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Chapter 361 Xiyuan’s self-report and father-in-law (23)

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It just so happened that her husband was very close to her when she was reading the text message. He saw the text message he sent, and obviously looked very unhappy. He asked about his situation. She knew that he was mainly afraid that she would be with others, including in the classmate group before, and some boys said similar things to her half-jokingly, and he also saw it, so he often checked her mobile phone in the future.

At first she was a little disgusted and resentful. She had been awkward for a few days, but later she stopped insisting. I thought it might be because she cared too much. Anyway, she sometimes looked at his phone. If she was clear, she would clear her own way. Let him go.

On Valentine's Day, the colleague gave her flowers again

She was not there when he sent it, so she put it under her desk. She thought about it, but she didn't send it back, and of course she didn't take it home. She didn't want him to have an illusion, but she just felt that if she returned it in person, she would be afraid that the impact would be worse, and the relationship between colleagues would be very awkward in the future. It would be better to explain if you had the opportunity.

Every time she attends a class reunion, her husband is not very happy, although he doesn't stop him.

At a party, she met her college partner, and it turned out that she broke up because he went abroad.

Just returned to China and got married

Later he called her several times to have dinner, and her husband was a little unhappy

But my husband only thought it was her classmate who liked her and didn't know that he was her former partner.

He wanted to get along with ordinary friends, she knew what he wanted to continue to develop, but she didn't agree. She always felt that there was no simple friendship between men and women. If there was, at least one party was secretly in love with the other party.

Among all Xiyuan's emotional experiences, she has the deepest relationship with her ex-boyfriend, which can be said to be unforgettable, and probably will never forget it forever

It was the boyfriend she had a relationship with her husband a few days before her marriage. How could she not miss him? Occasionally, she would think of their lingering scene. Her ex-boyfriend deliberately did not meet him. She only called twice after marriage. The last time she contacted him, he was not married yet, and said she wanted to wait for her to try again, and always wanted to see her.

She didn't want to delay him, so she didn't contact him again

After marriage, she insisted on not seeing him. It was not that she was too heartless. She was really afraid that after seeing him, she would not be able to control herself and would never want to separate from him again. That would hurt not only the two of them, but it would be better to miss him than to meet each other. You can't support each other and forget each other in the world.

Her father-in-law has two fixed lovers, and he has shown her the photos

My husband is different. He just has a playful attitude towards other women. He has never found that he has a fixed lover so far, nor has he ever thought about divorced her, nor has he mentioned divorced her when he quarreled with her.

She filed for divorce, and he firmly opposed it

As long as Xiyuan finds that her husband has other women, she will definitely care, otherwise she will have the illusion that she makes him casually, and men cannot substitute him.

Since she is married, no matter how good or bad he is, he is hers. Unless she doesn't want it, no one can take it away, because she has heard many people say that no matter how men or women remarry, there are few things that are better than before.

My husband is good to her and her family, and she loves her, but she is a little fickle. Although she has no common language and doesn’t communicate much, how can she be perfect?

She wants to maintain this marriage

She doesn't want to cheat, nor does she want her husband to cheat, even if love slowly turns into only family love in the end

Zheng Luping once asked her, "My husband cheated on you, but she has never followed anyone else since marriage. Do you really don't want to, or have you met someone you like."

Xiyuan thinks there are two things, one is not. Men have lovers and women have a sense of guilt.

Another thing she can't accept going to bed without feelings. Most men love because of sex, and most women love because of love.

An ancient Greek philosopher said that I forgot who it is: human pleasure is divided into two types, one is sensory and the other is spiritual. The sensory pleasure is short-lived and can never be satisfied, while the spiritual pleasure is lasting and can be completely satisfied.

Another important point is that it may be difficult for her to meet someone who makes her so moved.

She wrote a passage before, and every time she thinks about it, she feels very emotional: Everyone may meet four people in their life, the first one is yourself, the second one is the person you love the most, the third one is the person you love the most, and the fourth one is the person who spends his life together.

Life loves to joke the most, and the one you love the most often does not choose you; the one you love the most is often not what you love the most; and the one who ends up spending your life with you is not what you love the most or what you love the most, but the person who appears at the most suitable time

Who to live with, how to live with, how long, some people are because of love, some are because of material things, some are because of appearance, some are because of futures, and some are because of pressure. When you choose, you realize that the most important thing in love is not passion, sharing joys and sorrows, but never leaving

The one who has been with you for the longest is the one who loves you the most; the one who has been with you for the longest is the deepest love

What is the most important thing in life?

She feels it's freedom and true love

Without freedom of body and mind, nothing else means. Freedom depends on gains and losses. Doing whatever you want is not freedom. Only by doing what you do and not doing can you gain true freedom. True feelings must be exchanged with sincerity. True feelings may not necessarily be exchanged with true feelings, but true feelings must be exchanged with sincerity.

Feelings are mutual, not too much for granted and for no reason

The only thing in the world that is happier than being loved is to love

Deep-rooted family affection, plain friendship, and unforgettable love constitute their emotional world. Family affection is an innate fate. They cannot choose, and they are least allowed to avoid it. They need to be cared for.

Friendship is tolerant, love is selfish, the dullness of friendship can reflect its sincerity and tolerance.

The selfishness, understanding, tolerance and unyielding love is easier to be unforgettable

No matter what kind of relationship it is, love is the least waiting and the most capable of waiting. If love is in front of you, wait for a second, love is long, if love is at the end, waiting for a lifetime is short

The three types of people that need to be cherished the most in this world: friends who help you in time, who are willing to accompany you through poor women, and who will tolerate your men in everything.

She has also done some things that do not conform to universal values. She either wants to embarrass things on the wrong side, or is wrong, and there is no need to find reasons to hide it. It's just that she is more private and she didn't say it out.

Her experiences are actually not worth mentioning at all, but why should I say it out? She thought it was not to relieve the pressure, nor could it be to attract attention.

Maybe it's a bit of reflection and analysis by herself

Many things can only be seen clearly when the distance is getting farther and farther

People are very complicated, and everyone has different aspects, but overall she likes to explain it with human nature downward and human heart upward.

Life is neither long nor short. How can you live without a standard answer? Why don’t you spend your life the way you like?

If God destined them to be small people, then try to be worthy of relatives and friends, be worthy of yourself, and not hurt others

In fact, there is no need for many reasons to be happy. As long as you smile more than tears, you will find the right person.

Everyone has a dead corner in their life, they can't get out of themselves and others can't get in.

Everyone has a wound, deep or shallow, light or dark

Everyone has a line of tears, others won't understand

Because the most they can do is to think from the perspective of others, it is impossible to truly empathize with others.

How can life be fulfilled in every way? There will be gains and losses in everything.

Life requires hard work, but you should learn to make choices. But how many people can truly judge gains and losses based on their inner thoughts and make choices?

She lived in an ordinary family since she was a child. Her father was from the north and an ordinary worker. Later, she drove by herself

My mother turned out to be from the south and was a doctor

So she often jokes that she is mixed with blood from the north and south

Her parents divorced when she was very young, and her mother later remarried, so she had a half-sister who was nearly ten years younger than her.

Due to some family reasons, she has been taking care of her since the fifth grade of elementary school.

She and her dad grew up

Because he gave her good words and deeds, she basically has no extreme and inferior personality that children from single-parent families are prone to having.

She started learning dance at the age of five, and she also took the art exam in college. She participated in a dance competition before graduating from college. However, because she refused the dirty request of a main leader of the organizer at that time, it was the so-called unspoken rule. She only won the second place, her grades were not satisfactory, and she lost the closest opportunity to realize her ideal. Although she has never regretted it yet, she is engaged in dance teaching now, which is considered to be used to what she has learned, but compared to the stage center she was in the spotlight, her dreams under the spotlight have gradually faded away from her childhood stage center.

She thought that whether life is willing to be lonely or not, the premise should have the correct value orientation.

Don't treat desire as ideal

Ideals have nothing to do with interests; don't regard worldly sensibility as mature

Maturity is the sublimation of inner body and mind. Sophisticated people cannot control their own destiny; don’t regard numbness as deep, deepness does not mean ruthlessness; don’t regard cowardice as steady

Stability is never an escape; don't treat slippery as wisdom

A little cleverness can never be compared with great wisdom; don't regard recklessness as courage

Great wisdom can produce great courage

Great courage can also produce great wisdom; don’t regard naivety as passion

Childhood will only bring confusion and emptiness; don't regard extremeness as persistence

Extremeness is a pathology, persistence is the kingly way; don’t treat temptation as an opportunity

Opportunities require rationality and pragmatism, but temptation is uncontrollable. Greed for nothing often makes people lose more

She took the college entrance examination in art, dance, and majored in modern dance and national standard dance

Maybe she has a good foundation. She has never stopped learning dance since she was a child. This is something that most of her classmates have never seen before.

So her grades have always been outstanding in school

Win second place in another national dance competition

It is no exaggeration to say that in their department, almost all teachers and classmates have a deep impression of her.