Farewell to Xing Lu, I immediately posted a message of asking for my boyfriend in a friend's QQ group, and then told Wenwen that I was going to have a blind date and asked her to help me find a boyfriend.
I want to marry myself out when I think the most clearly and the firmest will. I am afraid that after a while, I will not be able to help but want to find Xinglu again.
Then, a month later, I met Dagang by chance
It was really a coincidence with Dagang. In the normal journey of life, we should have had no intersection and no chance to meet. The fate is indeed magical
After high school started, the instructor who was famous for his rigorous academic discipline in the school. After hearing that I started a blind date, I immediately rushed to the grade group office. I asked me dissatisfiedly why I agreed to the blind date and didn’t go to find her. Do I question her professional ability?
The director of the teaching director has always claimed to be the first matchmaker in the experimental school. Teaching is just her side job, and I am really dissatisfied with the fact that I ignore her.
I apologized to her with a smile, saying that I obeyed her arrangements in everything
As a result, the single man in love with the director, the day before the blind date, had always been known as his sister. When he heard that he was going to go on a blind date, he rushed over to confess his love, and then the male protagonist with a weak will let me go
I told Yin Wen about this on QQ. Yin Wen was dizzy and said: Why do you even intercept blind dates?
The director felt that this was the biggest shame of her first matchmaker in the actual school. She notified all relatives and friends overnight to collect resources for single men of appropriate age.
Then I really found one, but I just made a few moves. The information was so thick that it was negligible.
The specific age is unknown, the specific name is unknown, the specific job is unknown, I only know that I am less than 30 years old, and I am named Dagang, working in a certain school
I didn't want to see you anymore, but looking at the red bloodshot in the eyes of the director, I was really embarrassed to refuse, so I had to bite the bullet and go to the court with the mentality of going to the court.
The place where you eat is a cafe. First, the introducer got to know each other, and then each introduced the resources they brought.
Only then did I know that Dagang's real name is Yan Jigang, 28 years old, graduated from a graduate student at Guangzhou University, and worked as a teacher in the Department of Mechanical and Electrical Engineering of Huizhou Economic and Vocational College.
The two introducers didn't even drink saliva, so they made excuses to leave. I'm afraid they also think that the rabble in the middle of the night is not reliable.
I smiled at Dagang. Dagang was a little nervous and asked me what I could order?
I said it wasn't time to eat, I just wanted a cup of green tea.
When I stayed up late with Xing Lu, I developed the habit of drinking green tea. I don’t know when I can quit. I feel a little sad.
After ordering the drink, Dagang was still a little nervous. He hesitated for a moment and said: If you came here to perfunctory elders, you can just say, I don’t matter.
I smiled: Are you really perfunctory to your elders?
Dagang felt a little embarrassed: I was woken up by my mother's phone call at around 12 o'clock yesterday, asking me to come with my aunt today, before I came over, I would call my friend in advance to call me in half an hour, so I could find an excuse to leave
I was amused and told him naturally: I'm really dating
Dagang looked in disbelief: You are so beautiful and have a good job, how could you come out for a blind date?
I said lightly: I am not a virgin. When I said this, I looked at Dagang's eyes, but my eyes would not lie.
During the period when Xing Lu and I were together, our ability to observe words and expressions was improved to a very high level
I came back from Beijing for a blind date. My parents asked someone to introduce him. The other party was a doctor. I said my first time gave it to my ex-boyfriend. I saw something strange in his eyes, but his answer seemed to be perfect.
He asked me if I really loved him at that time. I said yes, and he said that it would be fine.
Then he said that he had had sex with two girls, but he promised that he had never found a prostitute, and hoped that I could accept it
That person looks very much like Xing Lu, very good at speaking and very graceful, but I always feel a little uncomfortable
During the fourth date, after watching the movie, it was past 11 o'clock in the evening. He suggested going to the bar to listen to music. I knew what he was thinking, so he politely refused.
Then he might also know that his mind was discovered and said that it was too late to go back to the dormitory at this time. He booked a room in a high-end hotel. Should he go and have a rest?
When I rejected him, even under the dim street lights, I could see the mockery in his eyes. I didn't say anything anymore and turned around and left
Back at school, I called downstairs of the staff dormitory and told him that we were not suitable and should not continue.
He asked why, and I said lightly that even if it was sold, I had the right to choose not to sell it, and then hung up the phone
Then, I understood why I like Xing Lu so much, but I don't like him
Because of the same thing, Xing Lu was struggling inside, but he was enjoying it.
The second time, it was introduced by a friend. When I met, I realized that his family was very good, and his conditions were much better than Xinglu, and he looked better than Xinglu.
I said I was not a virgin, he smiled naturally, he said it was okay, anyway, he came to the blind date and was just to show his family. In return for wasting my time, he invited me to a big meal.
Then, his reply to the introducer was that I was too short and not beautiful.
When I knew the answer, I laughed out loud. That person obviously likes men. When I left, I wanted to introduce him to Xing Lu...
I don’t know what it is to persevere to tell me about the fact that I am not a virgin every time. Maybe I really have a little thought. When I couldn’t find my boyfriend at all, I had to go to Beijing to find Xinglu?
And this time, I looked at Dagang's eyes quietly, but I didn't understand Dagang's expression
However, Dagang gave me a little awkward answer: I'm still a virgin
Even though I thought I was strong enough to not be hurt anymore, I was still hurt, and I said lightly: Fortunately, I only ordered a cup of tea
But Dagang waved his hand nervously: Sorry, sorry, I misunderstood that I didn't mean that
Oh, then what do you mean? I looked at him strangely, thinking to myself what else can you mean
Dagang's awkward explanation: I was just a little nervous just now, and then I felt that you talked about your situation, so I followed the topic and found out that something was wrong. I really didn't mean it.
Well, then what are your real thoughts? I saw that Dagang was a very sincere person, so I asked him seriously
Then Dagang's answer surprised me: I have no idea, no one cares about this now, and if you are a virgin, I will not have any chance
Well? Why? I really don't understand Dagang's logic this time
My own conditions are average, and my parents are not very rich. You are such a beautiful girl and young. If you are still a virgin, you must have never experienced real setbacks. Your expectations for life will definitely be very high. It is impossible to find me like this.
What a rigorous logical thinking. I remember that he is a teacher in the university's mechanical and electrical department. Is it like this for students who graduated from science and engineering? I feel a little depressed
But I agree with him: Yes, only after experiencing some things can you know what kind of life is more suitable for you
Da Gang laughed rare: Actually, I don’t want to be a virgin, I can’t find a girlfriend
I was a little surprised: No, your conditions are not bad at all? That's true. Dagang is good-looking and looks over 175 years old. He is considered tall among Guangdong people. He is also a popular job. His income is not particularly high, but he is very stable. He is a typical high-quality, economical and affordable man.
Dagang felt a little embarrassed: Because I'm a bit home...
Thinking of the boys in college who stayed in the dormitory every day, I seemed to understand a little: Do you like playing games?
Dagang shook his head: I like reading books
Oh, it's a rare kind of person. I'm very interested in asking: I also like to read quietly. Which major aspects of books do you mainly read?
Dagang said: Technical
OK, Dagang, you are my nemesis. In less than 20 sentences, you choked me three times
Is there anything else? I didn't give up
Science fiction
Four episodes
Is there anything else? I haven't given up yet
Sometimes I also watch some martial arts
Five episodes
I asked another question: Do you usually watch football?
Dagang's eyes lit up: Look, you like to watch football and basketball
I sighed and said: Dagang, I'm very sure now. We really don't have any completely consistent points of interest
Dagang's face was a little disappointed, but he also looked very calm: I understand, it doesn't matter, I'm mentally prepared
I uttered softly
Da Gang took out his phone: Can you add a QQ? It doesn’t mean anything else. I just feel comfortable chatting with you today. I hope to be an ordinary friend.
I looked at him, read his openness and smiled slightly: Do you think we want to try to cultivate common interests and hobbies?
Dagang immediately looked unconcealed and surprised. I was also a little infected and happy. Then he asked again: No, you are a university teacher, it is easy to deal with female students. How could you be single?
Dagang didn't hear that I was teasing him, and explained to me very seriously: Although we are called the School of Mechanical and Electrical Information, we actually learn CNC machine tools.
After saying that, I spread my hands and looked like you understand. I laughed loudly
Then, we started a very relaxed chat.
Half an hour later, Dagang's friend called, and I looked at him with a crooked smile, and he hung up the phone with a smile
Then, half a year later, I proposed to Dagang
Yes, I proposed to Dagang because this science and engineering man's grasp of the emotional standards is really weak
Yes, I took the initiative to go to bed for the first time. I have been making fun of this for a long time
However, I don't care, because Dagang is a very good man, really good, very suitable for me, I'm really lucky to know him
He is much smarter than me, yes, much smarter, okay, science and engineering students are just smarter than liberal arts students, I admit it
He knew a lot. His so-called technical books did not refer to his mechanical and electrical courses, but all natural science books, so he is truly a well-read book... I don't count it at all...
He didn't tell the truth when he was on a blind date with me. He actually likes to play games, but he doesn't play computer games, but some very alternative things, such as various intellectual assembling toys, and he played Lego all the time. I took a few hundred pieces of his assembled car. The manual was so troublesome. I gave up after playing dozens of pieces. He was able to make his own creativity.
He bought a lot of parts, drew drawings, spelled out Transformers and the like, and then sold them for money, and then continued to buy various parts, but he still had a slight surplus.
I watched him on the workbench, putting each color and type of plug-in program in different storage boxes. The fine parts slowly appeared in various shapes in his hands. It was amazing.
Then, he also liked to play Go. He went to school to find a chess friend. After meeting me, he played with me. Under his guidance, I made rapid progress. After a month, he asked me to have 25 pieces, but he could not play me.
I saw something completely different from Xing Lu in Dagang. Xing Lu is very purposeful in doing things. He will never touch things like assembled games, Go, baking and painting that take up time and cannot bring economic benefits and personal ability improvement. Everything he does seems to be for success in his career. He does not tolerate himself wasting any time. Even when watching the news, he is thinking about what topics can bring common to customers.
In the past, I always admired and looked up to Xing Lu's style. Until I met Dagang, I realized that life can be so casual. These time-wasting hobbies are the joy of life.
It's strange. Xing Lu's family from an official family is so desperate and persistent. Dagang's family is just an ordinary scholarly family, but it's so unmotivated. It doesn't matter. I like this.
Well, of course, I am the one who has the worst family background but the least motivated one. However, I am a girl, so I forgive myself
Dagang seemed to be proficient in all mechanical and electrical things, and seemed to have clear principles for anything, and there was almost nothing he could not repair.
From the black screen of the laptop when I met him, the unstable dormitory voltage to the water circuit in the room after marriage, the network cable, the installation of chandeliers, the hanging of LCD TVs, the hanging projectors and so on, he did it all
Then, perhaps it is the common characteristic of otaku. Dagang has a gentle personality, which is completely the legendary type that is easy to manage with more money and less money.
He seemed too lazy to object to any of my proposals. Yes, he was really too lazy to object to it. He was the kind of person who could give me basic living security and discuss the rest of the matter as long as I could provide basic living security.
Once, after reading a post from the programmer syndrome, I smiled and said to Dagang: You look like them, and those who don’t know think you are also a programmer?
He answered very seriously: I was it, CNC machine tools are designed for programming, and then, our conversation was choked by him and could not continue.
Finally, our biggest common point is that we like reading books
I like riding a bicycle with him to the library to borrow books on weekends. This is an ideal that I have had since college. In the Internet era, this seems to have become a very perverted thing. I absolutely can't figure out the scene where Xing Lu drove Audi to take me to the city map to read books. On the time of National Tu, Xing Lu said he was reading books, but in fact he was just reading me.
But Dagang knows it, and he really enjoys it. He smells the weirdness of us, and he probably counts it out with his fingers. It's really rare that he can get together.
Yin Wen likes Dagang very much because when she pulled me shopping, the outline would follow us without complaints and help us carry paper bags. She would also sincerely praise Yin Wen's pastry delicious
I didn't hide it from Dagang before and smell it, and there was something wrong with Xing Lu from him.
When we met for more than two months, I told him the story of Xing Lu in a complete manner.
That day, when I went to Dagang's house, I brought a box of newly made cookies.
After returning from Beijing, my heart became calmer and calmer, and I was more in a mood to do something that Xing Lu thought was meaningless, but I liked, drawing sketches, writing blogs, and doing baking. This is the literary youth style he disdains.
This semester, my Chinese classes are mostly arranged in the first and second sessions of the morning. I always like to make some biscuits to bring them to class to fill the stomachs of the students who didn’t have time to have breakfast. Later, many cheeky and greedy girls deliberately ignored breakfast and waited for snacks during class.
Dagang naturally unscrewed the lid, threw a piece into his mouth, and praised it while chewing: Not bad, very crispy, I burst out laughing.
Some aspects of this person seem to Xing Lu, even his evaluation of biscuits is exactly the same as that of Xing Lu.
Dagang was a little surprised: Why are you laughing at?
I looked at Dagang, thought about it, and quietly said to him: Let me tell you the story of my ex-boyfriend.
I calmly started with Su Su, telling about our short lace relationship, telling about her abandoned me after she became pregnant, telling about meeting Xing Lu online, telling about me playing a very disgraceful role to help him get projects, telling about the pitiful smell, the wise stone desk, the worldly President Qi, telling about the short madness between Xing Lu and me in the second semester of my senior year, telling about Xing Lu and I being two types of people after all. We finally said goodbye at the Beijing Airport, and then we went our own lives
After hearing this, Da Gang was obviously a little disappointed. I thought he was jealous. I didn't say anything, but just looked at him quietly. At this time, it was me who was nervous. I already cared about him very much.
After half a day, Da Gang shook his head: Huihui, I really can't deserve you
I looked at him and waited for him to continue talking. I have become accustomed to his way of speaking these days.
Xing Lu and Shi Chu talked until the end, you can understand the rest yourself, while Dagang is completely different. He said he was a virgin, but he was really just saying he was a virgin. He said he was not worthy of me, but he was really just saying that he was not worthy of me, and it was not necessarily a reason to break up. He rarely had implied words, but he could understand all my implied words. He really didn't understand what the brain structure of science and engineering students is like.
Dagang sorted it out and continued: People like Xing Lu are the ones who should be with you. A girl like you should have a more exciting life.
I asked speechlessly: Do you think his life is wonderful?
Dagang nodded: Yes, I need his ability and courage. I will also go out and explore. I know that I have a lot of abilities and a strong personality. But I also want a sky like him and want to realize my life value.
I said: Every man has a dream of making a big fuss in his heart?
Dagang said yes
Then, I said: It turns out that your sense of loss is because you feel that your ideal cannot be realized.
Dagang nodded and said: I thought it was because my first love was not you
Dagang immediately looked for a supplement: Of course, half of it is because I am jealous
Well, you reacted quickly, I finally felt a little more comfortable, and then I felt so bored, a bit like those hopeless women in Korean dramas
Dagang was still thinking about his worries, I was too lazy to pay attention to him, so I snuggled up on the sofa to read the book
Dagang suddenly spoke: Huihui, if Xing Lu changes his mind and comes to you, you can follow him
OK, Dagang, I'm defeated by you again
I stood up helplessly. It is not easy for a stubborn person like Dagang to convince him: Dagang, if you and Xing Lu are standing in front of me and ask me to choose, I said I will choose you, do you believe me
Dagang said: Don't believe it
I couldn't help but kick him and said to him: Life like Xing Lu is the life you want to live, not the life I want to live, I want to live the life I want to live like now
I like to go to the library to read books, I don’t like to go to KTV to sing and drink
I like to cook and wash dishes at home. I like to buy whatever I want. If you don’t make it delicious, you can eat it. I don’t like all kinds of banquets outside.
I like to clean up my room, I don't like to stay in a five-star hotel where many people have slept in.
I like to take walks in school, I like to teach students, I don’t like to go to any business occasion with Xinglu, I really don’t like it!
I'm really an ordinary girl, a little stupid and lazy, a little dislike to use my brain. Don't think I'm pretty and should live a life like what kind of life
I paused and continued:
Moreover, I know that you also like your current life. What you call yearning is just that you are simply unwilling to give up, or that is, you feel guilty when you live the life you like.
Dagang suddenly realized that he was indeed such an expression, nodding hard to express his agreement, and I was a little crying: Do you know that yours is seriously brainwashed by traditional values and is one of the most typical cases of education failure in the past twenty years
Dagang scratched his head: Yes, I almost forgot, you graduated from a normal school, this is your profession
I comforted Dagang: You can do a lot of things, but Xing Lu won’t. At that time, any problems occurred in his house and he would only spend money to find the property, and you would solve everything yourself
Dagang shook his head: Xing Lu knows the ability to make money, I know, but the ability to save money is incomparable
I took Dagang's hand: It's incomparable. The road to making money is very hard. Just from the perspective of happiness in life, Xing Lu may not be able to compare with you.
At least, he doesn't have to buy such a house of more than 80 square meters. He also needs his parents to help with the down payment and pay the loan for 20 years. Dagang smiled bitterly and pointed at the living room that was cramped in size and said
If the two of them return together, it will not take 20 years. I looked at him calmly and said
Da seemed to be stunned, and then suddenly hugged me tightly in his arms. I closed my eyes happily. This idiot, it was the first time I hugged me. I don’t know how long it will take to go to the first base.
However, what neither of us expected was that we had not lived in this so-called cramped house for many years, so I exchanged my income and loan for a 180-square-meter building.
Just when I thought the topic of Xing Lu was successfully concluded, Dagang finally said: Huihui, and that's also, if Xing Lu comes again, let's treat him to a meal together, I don't mind
I said angrily: I mind, if you want to go, you can invite me, I won't go
Dagang, do you really think I can't guess what you are thinking?
The curiosity and curiosity of you science and engineering men are really much stronger than jealousy.
I want to marry myself out when I think the most clearly and the firmest will. I am afraid that after a while, I will not be able to help but want to find Xinglu again.
Then, a month later, I met Dagang by chance
It was really a coincidence with Dagang. In the normal journey of life, we should have had no intersection and no chance to meet. The fate is indeed magical
After high school started, the instructor who was famous for his rigorous academic discipline in the school. After hearing that I started a blind date, I immediately rushed to the grade group office. I asked me dissatisfiedly why I agreed to the blind date and didn’t go to find her. Do I question her professional ability?
The director of the teaching director has always claimed to be the first matchmaker in the experimental school. Teaching is just her side job, and I am really dissatisfied with the fact that I ignore her.
I apologized to her with a smile, saying that I obeyed her arrangements in everything
As a result, the single man in love with the director, the day before the blind date, had always been known as his sister. When he heard that he was going to go on a blind date, he rushed over to confess his love, and then the male protagonist with a weak will let me go
I told Yin Wen about this on QQ. Yin Wen was dizzy and said: Why do you even intercept blind dates?
The director felt that this was the biggest shame of her first matchmaker in the actual school. She notified all relatives and friends overnight to collect resources for single men of appropriate age.
Then I really found one, but I just made a few moves. The information was so thick that it was negligible.
The specific age is unknown, the specific name is unknown, the specific job is unknown, I only know that I am less than 30 years old, and I am named Dagang, working in a certain school
I didn't want to see you anymore, but looking at the red bloodshot in the eyes of the director, I was really embarrassed to refuse, so I had to bite the bullet and go to the court with the mentality of going to the court.
The place where you eat is a cafe. First, the introducer got to know each other, and then each introduced the resources they brought.
Only then did I know that Dagang's real name is Yan Jigang, 28 years old, graduated from a graduate student at Guangzhou University, and worked as a teacher in the Department of Mechanical and Electrical Engineering of Huizhou Economic and Vocational College.
The two introducers didn't even drink saliva, so they made excuses to leave. I'm afraid they also think that the rabble in the middle of the night is not reliable.
I smiled at Dagang. Dagang was a little nervous and asked me what I could order?
I said it wasn't time to eat, I just wanted a cup of green tea.
When I stayed up late with Xing Lu, I developed the habit of drinking green tea. I don’t know when I can quit. I feel a little sad.
After ordering the drink, Dagang was still a little nervous. He hesitated for a moment and said: If you came here to perfunctory elders, you can just say, I don’t matter.
I smiled: Are you really perfunctory to your elders?
Dagang felt a little embarrassed: I was woken up by my mother's phone call at around 12 o'clock yesterday, asking me to come with my aunt today, before I came over, I would call my friend in advance to call me in half an hour, so I could find an excuse to leave
I was amused and told him naturally: I'm really dating
Dagang looked in disbelief: You are so beautiful and have a good job, how could you come out for a blind date?
I said lightly: I am not a virgin. When I said this, I looked at Dagang's eyes, but my eyes would not lie.
During the period when Xing Lu and I were together, our ability to observe words and expressions was improved to a very high level
I came back from Beijing for a blind date. My parents asked someone to introduce him. The other party was a doctor. I said my first time gave it to my ex-boyfriend. I saw something strange in his eyes, but his answer seemed to be perfect.
He asked me if I really loved him at that time. I said yes, and he said that it would be fine.
Then he said that he had had sex with two girls, but he promised that he had never found a prostitute, and hoped that I could accept it
That person looks very much like Xing Lu, very good at speaking and very graceful, but I always feel a little uncomfortable
During the fourth date, after watching the movie, it was past 11 o'clock in the evening. He suggested going to the bar to listen to music. I knew what he was thinking, so he politely refused.
Then he might also know that his mind was discovered and said that it was too late to go back to the dormitory at this time. He booked a room in a high-end hotel. Should he go and have a rest?
When I rejected him, even under the dim street lights, I could see the mockery in his eyes. I didn't say anything anymore and turned around and left
Back at school, I called downstairs of the staff dormitory and told him that we were not suitable and should not continue.
He asked why, and I said lightly that even if it was sold, I had the right to choose not to sell it, and then hung up the phone
Then, I understood why I like Xing Lu so much, but I don't like him
Because of the same thing, Xing Lu was struggling inside, but he was enjoying it.
The second time, it was introduced by a friend. When I met, I realized that his family was very good, and his conditions were much better than Xinglu, and he looked better than Xinglu.
I said I was not a virgin, he smiled naturally, he said it was okay, anyway, he came to the blind date and was just to show his family. In return for wasting my time, he invited me to a big meal.
Then, his reply to the introducer was that I was too short and not beautiful.
When I knew the answer, I laughed out loud. That person obviously likes men. When I left, I wanted to introduce him to Xing Lu...
I don’t know what it is to persevere to tell me about the fact that I am not a virgin every time. Maybe I really have a little thought. When I couldn’t find my boyfriend at all, I had to go to Beijing to find Xinglu?
And this time, I looked at Dagang's eyes quietly, but I didn't understand Dagang's expression
However, Dagang gave me a little awkward answer: I'm still a virgin
Even though I thought I was strong enough to not be hurt anymore, I was still hurt, and I said lightly: Fortunately, I only ordered a cup of tea
But Dagang waved his hand nervously: Sorry, sorry, I misunderstood that I didn't mean that
Oh, then what do you mean? I looked at him strangely, thinking to myself what else can you mean
Dagang's awkward explanation: I was just a little nervous just now, and then I felt that you talked about your situation, so I followed the topic and found out that something was wrong. I really didn't mean it.
Well, then what are your real thoughts? I saw that Dagang was a very sincere person, so I asked him seriously
Then Dagang's answer surprised me: I have no idea, no one cares about this now, and if you are a virgin, I will not have any chance
Well? Why? I really don't understand Dagang's logic this time
My own conditions are average, and my parents are not very rich. You are such a beautiful girl and young. If you are still a virgin, you must have never experienced real setbacks. Your expectations for life will definitely be very high. It is impossible to find me like this.
What a rigorous logical thinking. I remember that he is a teacher in the university's mechanical and electrical department. Is it like this for students who graduated from science and engineering? I feel a little depressed
But I agree with him: Yes, only after experiencing some things can you know what kind of life is more suitable for you
Da Gang laughed rare: Actually, I don’t want to be a virgin, I can’t find a girlfriend
I was a little surprised: No, your conditions are not bad at all? That's true. Dagang is good-looking and looks over 175 years old. He is considered tall among Guangdong people. He is also a popular job. His income is not particularly high, but he is very stable. He is a typical high-quality, economical and affordable man.
Dagang felt a little embarrassed: Because I'm a bit home...
Thinking of the boys in college who stayed in the dormitory every day, I seemed to understand a little: Do you like playing games?
Dagang shook his head: I like reading books
Oh, it's a rare kind of person. I'm very interested in asking: I also like to read quietly. Which major aspects of books do you mainly read?
Dagang said: Technical
OK, Dagang, you are my nemesis. In less than 20 sentences, you choked me three times
Is there anything else? I didn't give up
Science fiction
Four episodes
Is there anything else? I haven't given up yet
Sometimes I also watch some martial arts
Five episodes
I asked another question: Do you usually watch football?
Dagang's eyes lit up: Look, you like to watch football and basketball
I sighed and said: Dagang, I'm very sure now. We really don't have any completely consistent points of interest
Dagang's face was a little disappointed, but he also looked very calm: I understand, it doesn't matter, I'm mentally prepared
I uttered softly
Da Gang took out his phone: Can you add a QQ? It doesn’t mean anything else. I just feel comfortable chatting with you today. I hope to be an ordinary friend.
I looked at him, read his openness and smiled slightly: Do you think we want to try to cultivate common interests and hobbies?
Dagang immediately looked unconcealed and surprised. I was also a little infected and happy. Then he asked again: No, you are a university teacher, it is easy to deal with female students. How could you be single?
Dagang didn't hear that I was teasing him, and explained to me very seriously: Although we are called the School of Mechanical and Electrical Information, we actually learn CNC machine tools.
After saying that, I spread my hands and looked like you understand. I laughed loudly
Then, we started a very relaxed chat.
Half an hour later, Dagang's friend called, and I looked at him with a crooked smile, and he hung up the phone with a smile
Then, half a year later, I proposed to Dagang
Yes, I proposed to Dagang because this science and engineering man's grasp of the emotional standards is really weak
Yes, I took the initiative to go to bed for the first time. I have been making fun of this for a long time
However, I don't care, because Dagang is a very good man, really good, very suitable for me, I'm really lucky to know him
He is much smarter than me, yes, much smarter, okay, science and engineering students are just smarter than liberal arts students, I admit it
He knew a lot. His so-called technical books did not refer to his mechanical and electrical courses, but all natural science books, so he is truly a well-read book... I don't count it at all...
He didn't tell the truth when he was on a blind date with me. He actually likes to play games, but he doesn't play computer games, but some very alternative things, such as various intellectual assembling toys, and he played Lego all the time. I took a few hundred pieces of his assembled car. The manual was so troublesome. I gave up after playing dozens of pieces. He was able to make his own creativity.
He bought a lot of parts, drew drawings, spelled out Transformers and the like, and then sold them for money, and then continued to buy various parts, but he still had a slight surplus.
I watched him on the workbench, putting each color and type of plug-in program in different storage boxes. The fine parts slowly appeared in various shapes in his hands. It was amazing.
Then, he also liked to play Go. He went to school to find a chess friend. After meeting me, he played with me. Under his guidance, I made rapid progress. After a month, he asked me to have 25 pieces, but he could not play me.
I saw something completely different from Xing Lu in Dagang. Xing Lu is very purposeful in doing things. He will never touch things like assembled games, Go, baking and painting that take up time and cannot bring economic benefits and personal ability improvement. Everything he does seems to be for success in his career. He does not tolerate himself wasting any time. Even when watching the news, he is thinking about what topics can bring common to customers.
In the past, I always admired and looked up to Xing Lu's style. Until I met Dagang, I realized that life can be so casual. These time-wasting hobbies are the joy of life.
It's strange. Xing Lu's family from an official family is so desperate and persistent. Dagang's family is just an ordinary scholarly family, but it's so unmotivated. It doesn't matter. I like this.
Well, of course, I am the one who has the worst family background but the least motivated one. However, I am a girl, so I forgive myself
Dagang seemed to be proficient in all mechanical and electrical things, and seemed to have clear principles for anything, and there was almost nothing he could not repair.
From the black screen of the laptop when I met him, the unstable dormitory voltage to the water circuit in the room after marriage, the network cable, the installation of chandeliers, the hanging of LCD TVs, the hanging projectors and so on, he did it all
Then, perhaps it is the common characteristic of otaku. Dagang has a gentle personality, which is completely the legendary type that is easy to manage with more money and less money.
He seemed too lazy to object to any of my proposals. Yes, he was really too lazy to object to it. He was the kind of person who could give me basic living security and discuss the rest of the matter as long as I could provide basic living security.
Once, after reading a post from the programmer syndrome, I smiled and said to Dagang: You look like them, and those who don’t know think you are also a programmer?
He answered very seriously: I was it, CNC machine tools are designed for programming, and then, our conversation was choked by him and could not continue.
Finally, our biggest common point is that we like reading books
I like riding a bicycle with him to the library to borrow books on weekends. This is an ideal that I have had since college. In the Internet era, this seems to have become a very perverted thing. I absolutely can't figure out the scene where Xing Lu drove Audi to take me to the city map to read books. On the time of National Tu, Xing Lu said he was reading books, but in fact he was just reading me.
But Dagang knows it, and he really enjoys it. He smells the weirdness of us, and he probably counts it out with his fingers. It's really rare that he can get together.
Yin Wen likes Dagang very much because when she pulled me shopping, the outline would follow us without complaints and help us carry paper bags. She would also sincerely praise Yin Wen's pastry delicious
I didn't hide it from Dagang before and smell it, and there was something wrong with Xing Lu from him.
When we met for more than two months, I told him the story of Xing Lu in a complete manner.
That day, when I went to Dagang's house, I brought a box of newly made cookies.
After returning from Beijing, my heart became calmer and calmer, and I was more in a mood to do something that Xing Lu thought was meaningless, but I liked, drawing sketches, writing blogs, and doing baking. This is the literary youth style he disdains.
This semester, my Chinese classes are mostly arranged in the first and second sessions of the morning. I always like to make some biscuits to bring them to class to fill the stomachs of the students who didn’t have time to have breakfast. Later, many cheeky and greedy girls deliberately ignored breakfast and waited for snacks during class.
Dagang naturally unscrewed the lid, threw a piece into his mouth, and praised it while chewing: Not bad, very crispy, I burst out laughing.
Some aspects of this person seem to Xing Lu, even his evaluation of biscuits is exactly the same as that of Xing Lu.
Dagang was a little surprised: Why are you laughing at?
I looked at Dagang, thought about it, and quietly said to him: Let me tell you the story of my ex-boyfriend.
I calmly started with Su Su, telling about our short lace relationship, telling about her abandoned me after she became pregnant, telling about meeting Xing Lu online, telling about me playing a very disgraceful role to help him get projects, telling about the pitiful smell, the wise stone desk, the worldly President Qi, telling about the short madness between Xing Lu and me in the second semester of my senior year, telling about Xing Lu and I being two types of people after all. We finally said goodbye at the Beijing Airport, and then we went our own lives
After hearing this, Da Gang was obviously a little disappointed. I thought he was jealous. I didn't say anything, but just looked at him quietly. At this time, it was me who was nervous. I already cared about him very much.
After half a day, Da Gang shook his head: Huihui, I really can't deserve you
I looked at him and waited for him to continue talking. I have become accustomed to his way of speaking these days.
Xing Lu and Shi Chu talked until the end, you can understand the rest yourself, while Dagang is completely different. He said he was a virgin, but he was really just saying he was a virgin. He said he was not worthy of me, but he was really just saying that he was not worthy of me, and it was not necessarily a reason to break up. He rarely had implied words, but he could understand all my implied words. He really didn't understand what the brain structure of science and engineering students is like.
Dagang sorted it out and continued: People like Xing Lu are the ones who should be with you. A girl like you should have a more exciting life.
I asked speechlessly: Do you think his life is wonderful?
Dagang nodded: Yes, I need his ability and courage. I will also go out and explore. I know that I have a lot of abilities and a strong personality. But I also want a sky like him and want to realize my life value.
I said: Every man has a dream of making a big fuss in his heart?
Dagang said yes
Then, I said: It turns out that your sense of loss is because you feel that your ideal cannot be realized.
Dagang nodded and said: I thought it was because my first love was not you
Dagang immediately looked for a supplement: Of course, half of it is because I am jealous
Well, you reacted quickly, I finally felt a little more comfortable, and then I felt so bored, a bit like those hopeless women in Korean dramas
Dagang was still thinking about his worries, I was too lazy to pay attention to him, so I snuggled up on the sofa to read the book
Dagang suddenly spoke: Huihui, if Xing Lu changes his mind and comes to you, you can follow him
OK, Dagang, I'm defeated by you again
I stood up helplessly. It is not easy for a stubborn person like Dagang to convince him: Dagang, if you and Xing Lu are standing in front of me and ask me to choose, I said I will choose you, do you believe me
Dagang said: Don't believe it
I couldn't help but kick him and said to him: Life like Xing Lu is the life you want to live, not the life I want to live, I want to live the life I want to live like now
I like to go to the library to read books, I don’t like to go to KTV to sing and drink
I like to cook and wash dishes at home. I like to buy whatever I want. If you don’t make it delicious, you can eat it. I don’t like all kinds of banquets outside.
I like to clean up my room, I don't like to stay in a five-star hotel where many people have slept in.
I like to take walks in school, I like to teach students, I don’t like to go to any business occasion with Xinglu, I really don’t like it!
I'm really an ordinary girl, a little stupid and lazy, a little dislike to use my brain. Don't think I'm pretty and should live a life like what kind of life
I paused and continued:
Moreover, I know that you also like your current life. What you call yearning is just that you are simply unwilling to give up, or that is, you feel guilty when you live the life you like.
Dagang suddenly realized that he was indeed such an expression, nodding hard to express his agreement, and I was a little crying: Do you know that yours is seriously brainwashed by traditional values and is one of the most typical cases of education failure in the past twenty years
Dagang scratched his head: Yes, I almost forgot, you graduated from a normal school, this is your profession
I comforted Dagang: You can do a lot of things, but Xing Lu won’t. At that time, any problems occurred in his house and he would only spend money to find the property, and you would solve everything yourself
Dagang shook his head: Xing Lu knows the ability to make money, I know, but the ability to save money is incomparable
I took Dagang's hand: It's incomparable. The road to making money is very hard. Just from the perspective of happiness in life, Xing Lu may not be able to compare with you.
At least, he doesn't have to buy such a house of more than 80 square meters. He also needs his parents to help with the down payment and pay the loan for 20 years. Dagang smiled bitterly and pointed at the living room that was cramped in size and said
If the two of them return together, it will not take 20 years. I looked at him calmly and said
Da seemed to be stunned, and then suddenly hugged me tightly in his arms. I closed my eyes happily. This idiot, it was the first time I hugged me. I don’t know how long it will take to go to the first base.
However, what neither of us expected was that we had not lived in this so-called cramped house for many years, so I exchanged my income and loan for a 180-square-meter building.
Just when I thought the topic of Xing Lu was successfully concluded, Dagang finally said: Huihui, and that's also, if Xing Lu comes again, let's treat him to a meal together, I don't mind
I said angrily: I mind, if you want to go, you can invite me, I won't go
Dagang, do you really think I can't guess what you are thinking?
The curiosity and curiosity of you science and engineering men are really much stronger than jealousy.
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