Chapter 363 Xiyuan’s self-report and father-in-law (25)

Although she teaches dance, she never gave up on the idea of ​​performing on stage. So through relationships, she would participate in small performances of dance troupes whenever she had the chance, and sometimes even commercial performances.

During a performance, I met her ex-boyfriend. He was a photographer at the time. He fell in love with her at first sight. Under his sincere pursuit, she felt better and better about him. The two of them fell in love quickly and spent the best time she has so far. During this period, they experienced a lot of passionate romance.

Finally, she broke up because of her father's objection. She didn't want to talk about these things again.

She understands that her father wants her to make her life better in the future and hopes that she will be happy

He may also know that happiness really has nothing to do with money

What is happiness?

Happiness is not about wealth and wealth, not about driving a good car, staying in a villa

Happiness is when someone is crying, and when someone is tired, it is every little wish that someone will fulfill for you. It is to have someone who loves you and understands yourself. No matter how many he has, he will always leave the best and most for you.

No matter how beautiful the scenery is, if no one appreciates it, there will be an inexplicable sadness; no matter how good the life is, if no one shares it, there will be an inexplicable sadness

No matter how bad the environment is, if someone is accompanying you, you will be inexplicably moved.

There is a saying that you don't want to last forever, you just want to have it once

She doesn't really agree with this sentence

This idea may be irresponsible, helpless, or just a free and easy

Even if some people are together every day, their hearts are not together, and they dream in the same bed and in different dreams, it can be said that they have been forever in form, but where does this come from?

What is the meaning of this kind of possession?

Some people and people are different from each other, and have the same heart and love each other. In their opinion, isn’t it beautiful for them?

Otherwise, how could there be a relationship that lasts for a long time, but how could it resonate throughout the ages?

She thinks that true love is the most important thing, it is the most core thing in their emotional world, and it is also the only criterion for measuring whether it is worth paying for.

So she still likes that sentence more: affection is not as good as a companion for a long time, it is better to miss it than to meet each other than to meet each other.

For her, some things have been possessed forever, because they have been in her heart and have never left

After getting married, her life changed a lot. She began to get familiar with driving to and from get off work, including food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

I've had a driver's license for a long time, but I didn't have the chance to drive before

Because parents divorce early and poor families start their own family early, some housework is not difficult for her.

On the contrary, the relationship with my husband's family took some thought. In addition to some differences in lifestyles, some concepts also differed.

At first, the general feeling for them was to be proud and love face

One night, my husband said to her very seriously: I want to have a child with you

She smiled and said: Then you can try it

What you can't get is the best

It is easy to get, often not cherish

Sometimes, the person who loves you is close to you, but another person is concerned about you

You think this is love, but it's just human feelings

While I am scarred, I am also hurting the person who loves you

Love is often found after a lot of twists and turns, it turns out that it is always by your side.

In love, there are no rules, no wins, no right or wrong, no heroes, and no geniuses, in classic love, there are only two fools, holding each other's hands, loving them foolishly, living foolishly, and spending their lives foolishly

Life has progress and retreat, life has gains and losses

Nothing goes well in life, and everything will not go well in life

It's very interesting to go to heaven. Cats love to eat fish, but they can't go into the water. Fish love to eat earthworms, but they can't go to the shore.

This is how life is, possession and loss coexist, choice and giving up

Whether it is a man or a woman, growth is more important than maturity

Sometimes when growing up, you just look at your own ideals and your wishes are shattered one by one. Although you are sad, you are still living strongly.

A person's maturity is not age, but mentality

The maturity of the heart is not about experiencing many things, but about the attitude towards things

We must be serious, but not serious

Don't be serious with others, because it's not worth it

Don't be serious with yourself, because you can't afford to hurt

Don't be serious about the past because it doesn't make sense. Don't be serious about the reality because it's going to continue

Don't forget the past, cherish the present, and chase dreams

Happiness is completely a feeling in one's heart. Living in the present and being yourself well is a kind of happiness

Hearing and seeing is also a fate

Everyone who appears in our lives has a reason and a mission

People who like her gave her warmth and courage; people she liked taught her to love and self-support; people she didn't like taught her tolerate and respect; people who didn't like her let her know about self-reflection and growth

No one appears for no reason. Everyone appears for fate, there are reasons, and they are worthy of gratitude.

Life is like a bumper car, touching the right direction, and a glorious life

Touch the right environment and feel comfortable for a lifetime

If you hit the right luck, you will be able to live your life

Touch the right hobby and enrich your life

Touch your lover, have a happy life

Touch the right lover, I miss you for a lifetime

Touch the right leader and spend a lifetime relaxing

Touch the right friend, have a happy life

Meet a god, and there is an afterlife

May all of us have a glorious, comfortable, smooth, fulfilling, happy and happy life

At the beginning of marriage, she didn't want children. Her friend said, are you afraid that having a child will affect your body shape? She said, "You underestimate me too much."

Besides, Xiyuan is still very confident in recovering her body shape.

In fact, in addition to the fear of affecting work, there are also several small concerns. One is that pregnancy is quite difficult and troublesome. Another is that it is a bit contradictory when thinking about what method to give birth. It is normal. If it is difficult to give birth, it may require a side vaginal incision. I heard that it is very painful. If the side surgery is not possible, it will also require surgery. After giving birth, it is easy to relax the vagina. If it is a caesarean section, the body will leave a relatively obvious scar. When you think about it, you always feel a little depressed.

The most important thing is that it takes less than a year for women to have a child, and it takes less time for men to have a child.

But raising children is a lifelong thing, this is the most difficult

Although I can't discuss it with my child in advance, I still feel a little irresponsible if I don't have any mental preparation.

But when you really want kids, all of this is not a problem

Otherwise, mother is the greatest

The child is the continuation of his own life, and she decided to be a complete woman

To get something you have never owned, you have to do things you have never done before

Since Xiyuan and her husband decided to have a child, they have never worn condoms when they love each month. They count the safety period and ovulation period every month.

In addition to having some dysmenorrhea, she has no gynecological inflammation, and her menstruation is very regular. Her husband will deliberately have sex with her for several days before and after her ovulation period. She will also use some methods that are easy to get pregnant. For example, she is underneath, and he raises her legs and puts them on his shoulders; puts a pillow under her buttocks; she keeps her still for a while after ejaculation, so that the semen will not flow out quickly, etc.

Later, I actually studied how to make it easier to have a boy or a girl

Her husband likes boys and hopes that she will have a boy for the first time

Some people say that rich people want boys, and ordinary people want girls.

This must not be absolute

She actually prefers to like girls. Girls dance will improve their temperament, and most boys are just the opposite.

Girls are caring and worry less. After getting married, they will be grateful to their daughters in law. They will take it for granted and are easily complained.

In addition, the relationship with sn in law is much easier to deal with than with the daughter-in-law, and there are much fewer conflicts.

They worked hard for more than half a year, but she was not pregnant, and she began to feel a little psychologically stressed, so they were going to the hospital for a check-up.

Thinking of having to check your body thoroughly and carefully, I suddenly had some concerns because I remembered the experience of a close friend of her

My best friend is Bai Yun, a college classmate, and she is a flight attendant. She is Xiyuan's friend. Among her classmates and colleagues, she is the only one who makes her feel a little envious in some aspects.

As soon as she graduated, she went to an airline for an interview. She advised her: Being a flight attendant seems glamorous and decent, but to put it bluntly, she is just a waiter and a youthful meal. Is it worth it for you to graduate from an art school for four years?

Bai Yun said: This is what I have always thought. If I don’t try it, it will exceed the age limit. Now she is already a first-class flight attendant.

I heard from her that foreign airlines focus on comprehensive quality, while domestic airlines pay more attention to appearance, almost just choose the beauty.

It is even more of a thousand choices to be able to go to the first class cabin. It has outstanding appearance, height, behavior, experience, personality, vision, mouth, communication ability, English proficiency, etc.

Although Xiyuan still feels that my overall temperament is not inferior to her, if we only look at her, Xiyuan still feels inferior to her.

Later she and Xiyuan said: I was about to work hard to be promoted to flight attendant. Rich experience is also very important and popular for our industry. There are many people in my 40s and 50s. At first, I didn’t think so much. Now I think if I am lucky, I can be promoted to the director flight attendant or even the service department manager in the future and can be retired normally.

Alas, it seems that performing dance on stage is more of a youthful life

He is really the top pick in every industry. No matter what happens, he must be the strongest one if he can be at the top.

Bai Yun and Xiyuan are the same age and have been married for almost a year. She and she have always talked about everything.

Of course, I will also say some private things.

Before her marriage, her vaginal opening was very tight, of course, different from her tightness. Her vagina was normal tight. When there was too much water, it was not difficult to insert the penis, and the vaginal wall tightly clamped the penis.

She has had a lot of sex, but her husband's penis is small and it doesn't feel loose when inserted.

So she said she only had it with her ex-boyfriend, and he believed it very much.

Bai Yun's tightness is that the vaginal opening is very tight, and the inside is tight, making the penis very difficult to insert. Both of them were very depressed when they were having sex with her boyfriend.