. Don't be serious about the reality because it's going to continue
Don't forget the past, cherish the present, and chase dreams
Happiness is completely a feeling in one's heart. Living in the present and being yourself well is a kind of happiness
The above three articles that I couldn't look back on before and after my marriage are some sporadic memories of my past, some thoughts when I wrote them, and some previous insights and comments were added. They are considered essays, but there is no overall idea.
It's said it's unbearable to look back, but in fact, I've been whining after writing it
I'm very sorry to waste everyone's time reading this, thank you for your attention, meeting here is a fate
Everyone who appears in our lives has a reason and a mission
People who like me gave me warmth and courage; people I like taught me to love and self-support; people I don’t like taught me to be tolerant and respect; people who don’t like me made me know about self-reflection and growth
No one appears for no reason. Everyone appears for fate, there are reasons, and they are worthy of gratitude.
Life is like a bumper car, touching the right direction, and a glorious life
Touch the right environment and feel comfortable for a lifetime
If you hit the right luck, you will be able to live your life
Touch the right hobby and enrich your life
Touch your lover, have a happy life
Touch the right lover, I miss you for a lifetime
Touch the right leader and spend a lifetime relaxing
Touch the right friend, have a happy life
Meet a god, and there is an afterlife
May all of us have a glorious, comfortable, smooth, fulfilling, happy and happy life
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