Wake up early, thought for a long time last night, and I decided to confess to my father. I know they have divorced, and I also want to know why they cherish each other so much before, and today they will reach this point.
Maybe I don’t care so much about my father and mother’s marriage, what I care about is the reason why my mother is so sad
Although I have been asking before, there has never been any results. But this time I have to figure it out and I am also curious about what is related to me in this matter.
Although it was a long story, I still have the patience to listen to it.
This story sounds a bit bizarre, it's a story that can be found on the news
I know some of it myself, but my mom needs to know some of it, and some of it needs to be supplemented by my father.
Some are only confirmed by godfathers and godmothers.
For now, what I can confirm is this
On August 6, 2002, I was born
It was a coincidence that one day, a boy was born. My name was Chen Junxi, and his name was Ye Yifan.
We were all born at Donghe People's Hospital. The joy of birth impacted the two young parents, and the two little babies were taken to the nursery room for careful care.
Two or three days after the birth of the child, neither of the two parents saw two babies who had been sleeping soundly for a long time. The two small babies were also taken care of by doctors and nurses.
However, in the nursery room, except for Chen Junxi and Ye Yifan, there are several babies, all of whom are sleeping quietly. When they are hungry, they will wave their fleshy hands to greet the nurses to come and feed them when they are hungry.
Then, when I was discharged from the hospital, I followed Ye Yuankui, Lin Wanqing and his wife home, while Ye Yifan followed Chen Jianxun and Li Ling's home.
Yes, Ye Yifan and I were both wrong
We all went back to the wrong home, we couldn't be sure
Our parents were not sure, because when we were being held away, our father was all focused on the mother who had just given birth, and when we were being held away, we were covered in blood.
During my days in the nursery room, maybe it was the negligence of any nurse. This didn’t matter anymore, but I did follow Ye Yuankui and Lin Wanqing to go home, and Ye Yifan followed Chen Jianxun and Li Ling to go home.
I spent four years carefree, taking good care of my father and mother every day, like a little beast curious about everything, full of curiosity towards the world, and like a small sapling growing happily every day
My parents named me Ye Yifan because I hope my life will be smooth sailing, without defeating my setbacks, and without experiencing the ups and downs that bury me.
Then, one day, a handsome uncle came to the door and talked a lot with dad and mom. He also took a few pieces of paper and showed it to dad and mom one by one. I was very curious, but at that time I didn't know that those papers should be reports, appraisal reports.
Then, Dad and Mom took me to the hospital for blood and hair removal. I remember it was very strange at that time. I don’t know why Dad and Mom were so gloomy. I felt like I had made a big mistake.
Two days later, I saw that young and handsome uncle and a super beautiful aunt came to my house with another child who was similar to me. Dad and Mom After seeing that child, it seemed as if he had been snatched his beloved toy. He ran to the child crying. The child was obviously a little dull and didn't talk much.
At the same time, the super beautiful aunt and the young and handsome uncle rushed over to hug me. I was very scared because dad and mom often told me to leave strangers far away, because there are many bad people among the strangers who want to eat children. These two uncles and aunts who rushed towards me were like strangers who want to eat children. The aunt seemed to cry. I was very scared. Although I also felt that the super beautiful aunt had a kind feeling, I still didn't like someone who suddenly approached me.
Dad, Mom, I hugged the child for a long time and then came to my senses to comfort me who had been crying for a while. Although the super beautiful aunt kept comforting me and giving me something, I still couldn't stop being scared. Maybe something terrible will happen today.
Dad, Mom Tell me that the young and handsome uncle is my dad, and that super beautiful aunt is my mom. How is this possible? My dad's surname is Ye, and my mom's surname is Lin. This is Dad, Mom reminds me to remember every day before going to bed, and also reminds me to remember before going to kindergarten, so I remember clearly
I shook my head, I don't believe it must be Dad, Mom, I don't want me anymore, I want to sell me. I'm so scared that I don't know what to do, so I keep crying.
When I cried for a long time and my voice was hoarse, my mother and aunt kept being by my side to comfort me softly. Later, Dad and Mom told me to ask me to visit my uncle and aunt's house. Although I was afraid, I didn't dare to say it because I was afraid that my uncle and aunt would cook me and eat it, because they really looked like strangers who wanted to eat children.
Strangely, the child didn't say much, it was very quiet, and it felt like we were not in the same room as his, just like, I greeted the people on the TV, and the people on the TV did not answer me, the child was as quiet as a person on the TV, just watching us quietly
Mom When she saw that the child was very quiet and didn't say a word, Mom kept crying again
Later, I followed my uncle and aunt to visit their house, and the child stayed at my house.
I often dreamed about this experience before I was ten years old. When I woke up, I always felt scared, afraid of being abandoned, afraid of being taken away by others.
When I was completely sensible, I realized that Ye Yifan and I were brought wrongly. Although my name was Ye Yifan and he used to be Chen Junxi, after we returned to our own homes, after discussions between our father, mother and godfather and mother, they decided not to change their names. I won’t call Ye Yifan. My name is Chen Junxi, and the quieter and slow boy was called Ye Yifan by them.
Later, I asked my mother again, how did I find out that I was being held in the wrong way
Mom was a little unnatural. After she paused, she said that my father discovered it.
There is an interesting thing here. Both the father and the mother have double eyelids, while Ye Yifan has two single eyelids. His father was just fighting that type of lawsuit. In 2006, there were very few lawsuits in that type, so his father made up a lot of knowledge. Then one day he suddenly had a sudden idea of whether his son Chen Junxi looked like him or not. He was shocked to see him. It was so quiet that Chen Junxi was not only not similar to him, but also the single and double eyelids were very different from him. However, he believed in his mother very much, but this conflicted with the knowledge he received. Therefore, he felt very strange, so he took Chen Junxi to do a paternity test. The result is conceivable. Chen Junxi was definitely not his biological son.
Although my mother didn't tell me what my father told her at that time, or what happened between them, I can guess that something might be wrong.
I want to know this from my father.
Then they thought for a long time and finally thought about the situation that they might have been wrong. Then my father spent a while and asked through the hospital one by one. Finally, he found me at Ye Yuankui and Lin Wanqing's house who were having fun every day. When he saw me, his father was sure.
So, I brought my mother over and then went for an appraisal again
After that, I got the above materials that I often dream about
Yes, I am a person who was almost lost by my parents. Fortunately, I got it back. Compared to the one in the news who was reported to me for 28 years before I found out about my biological parents. I feel a little lucky.
When my mother told me about this, she had a look of laughter and a little crying. Maybe she regretted that she had missed my four years.
I also felt regretful later. Although I didn’t remember anything in my four years, although I was very happy and happy, and I was very happy every day, I realized later that such bizarre things would happen to me.
Actually, I didn't think about it at that time. Is it a bit aggrieved when I found me?
So, when she told me about those things, she would still cry.
Then in the phone call with my father, I determined these things. After the father discovered that his son had single eyelids, he made an appraisal. After confirming that his son was not his son, he was indeed very confused and thought about reasonable possibilities. But as a normal person, what would his attitude be when he found that his son was not his son? Naturally, during that time, what did his father do should have hurt his mother's heart.
I took a night to call my father. I was a little nervous, not sure what I wanted to say or what I wanted to ask, but at the same time I was a little scared, afraid that after I said those things today, I would never go back to the past.
As usual, I reported my father's test results, and then said that I was receiving psychological counseling recently. He said that what he knew should be from my mother.
How to bring the topic to something I care about? I mentioned that I was introducing psychological counseling through my godmother, and then mentioned a few things when I was at my godmother's house before.
I asked my mother about falling in love with my father in college
My father smiled and encouraged me, saying that he also supported me to find the person I like when I was in college and find someone I could make progress with me.
Then how did you get along with your mother before you found me? Although it was a bit abrupt, I still asked this sentence
What I said at that time seemed to be too much now. Your mother was actually very innocent. It was not her fault or mine. But after this incident, I did not handle it properly. I felt guilty when I remembered it later.
My father told me this on the phone
Although I can't be sure, I guess, maybe Ye Yifan looked so silent when he went to see his biological parents, maybe he just saw his father and mother quarreled frequently, maybe it was a cold war. These things are very obvious to a smart child.
But this is just my guess
Then what happened? I continued to ask
Later, after I found out that it was a misunderstanding, I kept apologizing to her and trying to save it. Although it took a long time at that time, she still forgave me.
My father feels relieved now. I think it should be difficult to get my mother's forgiveness again at that time.
When I heard him say this, I couldn't help asking. Now, how is your relationship with your mother now?
We are fine, I hope you can grow up healthy and healthy. Your mother also goes there to accompany you to school. What we care about the most is you
His tone on the phone was as usual, very calm as usual
I frowned. I really wanted to tell him in front of him that they had already known that they had divorced, but I couldn't see what his expression was like on the phone. I always felt a little unwilling to accept it.
No, I still have to watch him with my own eyes and answer me
So I made an excuse to ask him to come to Lin County. Although the excuse was very ordinary, he seemed to have considered it on the other end of the phone and decided to come.
This time I'm going to ask what's going on
On the weekend, when I saw him outside the school, he still wore the gold-edged eyes and looked elegant and gentle. As soon as I saw him, I rushed forward to say hello to him.
I've been waiting here for a while. Let's go, I'll take you to eat. His calm voice rang beside me.
What about my mom? I asked
I've already gone to see her before, and she asked us to get together. Didn't you feel stressed? Come on, tell me today and see if I can help you solve some problems.
His calm speech speed always has a convincing magic. I couldn't help but nod and got into the car and went to the hotel with him.
Since you have to go to receive psychological counseling later, I will only have dinner with you today. When you have more time in the future, wherever you want to go, I will tell me, I will take you there.
At the dining table, he said to me while ordering dishes.
It seems that I haven't seen my father for a while. He is still so confident and his vitality is still so abundant. He seems to be paying attention to the world in his heart. He seems to be polite to everyone.
After watching him express his gratitude to the waiter with a smile, he looked at me in front of me and looked at me with his deep, extremely penetrating eyes, although the smile on his face made his eyes look a little softer
However, thinking about what I have known recently, I feel that the person I call my father in front of me looks very strange.
Dad, what did you say after you took me back, did you impress me? I didn’t wait for him to open up the topic, and wanted to understand what I was curious about first
Yes, many, many of them have a deep impression on me, he said while pondering
Too general, what is the most profound?
He pondered for a while and nodded. It should be 'Now you know I'm not sorry for you anymore'
As my father said, he showed a slightly awkward and bitter smile, and then he laughed at himself. It was our parents' carelessness that made others hug you wrongly. After we hug you wrongly, we were all very anxious. It took a long time and a lot of energy to find you again and take you back.
After a pause, he continued: That period was really difficult, but since it has come, there will be nothing particularly difficult to do later.
I still say these boring words that are still the same.
So, there is nothing particularly difficult, you are going to get divorced, are you? I asked in a trembling voice.
Hum? He was a little suspicious about what he heard
Xixi, what did you say?
I already know you've been divorced, and it's been a long time since you've been divorced
Now I heard it really well, my voice was really heavy and dumb
And he listened to it very well
Xixi, the first thing I want to tell you is that no matter how your mother and I are, we both love you very much, and we all hope that you will grow up healthily. We hope that you can become the person you want to be. My biggest wish of your mother and I is to watch you constantly achieve your own life goals and reap your own happiness.
I looked at him without saying a word
I admit that we don't want to tell you because we are afraid that it will have an impact on your studies after you know it. I have always hoped that I am an enlightened father, but I am always worried that my children are not open-minded enough about their parents' relationships. This is something that your mother and I don't do much, so we should tell you earlier.
Tell me earlier, what I want is not to tell me sooner or later. What I want to know is why a good family can reach this point
Why are you divorced?
Junxi, the matter of adults is very complicated. You are also an adult. You have your own opinions on many things. Marriage is to allow two men and women with different opinions to maintain the same view and look at the world in such a relationship. However, now, my opinion is different from your mother's opinion. I know the problem is with me, but I can't adjust it. We all know that we should not make things difficult for each other in this kind of thing, so we chose to divorce.
Why is it so complicated
What did you do? I asked coldly
Junxi, although I have always hoped that you will understand what I am understanding, I also think that some things may not be good to you after telling you, but I am willing to share what I have come into contact with you, so that you can make your own judgment after thinking about it. Whether the matter is correct or not depends on your own point of view.
I sat quietly, wanting to watch him introduce the whole thing clearly
Before I talk about this, I will tell you what happened before. After he sorted out his thoughts, he said
I was a little puzzled, why did I introduce my past events to me or what did the past events have to do with their divorce now?
But after hearing him talk about the past, I felt that some things seemed to be destined
It’s like the two of them are destined to be separated. Both of them are a little proud and unwilling to compromise. The father seems rational, but in fact he is very self-centered. Although the mother is gentle, it is because others treat her gentleness, so she treats others with a gentle side.
The proud attitude of my father and the gentle stubbornness under my mother's surface. The two of them have been together for many years, but they have not smoothed each other's edges.
So, after looking at it, I understand that it is not surprising that I am not surprised at all when I am today. Maybe
Maybe I don’t care so much about my father and mother’s marriage, what I care about is the reason why my mother is so sad
Although I have been asking before, there has never been any results. But this time I have to figure it out and I am also curious about what is related to me in this matter.
Although it was a long story, I still have the patience to listen to it.
This story sounds a bit bizarre, it's a story that can be found on the news
I know some of it myself, but my mom needs to know some of it, and some of it needs to be supplemented by my father.
Some are only confirmed by godfathers and godmothers.
For now, what I can confirm is this
On August 6, 2002, I was born
It was a coincidence that one day, a boy was born. My name was Chen Junxi, and his name was Ye Yifan.
We were all born at Donghe People's Hospital. The joy of birth impacted the two young parents, and the two little babies were taken to the nursery room for careful care.
Two or three days after the birth of the child, neither of the two parents saw two babies who had been sleeping soundly for a long time. The two small babies were also taken care of by doctors and nurses.
However, in the nursery room, except for Chen Junxi and Ye Yifan, there are several babies, all of whom are sleeping quietly. When they are hungry, they will wave their fleshy hands to greet the nurses to come and feed them when they are hungry.
Then, when I was discharged from the hospital, I followed Ye Yuankui, Lin Wanqing and his wife home, while Ye Yifan followed Chen Jianxun and Li Ling's home.
Yes, Ye Yifan and I were both wrong
We all went back to the wrong home, we couldn't be sure
Our parents were not sure, because when we were being held away, our father was all focused on the mother who had just given birth, and when we were being held away, we were covered in blood.
During my days in the nursery room, maybe it was the negligence of any nurse. This didn’t matter anymore, but I did follow Ye Yuankui and Lin Wanqing to go home, and Ye Yifan followed Chen Jianxun and Li Ling to go home.
I spent four years carefree, taking good care of my father and mother every day, like a little beast curious about everything, full of curiosity towards the world, and like a small sapling growing happily every day
My parents named me Ye Yifan because I hope my life will be smooth sailing, without defeating my setbacks, and without experiencing the ups and downs that bury me.
Then, one day, a handsome uncle came to the door and talked a lot with dad and mom. He also took a few pieces of paper and showed it to dad and mom one by one. I was very curious, but at that time I didn't know that those papers should be reports, appraisal reports.
Then, Dad and Mom took me to the hospital for blood and hair removal. I remember it was very strange at that time. I don’t know why Dad and Mom were so gloomy. I felt like I had made a big mistake.
Two days later, I saw that young and handsome uncle and a super beautiful aunt came to my house with another child who was similar to me. Dad and Mom After seeing that child, it seemed as if he had been snatched his beloved toy. He ran to the child crying. The child was obviously a little dull and didn't talk much.
At the same time, the super beautiful aunt and the young and handsome uncle rushed over to hug me. I was very scared because dad and mom often told me to leave strangers far away, because there are many bad people among the strangers who want to eat children. These two uncles and aunts who rushed towards me were like strangers who want to eat children. The aunt seemed to cry. I was very scared. Although I also felt that the super beautiful aunt had a kind feeling, I still didn't like someone who suddenly approached me.
Dad, Mom, I hugged the child for a long time and then came to my senses to comfort me who had been crying for a while. Although the super beautiful aunt kept comforting me and giving me something, I still couldn't stop being scared. Maybe something terrible will happen today.
Dad, Mom Tell me that the young and handsome uncle is my dad, and that super beautiful aunt is my mom. How is this possible? My dad's surname is Ye, and my mom's surname is Lin. This is Dad, Mom reminds me to remember every day before going to bed, and also reminds me to remember before going to kindergarten, so I remember clearly
I shook my head, I don't believe it must be Dad, Mom, I don't want me anymore, I want to sell me. I'm so scared that I don't know what to do, so I keep crying.
When I cried for a long time and my voice was hoarse, my mother and aunt kept being by my side to comfort me softly. Later, Dad and Mom told me to ask me to visit my uncle and aunt's house. Although I was afraid, I didn't dare to say it because I was afraid that my uncle and aunt would cook me and eat it, because they really looked like strangers who wanted to eat children.
Strangely, the child didn't say much, it was very quiet, and it felt like we were not in the same room as his, just like, I greeted the people on the TV, and the people on the TV did not answer me, the child was as quiet as a person on the TV, just watching us quietly
Mom When she saw that the child was very quiet and didn't say a word, Mom kept crying again
Later, I followed my uncle and aunt to visit their house, and the child stayed at my house.
I often dreamed about this experience before I was ten years old. When I woke up, I always felt scared, afraid of being abandoned, afraid of being taken away by others.
When I was completely sensible, I realized that Ye Yifan and I were brought wrongly. Although my name was Ye Yifan and he used to be Chen Junxi, after we returned to our own homes, after discussions between our father, mother and godfather and mother, they decided not to change their names. I won’t call Ye Yifan. My name is Chen Junxi, and the quieter and slow boy was called Ye Yifan by them.
Later, I asked my mother again, how did I find out that I was being held in the wrong way
Mom was a little unnatural. After she paused, she said that my father discovered it.
There is an interesting thing here. Both the father and the mother have double eyelids, while Ye Yifan has two single eyelids. His father was just fighting that type of lawsuit. In 2006, there were very few lawsuits in that type, so his father made up a lot of knowledge. Then one day he suddenly had a sudden idea of whether his son Chen Junxi looked like him or not. He was shocked to see him. It was so quiet that Chen Junxi was not only not similar to him, but also the single and double eyelids were very different from him. However, he believed in his mother very much, but this conflicted with the knowledge he received. Therefore, he felt very strange, so he took Chen Junxi to do a paternity test. The result is conceivable. Chen Junxi was definitely not his biological son.
Although my mother didn't tell me what my father told her at that time, or what happened between them, I can guess that something might be wrong.
I want to know this from my father.
Then they thought for a long time and finally thought about the situation that they might have been wrong. Then my father spent a while and asked through the hospital one by one. Finally, he found me at Ye Yuankui and Lin Wanqing's house who were having fun every day. When he saw me, his father was sure.
So, I brought my mother over and then went for an appraisal again
After that, I got the above materials that I often dream about
Yes, I am a person who was almost lost by my parents. Fortunately, I got it back. Compared to the one in the news who was reported to me for 28 years before I found out about my biological parents. I feel a little lucky.
When my mother told me about this, she had a look of laughter and a little crying. Maybe she regretted that she had missed my four years.
I also felt regretful later. Although I didn’t remember anything in my four years, although I was very happy and happy, and I was very happy every day, I realized later that such bizarre things would happen to me.
Actually, I didn't think about it at that time. Is it a bit aggrieved when I found me?
So, when she told me about those things, she would still cry.
Then in the phone call with my father, I determined these things. After the father discovered that his son had single eyelids, he made an appraisal. After confirming that his son was not his son, he was indeed very confused and thought about reasonable possibilities. But as a normal person, what would his attitude be when he found that his son was not his son? Naturally, during that time, what did his father do should have hurt his mother's heart.
I took a night to call my father. I was a little nervous, not sure what I wanted to say or what I wanted to ask, but at the same time I was a little scared, afraid that after I said those things today, I would never go back to the past.
As usual, I reported my father's test results, and then said that I was receiving psychological counseling recently. He said that what he knew should be from my mother.
How to bring the topic to something I care about? I mentioned that I was introducing psychological counseling through my godmother, and then mentioned a few things when I was at my godmother's house before.
I asked my mother about falling in love with my father in college
My father smiled and encouraged me, saying that he also supported me to find the person I like when I was in college and find someone I could make progress with me.
Then how did you get along with your mother before you found me? Although it was a bit abrupt, I still asked this sentence
What I said at that time seemed to be too much now. Your mother was actually very innocent. It was not her fault or mine. But after this incident, I did not handle it properly. I felt guilty when I remembered it later.
My father told me this on the phone
Although I can't be sure, I guess, maybe Ye Yifan looked so silent when he went to see his biological parents, maybe he just saw his father and mother quarreled frequently, maybe it was a cold war. These things are very obvious to a smart child.
But this is just my guess
Then what happened? I continued to ask
Later, after I found out that it was a misunderstanding, I kept apologizing to her and trying to save it. Although it took a long time at that time, she still forgave me.
My father feels relieved now. I think it should be difficult to get my mother's forgiveness again at that time.
When I heard him say this, I couldn't help asking. Now, how is your relationship with your mother now?
We are fine, I hope you can grow up healthy and healthy. Your mother also goes there to accompany you to school. What we care about the most is you
His tone on the phone was as usual, very calm as usual
I frowned. I really wanted to tell him in front of him that they had already known that they had divorced, but I couldn't see what his expression was like on the phone. I always felt a little unwilling to accept it.
No, I still have to watch him with my own eyes and answer me
So I made an excuse to ask him to come to Lin County. Although the excuse was very ordinary, he seemed to have considered it on the other end of the phone and decided to come.
This time I'm going to ask what's going on
On the weekend, when I saw him outside the school, he still wore the gold-edged eyes and looked elegant and gentle. As soon as I saw him, I rushed forward to say hello to him.
I've been waiting here for a while. Let's go, I'll take you to eat. His calm voice rang beside me.
What about my mom? I asked
I've already gone to see her before, and she asked us to get together. Didn't you feel stressed? Come on, tell me today and see if I can help you solve some problems.
His calm speech speed always has a convincing magic. I couldn't help but nod and got into the car and went to the hotel with him.
Since you have to go to receive psychological counseling later, I will only have dinner with you today. When you have more time in the future, wherever you want to go, I will tell me, I will take you there.
At the dining table, he said to me while ordering dishes.
It seems that I haven't seen my father for a while. He is still so confident and his vitality is still so abundant. He seems to be paying attention to the world in his heart. He seems to be polite to everyone.
After watching him express his gratitude to the waiter with a smile, he looked at me in front of me and looked at me with his deep, extremely penetrating eyes, although the smile on his face made his eyes look a little softer
However, thinking about what I have known recently, I feel that the person I call my father in front of me looks very strange.
Dad, what did you say after you took me back, did you impress me? I didn’t wait for him to open up the topic, and wanted to understand what I was curious about first
Yes, many, many of them have a deep impression on me, he said while pondering
Too general, what is the most profound?
He pondered for a while and nodded. It should be 'Now you know I'm not sorry for you anymore'
As my father said, he showed a slightly awkward and bitter smile, and then he laughed at himself. It was our parents' carelessness that made others hug you wrongly. After we hug you wrongly, we were all very anxious. It took a long time and a lot of energy to find you again and take you back.
After a pause, he continued: That period was really difficult, but since it has come, there will be nothing particularly difficult to do later.
I still say these boring words that are still the same.
So, there is nothing particularly difficult, you are going to get divorced, are you? I asked in a trembling voice.
Hum? He was a little suspicious about what he heard
Xixi, what did you say?
I already know you've been divorced, and it's been a long time since you've been divorced
Now I heard it really well, my voice was really heavy and dumb
And he listened to it very well
Xixi, the first thing I want to tell you is that no matter how your mother and I are, we both love you very much, and we all hope that you will grow up healthily. We hope that you can become the person you want to be. My biggest wish of your mother and I is to watch you constantly achieve your own life goals and reap your own happiness.
I looked at him without saying a word
I admit that we don't want to tell you because we are afraid that it will have an impact on your studies after you know it. I have always hoped that I am an enlightened father, but I am always worried that my children are not open-minded enough about their parents' relationships. This is something that your mother and I don't do much, so we should tell you earlier.
Tell me earlier, what I want is not to tell me sooner or later. What I want to know is why a good family can reach this point
Why are you divorced?
Junxi, the matter of adults is very complicated. You are also an adult. You have your own opinions on many things. Marriage is to allow two men and women with different opinions to maintain the same view and look at the world in such a relationship. However, now, my opinion is different from your mother's opinion. I know the problem is with me, but I can't adjust it. We all know that we should not make things difficult for each other in this kind of thing, so we chose to divorce.
Why is it so complicated
What did you do? I asked coldly
Junxi, although I have always hoped that you will understand what I am understanding, I also think that some things may not be good to you after telling you, but I am willing to share what I have come into contact with you, so that you can make your own judgment after thinking about it. Whether the matter is correct or not depends on your own point of view.
I sat quietly, wanting to watch him introduce the whole thing clearly
Before I talk about this, I will tell you what happened before. After he sorted out his thoughts, he said
I was a little puzzled, why did I introduce my past events to me or what did the past events have to do with their divorce now?
But after hearing him talk about the past, I felt that some things seemed to be destined
It’s like the two of them are destined to be separated. Both of them are a little proud and unwilling to compromise. The father seems rational, but in fact he is very self-centered. Although the mother is gentle, it is because others treat her gentleness, so she treats others with a gentle side.
The proud attitude of my father and the gentle stubbornness under my mother's surface. The two of them have been together for many years, but they have not smoothed each other's edges.
So, after looking at it, I understand that it is not surprising that I am not surprised at all when I am today. Maybe
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