Chapter 33 Facing the pursuit

I'm not sure if there are other people outside my husband, and I feel that there are, but there should be no fixed lover. Women's intuition is very accurate. It's easy to change the country and nature is hard to change. Maybe it's because I've learned to be smart, not as careless as before, and I haven't found any direct evidence again.

My husband is a typical northern man with a personality. Unlike me, I have half of the southerner traits. He has a wide range of social interactions, is very funny, and looks good. Although he is not too tall and has a bit fat, he feels quite intimate overall, so he is also a type that some girls like.

He also knows that I am very attractive to men. Even if I feel visually tired of me now, I have never denied that I am very good in all aspects.

My husband also likes to lead me to some formal social occasions or informal small gatherings, saying that with a noble woman like you, she is very proud of her face in front of her friends. Of course, what he said is not sure about is true or false, but he does love face very much.

I'm a little narcissistic, although I look average, but I think my overall temperament is not inferior to that of any woman

After reading some of Mingyue's descriptions, you may mistakenly think that I am a bit coquettish woman. In fact, I am different from being in bed. I usually feel a little arrogant. It is not easy for ordinary people to approach me. This may be my weakness in personality. The contrast is quite large. My usual state is also a kind of quiet, virginity and moving like a rabbit.

I think women can’t choose their appearance, but their temperament can be fully self-cultivated.

Women can be divided into several levels: ladies, talented women, witches, vulgar women, and fierce women.

In terms of temperament, it can be divided into high-level levels such as noble, wise, elegant, elegant, mèi, pretty, handsome, cool, etc.

So my husband is not at ease with me

I won’t talk about it before getting married, but after getting married, there are some people who chase me openly or secretly, such as wanting to have dinner, dancing, making ordinary friends, etc., and even wanting to have the opportunity to marry me. I don’t think much about their real purpose. My response is basically, I refuse what I say openly, I refuse what I suggest, and I pretend not to know what I have secretly in love with me.

A colleague was not married yet and he had a good impression of me. One night he sent me a text message saying something like me, and said he had drunk too much. If I disturb me, I would be dissatisfied with it, and talk nonsense. There is a saying that I would rather believe in the world than believe in the man's mouth.

But I know that when they drink too much, their credibility is quite high.

I happened to see the text message, my husband was very close to me. When he saw the text message, he obviously showed no joy and asked about his situation. I knew that he was mainly afraid that I would be with others, including in the classmate group before, and some boys said similar things to me half-jokingly, and he also saw it, so he often checked my phone in the future.

At first I was a little disgusted and resentful. I had a few days of awkwardness, but later I didn't insist. I thought it was probably because I cared too much about me. Anyway, I sometimes looked at his phone. If I clear my mind, I will clear my mind. Let him go.

On Valentine's Day, that colleague gave me flowers again

I was not there when he sent it, so I put it under my desk. I thought about it, but I didn't send it back, and of course I didn't take it home. I didn't want him to have an illusion, but I just felt that if I returned it in person, I was afraid that the impact would be worse, and my colleagues would be very awkward in the future. Why not explain if I had the opportunity?

Every time I attend a class reunion, my husband is not very happy, although he didn't stop him.

At a party, I met my college partner. It turned out that he broke up after going abroad.

Just returned to China and got married

Later he called me several times to have dinner, and my husband was a little unhappy

But my husband only thought it was my classmate who liked me, and he didn't know that he was my former partner.

He wants to get along with ordinary friends, I know what he wants to continue to develop, I didn't agree, I always feel that there is no simple friendship between men and women. If there is, at least one party is secretly in love with the other party

Among all my emotional experiences, my ex-boyfriend and I have the deepest relationship. It can be said that it is unforgettable, and I guess it will never forget it forever.

It is the boyfriend whom I had a relationship with a few days before my husband got married. How could I not miss him? Occasionally I remembered the scene of our lingering. My ex-boyfriend deliberately did not meet him. I only called twice after getting married. The last time I contacted him, he was not married yet, and said he wanted to wait for me to try, and always wanted to see me.

I didn't want to delay him, so I didn't contact him again

After getting married, I insisted on not seeing him. It’s not that I was too heartless. I am really afraid that after seeing him, I will not be able to control myself, so I will never want to separate from him again. That will hurt us not only. It’s better to miss us than to meet each other. You can’t support each other and forget each other in the world.

My father-in-law has two fixed lovers, and he has shown me the photos.

My husband is different. He just has a playful attitude towards other women. He has never found that he has a fixed lover so far. He has never thought about divorced me, nor has he mentioned divorced me when he quarreled with me.

I filed for divorce, he firmly opposed it

As long as I find that my husband has other women, I will definitely care, otherwise he will have the illusion that I will make him casually, and men cannot be substituted for.

Since you are married, no matter how good or bad he is mine. Unless I don’t want it, no one can snatch it away, because I have heard many people say that no matter whether you remarry, you rarely find better than before.

My husband is good to me and my family, and I love me, but I am a little fickle. Although I don’t share the same language and don’t communicate much, how can I be perfect?

I want to maintain this marriage

I don't want to cheat, nor do I want my husband to cheat, even if love slowly turns into only family love

Mingyue once asked me, your husband cheated, but you never followed anyone after getting married. Do you really don’t want to cheat, or you haven’t met someone you like

I said there are both, one shouldn't be, and the other I can't accept it without feelings. Most men love because of sex, and most women love because of love, so I won't agree to have sex with my father-in-law.

Another point is that it may be difficult for me to meet someone who makes me so moved.

I have read a passage before, and I think it is said very well. As the conclusion of this chapter: Everyone may meet four people in their life, the first one is yourself, the second one is the person you love the most, the third one is the person you love the most, and the fourth one is the person you spend your life together

Life loves to joke the most, and the one you love the most often does not choose you; the one you love the most is often not what you love the most; and the one who ends up spending your life with you is not what you love the most or what you love the most, but the person who appears at the most suitable time

Who to live with, how to live with, how long, some people are because of love, some are because of material things, some are because of appearance, some are because of futures, some are because of pressure, and when you choose, you realize that the most important thing in love is not passion, sharing joys and sorrows, but never leaving

The one who has been with you for the longest is the one who loves you the most; the one who has been with you for the longest is the deepest love

In fact, there is no need for many reasons to be happy. As long as you smile more than tears, you will find the right person.