Xiaoyu shook her head and said: Brother Yan, it seems you really don’t understand.What is the relationship between husband and wife? It is mutual respect and mutual concession. Although I dare not say that I am in line with each other and respect each other as guests, I must also maintain superficial respect and equality.Otherwise, there is no need for marriage to survive, just divorce.
But what is the relationship between master and slave?It is naked reality and tempting stimulation. Under the various trainings of the master, the slave punishes himself by making the master angry and thus achieves the purpose of pleasing the master and enjoying himself.During the SM training process, there is not much respect and care, only sexual desire and violent catharsis.S and M have been in an unequal position from the beginning. The relationship between the two parties may be eased or even temporary equality after training, but that is only temporary, don't think about permanent equality.This is essentially different from the relationship between husband and wife.
Although some M is very attached to S, and even S is also very attached to M, which is a bit like a relationship between lovers, once S raises the whip and other torture instruments, you should not expect the warmth and meticulous caring between lovers.
Some people say that S and M have four realms, and SM can really exist as a kind of enjoyment between masters and slaves:
The first is that S and M have a fulfilling real life, successful careers, and emotional homes.SM is just a game for them, for fun.They will not rely on anyone emotionally, nor will they violate their own principle of happiness supremacy, and of course they are even more disdainful to use deceptive means to get SM partners.The reason why this SM relationship is put first is that they are sober and have a noble heart, both in reality and in games.This kind of relationship is more likely to form what people say: kneel down as slaves and get up as friends.
The second type is contrary to the former type. S and M are in reality in life, and they treat SM with care.S can empathize with M's pain and happiness; for S's happiness, M can sacrifice tolerance.They are more like a couple, and individual people are incomplete. Only in SM can each other find their inner destination.They are focused on one's own master and one slave.In this relationship, those who have the conditions will choose the feeding model.
The third type is S, who is the real S. He has knowledge, cultivation, love, responsibility, and insight into M's psychology.He can bring some M who is wandering on the edge to the outside of the circle, allowing her to find the relaxation, happiness and confidence of reality in life.This S is more like a loving psychologist, and it is happy to meet this S's M.
The last one is like this: SMs are marginal people, and SMs are insignificant to them. They will not use any SM behavior to conquer themselves. What they desire is spiritual communication and spiritual communication.They are spiritual soulmates, and it doesn't matter to them who is S and who is M.They can treat each other in the SM way at any time, or they may be happy in the most common contact.SM is just one of their ways to have fun, and their happiness is everywhere.I thought this was the highest level of SM.
The above four SM relationships will surely bring physical enjoyment and spiritual release to the parties involved.Correspondingly, there are several relationships between SMs, which are my most despised:
First, S comes only to satisfy his desires.Naked desire, deepening stimulation, constantly brainwashing M, and constantly digging out M's slavery.In his opinion, the more despicable M is, the more exposed he is, the more satisfied he is.He even shows off in front of his fellow friends, and he doesn't care about M's sociality and humanity.Not to mention whether he used bloody or cruel means to M, this starting point and uncontrollable desire to expand have determined that he is just a maggot flies lying on the feces.When encountering M of this kind of S, he will endure great pain in his body and mind. Even if he claims one-on-one longevity, he may abandon M because M cannot complete his task.
Second, SMs deceive and hide each other.Looking for partners in the name of feelings, after putting aside mutual loyalty in secular morality, he puts hypocritical morality on SM.No matter how much your body is exposed, you are also a slave and follower of pseudo-morality.This kind of SM relationship, with or without, is really just an embellishment for a person.
Third, M is too deified S, treats S as a sustenance for his soul and life, wraps himself in the dream of childhood, and refuses to get out.She will possess this S in various ways: crying, slandering, suicide, etc., and force this S to submit in her way.Over time, S became M's efforts and tool, and he was physically and mentally exhausted.
Fourth, SMs are all people with extremely empty spiritual worlds. They have no spiritual pursuits in reality or SM.The pursuit of SM is stuck in sensory stimulation, and you dare to do anything.Years later, S had erectile dysfunction and M's body was destroyed.
Fifth, SM has had severe emotional trauma, extremely distorted psychologically, and has a severe and mental abusive way, destroying others and destroying themselves.In short, they are destroying for the sake of destruction.This is what Ice Love, Beast Slave, and Remnant Slave belong to.
Xiaoyu suddenly talked endlessly about several forms of SM, as she knew it. It seemed that she was indeed well aware of it.I looked at her and suddenly asked her: Then which kind of people do you, Yao Lei, Lao Hou, etc. belong to?
I know you have this question.How to say it, it has both. In short, it does not belong to the ones I like, roughly the first and second of the five I don’t like.Fortunately, Yao Lei and others still have a certain degree of cultivation and their human nature has not been completely destroyed.If I had fallen into the fourth or fifth type, I would not have persisted until now.Xiaoyu seemed to be prepared and quickly gave me the answer.
Xiaoyu, do you think Yao Lei is okay, can you bear his dominance and bullying of you?I asked back with some dissatisfaction.
Alas, Brother Yan, you don’t know much about our SM circle.Compared to others, Yao Lei is pretty good.He solved my work and let me go, allowed me to get married, and allowed me to try to SM with others instead of taking me alone.All kinds of extremely perverted SM methods have not been fully used on me, so I should be said to be lucky to have fallen into his hands.Xiaoyu sighed and said.
Oh, maybe I don’t understand, but even so, I feel that Yao Lei’s approach is contrary to common sense and human behavioral norms, and I still have no good feelings for him.
You are not his M, do you need to have a good impression of him?Hahaha??, Xiaoyu suddenly laughed and said: Brother Yan, if you have the chance, I want you to see what a real SM looks like. Do you want to see it?
I hesitated and said: OK, if conditions permit, I really want to see the true face of SM at close range.
But what is the relationship between master and slave?It is naked reality and tempting stimulation. Under the various trainings of the master, the slave punishes himself by making the master angry and thus achieves the purpose of pleasing the master and enjoying himself.During the SM training process, there is not much respect and care, only sexual desire and violent catharsis.S and M have been in an unequal position from the beginning. The relationship between the two parties may be eased or even temporary equality after training, but that is only temporary, don't think about permanent equality.This is essentially different from the relationship between husband and wife.
Although some M is very attached to S, and even S is also very attached to M, which is a bit like a relationship between lovers, once S raises the whip and other torture instruments, you should not expect the warmth and meticulous caring between lovers.
Some people say that S and M have four realms, and SM can really exist as a kind of enjoyment between masters and slaves:
The first is that S and M have a fulfilling real life, successful careers, and emotional homes.SM is just a game for them, for fun.They will not rely on anyone emotionally, nor will they violate their own principle of happiness supremacy, and of course they are even more disdainful to use deceptive means to get SM partners.The reason why this SM relationship is put first is that they are sober and have a noble heart, both in reality and in games.This kind of relationship is more likely to form what people say: kneel down as slaves and get up as friends.
The second type is contrary to the former type. S and M are in reality in life, and they treat SM with care.S can empathize with M's pain and happiness; for S's happiness, M can sacrifice tolerance.They are more like a couple, and individual people are incomplete. Only in SM can each other find their inner destination.They are focused on one's own master and one slave.In this relationship, those who have the conditions will choose the feeding model.
The third type is S, who is the real S. He has knowledge, cultivation, love, responsibility, and insight into M's psychology.He can bring some M who is wandering on the edge to the outside of the circle, allowing her to find the relaxation, happiness and confidence of reality in life.This S is more like a loving psychologist, and it is happy to meet this S's M.
The last one is like this: SMs are marginal people, and SMs are insignificant to them. They will not use any SM behavior to conquer themselves. What they desire is spiritual communication and spiritual communication.They are spiritual soulmates, and it doesn't matter to them who is S and who is M.They can treat each other in the SM way at any time, or they may be happy in the most common contact.SM is just one of their ways to have fun, and their happiness is everywhere.I thought this was the highest level of SM.
The above four SM relationships will surely bring physical enjoyment and spiritual release to the parties involved.Correspondingly, there are several relationships between SMs, which are my most despised:
First, S comes only to satisfy his desires.Naked desire, deepening stimulation, constantly brainwashing M, and constantly digging out M's slavery.In his opinion, the more despicable M is, the more exposed he is, the more satisfied he is.He even shows off in front of his fellow friends, and he doesn't care about M's sociality and humanity.Not to mention whether he used bloody or cruel means to M, this starting point and uncontrollable desire to expand have determined that he is just a maggot flies lying on the feces.When encountering M of this kind of S, he will endure great pain in his body and mind. Even if he claims one-on-one longevity, he may abandon M because M cannot complete his task.
Second, SMs deceive and hide each other.Looking for partners in the name of feelings, after putting aside mutual loyalty in secular morality, he puts hypocritical morality on SM.No matter how much your body is exposed, you are also a slave and follower of pseudo-morality.This kind of SM relationship, with or without, is really just an embellishment for a person.
Third, M is too deified S, treats S as a sustenance for his soul and life, wraps himself in the dream of childhood, and refuses to get out.She will possess this S in various ways: crying, slandering, suicide, etc., and force this S to submit in her way.Over time, S became M's efforts and tool, and he was physically and mentally exhausted.
Fourth, SMs are all people with extremely empty spiritual worlds. They have no spiritual pursuits in reality or SM.The pursuit of SM is stuck in sensory stimulation, and you dare to do anything.Years later, S had erectile dysfunction and M's body was destroyed.
Fifth, SM has had severe emotional trauma, extremely distorted psychologically, and has a severe and mental abusive way, destroying others and destroying themselves.In short, they are destroying for the sake of destruction.This is what Ice Love, Beast Slave, and Remnant Slave belong to.
Xiaoyu suddenly talked endlessly about several forms of SM, as she knew it. It seemed that she was indeed well aware of it.I looked at her and suddenly asked her: Then which kind of people do you, Yao Lei, Lao Hou, etc. belong to?
I know you have this question.How to say it, it has both. In short, it does not belong to the ones I like, roughly the first and second of the five I don’t like.Fortunately, Yao Lei and others still have a certain degree of cultivation and their human nature has not been completely destroyed.If I had fallen into the fourth or fifth type, I would not have persisted until now.Xiaoyu seemed to be prepared and quickly gave me the answer.
Xiaoyu, do you think Yao Lei is okay, can you bear his dominance and bullying of you?I asked back with some dissatisfaction.
Alas, Brother Yan, you don’t know much about our SM circle.Compared to others, Yao Lei is pretty good.He solved my work and let me go, allowed me to get married, and allowed me to try to SM with others instead of taking me alone.All kinds of extremely perverted SM methods have not been fully used on me, so I should be said to be lucky to have fallen into his hands.Xiaoyu sighed and said.
Oh, maybe I don’t understand, but even so, I feel that Yao Lei’s approach is contrary to common sense and human behavioral norms, and I still have no good feelings for him.
You are not his M, do you need to have a good impression of him?Hahaha??, Xiaoyu suddenly laughed and said: Brother Yan, if you have the chance, I want you to see what a real SM looks like. Do you want to see it?
I hesitated and said: OK, if conditions permit, I really want to see the true face of SM at close range.
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