At the beginning of getting married, I didn’t want children. My friend said, are you afraid that having a child will affect your body shape? I said, “You underestimate me too much. Let’s talk about it. I am still very confident in body shape recovery.
In fact, in addition to the fear of affecting work, there are also several small concerns. One is that pregnancy is quite difficult and troublesome. Another is that it is a bit contradictory when thinking about what method to give birth. It is normal. If it is difficult to give birth, it may require a side vaginal incision. I heard that it is very painful. If the side surgery is not possible, it will also require surgery. After giving birth, it is easy to relax the vagina. If it is a caesarean section, the body will leave a relatively obvious scar. When you think about it, you always feel a little depressed.
The most important thing is that it takes less than a year for women to have a child, and it takes less time for men to have a child.
But raising children is a lifelong thing, this is the most difficult
Although I can't discuss it with my child in advance, I still feel a little irresponsible if I don't have any mental preparation.
But when you really want kids, all of this is not a problem
Otherwise, mother is the greatest
Children are the continuation of their own life, I decided to be a complete woman
To get something you have never owned, you have to do things you have never done before
Since my husband and I decided to have a child, I have never worn condoms when I love each month. I have calculated the safety period and ovulation period every month.
In addition to having some dysmenorrhea, I have no gynecological inflammation, and my menstruation is very regular. My husband will deliberately have sex with me for several days before and after my ovulation period. He will also use some methods that are easy to get pregnant. For example, when I am underneath, he raises my legs and puts them on his shoulders; puts a pillow under his buttocks; I keep it still for a while after ejaculation, so that the semen will not flow out quickly, etc.
Later, I actually studied how to make it easier to have a boy or a girl
My husband likes boys and hopes that I will have a boy for the first time
Some people say that rich people want boys, and ordinary people want girls.
This must not be absolute
I actually prefer to like girls. Girls dance will improve their temperament, and most boys are just the opposite.
Girls are caring and worry less. After getting married, they will be grateful to their daughters in law. They will take it for granted and are easily complained.
In addition, the relationship with sn in law is much easier to deal with than with the daughter-in-law, and there are much fewer conflicts.
We were busy for more than half a year, but I was not pregnant, and I started to feel a little psychologically stressed, so we were going to the hospital for a check-up.
I suddenly had some concerns when I thought about having a comprehensive and careful body check. I remembered the experience of a close friend of mine.
Her name is Baiyun, a college classmate, she is a flight attendant. She is my friend. Among my classmates and colleagues, the only one I feel a little envious in some aspects.
I went to an airline for an interview just after graduation. I advised her: Being a flight attendant seems glamorous and decent, but to put it bluntly, it’s just a waiter and a youthful meal. Is it worth it for you to graduate from an art school for four years?
She said: This is what I have always thought, if you don’t try it, you will exceed the age limit.
She is now a first class flight attendant
I heard from her that foreign airlines focus on comprehensive quality, while domestic airlines pay more attention to appearance, almost just choose the beauty.
It is even more of a thousand choices to be able to go to the first class cabin. It has outstanding appearance, height, behavior, experience, personality, vision, mouth, communication ability, English proficiency, etc.
Although I still feel that my overall temperament is not inferior to her, if I only look at her, I still feel ashamed of myself.
Later she said to me: I was about to work hard to be promoted to flight attendant. Rich experience is also very important and popular for our industry. There are many people in my 40s and 50s. At first, I didn’t think so much. Now I think if I am lucky, I can be promoted to the director flight attendant or even the service manager in the future. I can retire until I retire normally.
Alas, it seems that performing dance on stage is more of a youthful life
He is really the top pick in every industry. No matter what happens, he must be the strongest one if he can be at the top.
She is the same age as me and has been married for almost a year. I have always talked to her.
Of course, I will also say some private things.
Before her marriage, her vaginal opening was very tight, of course it was different from mine. Mine was normal. When there was too much water, the penis was not difficult to insert, and the vaginal wall tightly clamped the penis.
I have had a lot of sex, but my husband's penis is small and it doesn't feel loose when inserted.
So I said I only had it with my ex-boyfriend, and he believed it very much.
Baiyun's tightness is that the vaginal opening is very tight, and the inside is tight, and the penis is extremely difficult to insert. Both of them were very depressed when they were having sex with her boyfriend. She wanted to go to the hospital for a check-up. She hung up an expert clinic. The professor was not too old. He told her, "Follow your description, I am not born without a vagina, otherwise there will be no menstruation. It may be vaginal stenosis, which is vaginal deformity."
If it is not serious, you can try some physical therapy. If it is too serious, it requires surgery. You must first have a detailed examination before deciding the treatment plan.
She said that the examination made her blush and her heart beat faster when she remembered it, and she felt lingering.
At that time, there were six or seven male and female doctors, who had just graduated and were interns. The professor explained that he used this opportunity to let new doctors learn. It would be impossible for doctors to do without practice. They should learn through practice.
She didn't want to refuse openly, and there were several male doctors. She took off her pants and underwear in front of them, very shy
She lay on the examination bed, her thighs were spread apart, and her vagina was completely exposed in front of them. Although it was a normal doctor's examination, she was also very shy.
She is more beautiful than me, and of course the flight attendant is in great health
She noticed that the male students saw his snow-white thighs and their genitals, and their eyes were both embarrassed and a little excited.
After all, they are students, so there are not many such scenes
The professor first demonstrated to them, and skillfully inserted his fingers into her vagina. She couldn't understand some professional words.
Of course, I have special gloves on my hands.
Then let the students take turns to operate
When the female student inserted her finger into her vagina, she didn't feel anything.
It's different when a male student is like this. Some of them may not have girlfriends.
When her fingers were pushing her labia, she could feel their fingers trembling. They were too nervous
The fingers were inserted into the vagina, and the professor asked him to exercise his fingers while guiding him. Of course, his technique was not professional, and it was almost the same as the fingers thrusting in the vagina, not like a checkup.
Bai Yun was still suppressing at first, and finally, the sticky and slippery vaginal fluid flowed out of her vagina. She couldn't help but moan, which made the boy even more nervous. Her fingers moved around her vagina, and she couldn't help but shrink her vagina.
Several people surrounded her. She noticed that the crotch of the boys was bulging. The doctor also noticed their expressions and said with a serious expression that they should not think about it and study hard.
When the boy pulled out his finger, the back of his finger accidentally stroked her clitoris. She could no longer bear it. She screamed and actually had an orgasm. Her thighs kept shaking, and the sticky liquid kept oozing out of the slit of the flesh.
Maybe those boys didn't know that this was called a woman's orgasm, and they stared blankly
Those girls are different. Seeing her like this, they all blushed and stood with their thighs clamped, and they might have felt it.
The leading doctor's expression was calm. She saw that there were so many cases of this when she was examined. She wiped her vaginal fluid with nothing, scolding them and said, "You all study hard for me, you must operate independently in the future. Cherish this opportunity and study hard."
Then he took turns to pick her vagina. The girl was the most shy and did such a thing when facing the boy.
Her clitoris was so irritated by these unskilled students, her vagina was numb and her whole body was numb and itchy like an electric shock. She wanted to have a man's penis inserted into her flesh hole. She needed a penis to vent her desire in order to vent her desire in her heart.
She felt her breasts swelling and her nipples were also standing hard.
Baiyun is more open than me. She said that if there were male students at that time, they would have to insert their penis into it. She might not have been too refusal at that time.
The professor asked the nurse to bring the smallest vaginal expander and apply something on it. It should be a lubricant. The professor told her not to be afraid and to relax. Now try to expand your vagina. Although it is very slow and slowly inserted, it still makes her feel very painful.
After inserting the vagina, she stayed for a long time. The professor said, "You're adapting now, now you've started to expand bit by bit. Hold on to it. As the vagina is constantly being stretched open, she screamed in pain. Thinking about it again, it feels like she is opening the vagina for everyone to see. The vagina, including the uterus inside, can be seen clearly.
There is a feeling of being humiliated
Can't help crying
The professor and some interns looked at it very carefully. The professor said that the elasticity and contraction ability of the vaginal wall are normal, and it is no problem to see what the vagina looks like.
After the examination, the professor told her that she is vaginal stenosis and will indeed affect sexual life, but it has not yet reached the surgical standard. You can put a penis prosthesis in the vagina for a period of time, and slowly expand the vagina to change the circumference of the vagina. If it really doesn't work, consider the operation. Put it for three months first. Don't take it out if you have nothing to do.
This method really worked. Later she said it was completely normal. She gave birth to a baby less than half a year after she got married.
At that time, I joked with her: You are masturbating all the time, probably unprecedented, and I don’t know what it feels like if there is no one in the future.
She also smiled and said: I want to know what it feels like, you can try it yourself
In fact, in addition to the fear of affecting work, there are also several small concerns. One is that pregnancy is quite difficult and troublesome. Another is that it is a bit contradictory when thinking about what method to give birth. It is normal. If it is difficult to give birth, it may require a side vaginal incision. I heard that it is very painful. If the side surgery is not possible, it will also require surgery. After giving birth, it is easy to relax the vagina. If it is a caesarean section, the body will leave a relatively obvious scar. When you think about it, you always feel a little depressed.
The most important thing is that it takes less than a year for women to have a child, and it takes less time for men to have a child.
But raising children is a lifelong thing, this is the most difficult
Although I can't discuss it with my child in advance, I still feel a little irresponsible if I don't have any mental preparation.
But when you really want kids, all of this is not a problem
Otherwise, mother is the greatest
Children are the continuation of their own life, I decided to be a complete woman
To get something you have never owned, you have to do things you have never done before
Since my husband and I decided to have a child, I have never worn condoms when I love each month. I have calculated the safety period and ovulation period every month.
In addition to having some dysmenorrhea, I have no gynecological inflammation, and my menstruation is very regular. My husband will deliberately have sex with me for several days before and after my ovulation period. He will also use some methods that are easy to get pregnant. For example, when I am underneath, he raises my legs and puts them on his shoulders; puts a pillow under his buttocks; I keep it still for a while after ejaculation, so that the semen will not flow out quickly, etc.
Later, I actually studied how to make it easier to have a boy or a girl
My husband likes boys and hopes that I will have a boy for the first time
Some people say that rich people want boys, and ordinary people want girls.
This must not be absolute
I actually prefer to like girls. Girls dance will improve their temperament, and most boys are just the opposite.
Girls are caring and worry less. After getting married, they will be grateful to their daughters in law. They will take it for granted and are easily complained.
In addition, the relationship with sn in law is much easier to deal with than with the daughter-in-law, and there are much fewer conflicts.
We were busy for more than half a year, but I was not pregnant, and I started to feel a little psychologically stressed, so we were going to the hospital for a check-up.
I suddenly had some concerns when I thought about having a comprehensive and careful body check. I remembered the experience of a close friend of mine.
Her name is Baiyun, a college classmate, she is a flight attendant. She is my friend. Among my classmates and colleagues, the only one I feel a little envious in some aspects.
I went to an airline for an interview just after graduation. I advised her: Being a flight attendant seems glamorous and decent, but to put it bluntly, it’s just a waiter and a youthful meal. Is it worth it for you to graduate from an art school for four years?
She said: This is what I have always thought, if you don’t try it, you will exceed the age limit.
She is now a first class flight attendant
I heard from her that foreign airlines focus on comprehensive quality, while domestic airlines pay more attention to appearance, almost just choose the beauty.
It is even more of a thousand choices to be able to go to the first class cabin. It has outstanding appearance, height, behavior, experience, personality, vision, mouth, communication ability, English proficiency, etc.
Although I still feel that my overall temperament is not inferior to her, if I only look at her, I still feel ashamed of myself.
Later she said to me: I was about to work hard to be promoted to flight attendant. Rich experience is also very important and popular for our industry. There are many people in my 40s and 50s. At first, I didn’t think so much. Now I think if I am lucky, I can be promoted to the director flight attendant or even the service manager in the future. I can retire until I retire normally.
Alas, it seems that performing dance on stage is more of a youthful life
He is really the top pick in every industry. No matter what happens, he must be the strongest one if he can be at the top.
She is the same age as me and has been married for almost a year. I have always talked to her.
Of course, I will also say some private things.
Before her marriage, her vaginal opening was very tight, of course it was different from mine. Mine was normal. When there was too much water, the penis was not difficult to insert, and the vaginal wall tightly clamped the penis.
I have had a lot of sex, but my husband's penis is small and it doesn't feel loose when inserted.
So I said I only had it with my ex-boyfriend, and he believed it very much.
Baiyun's tightness is that the vaginal opening is very tight, and the inside is tight, and the penis is extremely difficult to insert. Both of them were very depressed when they were having sex with her boyfriend. She wanted to go to the hospital for a check-up. She hung up an expert clinic. The professor was not too old. He told her, "Follow your description, I am not born without a vagina, otherwise there will be no menstruation. It may be vaginal stenosis, which is vaginal deformity."
If it is not serious, you can try some physical therapy. If it is too serious, it requires surgery. You must first have a detailed examination before deciding the treatment plan.
She said that the examination made her blush and her heart beat faster when she remembered it, and she felt lingering.
At that time, there were six or seven male and female doctors, who had just graduated and were interns. The professor explained that he used this opportunity to let new doctors learn. It would be impossible for doctors to do without practice. They should learn through practice.
She didn't want to refuse openly, and there were several male doctors. She took off her pants and underwear in front of them, very shy
She lay on the examination bed, her thighs were spread apart, and her vagina was completely exposed in front of them. Although it was a normal doctor's examination, she was also very shy.
She is more beautiful than me, and of course the flight attendant is in great health
She noticed that the male students saw his snow-white thighs and their genitals, and their eyes were both embarrassed and a little excited.
After all, they are students, so there are not many such scenes
The professor first demonstrated to them, and skillfully inserted his fingers into her vagina. She couldn't understand some professional words.
Of course, I have special gloves on my hands.
Then let the students take turns to operate
When the female student inserted her finger into her vagina, she didn't feel anything.
It's different when a male student is like this. Some of them may not have girlfriends.
When her fingers were pushing her labia, she could feel their fingers trembling. They were too nervous
The fingers were inserted into the vagina, and the professor asked him to exercise his fingers while guiding him. Of course, his technique was not professional, and it was almost the same as the fingers thrusting in the vagina, not like a checkup.
Bai Yun was still suppressing at first, and finally, the sticky and slippery vaginal fluid flowed out of her vagina. She couldn't help but moan, which made the boy even more nervous. Her fingers moved around her vagina, and she couldn't help but shrink her vagina.
Several people surrounded her. She noticed that the crotch of the boys was bulging. The doctor also noticed their expressions and said with a serious expression that they should not think about it and study hard.
When the boy pulled out his finger, the back of his finger accidentally stroked her clitoris. She could no longer bear it. She screamed and actually had an orgasm. Her thighs kept shaking, and the sticky liquid kept oozing out of the slit of the flesh.
Maybe those boys didn't know that this was called a woman's orgasm, and they stared blankly
Those girls are different. Seeing her like this, they all blushed and stood with their thighs clamped, and they might have felt it.
The leading doctor's expression was calm. She saw that there were so many cases of this when she was examined. She wiped her vaginal fluid with nothing, scolding them and said, "You all study hard for me, you must operate independently in the future. Cherish this opportunity and study hard."
Then he took turns to pick her vagina. The girl was the most shy and did such a thing when facing the boy.
Her clitoris was so irritated by these unskilled students, her vagina was numb and her whole body was numb and itchy like an electric shock. She wanted to have a man's penis inserted into her flesh hole. She needed a penis to vent her desire in order to vent her desire in her heart.
She felt her breasts swelling and her nipples were also standing hard.
Baiyun is more open than me. She said that if there were male students at that time, they would have to insert their penis into it. She might not have been too refusal at that time.
The professor asked the nurse to bring the smallest vaginal expander and apply something on it. It should be a lubricant. The professor told her not to be afraid and to relax. Now try to expand your vagina. Although it is very slow and slowly inserted, it still makes her feel very painful.
After inserting the vagina, she stayed for a long time. The professor said, "You're adapting now, now you've started to expand bit by bit. Hold on to it. As the vagina is constantly being stretched open, she screamed in pain. Thinking about it again, it feels like she is opening the vagina for everyone to see. The vagina, including the uterus inside, can be seen clearly.
There is a feeling of being humiliated
Can't help crying
The professor and some interns looked at it very carefully. The professor said that the elasticity and contraction ability of the vaginal wall are normal, and it is no problem to see what the vagina looks like.
After the examination, the professor told her that she is vaginal stenosis and will indeed affect sexual life, but it has not yet reached the surgical standard. You can put a penis prosthesis in the vagina for a period of time, and slowly expand the vagina to change the circumference of the vagina. If it really doesn't work, consider the operation. Put it for three months first. Don't take it out if you have nothing to do.
This method really worked. Later she said it was completely normal. She gave birth to a baby less than half a year after she got married.
At that time, I joked with her: You are masturbating all the time, probably unprecedented, and I don’t know what it feels like if there is no one in the future.
She also smiled and said: I want to know what it feels like, you can try it yourself
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