After marriage, everything was beautiful, and both parents were very satisfied. Almost all life was very coherent. We were both very quiet, so we didn’t have the enthusiasm to face family trivial matters after calming down. Of course, the main reason for harmony is Dagang’s good temper and hard work.
The only thing that is unhappy is that Dagang no longer plays Go with me because he actually likes to read comics and magazines, including the one I update four-frame on it from time to time
I gave Xiaowan a comic to her at that time. She did not take it for herself. Instead, she recommended it to a magazine for publication. She also encouraged me to sign a contract with that magazine and became the signing author. She still provided the articles from time to time.
Unfortunately, Xiaowan and their studio finally failed to persevere. They disbanded a year later, and Xiaowan returned to the big company to be employees. Of course, we really became good friends.
I will always remember Dagang's expression one day after marriage. That day he helped me move books from the dormitory to home, and then found that the magazine I had saved for several months was not allowed to buy, so he would buy it on his way off work
I told him not to buy it, and the magazine would send it to me for free every issue. Dagang asked curiously why. I said it was the benefit of the contracted author, and then I found the issue with my work and pointed it out to him.
Then I was knocked down in Dagang's eyes, and that time was the longest and most intense time in my memory. The perverted man, they were all the same.
The next day, Dagang refused to play Go with me, saying that he had been playing for almost half a year and had to let me 13 more sons. I had no potential and had to spend my most limited energy on my most talented place. I must not use these things to delay my precious time.
Then, he chased me all day long and asked me to draw the follow-up, and bought me a 2,000-plus wacom handwriting board and pressure pen, saying that it could significantly improve my drawing efficiency, and I wouldn't have to scan it into the computer and color it every time I finished drawing the pencil.
I was so angry that I was so angry that the magazine editors never urged me like this. I was originally just interested in leisure things, but he was even more nervous than going to work.
Later, I abstinently punished him for a week. Dagang finally became honest and obediently stopped urging me. Only then did life return to the right track
After marriage, I actually discovered one of Dagang's biggest advantages. He is responsible and responsible. This is my favorite point, which makes me deeply feel that I did not marry the wrong person.
Dagang's parents are both teachers and work in Guangzhou. They are all very good people, but they always hope that Dagang can live according to their ideas. I hope that Dagang will take the doctoral exam and then be transferred to a good university in Guangzhou.
Dagang already understood my thoughts very well at that time and told them very toughly that he hoped to live his current life. He did not like big cities. He hoped to stay in Huizhou with me.
Later, there was another thing that made me feel grateful to Dagang indescribable
Dagang is the only seedling, and his parents-in-law always wanted a grandson, but Dagang always told them very hard that he wanted a daughter. He didn't want a boy very much, and then he talked about the bad things of boys all day long, how good girls are
Less than half a year after marriage, we accidentally had it. Although we were not ready, it didn't matter. We who stayed at home every day and were not motivated, had no idea that we hadn't had enough fun, or had to take care of our careers first, and then we would just have it.
One day, I touched my stomach and asked Dagang curiously: Do you hate boys so much? Call your parents and ask for your daughter.
Dagang smiled and said: Actually, it is to relieve stress for you. I can’t do anything for my son or daughter. My parents spoil me. I like my daughter every day. They can’t say they want a son. If you give birth to a daughter, they will be happy for me and will not have any objections to you.
I asked with a smile: How long have you been fighting wits and courage with them?
Dagang had a bitter face: It's been many years since I went to college. My dad is fine, but my mom's desire to control herself is too strong. If I don't spend more time with it, I don't know what her life will be like.
Then, Dagang and I formed a resolution. On his parents' side, I did all the good things, and he would be the bad guys. On my parents' side, he would be the good things, and I would be the bad guys.
Later, practice has proved that this is definitely the only way for two generations to get along well, especially when facing children's life and education issues.
Dagang asked me, I wanted boys and girls, and I thought for a while: Girls, the possibility of staying by our side is greater. Boys always want to break the cage and fly out, and boys always want to do their careers. It's too hard
Dagang nodded: No matter what you give birth, I like whatever you give birth. Later it turned out that this was a lie, he just wanted his daughter
Time is fast, and I will soon be in the delivery period. Dagang helped me prepare the delivery bag carefully.
I was lying on the hospital bed and had broken water. The doctor said that my fetus was very correct and suggested a natural birth. I endured the pain and looked at Dagang who was panicked by him, wanting to tease him: Dagang, my wish may be shattered. The baby is so naughty. The person who kicked so hard must be his son. Grandpa and grandma should be happy.
But Dagang was rarely serious and held my hand:
Wife, I don't want a son, I want a daughter, I just want one, like yours
I was very moved, but I didn't appreciate it: Dagang, where did you copy this sentence from
Dagang is embarrassed: I watched it online, and I thought it was good at that time, so I remember it
I asked: Do you know who said it?
Dagang: Ah, there is still a source of this?
I sighed: This was what Mr. Qian Zhongshu told Mr. Yang Tao. Later, they gave birth to a daughter named Qian Yuan, who is also a talented woman.
Dagang's surprise: There is also this allusion, then we will be daughters and will be as talented as you
I shook my head: I just want her to be healthy, you don’t know, Qian Yuan walked in front of Qian Zhongshu and Yang Tao, I don’t want white-haired people to send black-haired people
Dagang was stunned, and could see that he wanted to suck his face with regret.
I smiled. Dagang was beside him, and the pain of contractions was not so obvious. I held his hand: Dagang, I don’t believe in these things. You are a science and engineering man, why do you care about this?
Dagang held my hands tightly: Well, no matter boys and girls, as long as they are healthy, it's good
What a nervous father, Dagang, who is always so steady at all times, was so panicked at this time. I smiled and asked him to take out the pen and paper from the prepared delivery bag, and began to look at the table to record my contraction frequency
Maybe it was my calmness that made Dagang completely calm and he was with me foolishly. Seven or eight hours passed, and the frequency of contractions I recorded had reached 1 and a half minutes each time. I asked Dagang to call the nurse. When the nurse came over, she said that the cervix was almost open and she quickly sent the delivery room. Dagang's face was pale immediately.
While pushing the cart, the nurse said very much that she had never seen a mother as quiet as me. She felt so painful that most people had already cried.
I forced a smile and thought to myself that if I cried, Dagang might be afraid of what he was like
After pushing the delivery room, I finally didn't have to pretend to be calm anymore. The severe pain I had never experienced before made me shout out.
The pain came so violently, but the delivery was unexpectedly smooth. Two hours later, my baby came out. It was a girl. I looked at the wrinkled villain and thought it was so ugly, but I liked it very much.
When I was pushed back to Dagang with my clean and wrapped baby, Dagang was so happy that he was dumbfounded. After I had enough of the baby, I called my parents-in-law and told me that he finally had a daughter and would not have children anymore.
I asked Dagang, did you think of the name for the baby? Dagang said he had thought about it, the boy's name was Zhuangzhuang and the daughter's name was Niu Niu
I laughed: What a rustic name
Dagang insisted: But it looked very healthy when I heard it. I knew he was stimulated by Qian Yuan's story, so I smiled and nodded and said yes
After the child was born, the elderly on both sides came to help take care of them. The elderly's doting on Niu Niu was completely something we had never thought of before.
Moreover, Dagang’s prediction is correct, the difference between the two generations’ parenting concepts is too big
My mother made a millet pillow and said that a hard pillow can make your head flat. I pushed it back hard and said that I just like a round-headed child.
My mother-in-law said she wanted to scrape the tongue coating on Niu Niu, so that it would be easy to get angry. Dagang said it was nonsense and also pushed back
Dagang and I were so wise in our previous decisions. We were both evil people in front of our mothers. It was really the best way to avoid conflicts.
Especially when Niu Niu was almost one year old, she had a child's rash and had a fever of 39 degrees. I insisted not to send her to the hospital. She stripped her naked and soaked her in a warm water basin to physically cool down. My mother-in-law was so scared that her face turned pale. Da Gang pushed her back to her bedroom and told her not to look at it. She told her that this is the most scientific method in modern times, and he decided to do it.
After getting my mother-in-law done, Da Gang came back and asked me quietly: Do you really need to go to the hospital? I feel a little guilty: Anyway, I say that online, why don’t you observe it for a day, and if you can’t do it, you will go to the hospital? Then, Niu Niu did not worsen the next day, and her rash on the third day, and the fever subsided.
My mother-in-law said she was almost scared, and Dagang and I also quietly breathed a sigh of relief.
When I just gave birth to Niu Niu, I smelled it and didn't see me, because while I gave birth, she went to Hong Kong to prepare for a second child. When she returned from Hong Kong with her full-month-old second son Taotao, Niu Niu had been around for a hundred days.
I took a taxi to see Yinyin. I smelled it and was bored. Kang Kang was temporarily put on the aunt's side. Xiaoxian only took care of the young ones. The baby who was full-month-old was very troubled and had to eat it once in an hour. I was very envious when Taotao swallowed with big mouthfuls and said to Yinyin: Big breasts are good. Not only does it feel good, but it also has enough milk, and it is easy to suck.
Smell the strange question: Isn’t you enough to eat?
I feel a little depressed: The information I checked, the amount of milk has nothing to do with the size of my breasts, but mine is just not enough to eat. I have to add milk powder every day, and it is very difficult to suck it out. Niu Niu cried every time she was so tired that she cried.
It was strange to smell. She always thought that all mothers were the same. She put Taotao who had eaten and fell asleep on the bed. Yinyin reached out and carried Niu Niu over and asked me: Do you want me to try feeding Niu Niu? Are you not afraid that she will become stupid when drinking my milk?
I laughed: I eat pork every day, but I haven't become stupid either
Smelling and reaching out to hit me, then really unhappy and let Niu Niu drink her breasts on the other side. Niu Niu Niu is really gone, she picks up her eyes and sucks it directly. She drinks so pleasantly. Didn’t you notice the smell at all?
Niu Niu eats so deliciously that I can't stand it anymore, so I took her back to my arms and continued to eat. The little bastard actually sucked two bites and spit it out, then cried and punched and kicked
I was very happy to smell it and took it back, and said to me with a smile: I just happened to be a little bloated, so let Niu Niu drink more
I looked at the two drinks and immediately burst into tears to laugh. I opened my eyes and was so happy. I was really speechless.
Before leaving, I smelled and told me that I would come often. She couldn't finish her milk and just feed Niu Niu. She saved her fear of swelling and would squeeze it out every night.
Anyway, it was very close, only two streets away. Later, when I had time at night, I would hold Niu Niu and look for free for food. Maybe I often feed Niu Niu, smell her motherly nature, and not telling her to accept her goddaughter, she insisted that I betrothed Niu Niu to Kang Kang of his family.
I asked Dagang what to do, but Dagang looked indifferent: I decided to do this when Niu Niu grows up. If you want to match it, just let them get in touch with each other. The genes in the smudge the stone should not be bad.
Then until now, Yin Wen often brought Kang Kang to play with Niu Niu. Perhaps it has something to do with the milk that I smelled. Niu Niu and Yin Wen are very close to Yin Wen.
Time flies, and it is the autumn of 2014. Dagang, smell it, the stone is still the same, but my changes are a bit big
I suddenly became a workaholic like Xing Lu. Because with Niu Niu, I suddenly realized the importance of money.
I couldn't help but buy Niuniu's milk powder, diapers, and complementary food for her, and bought all imported ones. Then I always thought, if I earn more money, she will be calm in the future, Niuniu is also very successful. She has never been to the hospital because of illness since she was born. She is healthy as we wish.
In the extracurricular classes run by the actual school, my reputation is already very good. The class fee for a regular class has increased to 100 yuan, and the class fee for a college entrance examination sprint class during winter and summer vacation has increased to 150 yuan. I usually teach classes on Mondays, Wednesdays and Friday nights and Saturdays and half a day on Sundays. My overall monthly income has exceeded 10,000 yuan.
I calculated that day. In 2014, the average monthly income was 14,000 yuan, which scared me.
Of course, the price is also very high. The comics have been completely given up, so don’t think about baking. Writing will only start writing when there is a special impulse and passion.
I finally realized Xing Lu's mood back then. It turned out that at that time, I was really too young
It turns out that people will really involuntarily squeeze themselves. They are for their ideals, and I am for Niu Niu... Alas, children will really completely change a woman.
Dagang took the initiative to take over all the housework, which relieved me a lot of burden.
But even so, this year is too hard. I work seven days a week and I work overtime from morning to night most of the time. Sometimes I get tired when I come back and almost can't stand it. But every time I get home, Niu Niu rushed over and hugged me and called my mother. Then, when I see Niu Niu smiling innocently, I feel that everything is worth it.
While I was constantly staying up late to prepare lessons, I fell in love with drinking coffee and only drank pure coffee. Da Gang bought an Electrolux coffee maker and grind the beans and cooked a cup of it when I stayed up late.
It turns out that life is really like a cup of American coffee, very bitter and astringent, but the mellow fragrance makes me enjoy and linger. Niu Niu's smile and Dagang's arms are the mellow fragrance in the coffee.
Dagang felt sorry for me and always advised me not to work so hard, but I kept gritting my teeth and persevering, but I shouldn't need to be so nervous in the future
Because of this summer vacation, we finally saved enough money. Before Niu Niu went to elementary school, we bought a big house near the best elementary school and moved our household registration there.
My parents-in-law sponsored some more, and the new house has started to be renovated
Dagang did not hire a decoration company at all, and he was responsible for the decoration design and supervision. He divided the decoration into wall paint, ceiling, tiles, wooden floors, water and electricity network renovation, waterproofing, etc., and he had to participate in it.
Every time he picks up the impact drill, I seem to see the excitement in his eyes. What a strange science and engineering man.
As for Xing Lu, he is still a friend, but he does have fewer contacts.
Then, on this day, I saw an update from his WeChat Moments:
Sang Ruoying, Xing Lu has experienced eight years of ups and downs in love, and officially got married yesterday. It was initially scheduled to prepare a brief seat on September ×x. The ceremony for entertaining relatives and friends will be simple. No unanimous invitations are allowed. Participants please leave a private message. Please leave a message for everyone to dress casually. Do not bring red envelopes Sang Ruoying, Xing Lu is here.
8 years?
Did Xing Lu meet this girl in 2006?
In other words, he had a new love about a year after we broke up!
No wonder I asked him in 2008 if he wanted to go to Beijing to take care of him. He said at first that he wouldn't let me go, but it turned out that there was someone else in his heart at that time!
Although I am more fortunate that the hot-headed behavior did not happen in the end, I still feel uncomfortable
Moreover, the girl in the photo is not as beautiful as me in any way. At that time, she actually rejected me because of her. This is too hurtful for her!
I angrily sent a WeChat message: Xing Lu, you are on two boats!
Xing Lu should have understood what I mean immediately, and the news came back soon: Absolutely, she and I were together in 2010 and said that we had a relationship for 8 years because we met in 2006. She confessed but I refused, and then I went to Beijing. In 2010, she also went to Beijing, and we were together.
Oh, that's it, I'll go back: You're really experienced in refusing to confess your love
Then I remembered that I wanted to go to Beijing to find him in 2008. He was a little upset when he refused at the beginning and continued to ask: If she and I were looking for you in 2010, who would you choose?
Xing Lu obviously hesitated for a long time, and then replied: I will choose you
Why
First, I have made a promise to you, I have promised you, when you go to Beijing, I marry you, Xing Lu started the logical analysis he is best at again, he still remembers that promise, I am very happy
Second, she is 11 years younger than me, and the age gap is too big. She should actually find someone who is more suitable for her than me.
Ah, so much difference? What should you do if you can't satisfy her in the future? Your health is not good
Xing Lu gave a crying expression: Sometimes I can’t bear it anymore...
I lay on the table and laughed for a while before starting to comfort Xing Lu: Don't worry, when there is a child, she will not have the intention. Then I remembered that Dagang and I have not been intimate for a long time. Niu Niu never sleeps in the small bed. She insists on sleeping between me and Dagang, and she has to rest her head on me and sleep with his feet. Dagang and I have a little abnormal movement and she is about to wake up and cry.
Xing Lu continued: There is another most important reason. You have quit your job in Beijing for 10 years. How dare I not let you go without me? She will develop better in Beijing, but without my care, I am afraid you will starve to death in Beijing.
Dizzy, this is too toxic. I'm almost half of what I earn when I first met you, a lot!
However, what makes sense... The biggest reason for my high income is that I have played my only advantage in this special industry in this special place. If I really throw me into Beijing, I might really starve to death.
I continued to ask: If you only consider feelings, who would you choose?
This time Xing Lu didn't hesitate at all: I will choose her
I asked: Why? I still can't figure it out. The girl just looks quite awesome, but she can't be considered pretty. She looks much worse than me
I looked at the photo again, and her breasts were not big, so why did Xing Lu choose her?
Xing Lu said: She used to be very inferior in front of me. She met me when she graduated from high school and went to Shenzhen. After I left, she went to Beijing to find me and love each other equally. After four years of self-abuse, she completed college and undergraduate degree from high school within three years. At the same time, she became an expert in financial final accounts. In the fourth year, she was admitted to a very valuable certification in the financial industry, and then jumped to Beijing. I couldn't let her down.
Well, okay, I admit defeat, I can't do this even if I beat you to death. I used to think Xinglu was far away from me, but now I feel that this girl is far away from me. I am very glad that I didn't go to Beijing in 2008. There are such freaks around me. Faced with competition from this type of people every day, I will be exhausted by them if I don't starve to death.
Xing Lu continued: I chose her because she and I are the same as her, but you are not yet a certified test every year and are still taking the exam without stopping every day. Well, okay, I like to take Niu Niu and Dagang for a walk in the community, Dagang and I are the same as him
It sounds like he is better than you? I don’t understand Xing Lu. His first girlfriend is much better than him. Now he is looking for someone so strong. Does he tend to be abused?
He is better than me. Tsinghua MBA is willing to drop out of school. Now he is more income than me. I have no status at home...
I laughed, feeling a little gloating. I originally wanted to go to Chengdu to attend the wedding and see what that girl looks like. Now I don't need it anymore. She should have no common language with me.
I smiled and said: It's great, it's really more suitable for you than me. I wish you peace and happiness, long-lasting old age, and a precious child early
Huihui, she already has it, we both want girls...
Oh, congratulations, I'm very happy, saying that you look like a dad, it's really harmonious
I'm the face of Father Zhang, right? More than one person said that
I won’t go to the wedding anymore, so I will save you some trouble. If you choose to get married on Monday, don’t you want others to go there, right?
Well, neither of us wants to do it, the old man on both sides doesn't do it, so he has to be so perfunctory
I laughed again. These two people are really a couple. Even the wedding is troublesome. It is really not easy to get together.
I continued to ask: The wedding photos are finished, please send a few photos of the bride come and take a look
Xing Lu: We didn't take photos if we were troublesome. If you have the chance in the future, you might take photos in the season when there is a sea of flowers by Lake Karakuri
Well, I was impressed by these two weirdos and I was going to get married without taking wedding photos...
I said: I'm going to cook for Niu Niu, and I'll talk back and forth
OK, see you back
Wait, Xing Lu, you said she met you after graduating from high school. She was only eighteen or nineteen years old at that time. You can do it, you are really a beast!
I didn't! We were together for 10 years, and she was 23 at that time
OK, 88 I turned off WeChat as if I ran away, because I remembered that when I took the initiative to sleep with Xing Lu, I was just 21 years old. This topic cannot be extended.
In the evening, Xing Lu sent another message saying that he wanted to write his story with Sang Ruoying into a novel, and asked me to moisten it.
I said yes, I will leave the color to me to write, so that the person who reads will be full of blood
Xing Lu laughed and said OK
Then I said, then I will write down my story with you, please send it for me, Xing Lu said it well
I picked up my cell phone and gave my brother-in-law a call, and I guess he would definitely go to the wedding and wanted to buy a gift to ask him to bring it to Xing Lu.
Unexpectedly, my sister and brother-in-law have already gone to Chengdu, so I had to forget it
My brother-in-law was a little worried on the phone and asked me if it was okay, I said it was okay
I told my brother-in-law that Xing Lu said that the girl had a strong personality and had a good work attitude and lifestyle with him. This is indeed rare.
Brother-in-law is very disdainful: Just listen to him, there are not so many reasons, because Ying'er looks almost exactly the same as his girlfriend in college, otherwise he wouldn't care so much.
Oh, I feel even more relieved. There is also Pan Ying's factor, so I can't compare it to it.
My brother-in-law was a little dissatisfied: However, Ruoying is indeed very good, almost my best employee. I worked hard for four years, but as soon as my wings were hard, I was hooked to Beijing by Xing Lu. This time I had to settle the account with him.
I laughed out loud. It turned out that she was in Guangzhou for four years and was also in her brother-in-law's company. Her brother-in-law really specializes in raising Xinglu's girlfriend.
I asked with a smile: Did you do odd jobs at the beginning, and then you had a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, five insurances and one fund?
Brother-in-law laughed, and then my sister answered the phone. My sister was careful and obviously worried that I was unhappy: Huihui, don't be too worried. At that time, we still thought that you and Xing Lu would be more suitable. Xing Lu only had feelings for you. Ruoying was too young at that time. She was only eighteen or nineteen years old at that time. We didn't take it seriously. She thought it was a child's play, but because she looked like Pan Ying, we kept her as a little sister to take care of her. But unexpectedly, the child was so stubborn. Four years later, he ran over to find Xing Lu, and it turned out to be a real person.
I smiled and said: That's really a good thing, Xing Lu needs to be controlled by such a tough girl
I hung up the phone and smiled slightly. Very good, Xing Lu, I finally don’t have to feel guilty about not going to Beijing to share the hardships with you. You met a girl who is really suitable for you. I wish you a blessing.
There was no class on Sunday afternoon, Yin Wen asked me to go shopping again. Da Gang had something to do and worked overtime, so I threw him and Niu Niu at home and went to have sex with her, but I couldn't. After Yin Wen's second son was born, all her interests turned into shopping in the maternal and child shop. She was a completely sloppy housewife. She couldn't see the glittering little goblin 10 years ago.
But this time, I took her to the gold shop for a long time, and finally selected a pair of clear heart-shaped crystals, and wanted to send them to Xing Lu for a while
While eating, I listened to smelling JīJīgugu teaching me the experience of raising children as a person who has experienced it. I couldn't help but feel funny. I smelled ignorant and unspirited, and it has really changed my appearance on the children. I'm afraid the parenting books at home can open a library. It's really a waste if such a woman doesn't become a kindergarten teacher.
I ignored her, opened the jewelry box, wrote a congratulations on the small card I gave: Forever, don’t get dusty, then took out a note and started drawing a pair of villains who were very intimate and sweet.
He smelled and asked me with a smile: Is it old husband and wife? Are you still playing with this?
I smiled and said to her: Xing Lu is going to get married. Next Monday, I will be in Chengdu. Then I wrote Xing Lu on a villain, Sang Ruoying on another villain, and finally wrote a sentence below: Like a shadow, follow the scene.
Smelling the look of suddenly being choked by the things in his mouth, staring at me with wide eyes, and said worriedly: Huihui?
I glared at her: What are you doing?
Smell and hold my hand: Huihui, you must not seek a short opinion of yourself. Niu Niu is so obedient, you can't have no mother since childhood
I knocked her off her hand: What are you thinking? I just thought that he is 38 years old this year and is only married now. I feel a little distressed. Then I was shocked. It turns out that I have known him for ten years.
Smelling and looking at me with a worried look
I said to her helplessly: Don't worry, I've let you go. Dagang goes to and from get off work on time every day, and eats together every night. When I don't go to extracurricular classes to give lectures, we take Niu Niu for a walk in the community after dinner. After Niu Niu fell asleep, we read books. I like this ordinary and quiet life. Do you think these Xinglu can give me these Xinglu? Xinglu and I are not the same person. I read thousands of books. He travels thousands of miles away. He will experience wind and rain next to him, and will see more scenery. But I don't like it. I just like to read different books quietly in the same place every day. Huang Wei said that his fiancée is also a flying man in the air, and a fanatical hiker. He is quite compatible with him. I hope they are happy.
I can’t believe it: You like him so much back then, and you just let it go?
I shook my head: Xing Lu is indeed very good and worthy of love, but it is indeed not suitable for me. If I met him now, I would not fall in love with him back then. I was too young. Xing Lu brought me a completely fresh world, brought me vision and material satisfaction, made me obsessed with it, and also made me ignore the inappropriate side of me and him. Now, after experiencing some things, I know that it is meaningless. Economics, Dagang and I, including the money I taught in cram school, are 20,000 yuan in total, and will continue to grow. After all, I am now a gold medal teacher in the college entrance examination sprint class. We now eat whatever we want and play wherever we want. Unlike in college, Xing Lu bought me a 2,000 yuan mobile phone. I would be so happy that I can't sleep at night. Rationally analyze, Xing Lu is indeed not as tempting as before.
I smell it very disdainful: Tell me, go wherever I want to go, and where else have you gone besides taking Niu Niu to the amusement park? You two occupants, have you left Huizhou in the past few years?
I was so guilty that I didn't say anything. I was very dissatisfied with me. Shi Chu bought her a SUV. She always wanted to pull me and Dagang out for fun, but pulling us was fake. It was real to let Kang Kang play with Niu Niu. She always dreamed of being Niu Niu's mother-in-law.
But Dagang and I haven't been there once. We both thought it was too tiring to ride a car for two hours and wasting time. It would be better to read to Niu Niu at home.
Wenyin continued to say to me: Huihui, according to your calculations, your income is more than twice that of Dagang. Don’t dislike Dagang, Dagang is really suitable for you.
I said: Don't worry, I didn't dislike him when I was short of money. Now I don't lack money, so I will definitely cherish him more
Even though I say that, I feel a little guilty
When I earned less than Dagang, I could act coquettishly and let him be a cow or a horse. Now that I earned more, I dare not do it anymore
He originally felt that he was not as good as Xing Lu, but now he felt that he was not even as good as me. How to take care of his self-esteem is really a headache.
Another more important problem is the hidden danger that has been laid since we got married
When Dagang and I got married, my income was lower than that of him. Dagang took the initiative to submit his salary card, but I didn't get it. I just agreed that Dagang was responsible for repaying the mortgage, gas, water and electricity and other basic living expenses. My income was used to do some romance and other small romance to improve the quality of life
I originally wanted to make Dagang feel proud of the pillars of the family. No matter what, I never expected that after my reputation as an extracurricular class, my income would grow so quickly, but Dagang's income has not changed much in recent years.
The new house we bought with a mortgage some time ago, the 180 square meters building, the down payment was basically the money I had on my card. Dagang's provident fund mortgaged the 80 square meters house, so I also used my loan for the new house. Dagang was hit hard by this matter.
I am now determined to collect Dagang's salary card, so that he can't understand the difference in income, and he is afraid that he will even think more about it. The big men in this society are really annoyed.
She didn't notice that I was absent-minded, and she was obviously a little worried: Huihui, do you know how eye-catching you are now? I am like your nanny with you. You are better-looking than before. There will definitely be someone chasing you. Don't change your mind anymore.
I smelled that my figure changed a lot in the past two years, but I have never gained weight. As my taste of dressing improves, I am indeed more elegant than before.
Once, my sister and brother-in-law came to Huizhou. Dagang and I invited them to dinner. My sister and I didn't look much different, but Dagang obviously felt pressure in front of my brother-in-law. He came back and said strangely: When you were with Xing Lu, you looked as compatible as them. I heard that I was so angry that I was about to vomit blood.
Do you want to have another one?
The country has already let go of the second child of a child. You can feel completely relieved if you have another Dagang. You can just put Niu Niu in my grandmother’s house to sleep. Dagang and I haven’t been intimate for a long time.
However, it is probably difficult. Dagang spoils Niu Niu without principles. As long as Niu Niu cries, Dagang will definitely surrender unconditionally.
I said to Yinyin helplessly: If I change my mind, I will betroth Niu Niu to Kang Kang. So you can rest assured
Smell the feeling of finally letting go, and then add unwillingly: If you really can't think about it, remember to adopt Niu Niu to me in advance, and I promise to treat her like my daughter.
I said helplessly: I know, then when I develop it, don’t worry about being a wife for Kang Kang. I won’t give you this opportunity.
Yinyin looked a little disappointed, but when his eyes turned, he seemed to have a new idea: Hey, should we go to Chengdu to make trouble for Xing Road? I'll buy a bunch of hair. During his wedding, you walked up to him, put your hair in his hand and cried a few times, turned around and left without saying anything. Would he feel guilty?
I laughed out loud and said: I won't go, and it's useless to go. He has my WeChat, I'm a crazy baby showman. He must have seen that I have short hair now and you and Huang Wei are really bad friends. The ideas they came up with are worse than the other ones.
Yin Wen asked curiously: Did Huang Wei also come up with a bad idea?
I smiled and said: He asked me to take Niu Niu over, and asked Niu Niu to hold Xing Lu's legs and call him dad
I couldn't help laughing, laughing in my heart, laughing in my heart, and I was overwhelmed with joy
The restaurant happened to be playing an unknown song from Feng Huáng legend. I heard the lyrics: Fate is like sand between my fingers, so I can't hold it and let it go. I thought to myself: It's really suitable.
I smiled and said to myself:
Xing Lu, don’t forget that there was a girl shed tears for you by the West Lake
over
The only thing that is unhappy is that Dagang no longer plays Go with me because he actually likes to read comics and magazines, including the one I update four-frame on it from time to time
I gave Xiaowan a comic to her at that time. She did not take it for herself. Instead, she recommended it to a magazine for publication. She also encouraged me to sign a contract with that magazine and became the signing author. She still provided the articles from time to time.
Unfortunately, Xiaowan and their studio finally failed to persevere. They disbanded a year later, and Xiaowan returned to the big company to be employees. Of course, we really became good friends.
I will always remember Dagang's expression one day after marriage. That day he helped me move books from the dormitory to home, and then found that the magazine I had saved for several months was not allowed to buy, so he would buy it on his way off work
I told him not to buy it, and the magazine would send it to me for free every issue. Dagang asked curiously why. I said it was the benefit of the contracted author, and then I found the issue with my work and pointed it out to him.
Then I was knocked down in Dagang's eyes, and that time was the longest and most intense time in my memory. The perverted man, they were all the same.
The next day, Dagang refused to play Go with me, saying that he had been playing for almost half a year and had to let me 13 more sons. I had no potential and had to spend my most limited energy on my most talented place. I must not use these things to delay my precious time.
Then, he chased me all day long and asked me to draw the follow-up, and bought me a 2,000-plus wacom handwriting board and pressure pen, saying that it could significantly improve my drawing efficiency, and I wouldn't have to scan it into the computer and color it every time I finished drawing the pencil.
I was so angry that I was so angry that the magazine editors never urged me like this. I was originally just interested in leisure things, but he was even more nervous than going to work.
Later, I abstinently punished him for a week. Dagang finally became honest and obediently stopped urging me. Only then did life return to the right track
After marriage, I actually discovered one of Dagang's biggest advantages. He is responsible and responsible. This is my favorite point, which makes me deeply feel that I did not marry the wrong person.
Dagang's parents are both teachers and work in Guangzhou. They are all very good people, but they always hope that Dagang can live according to their ideas. I hope that Dagang will take the doctoral exam and then be transferred to a good university in Guangzhou.
Dagang already understood my thoughts very well at that time and told them very toughly that he hoped to live his current life. He did not like big cities. He hoped to stay in Huizhou with me.
Later, there was another thing that made me feel grateful to Dagang indescribable
Dagang is the only seedling, and his parents-in-law always wanted a grandson, but Dagang always told them very hard that he wanted a daughter. He didn't want a boy very much, and then he talked about the bad things of boys all day long, how good girls are
Less than half a year after marriage, we accidentally had it. Although we were not ready, it didn't matter. We who stayed at home every day and were not motivated, had no idea that we hadn't had enough fun, or had to take care of our careers first, and then we would just have it.
One day, I touched my stomach and asked Dagang curiously: Do you hate boys so much? Call your parents and ask for your daughter.
Dagang smiled and said: Actually, it is to relieve stress for you. I can’t do anything for my son or daughter. My parents spoil me. I like my daughter every day. They can’t say they want a son. If you give birth to a daughter, they will be happy for me and will not have any objections to you.
I asked with a smile: How long have you been fighting wits and courage with them?
Dagang had a bitter face: It's been many years since I went to college. My dad is fine, but my mom's desire to control herself is too strong. If I don't spend more time with it, I don't know what her life will be like.
Then, Dagang and I formed a resolution. On his parents' side, I did all the good things, and he would be the bad guys. On my parents' side, he would be the good things, and I would be the bad guys.
Later, practice has proved that this is definitely the only way for two generations to get along well, especially when facing children's life and education issues.
Dagang asked me, I wanted boys and girls, and I thought for a while: Girls, the possibility of staying by our side is greater. Boys always want to break the cage and fly out, and boys always want to do their careers. It's too hard
Dagang nodded: No matter what you give birth, I like whatever you give birth. Later it turned out that this was a lie, he just wanted his daughter
Time is fast, and I will soon be in the delivery period. Dagang helped me prepare the delivery bag carefully.
I was lying on the hospital bed and had broken water. The doctor said that my fetus was very correct and suggested a natural birth. I endured the pain and looked at Dagang who was panicked by him, wanting to tease him: Dagang, my wish may be shattered. The baby is so naughty. The person who kicked so hard must be his son. Grandpa and grandma should be happy.
But Dagang was rarely serious and held my hand:
Wife, I don't want a son, I want a daughter, I just want one, like yours
I was very moved, but I didn't appreciate it: Dagang, where did you copy this sentence from
Dagang is embarrassed: I watched it online, and I thought it was good at that time, so I remember it
I asked: Do you know who said it?
Dagang: Ah, there is still a source of this?
I sighed: This was what Mr. Qian Zhongshu told Mr. Yang Tao. Later, they gave birth to a daughter named Qian Yuan, who is also a talented woman.
Dagang's surprise: There is also this allusion, then we will be daughters and will be as talented as you
I shook my head: I just want her to be healthy, you don’t know, Qian Yuan walked in front of Qian Zhongshu and Yang Tao, I don’t want white-haired people to send black-haired people
Dagang was stunned, and could see that he wanted to suck his face with regret.
I smiled. Dagang was beside him, and the pain of contractions was not so obvious. I held his hand: Dagang, I don’t believe in these things. You are a science and engineering man, why do you care about this?
Dagang held my hands tightly: Well, no matter boys and girls, as long as they are healthy, it's good
What a nervous father, Dagang, who is always so steady at all times, was so panicked at this time. I smiled and asked him to take out the pen and paper from the prepared delivery bag, and began to look at the table to record my contraction frequency
Maybe it was my calmness that made Dagang completely calm and he was with me foolishly. Seven or eight hours passed, and the frequency of contractions I recorded had reached 1 and a half minutes each time. I asked Dagang to call the nurse. When the nurse came over, she said that the cervix was almost open and she quickly sent the delivery room. Dagang's face was pale immediately.
While pushing the cart, the nurse said very much that she had never seen a mother as quiet as me. She felt so painful that most people had already cried.
I forced a smile and thought to myself that if I cried, Dagang might be afraid of what he was like
After pushing the delivery room, I finally didn't have to pretend to be calm anymore. The severe pain I had never experienced before made me shout out.
The pain came so violently, but the delivery was unexpectedly smooth. Two hours later, my baby came out. It was a girl. I looked at the wrinkled villain and thought it was so ugly, but I liked it very much.
When I was pushed back to Dagang with my clean and wrapped baby, Dagang was so happy that he was dumbfounded. After I had enough of the baby, I called my parents-in-law and told me that he finally had a daughter and would not have children anymore.
I asked Dagang, did you think of the name for the baby? Dagang said he had thought about it, the boy's name was Zhuangzhuang and the daughter's name was Niu Niu
I laughed: What a rustic name
Dagang insisted: But it looked very healthy when I heard it. I knew he was stimulated by Qian Yuan's story, so I smiled and nodded and said yes
After the child was born, the elderly on both sides came to help take care of them. The elderly's doting on Niu Niu was completely something we had never thought of before.
Moreover, Dagang’s prediction is correct, the difference between the two generations’ parenting concepts is too big
My mother made a millet pillow and said that a hard pillow can make your head flat. I pushed it back hard and said that I just like a round-headed child.
My mother-in-law said she wanted to scrape the tongue coating on Niu Niu, so that it would be easy to get angry. Dagang said it was nonsense and also pushed back
Dagang and I were so wise in our previous decisions. We were both evil people in front of our mothers. It was really the best way to avoid conflicts.
Especially when Niu Niu was almost one year old, she had a child's rash and had a fever of 39 degrees. I insisted not to send her to the hospital. She stripped her naked and soaked her in a warm water basin to physically cool down. My mother-in-law was so scared that her face turned pale. Da Gang pushed her back to her bedroom and told her not to look at it. She told her that this is the most scientific method in modern times, and he decided to do it.
After getting my mother-in-law done, Da Gang came back and asked me quietly: Do you really need to go to the hospital? I feel a little guilty: Anyway, I say that online, why don’t you observe it for a day, and if you can’t do it, you will go to the hospital? Then, Niu Niu did not worsen the next day, and her rash on the third day, and the fever subsided.
My mother-in-law said she was almost scared, and Dagang and I also quietly breathed a sigh of relief.
When I just gave birth to Niu Niu, I smelled it and didn't see me, because while I gave birth, she went to Hong Kong to prepare for a second child. When she returned from Hong Kong with her full-month-old second son Taotao, Niu Niu had been around for a hundred days.
I took a taxi to see Yinyin. I smelled it and was bored. Kang Kang was temporarily put on the aunt's side. Xiaoxian only took care of the young ones. The baby who was full-month-old was very troubled and had to eat it once in an hour. I was very envious when Taotao swallowed with big mouthfuls and said to Yinyin: Big breasts are good. Not only does it feel good, but it also has enough milk, and it is easy to suck.
Smell the strange question: Isn’t you enough to eat?
I feel a little depressed: The information I checked, the amount of milk has nothing to do with the size of my breasts, but mine is just not enough to eat. I have to add milk powder every day, and it is very difficult to suck it out. Niu Niu cried every time she was so tired that she cried.
It was strange to smell. She always thought that all mothers were the same. She put Taotao who had eaten and fell asleep on the bed. Yinyin reached out and carried Niu Niu over and asked me: Do you want me to try feeding Niu Niu? Are you not afraid that she will become stupid when drinking my milk?
I laughed: I eat pork every day, but I haven't become stupid either
Smelling and reaching out to hit me, then really unhappy and let Niu Niu drink her breasts on the other side. Niu Niu Niu is really gone, she picks up her eyes and sucks it directly. She drinks so pleasantly. Didn’t you notice the smell at all?
Niu Niu eats so deliciously that I can't stand it anymore, so I took her back to my arms and continued to eat. The little bastard actually sucked two bites and spit it out, then cried and punched and kicked
I was very happy to smell it and took it back, and said to me with a smile: I just happened to be a little bloated, so let Niu Niu drink more
I looked at the two drinks and immediately burst into tears to laugh. I opened my eyes and was so happy. I was really speechless.
Before leaving, I smelled and told me that I would come often. She couldn't finish her milk and just feed Niu Niu. She saved her fear of swelling and would squeeze it out every night.
Anyway, it was very close, only two streets away. Later, when I had time at night, I would hold Niu Niu and look for free for food. Maybe I often feed Niu Niu, smell her motherly nature, and not telling her to accept her goddaughter, she insisted that I betrothed Niu Niu to Kang Kang of his family.
I asked Dagang what to do, but Dagang looked indifferent: I decided to do this when Niu Niu grows up. If you want to match it, just let them get in touch with each other. The genes in the smudge the stone should not be bad.
Then until now, Yin Wen often brought Kang Kang to play with Niu Niu. Perhaps it has something to do with the milk that I smelled. Niu Niu and Yin Wen are very close to Yin Wen.
Time flies, and it is the autumn of 2014. Dagang, smell it, the stone is still the same, but my changes are a bit big
I suddenly became a workaholic like Xing Lu. Because with Niu Niu, I suddenly realized the importance of money.
I couldn't help but buy Niuniu's milk powder, diapers, and complementary food for her, and bought all imported ones. Then I always thought, if I earn more money, she will be calm in the future, Niuniu is also very successful. She has never been to the hospital because of illness since she was born. She is healthy as we wish.
In the extracurricular classes run by the actual school, my reputation is already very good. The class fee for a regular class has increased to 100 yuan, and the class fee for a college entrance examination sprint class during winter and summer vacation has increased to 150 yuan. I usually teach classes on Mondays, Wednesdays and Friday nights and Saturdays and half a day on Sundays. My overall monthly income has exceeded 10,000 yuan.
I calculated that day. In 2014, the average monthly income was 14,000 yuan, which scared me.
Of course, the price is also very high. The comics have been completely given up, so don’t think about baking. Writing will only start writing when there is a special impulse and passion.
I finally realized Xing Lu's mood back then. It turned out that at that time, I was really too young
It turns out that people will really involuntarily squeeze themselves. They are for their ideals, and I am for Niu Niu... Alas, children will really completely change a woman.
Dagang took the initiative to take over all the housework, which relieved me a lot of burden.
But even so, this year is too hard. I work seven days a week and I work overtime from morning to night most of the time. Sometimes I get tired when I come back and almost can't stand it. But every time I get home, Niu Niu rushed over and hugged me and called my mother. Then, when I see Niu Niu smiling innocently, I feel that everything is worth it.
While I was constantly staying up late to prepare lessons, I fell in love with drinking coffee and only drank pure coffee. Da Gang bought an Electrolux coffee maker and grind the beans and cooked a cup of it when I stayed up late.
It turns out that life is really like a cup of American coffee, very bitter and astringent, but the mellow fragrance makes me enjoy and linger. Niu Niu's smile and Dagang's arms are the mellow fragrance in the coffee.
Dagang felt sorry for me and always advised me not to work so hard, but I kept gritting my teeth and persevering, but I shouldn't need to be so nervous in the future
Because of this summer vacation, we finally saved enough money. Before Niu Niu went to elementary school, we bought a big house near the best elementary school and moved our household registration there.
My parents-in-law sponsored some more, and the new house has started to be renovated
Dagang did not hire a decoration company at all, and he was responsible for the decoration design and supervision. He divided the decoration into wall paint, ceiling, tiles, wooden floors, water and electricity network renovation, waterproofing, etc., and he had to participate in it.
Every time he picks up the impact drill, I seem to see the excitement in his eyes. What a strange science and engineering man.
As for Xing Lu, he is still a friend, but he does have fewer contacts.
Then, on this day, I saw an update from his WeChat Moments:
Sang Ruoying, Xing Lu has experienced eight years of ups and downs in love, and officially got married yesterday. It was initially scheduled to prepare a brief seat on September ×x. The ceremony for entertaining relatives and friends will be simple. No unanimous invitations are allowed. Participants please leave a private message. Please leave a message for everyone to dress casually. Do not bring red envelopes Sang Ruoying, Xing Lu is here.
8 years?
Did Xing Lu meet this girl in 2006?
In other words, he had a new love about a year after we broke up!
No wonder I asked him in 2008 if he wanted to go to Beijing to take care of him. He said at first that he wouldn't let me go, but it turned out that there was someone else in his heart at that time!
Although I am more fortunate that the hot-headed behavior did not happen in the end, I still feel uncomfortable
Moreover, the girl in the photo is not as beautiful as me in any way. At that time, she actually rejected me because of her. This is too hurtful for her!
I angrily sent a WeChat message: Xing Lu, you are on two boats!
Xing Lu should have understood what I mean immediately, and the news came back soon: Absolutely, she and I were together in 2010 and said that we had a relationship for 8 years because we met in 2006. She confessed but I refused, and then I went to Beijing. In 2010, she also went to Beijing, and we were together.
Oh, that's it, I'll go back: You're really experienced in refusing to confess your love
Then I remembered that I wanted to go to Beijing to find him in 2008. He was a little upset when he refused at the beginning and continued to ask: If she and I were looking for you in 2010, who would you choose?
Xing Lu obviously hesitated for a long time, and then replied: I will choose you
Why
First, I have made a promise to you, I have promised you, when you go to Beijing, I marry you, Xing Lu started the logical analysis he is best at again, he still remembers that promise, I am very happy
Second, she is 11 years younger than me, and the age gap is too big. She should actually find someone who is more suitable for her than me.
Ah, so much difference? What should you do if you can't satisfy her in the future? Your health is not good
Xing Lu gave a crying expression: Sometimes I can’t bear it anymore...
I lay on the table and laughed for a while before starting to comfort Xing Lu: Don't worry, when there is a child, she will not have the intention. Then I remembered that Dagang and I have not been intimate for a long time. Niu Niu never sleeps in the small bed. She insists on sleeping between me and Dagang, and she has to rest her head on me and sleep with his feet. Dagang and I have a little abnormal movement and she is about to wake up and cry.
Xing Lu continued: There is another most important reason. You have quit your job in Beijing for 10 years. How dare I not let you go without me? She will develop better in Beijing, but without my care, I am afraid you will starve to death in Beijing.
Dizzy, this is too toxic. I'm almost half of what I earn when I first met you, a lot!
However, what makes sense... The biggest reason for my high income is that I have played my only advantage in this special industry in this special place. If I really throw me into Beijing, I might really starve to death.
I continued to ask: If you only consider feelings, who would you choose?
This time Xing Lu didn't hesitate at all: I will choose her
I asked: Why? I still can't figure it out. The girl just looks quite awesome, but she can't be considered pretty. She looks much worse than me
I looked at the photo again, and her breasts were not big, so why did Xing Lu choose her?
Xing Lu said: She used to be very inferior in front of me. She met me when she graduated from high school and went to Shenzhen. After I left, she went to Beijing to find me and love each other equally. After four years of self-abuse, she completed college and undergraduate degree from high school within three years. At the same time, she became an expert in financial final accounts. In the fourth year, she was admitted to a very valuable certification in the financial industry, and then jumped to Beijing. I couldn't let her down.
Well, okay, I admit defeat, I can't do this even if I beat you to death. I used to think Xinglu was far away from me, but now I feel that this girl is far away from me. I am very glad that I didn't go to Beijing in 2008. There are such freaks around me. Faced with competition from this type of people every day, I will be exhausted by them if I don't starve to death.
Xing Lu continued: I chose her because she and I are the same as her, but you are not yet a certified test every year and are still taking the exam without stopping every day. Well, okay, I like to take Niu Niu and Dagang for a walk in the community, Dagang and I are the same as him
It sounds like he is better than you? I don’t understand Xing Lu. His first girlfriend is much better than him. Now he is looking for someone so strong. Does he tend to be abused?
He is better than me. Tsinghua MBA is willing to drop out of school. Now he is more income than me. I have no status at home...
I laughed, feeling a little gloating. I originally wanted to go to Chengdu to attend the wedding and see what that girl looks like. Now I don't need it anymore. She should have no common language with me.
I smiled and said: It's great, it's really more suitable for you than me. I wish you peace and happiness, long-lasting old age, and a precious child early
Huihui, she already has it, we both want girls...
Oh, congratulations, I'm very happy, saying that you look like a dad, it's really harmonious
I'm the face of Father Zhang, right? More than one person said that
I won’t go to the wedding anymore, so I will save you some trouble. If you choose to get married on Monday, don’t you want others to go there, right?
Well, neither of us wants to do it, the old man on both sides doesn't do it, so he has to be so perfunctory
I laughed again. These two people are really a couple. Even the wedding is troublesome. It is really not easy to get together.
I continued to ask: The wedding photos are finished, please send a few photos of the bride come and take a look
Xing Lu: We didn't take photos if we were troublesome. If you have the chance in the future, you might take photos in the season when there is a sea of flowers by Lake Karakuri
Well, I was impressed by these two weirdos and I was going to get married without taking wedding photos...
I said: I'm going to cook for Niu Niu, and I'll talk back and forth
OK, see you back
Wait, Xing Lu, you said she met you after graduating from high school. She was only eighteen or nineteen years old at that time. You can do it, you are really a beast!
I didn't! We were together for 10 years, and she was 23 at that time
OK, 88 I turned off WeChat as if I ran away, because I remembered that when I took the initiative to sleep with Xing Lu, I was just 21 years old. This topic cannot be extended.
In the evening, Xing Lu sent another message saying that he wanted to write his story with Sang Ruoying into a novel, and asked me to moisten it.
I said yes, I will leave the color to me to write, so that the person who reads will be full of blood
Xing Lu laughed and said OK
Then I said, then I will write down my story with you, please send it for me, Xing Lu said it well
I picked up my cell phone and gave my brother-in-law a call, and I guess he would definitely go to the wedding and wanted to buy a gift to ask him to bring it to Xing Lu.
Unexpectedly, my sister and brother-in-law have already gone to Chengdu, so I had to forget it
My brother-in-law was a little worried on the phone and asked me if it was okay, I said it was okay
I told my brother-in-law that Xing Lu said that the girl had a strong personality and had a good work attitude and lifestyle with him. This is indeed rare.
Brother-in-law is very disdainful: Just listen to him, there are not so many reasons, because Ying'er looks almost exactly the same as his girlfriend in college, otherwise he wouldn't care so much.
Oh, I feel even more relieved. There is also Pan Ying's factor, so I can't compare it to it.
My brother-in-law was a little dissatisfied: However, Ruoying is indeed very good, almost my best employee. I worked hard for four years, but as soon as my wings were hard, I was hooked to Beijing by Xing Lu. This time I had to settle the account with him.
I laughed out loud. It turned out that she was in Guangzhou for four years and was also in her brother-in-law's company. Her brother-in-law really specializes in raising Xinglu's girlfriend.
I asked with a smile: Did you do odd jobs at the beginning, and then you had a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, five insurances and one fund?
Brother-in-law laughed, and then my sister answered the phone. My sister was careful and obviously worried that I was unhappy: Huihui, don't be too worried. At that time, we still thought that you and Xing Lu would be more suitable. Xing Lu only had feelings for you. Ruoying was too young at that time. She was only eighteen or nineteen years old at that time. We didn't take it seriously. She thought it was a child's play, but because she looked like Pan Ying, we kept her as a little sister to take care of her. But unexpectedly, the child was so stubborn. Four years later, he ran over to find Xing Lu, and it turned out to be a real person.
I smiled and said: That's really a good thing, Xing Lu needs to be controlled by such a tough girl
I hung up the phone and smiled slightly. Very good, Xing Lu, I finally don’t have to feel guilty about not going to Beijing to share the hardships with you. You met a girl who is really suitable for you. I wish you a blessing.
There was no class on Sunday afternoon, Yin Wen asked me to go shopping again. Da Gang had something to do and worked overtime, so I threw him and Niu Niu at home and went to have sex with her, but I couldn't. After Yin Wen's second son was born, all her interests turned into shopping in the maternal and child shop. She was a completely sloppy housewife. She couldn't see the glittering little goblin 10 years ago.
But this time, I took her to the gold shop for a long time, and finally selected a pair of clear heart-shaped crystals, and wanted to send them to Xing Lu for a while
While eating, I listened to smelling JīJīgugu teaching me the experience of raising children as a person who has experienced it. I couldn't help but feel funny. I smelled ignorant and unspirited, and it has really changed my appearance on the children. I'm afraid the parenting books at home can open a library. It's really a waste if such a woman doesn't become a kindergarten teacher.
I ignored her, opened the jewelry box, wrote a congratulations on the small card I gave: Forever, don’t get dusty, then took out a note and started drawing a pair of villains who were very intimate and sweet.
He smelled and asked me with a smile: Is it old husband and wife? Are you still playing with this?
I smiled and said to her: Xing Lu is going to get married. Next Monday, I will be in Chengdu. Then I wrote Xing Lu on a villain, Sang Ruoying on another villain, and finally wrote a sentence below: Like a shadow, follow the scene.
Smelling the look of suddenly being choked by the things in his mouth, staring at me with wide eyes, and said worriedly: Huihui?
I glared at her: What are you doing?
Smell and hold my hand: Huihui, you must not seek a short opinion of yourself. Niu Niu is so obedient, you can't have no mother since childhood
I knocked her off her hand: What are you thinking? I just thought that he is 38 years old this year and is only married now. I feel a little distressed. Then I was shocked. It turns out that I have known him for ten years.
Smelling and looking at me with a worried look
I said to her helplessly: Don't worry, I've let you go. Dagang goes to and from get off work on time every day, and eats together every night. When I don't go to extracurricular classes to give lectures, we take Niu Niu for a walk in the community after dinner. After Niu Niu fell asleep, we read books. I like this ordinary and quiet life. Do you think these Xinglu can give me these Xinglu? Xinglu and I are not the same person. I read thousands of books. He travels thousands of miles away. He will experience wind and rain next to him, and will see more scenery. But I don't like it. I just like to read different books quietly in the same place every day. Huang Wei said that his fiancée is also a flying man in the air, and a fanatical hiker. He is quite compatible with him. I hope they are happy.
I can’t believe it: You like him so much back then, and you just let it go?
I shook my head: Xing Lu is indeed very good and worthy of love, but it is indeed not suitable for me. If I met him now, I would not fall in love with him back then. I was too young. Xing Lu brought me a completely fresh world, brought me vision and material satisfaction, made me obsessed with it, and also made me ignore the inappropriate side of me and him. Now, after experiencing some things, I know that it is meaningless. Economics, Dagang and I, including the money I taught in cram school, are 20,000 yuan in total, and will continue to grow. After all, I am now a gold medal teacher in the college entrance examination sprint class. We now eat whatever we want and play wherever we want. Unlike in college, Xing Lu bought me a 2,000 yuan mobile phone. I would be so happy that I can't sleep at night. Rationally analyze, Xing Lu is indeed not as tempting as before.
I smell it very disdainful: Tell me, go wherever I want to go, and where else have you gone besides taking Niu Niu to the amusement park? You two occupants, have you left Huizhou in the past few years?
I was so guilty that I didn't say anything. I was very dissatisfied with me. Shi Chu bought her a SUV. She always wanted to pull me and Dagang out for fun, but pulling us was fake. It was real to let Kang Kang play with Niu Niu. She always dreamed of being Niu Niu's mother-in-law.
But Dagang and I haven't been there once. We both thought it was too tiring to ride a car for two hours and wasting time. It would be better to read to Niu Niu at home.
Wenyin continued to say to me: Huihui, according to your calculations, your income is more than twice that of Dagang. Don’t dislike Dagang, Dagang is really suitable for you.
I said: Don't worry, I didn't dislike him when I was short of money. Now I don't lack money, so I will definitely cherish him more
Even though I say that, I feel a little guilty
When I earned less than Dagang, I could act coquettishly and let him be a cow or a horse. Now that I earned more, I dare not do it anymore
He originally felt that he was not as good as Xing Lu, but now he felt that he was not even as good as me. How to take care of his self-esteem is really a headache.
Another more important problem is the hidden danger that has been laid since we got married
When Dagang and I got married, my income was lower than that of him. Dagang took the initiative to submit his salary card, but I didn't get it. I just agreed that Dagang was responsible for repaying the mortgage, gas, water and electricity and other basic living expenses. My income was used to do some romance and other small romance to improve the quality of life
I originally wanted to make Dagang feel proud of the pillars of the family. No matter what, I never expected that after my reputation as an extracurricular class, my income would grow so quickly, but Dagang's income has not changed much in recent years.
The new house we bought with a mortgage some time ago, the 180 square meters building, the down payment was basically the money I had on my card. Dagang's provident fund mortgaged the 80 square meters house, so I also used my loan for the new house. Dagang was hit hard by this matter.
I am now determined to collect Dagang's salary card, so that he can't understand the difference in income, and he is afraid that he will even think more about it. The big men in this society are really annoyed.
She didn't notice that I was absent-minded, and she was obviously a little worried: Huihui, do you know how eye-catching you are now? I am like your nanny with you. You are better-looking than before. There will definitely be someone chasing you. Don't change your mind anymore.
I smelled that my figure changed a lot in the past two years, but I have never gained weight. As my taste of dressing improves, I am indeed more elegant than before.
Once, my sister and brother-in-law came to Huizhou. Dagang and I invited them to dinner. My sister and I didn't look much different, but Dagang obviously felt pressure in front of my brother-in-law. He came back and said strangely: When you were with Xing Lu, you looked as compatible as them. I heard that I was so angry that I was about to vomit blood.
Do you want to have another one?
The country has already let go of the second child of a child. You can feel completely relieved if you have another Dagang. You can just put Niu Niu in my grandmother’s house to sleep. Dagang and I haven’t been intimate for a long time.
However, it is probably difficult. Dagang spoils Niu Niu without principles. As long as Niu Niu cries, Dagang will definitely surrender unconditionally.
I said to Yinyin helplessly: If I change my mind, I will betroth Niu Niu to Kang Kang. So you can rest assured
Smell the feeling of finally letting go, and then add unwillingly: If you really can't think about it, remember to adopt Niu Niu to me in advance, and I promise to treat her like my daughter.
I said helplessly: I know, then when I develop it, don’t worry about being a wife for Kang Kang. I won’t give you this opportunity.
Yinyin looked a little disappointed, but when his eyes turned, he seemed to have a new idea: Hey, should we go to Chengdu to make trouble for Xing Road? I'll buy a bunch of hair. During his wedding, you walked up to him, put your hair in his hand and cried a few times, turned around and left without saying anything. Would he feel guilty?
I laughed out loud and said: I won't go, and it's useless to go. He has my WeChat, I'm a crazy baby showman. He must have seen that I have short hair now and you and Huang Wei are really bad friends. The ideas they came up with are worse than the other ones.
Yin Wen asked curiously: Did Huang Wei also come up with a bad idea?
I smiled and said: He asked me to take Niu Niu over, and asked Niu Niu to hold Xing Lu's legs and call him dad
I couldn't help laughing, laughing in my heart, laughing in my heart, and I was overwhelmed with joy
The restaurant happened to be playing an unknown song from Feng Huáng legend. I heard the lyrics: Fate is like sand between my fingers, so I can't hold it and let it go. I thought to myself: It's really suitable.
I smiled and said to myself:
Xing Lu, don’t forget that there was a girl shed tears for you by the West Lake
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