For a man like me, no matter from any aspect, there is no sufficient reason to get involved in extramarital relationships. I know that I am a person without great skills. My wife often says that I am a nerd and has no other hobbies except reading books at home.
Actually, I am a very talkative person and have good conversations, but I always feel that I often conflict with other people's views. Sometimes, although I am sure I am right, when everyone raises objections, I don't want to argue. I think it will hurt the relationship between friends.
Two years ago, when I had not had this relationship with Ling, I was disdainful to those friends with lovers and felt that they were too irresponsible to their families. In my eyes, those women who were willing to be lovers were all fairies, and none of them were good women.
But since he got along with Ling, he has completely changed his viewpoint, believing that lovers are the harmony of marriage, and that lovers can enjoy the care and sex that their wife cannot give. Ling is a woman who is very suitable for me.
She doesn't need my financial efforts, but gives me money. This is something that ordinary men can't get, and they can't even think about it.
In fact, many women are lovers to get financial help from men or to get a certain position to be the lovers of leaders.
It is very rare for women who come only for love. Most of them are because of the discord between husband and wife, and most of them are because men betray women first.
Ling's situation is another kind. She had a bad relationship with her husband at the beginning, and it can be said that she had no feelings for her.
After careful thinking, I felt that Ling was a reliable woman, so I slowly accepted her in my heart. I also knew that her purpose was just to get a little love from me, and also the indispensable sex of women.
As for the child's affairs, I don't think Ling will use him to threaten me, as long as I fulfill my emotional responsibilities to her.
She is also a person who values face. We are an underground couple without realizing it, and it does not affect each other's family. Sometimes I think in my mind how to make Ling and I safe together, but I always feel that it is not safe enough, mainly because I don't have financial strength.
My wife is an honest woman. She is kind and has no scheming. She is a typical and dedicated woman. After years of couples in life, she has full trust in my character. As long as my relationship with Ling does a good job of keeping confidentiality, she will not be discovered by her.
I also thought about not accepting Ling's feelings, but her kind of body that deeply attracted my body, especially the funny caress on the bed, made me unwilling to give up. Her meticulous care for my life also made me enjoy it that I had never had before before.
In short, Ling is a woman who is completely different from my wife. The most important thing is that she is more feminine than my wife, and she is essentially different from my wife's student-like family life.
I remember one time someone came to my family. My wife didn't know how to cook, so she asked Ling to help. I saw Ling put on an apron and was busy in the kitchen cleanly. She cooked and fried, cooked and fried. In less than two hours, she finished more than a dozen dishes, which made the guests stunned. The taste was good, and the guests boasted repeatedly.
A friend joked: If I have such a wife, I would be happy even if I am a cow or a horse.
My wife is very good at this, and she can only stir-fry some simple home-cooked dishes. She can't even understand the ways of cooking dishes. She has never bought any condiments such as big ingredients at home.
In fact, Ling's craftsmanship was not learned in one or two years. After her second sister was born, her father died on duty, and her mother worked very hard to raise the three sisters.
Although the government has given some subsidies, most of the problems cannot be solved after all, and my mother still has to go to work. More importantly, someone always has to do the housework.
So Ling became a versatile player at home, serving her two sisters like a nanny.
The tedious housework made Ling, who had already achieved good grades, become a backward student. She barely graduated from high school, and even thought about it in college.
Fortunately, her father's unit gave him a quota for care, and Ling became an employee of the power supply bureau.
The salary of the power supply bureau is very good, and she is also very happy. Before she got married, she was always the pillar of the family, just like a boy.
Her mother has been working in the commercial department. Ling's husband Liu Qiang turned out to be a buyer in her mother's unit. She is a business school graduate from a rural area, but she doesn't look like a culture at all.
But Liu Qiang is very diligent, and the leader of the unit likes it very much
Ling's mother saw it and asked someone to introduce him to her daughter.
She feels that her family needs such a man, and it is better for the countryside
Ling firmly opposed it from the beginning, but her mother insisted and never let go, even forcing her to death.
Helplessly, Ling had to follow her mother's arrangements, but her relationship with Liu Qiang was very average.
Ling's mother has her own reasons, and Ling can understand it later, because Liu Qiang is indeed very loyal and capable. Although she is shorter and has a darker skin, her mother-in-law likes hardworking and sweet-mouthed son-in-law.
In fact, in the countryside, Liu Qiang can be called a first-class man. It is absolutely great to live a family life, but he has never been able to keep up with his life in the city, so Ling just thinks he is too rustic.
But what comforted Ling was that since then, the burden on her body has been much easier and she doesn't have to do any heavier work.
For Liu Qiang, if you can get married in a city, you must hold on to it. He doesn’t ask about his feelings. He thought that as long as you get married, everything will be better naturally.
But Ling is a very stubborn girl, and she was still so unhappy on the day of her marriage. Maybe because she was too young, Ling was just twenty years old when she got married, and she was five years younger than Liu Qiang.
Less than half a year after marriage, Liu Qiang and a friend did a formality for leaving their jobs and went to Xinjiang to do business.
When Ling bought this house, he borrowed a lot of money. Ling's family didn't collect much savings. What's more, her eldest sister was admitted to university in the year when Ling got married, so it was a last resort to go out to do business. Of course, it has a certain relationship with the bad relationship between husband and wife.
When Ling and I had a relationship, she had been married for just two years. I have been having sex with her for a year and a half, so Ling is less than 24 years old now.
Ling, who is in her youth, has her own ideas for the future and has a passionate desire and pursuit for love. When she thinks about it, it has something to do with me.
At the beginning, she would often borrow books from my wife to read. I bought those books, mostly literary classics. I like to write some words on the books, which is my personal opinion on some characters or stories in the books.
Once, when she came to return my book, she debated with me about her own opinions. I knew that she looked at it from a woman's perspective. I still remember that the name of that book was "Anna Karenina".
She sympathized with Anna's behavior, but I didn't agree with it, but we couldn't convince anyone.
Most women who have unsatisfactory love have a common view, and Ling is the same. She believes that love means having a good impression of each other, and no one can leave each other. It is better not to get married if a couple without feelings.
Although we men think this way, they always tolerate many shortcomings of couples in life. Nowadays, men do not regard marriage as their last emotional destination. They can make up for it with extramarital affair. People with ability and status can also have mistresses and live a life of having a home outside the home.
For married women, they have more concerns. They cannot be as casual as married men. Besides, who has the ability to have emotional entanglements with a married woman?
Ling chose me after careful consideration. She once said that if you want to find a lover, you can find a man with a happy family, because such a man is safer and will not easily abandon his wife and children. Moreover, such a man is more responsible. Those rich and status men can certainly meet financial needs, but they cannot be sincere to you. If they don’t do it well, they will hurt women. Once a man ignores anything, women are actually very scared.
I am the man Ling wants to choose. She has a happy family and is responsible for others. She will not hurt a woman with affection and righteousness. In fact, I feel that I am the weak among men. As the saying goes, it is not a husband without poison, but I just can't do it. Maybe this is the main reason why she chose me.
Once I become Ling's emotional support, I have a responsibility, let alone we still have children?
Now the child's name has not been named yet, but he just called him Liu Mao. Ling said he asked me to give me a good name, but I couldn't think of a good name. I will only talk about it when the child is one year old.
Actually, I am a very talkative person and have good conversations, but I always feel that I often conflict with other people's views. Sometimes, although I am sure I am right, when everyone raises objections, I don't want to argue. I think it will hurt the relationship between friends.
Two years ago, when I had not had this relationship with Ling, I was disdainful to those friends with lovers and felt that they were too irresponsible to their families. In my eyes, those women who were willing to be lovers were all fairies, and none of them were good women.
But since he got along with Ling, he has completely changed his viewpoint, believing that lovers are the harmony of marriage, and that lovers can enjoy the care and sex that their wife cannot give. Ling is a woman who is very suitable for me.
She doesn't need my financial efforts, but gives me money. This is something that ordinary men can't get, and they can't even think about it.
In fact, many women are lovers to get financial help from men or to get a certain position to be the lovers of leaders.
It is very rare for women who come only for love. Most of them are because of the discord between husband and wife, and most of them are because men betray women first.
Ling's situation is another kind. She had a bad relationship with her husband at the beginning, and it can be said that she had no feelings for her.
After careful thinking, I felt that Ling was a reliable woman, so I slowly accepted her in my heart. I also knew that her purpose was just to get a little love from me, and also the indispensable sex of women.
As for the child's affairs, I don't think Ling will use him to threaten me, as long as I fulfill my emotional responsibilities to her.
She is also a person who values face. We are an underground couple without realizing it, and it does not affect each other's family. Sometimes I think in my mind how to make Ling and I safe together, but I always feel that it is not safe enough, mainly because I don't have financial strength.
My wife is an honest woman. She is kind and has no scheming. She is a typical and dedicated woman. After years of couples in life, she has full trust in my character. As long as my relationship with Ling does a good job of keeping confidentiality, she will not be discovered by her.
I also thought about not accepting Ling's feelings, but her kind of body that deeply attracted my body, especially the funny caress on the bed, made me unwilling to give up. Her meticulous care for my life also made me enjoy it that I had never had before before.
In short, Ling is a woman who is completely different from my wife. The most important thing is that she is more feminine than my wife, and she is essentially different from my wife's student-like family life.
I remember one time someone came to my family. My wife didn't know how to cook, so she asked Ling to help. I saw Ling put on an apron and was busy in the kitchen cleanly. She cooked and fried, cooked and fried. In less than two hours, she finished more than a dozen dishes, which made the guests stunned. The taste was good, and the guests boasted repeatedly.
A friend joked: If I have such a wife, I would be happy even if I am a cow or a horse.
My wife is very good at this, and she can only stir-fry some simple home-cooked dishes. She can't even understand the ways of cooking dishes. She has never bought any condiments such as big ingredients at home.
In fact, Ling's craftsmanship was not learned in one or two years. After her second sister was born, her father died on duty, and her mother worked very hard to raise the three sisters.
Although the government has given some subsidies, most of the problems cannot be solved after all, and my mother still has to go to work. More importantly, someone always has to do the housework.
So Ling became a versatile player at home, serving her two sisters like a nanny.
The tedious housework made Ling, who had already achieved good grades, become a backward student. She barely graduated from high school, and even thought about it in college.
Fortunately, her father's unit gave him a quota for care, and Ling became an employee of the power supply bureau.
The salary of the power supply bureau is very good, and she is also very happy. Before she got married, she was always the pillar of the family, just like a boy.
Her mother has been working in the commercial department. Ling's husband Liu Qiang turned out to be a buyer in her mother's unit. She is a business school graduate from a rural area, but she doesn't look like a culture at all.
But Liu Qiang is very diligent, and the leader of the unit likes it very much
Ling's mother saw it and asked someone to introduce him to her daughter.
She feels that her family needs such a man, and it is better for the countryside
Ling firmly opposed it from the beginning, but her mother insisted and never let go, even forcing her to death.
Helplessly, Ling had to follow her mother's arrangements, but her relationship with Liu Qiang was very average.
Ling's mother has her own reasons, and Ling can understand it later, because Liu Qiang is indeed very loyal and capable. Although she is shorter and has a darker skin, her mother-in-law likes hardworking and sweet-mouthed son-in-law.
In fact, in the countryside, Liu Qiang can be called a first-class man. It is absolutely great to live a family life, but he has never been able to keep up with his life in the city, so Ling just thinks he is too rustic.
But what comforted Ling was that since then, the burden on her body has been much easier and she doesn't have to do any heavier work.
For Liu Qiang, if you can get married in a city, you must hold on to it. He doesn’t ask about his feelings. He thought that as long as you get married, everything will be better naturally.
But Ling is a very stubborn girl, and she was still so unhappy on the day of her marriage. Maybe because she was too young, Ling was just twenty years old when she got married, and she was five years younger than Liu Qiang.
Less than half a year after marriage, Liu Qiang and a friend did a formality for leaving their jobs and went to Xinjiang to do business.
When Ling bought this house, he borrowed a lot of money. Ling's family didn't collect much savings. What's more, her eldest sister was admitted to university in the year when Ling got married, so it was a last resort to go out to do business. Of course, it has a certain relationship with the bad relationship between husband and wife.
When Ling and I had a relationship, she had been married for just two years. I have been having sex with her for a year and a half, so Ling is less than 24 years old now.
Ling, who is in her youth, has her own ideas for the future and has a passionate desire and pursuit for love. When she thinks about it, it has something to do with me.
At the beginning, she would often borrow books from my wife to read. I bought those books, mostly literary classics. I like to write some words on the books, which is my personal opinion on some characters or stories in the books.
Once, when she came to return my book, she debated with me about her own opinions. I knew that she looked at it from a woman's perspective. I still remember that the name of that book was "Anna Karenina".
She sympathized with Anna's behavior, but I didn't agree with it, but we couldn't convince anyone.
Most women who have unsatisfactory love have a common view, and Ling is the same. She believes that love means having a good impression of each other, and no one can leave each other. It is better not to get married if a couple without feelings.
Although we men think this way, they always tolerate many shortcomings of couples in life. Nowadays, men do not regard marriage as their last emotional destination. They can make up for it with extramarital affair. People with ability and status can also have mistresses and live a life of having a home outside the home.
For married women, they have more concerns. They cannot be as casual as married men. Besides, who has the ability to have emotional entanglements with a married woman?
Ling chose me after careful consideration. She once said that if you want to find a lover, you can find a man with a happy family, because such a man is safer and will not easily abandon his wife and children. Moreover, such a man is more responsible. Those rich and status men can certainly meet financial needs, but they cannot be sincere to you. If they don’t do it well, they will hurt women. Once a man ignores anything, women are actually very scared.
I am the man Ling wants to choose. She has a happy family and is responsible for others. She will not hurt a woman with affection and righteousness. In fact, I feel that I am the weak among men. As the saying goes, it is not a husband without poison, but I just can't do it. Maybe this is the main reason why she chose me.
Once I become Ling's emotional support, I have a responsibility, let alone we still have children?
Now the child's name has not been named yet, but he just called him Liu Mao. Ling said he asked me to give me a good name, but I couldn't think of a good name. I will only talk about it when the child is one year old.