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Yu once again suffered from insomnia
To be precise, he couldn't fall asleep
The traction chain on the collar was tied to the ground, forcing his face to close to the ground
Hands were handcuffed, tied with a short chain to the metal ring behind the collar, and the chest had to be raised
An iron chain hanging from the ceiling, tied to the metal ring at the junction of the chastity vertebrae and the inguinal ridge, and the hips are raised high to form a shameful dog party style, relying on the face, shoulders and knees to support the body
The leg splitter between the knees is stuck on the ground with two steel pieces, so that only the head and neck of the person can barely rotate.
Wearing an eye mask on your eyes, and a huge male shape is stuffed into the back of your hole
Slaves must be bound at any time, which helps them remember their identity over time, and it can even increase their sense of security and remind them that they belong to one person.
But such a strange posture is painful even if it takes a little longer, let alone falling asleep
But he can't help
He is required to keep this position and fall asleep, because it is convenient for the owner to be at any time. After being fully lubricated and always in the male shape, there is no foreplay, just need to pull out the male shape, just like lifting the toilet lid and sleeping at night, it will be more convenient. He is willing to speak casually, even more hateful than forcing him to pose in such a shameful position.
No matter how well he prepared, that pervert always had a way to make him feel unbearable
Weird how he had an illusion because of the occasional gentleness of that person, thinking that everything still had a chance to turn around.
He shouldn't have any fantasies about that person, and he even doubted whether his concessions were worth it.
Rather than live humiliatingly like this, it is better to die. This thought came to my mind in a vague way and was immediately thrown away by him.
From a certain perspective, Tonomiya really understands him, he is not that destined to accept his fate.
There is nothing left after death. It is not his fault that he is treated like this, humiliated and trampled on. Why should he pay for it?
He no longer wants to recall the experience during the day, but he can't sleep, so he has to think about something else
Because he often had the same nightmare, he once asked Qingxiao to borrow some books about SM to read. He slowly recalled the knowledge and tried to find useful information from it.
Japan is one of the countries with the lowest sex crime rate in the world. The contradiction between this is that SM behavior is very prevalent, and the SM activities of both sides have even been legalized. However, the public is not sure about the nature and causes of SM, and even the academic community is not convinced.
Because of the common binding and mental control that comes with SM, another word was born: BDSM
This is actually the abbreviation of three groups of words, namely:
1)B&D: Bandage and Discipline
2)D&S: Dominance and submissin
3)S&M: sadism and maschism
The word sadism comes from the French writer Sade, known as persecution or sadism, while the word masochism comes from the masochist Austrian writer Masch, whose different understandings of SM behavior also represent two completely different views today.
In THAAD's writing, SM is a one-way behavior controlled by the abuser. The abuser's wishes are insignificant. If the abuser willingly obeys, the abuser will drive them away, because this cannot reflect the abuser's pursuit of absolute power
Therefore, THAAD's works are full of sexual violence, horror, and abuse. He advocates the social Darwin philosophy of the strong and the strong, ignoring moral ethics, believing that it is to monitor and restrain the strong and to control the strong and to restrain the strong.
In his prestigious cult work "Sodom 120 Days", it is full of horrifying atrocities and madness. The strong do whatever they want, no matter how outrageous their atrocities are.
The weak will never escape the bad luck. No matter how innocent they are, they will become prey in the mouth of the lion.
In THAAD's eyes, sexual satisfaction is rooted in power, and sexuality is the most exquisite expression of obscene cruelty and absolute autocracy.
But in Massock's eyes, SM is a voluntary act of both parties and dominated by the abused party, and is a violent nature with fantasy and gameplay.
The recipient slowly trains the master to give the whip he needs, although the master has the right to kill the slave in the master-slave contract signed with each other.
In modern civilized society, Massok's view has become the mainstream concept of SM. Safety, rationality, informed consent (safe, sane and cnsensual, abbreviated as SSC) has become the consensus of SM players. However, how could the animal nature and tyrannical factors rooted in human blood for thousands of years disappear? The devil players who advocate THAAD still exist, but are hidden under the ice sea.
Like the bloodthirsty Roman nobles, they relied on wealth, status, power, and did whatever they wanted, trampling on human dignity and souls, and reveled on the victim's corpses.
Yu has no doubt that Kazuma Shinin is such a THAAD-like character. His interest in power and manipulation of others is far beyond sex. The goal of soliciting is to conquer itself, not sexual pleasure.
Every time I show unyielding submission, enduring the fanaticism deep in my eyes can almost make my soul tremble.
Facing such a pair of eyes is really scary
Kasuma Shinin is not even satisfied with physical binding and training, but also tries to invade and manipulate his will and achieve real and complete conquest, especially what Yu is worried about
This perverted sadomasochist is trying to turn himself into a perverted masochist, bent on his head and let him abuse him and become a walking zombie
That is really a more terrifying thing than death. At this point in life, it is better to die than death.
To be honest, Yu was really a little afraid of him. No matter how mentally prepared he was, he could always make himself afraid, hurt, and feel ashamed.
Emotions can be easily manipulated by him, but how long can the spirit last?
Yu shivered in the darkness. Will he eventually give up on himself?
Will you become a masochist who loves pain and injury?
He didn't remember having quirks like rope whips. Those things could only make him feel disgusted and painful, and they couldn't make him excited at all. So, he shouldn't be a person born with masochism?
Although it is indeed a bit strange to have the whipped dream often
Yu can understand the sadism. When he sees the cheerful smile on his face when a child cruelly kills a small insect, he understands that aggression is born
But the masochist who treats pain as happiness... is incredible
The strongest feeling in a person is pain, which is the body reminding the brain to pay attention. If this doesn't work, you will get hurt.
This is the self-protection of the human body. Why do people specifically pursue the pain?
Freedom and desire for conquest are human nature, so who will be willing to accept humiliation and belittlement?
Even if there is, it will definitely not be him
In the books he has read, no scientist can give him a convincing answer.
Some people say that the abused person does not like pain, but likes the pleasure after the pain.
It is said that the body is injured to a certain extent, and it will produce endorphins that can only be produced by drugs such as opium. It feels very high
This will feel when you have skilled whipping or suffocating
But Yu Ke didn't think Ren would be so kind and was willing to act as his senior masseur
It is also said that for some people who feel extremely dull, proper pain can help them arouse sexually.
This is also common in the biological world, such as a female spider who kills a male spouse during mating. Black Widow
In fact, Black Widow will not invade the same kind in daily life. The problem is that when the two organs intercourse, the male spider cannot ejaculate. Only when the female spider is invaded, especially after the male spider's head is swallowed, can the male spider ejaculate in a dying state, thereby continuing the offspring.
In other words, male spiders can only rise if they are abused to this point
Yu looked at himself suspiciously. Although he had been abstinence, he had not reached this point of impotence.
More statements are explained from a psychological perspective, and the statements are also diverse. Some say it is guilty, some say it is fear of loneliness, some say it is desire for love, or trusting the other party.
However, Yu believes that it is unlikely that he will feel guilty about someone who abuses him, love or trust.
He has always enjoyed loneliness because he is afraid of being hurt and has been alone. He takes on everything himself and develops the habit of not liking others to disturb others.
But he is not sure if he is extremely eager to talk to others when mental and physical abuse is long-term, or will this be the main direction of indulgence?
A tremor flew across his body. It was his last bottom line. He could not lose his mind no matter what.
When his body completely loses freedom and is allowed to be humiliated, he can only try to do this first
This is the only thing he can do
In the darkness, he didn't see any chance
Yu thought about it repeatedly in his heart, and tears gradually poured out, soaking his eye mask.
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ps:
Oh, this kind of theoretical thing is really boring, but I always feel that it is not OK to not explain it.
Actually, I didn't write it clearly, maybe it would be better to get another explanation--|||
Attached is a side portrait of Marquis Thad. This one looks very handsome and beautiful, just the prototype that Kasumi Nin thought of ^^ Although many people scold Ninja perverts, I do admit that he is perverted, but I still like him quite like him, just like Thad
They sway beautifully in the distance, exuding a kind of evil beauty like poppy and poisonous.
In fact, although THAAD lived a romantic life, his life was still quite tragic. He was sentenced to 27 years in prison for 27 years, and he lived in various prisons of all sizes in France, including the Bastille, and finally died in prison/psychiatric hospital.
The movie "Queen Brush" describes Thad's life before his death. The authorities did not allow him to write things, so he wrote it on his clothes with his blood or dictated it to his admirers (this person is not very charming, and he has many admirers in prison. Although he is indeed a sadist, he publicly declares that only pain in women is real)
Finally, the guardian cut his tongue and locked him into the dungeon naked, forbidding him to spread the toxins. The angry Thad then snatched the iron cross from the priest's hand, swallowed it and killed himself.
Thad in this movie is a sexually ardent anti-social hero
Watching THAAD in the middle of the night was shivering. This person's life is really... very aesthetic value
Well, suicide by swallowing an iron cross is really a sad and symbolic way of death. Should I arrange this ending for Ninja?
Volume 1 Conclusion
How did Xiao M become a master and answer readers' questions
After thinking about it, it would be better to start the article separately. I will explain the original origin of the article and answer some friends' questions in a concentrated manner.
Actually, I haven't been in contact with BL for a long time, and I have always read and not written it. Later, I watched xathane's xfile fan "Adversary", which tells the story of the trainer Lawrence trying to break the agent Maud. The psychological confrontation inside is very exciting. Lawrence originally wanted to use Maud as his last work in his life before he died, but Maud's agility finally conquered him, making him reluctant to break it, and let Maud go
Then there is Mingyuexin. Although it mainly talks about the relationship between slaves and masters who have been broken or tamed, and also talks about the universal slave development plan and mentality, and a little sutra Qianye Cang who is extremely difficult to break but is eventually conquered, left a deep impression on me.
But after the initial shock, I still felt that this story was flawed. The power of the teacher Fujino has been rendered close to the myth
The first is to break Cang's method to deprive the five senses. This result is absolutely impossible to recover. It will only cause mental collapse and become a waste that cannot take care of itself, let alone become a slave with independent consciousness like Cang (this is also recognized by the original author)
The second is that teachers are also human beings. If people have weaknesses and have the possibility of being broken, then teachers are also limited. Some people can break but cannot break, they can break but cannot be tamed.
Excessive mental and physical pain, he may end up being crazy and dying, but he can't pinch it like plasticine and then reshape it.
So after searching for similar articles without success, Cute had the idea of writing himself and wanted to write a relatively reasonable training article. Then Xiaoshou's personality should not be too reversible than bend, and it is very easy to break. Only in this way can he be trained and tamed. After being treated harshly, his spirit will not be completely collapsed and he can be reshaped, and he will also have the possibility of recovery after cruel training.
Because I wanted to write more reasonably, I checked some books and materials about SM and put the background in Japan. The SM industry is relatively developed, so I checked some Japanese things by the way, but I couldn't say anything about research.
Because of this setting, the upper part is destined to be relatively dark
As for the problem of ruthlessness and only abuse, this is because I think love is a very sacred word. Unless the two of them originally use SM as a way of life and flirting, such as <24/7>, love and abuse cannot coexist.
What is particularly unacceptable is the plot of Xiaogang personally slapping Xiaoshou, especially giving him to others to ruin him. One is to be ruthless and be in love with him for revenge, and the other is to be misunderstood or other people's conspiracy, and love him and be ruthless and be ruthless and be ruthless.
A genuine attacker worthy of love, first of all, one must be a person with a sound personality. Two people can break up and kill people, but they cannot use inhuman means to deal with each other.
Moreover, there should be something called trust and respect among lovers
As for emotional communication or attachment between the teacher and the trainee, it cannot be called by love.
After walking through hell, I have written more than 60,000 words. Finally, I have finished laying the foundation.
The initial plan is to make the body abuse the main, the body abuse the first volume 2, the body abuse the first volume 3 + heart abuse the first volume ))))) finally break
The upper part is about 100,000 words. The main plot has been well conceived, and the breaking links have been basically thought of, but the order has not been determined yet.
The psychological causes of abused people are mainly the following factors:
1.That is, the article mentions endorphin addicts. This master-slave relationship is completely dominated by slaves. They take the initiative to find a trainer to ask them to be beaten to high. They often lie on a comfortable bed and light incense and music. Instead, they have extremely high requirements for trainer teachers. The whipping must be regular, not light or heavy.
There is a leather rope for the gang in Taiwan, and it is still a very famous teacher. He said that once the trainee was trained, the slave was high in the end. He was so tired that his shoulders were hospitalized for two weeks.
This is probably no different from having a massage. Adding a little role-playing is just to increase the fun
2.Some people with cold sexual feelings need appropriate pain to get an erection, just like the type mentioned in the article’s poor husband of Black Widow
This feeling of cold may have been acquired
Seeter Wang Fusheng in "How to See Floating Life Is Better to Dreams" and Jia Ming in Andy's "Sex and the City" are transformed into a monster that can only be sexually aroused by whipping because of his inhuman torture.
In fact, Yu in my article is also a bit cold and he repeatedly emphasizes his abstinence at the beginning.
3
Relieve stress
Many abused people are successful people in society and must play a role of being strong and powerful. Therefore, they are willing to be insulted and belittled in the bedroom and seek a psychological balance, just like the flood in their hearts needs a gate.
4.Childhood shadows
This can probably be used to explain all psychological problems, laugh
Sexual whipping is also known as the British vice, which shows its popularity in the UK. It is said that it is because British primary and secondary schools like corporal punishment.
5.Feeling guilty
Christianity believes that suffering in the flesh can cleanse the soul, so medieval monasteries often saw devout believers abuse themselves with thorns.
If it is incomprehensible due to cultural barriers, then for another example, if a hero in a martial arts novel feels guilty about others, then no matter how high his martial arts are, he will immediately change from a big S to a small M, and will never fight back if he is bullied by others, and even entrust his life to others, killing and cutting him at will.
Of course this is not something that both sides of SM voluntarily trust each other, they are purely guilty of seeking abuse
6.Desire for love and attention, that is, fear of loneliness
Slaves are exposed, publicly displayed and humiliated, and are also means to attract attention
They regard pain as the price of love in exchange for the existence of the abuser. Even if it is just an imagined existence and companionship, this is also the reason why the master can achieve remote control.
They are willing to be bound, whipped, pierced, and branded. They do not like pain, but like to be belonged. The words of Maud in "24/7"^^
7.Exchange of power
This is actually the least controversial thing in the SM theory. It believes that most of the so-called master and slave, punishment, etc., are not about pleasure or even sex, but are purely to prove the ritualization of the unequal status of both parties.
Slaves accept extreme humiliation on the one hand and pride themselves on the other hand. This is a paradox, but strange existence
This is what Zhang Ailing said in "Lust and Caution" The ultimate possession, the relationship between tiger and accomplice is also what Wang Xiaobo said: The female prisoner fell in love with the yamen runner, and the dead criminal fell in love with the executioner.
By completely giving up oneself and making oneself completely subordinate to the master, thus making oneself become part of the master and part of the absolute power he trusts.
So weak transforms into powerful, and by giving up, he seizes power that he could not have obtained.
This is the ultimate expression of sm, not about love, not about sex, or even about pleasure, but only belongs to
Well, I have to admit that I wrote this story just to find a shell for the outer packaging for these theories, although I don't know if it will be successful in the end
It is said that there are very few born misogynists, most of which are formed acquired. Because of the shadow of childhood, the setbacks in life, and the indescribable pain, they choose the extreme way of expressing SM, indulge in it like drug use, and regard surrender, humiliation, and harm as their own characteristics. This is their destiny.
Yu in the article is a person who is very hard to break on the outside and hard on the inside. Of course, it is not a way to break it. So what are the plans for this small m refining plan suitable for him?
This is what I want to explain below
Interested readers can also guess ^^
It will probably be stopped for a day or two before continuing. One is that there are too many things at the end of the year, and I feel a little confused. I wrote so much in one go, I want to sort it out
In the end, I should still follow my original idea. I will respect the readers' opinions, but this is the story I want to write.
Yu once again suffered from insomnia
To be precise, he couldn't fall asleep
The traction chain on the collar was tied to the ground, forcing his face to close to the ground
Hands were handcuffed, tied with a short chain to the metal ring behind the collar, and the chest had to be raised
An iron chain hanging from the ceiling, tied to the metal ring at the junction of the chastity vertebrae and the inguinal ridge, and the hips are raised high to form a shameful dog party style, relying on the face, shoulders and knees to support the body
The leg splitter between the knees is stuck on the ground with two steel pieces, so that only the head and neck of the person can barely rotate.
Wearing an eye mask on your eyes, and a huge male shape is stuffed into the back of your hole
Slaves must be bound at any time, which helps them remember their identity over time, and it can even increase their sense of security and remind them that they belong to one person.
But such a strange posture is painful even if it takes a little longer, let alone falling asleep
But he can't help
He is required to keep this position and fall asleep, because it is convenient for the owner to be at any time. After being fully lubricated and always in the male shape, there is no foreplay, just need to pull out the male shape, just like lifting the toilet lid and sleeping at night, it will be more convenient. He is willing to speak casually, even more hateful than forcing him to pose in such a shameful position.
No matter how well he prepared, that pervert always had a way to make him feel unbearable
Weird how he had an illusion because of the occasional gentleness of that person, thinking that everything still had a chance to turn around.
He shouldn't have any fantasies about that person, and he even doubted whether his concessions were worth it.
Rather than live humiliatingly like this, it is better to die. This thought came to my mind in a vague way and was immediately thrown away by him.
From a certain perspective, Tonomiya really understands him, he is not that destined to accept his fate.
There is nothing left after death. It is not his fault that he is treated like this, humiliated and trampled on. Why should he pay for it?
He no longer wants to recall the experience during the day, but he can't sleep, so he has to think about something else
Because he often had the same nightmare, he once asked Qingxiao to borrow some books about SM to read. He slowly recalled the knowledge and tried to find useful information from it.
Japan is one of the countries with the lowest sex crime rate in the world. The contradiction between this is that SM behavior is very prevalent, and the SM activities of both sides have even been legalized. However, the public is not sure about the nature and causes of SM, and even the academic community is not convinced.
Because of the common binding and mental control that comes with SM, another word was born: BDSM
This is actually the abbreviation of three groups of words, namely:
1)B&D: Bandage and Discipline
2)D&S: Dominance and submissin
3)S&M: sadism and maschism
The word sadism comes from the French writer Sade, known as persecution or sadism, while the word masochism comes from the masochist Austrian writer Masch, whose different understandings of SM behavior also represent two completely different views today.
In THAAD's writing, SM is a one-way behavior controlled by the abuser. The abuser's wishes are insignificant. If the abuser willingly obeys, the abuser will drive them away, because this cannot reflect the abuser's pursuit of absolute power
Therefore, THAAD's works are full of sexual violence, horror, and abuse. He advocates the social Darwin philosophy of the strong and the strong, ignoring moral ethics, believing that it is to monitor and restrain the strong and to control the strong and to restrain the strong.
In his prestigious cult work "Sodom 120 Days", it is full of horrifying atrocities and madness. The strong do whatever they want, no matter how outrageous their atrocities are.
The weak will never escape the bad luck. No matter how innocent they are, they will become prey in the mouth of the lion.
In THAAD's eyes, sexual satisfaction is rooted in power, and sexuality is the most exquisite expression of obscene cruelty and absolute autocracy.
But in Massock's eyes, SM is a voluntary act of both parties and dominated by the abused party, and is a violent nature with fantasy and gameplay.
The recipient slowly trains the master to give the whip he needs, although the master has the right to kill the slave in the master-slave contract signed with each other.
In modern civilized society, Massok's view has become the mainstream concept of SM. Safety, rationality, informed consent (safe, sane and cnsensual, abbreviated as SSC) has become the consensus of SM players. However, how could the animal nature and tyrannical factors rooted in human blood for thousands of years disappear? The devil players who advocate THAAD still exist, but are hidden under the ice sea.
Like the bloodthirsty Roman nobles, they relied on wealth, status, power, and did whatever they wanted, trampling on human dignity and souls, and reveled on the victim's corpses.
Yu has no doubt that Kazuma Shinin is such a THAAD-like character. His interest in power and manipulation of others is far beyond sex. The goal of soliciting is to conquer itself, not sexual pleasure.
Every time I show unyielding submission, enduring the fanaticism deep in my eyes can almost make my soul tremble.
Facing such a pair of eyes is really scary
Kasuma Shinin is not even satisfied with physical binding and training, but also tries to invade and manipulate his will and achieve real and complete conquest, especially what Yu is worried about
This perverted sadomasochist is trying to turn himself into a perverted masochist, bent on his head and let him abuse him and become a walking zombie
That is really a more terrifying thing than death. At this point in life, it is better to die than death.
To be honest, Yu was really a little afraid of him. No matter how mentally prepared he was, he could always make himself afraid, hurt, and feel ashamed.
Emotions can be easily manipulated by him, but how long can the spirit last?
Yu shivered in the darkness. Will he eventually give up on himself?
Will you become a masochist who loves pain and injury?
He didn't remember having quirks like rope whips. Those things could only make him feel disgusted and painful, and they couldn't make him excited at all. So, he shouldn't be a person born with masochism?
Although it is indeed a bit strange to have the whipped dream often
Yu can understand the sadism. When he sees the cheerful smile on his face when a child cruelly kills a small insect, he understands that aggression is born
But the masochist who treats pain as happiness... is incredible
The strongest feeling in a person is pain, which is the body reminding the brain to pay attention. If this doesn't work, you will get hurt.
This is the self-protection of the human body. Why do people specifically pursue the pain?
Freedom and desire for conquest are human nature, so who will be willing to accept humiliation and belittlement?
Even if there is, it will definitely not be him
In the books he has read, no scientist can give him a convincing answer.
Some people say that the abused person does not like pain, but likes the pleasure after the pain.
It is said that the body is injured to a certain extent, and it will produce endorphins that can only be produced by drugs such as opium. It feels very high
This will feel when you have skilled whipping or suffocating
But Yu Ke didn't think Ren would be so kind and was willing to act as his senior masseur
It is also said that for some people who feel extremely dull, proper pain can help them arouse sexually.
This is also common in the biological world, such as a female spider who kills a male spouse during mating. Black Widow
In fact, Black Widow will not invade the same kind in daily life. The problem is that when the two organs intercourse, the male spider cannot ejaculate. Only when the female spider is invaded, especially after the male spider's head is swallowed, can the male spider ejaculate in a dying state, thereby continuing the offspring.
In other words, male spiders can only rise if they are abused to this point
Yu looked at himself suspiciously. Although he had been abstinence, he had not reached this point of impotence.
More statements are explained from a psychological perspective, and the statements are also diverse. Some say it is guilty, some say it is fear of loneliness, some say it is desire for love, or trusting the other party.
However, Yu believes that it is unlikely that he will feel guilty about someone who abuses him, love or trust.
He has always enjoyed loneliness because he is afraid of being hurt and has been alone. He takes on everything himself and develops the habit of not liking others to disturb others.
But he is not sure if he is extremely eager to talk to others when mental and physical abuse is long-term, or will this be the main direction of indulgence?
A tremor flew across his body. It was his last bottom line. He could not lose his mind no matter what.
When his body completely loses freedom and is allowed to be humiliated, he can only try to do this first
This is the only thing he can do
In the darkness, he didn't see any chance
Yu thought about it repeatedly in his heart, and tears gradually poured out, soaking his eye mask.
********************
ps:
Oh, this kind of theoretical thing is really boring, but I always feel that it is not OK to not explain it.
Actually, I didn't write it clearly, maybe it would be better to get another explanation--|||
Attached is a side portrait of Marquis Thad. This one looks very handsome and beautiful, just the prototype that Kasumi Nin thought of ^^ Although many people scold Ninja perverts, I do admit that he is perverted, but I still like him quite like him, just like Thad
They sway beautifully in the distance, exuding a kind of evil beauty like poppy and poisonous.
In fact, although THAAD lived a romantic life, his life was still quite tragic. He was sentenced to 27 years in prison for 27 years, and he lived in various prisons of all sizes in France, including the Bastille, and finally died in prison/psychiatric hospital.
The movie "Queen Brush" describes Thad's life before his death. The authorities did not allow him to write things, so he wrote it on his clothes with his blood or dictated it to his admirers (this person is not very charming, and he has many admirers in prison. Although he is indeed a sadist, he publicly declares that only pain in women is real)
Finally, the guardian cut his tongue and locked him into the dungeon naked, forbidding him to spread the toxins. The angry Thad then snatched the iron cross from the priest's hand, swallowed it and killed himself.
Thad in this movie is a sexually ardent anti-social hero
Watching THAAD in the middle of the night was shivering. This person's life is really... very aesthetic value
Well, suicide by swallowing an iron cross is really a sad and symbolic way of death. Should I arrange this ending for Ninja?
Volume 1 Conclusion
How did Xiao M become a master and answer readers' questions
After thinking about it, it would be better to start the article separately. I will explain the original origin of the article and answer some friends' questions in a concentrated manner.
Actually, I haven't been in contact with BL for a long time, and I have always read and not written it. Later, I watched xathane's xfile fan "Adversary", which tells the story of the trainer Lawrence trying to break the agent Maud. The psychological confrontation inside is very exciting. Lawrence originally wanted to use Maud as his last work in his life before he died, but Maud's agility finally conquered him, making him reluctant to break it, and let Maud go
Then there is Mingyuexin. Although it mainly talks about the relationship between slaves and masters who have been broken or tamed, and also talks about the universal slave development plan and mentality, and a little sutra Qianye Cang who is extremely difficult to break but is eventually conquered, left a deep impression on me.
But after the initial shock, I still felt that this story was flawed. The power of the teacher Fujino has been rendered close to the myth
The first is to break Cang's method to deprive the five senses. This result is absolutely impossible to recover. It will only cause mental collapse and become a waste that cannot take care of itself, let alone become a slave with independent consciousness like Cang (this is also recognized by the original author)
The second is that teachers are also human beings. If people have weaknesses and have the possibility of being broken, then teachers are also limited. Some people can break but cannot break, they can break but cannot be tamed.
Excessive mental and physical pain, he may end up being crazy and dying, but he can't pinch it like plasticine and then reshape it.
So after searching for similar articles without success, Cute had the idea of writing himself and wanted to write a relatively reasonable training article. Then Xiaoshou's personality should not be too reversible than bend, and it is very easy to break. Only in this way can he be trained and tamed. After being treated harshly, his spirit will not be completely collapsed and he can be reshaped, and he will also have the possibility of recovery after cruel training.
Because I wanted to write more reasonably, I checked some books and materials about SM and put the background in Japan. The SM industry is relatively developed, so I checked some Japanese things by the way, but I couldn't say anything about research.
Because of this setting, the upper part is destined to be relatively dark
As for the problem of ruthlessness and only abuse, this is because I think love is a very sacred word. Unless the two of them originally use SM as a way of life and flirting, such as <24/7>, love and abuse cannot coexist.
What is particularly unacceptable is the plot of Xiaogang personally slapping Xiaoshou, especially giving him to others to ruin him. One is to be ruthless and be in love with him for revenge, and the other is to be misunderstood or other people's conspiracy, and love him and be ruthless and be ruthless and be ruthless.
A genuine attacker worthy of love, first of all, one must be a person with a sound personality. Two people can break up and kill people, but they cannot use inhuman means to deal with each other.
Moreover, there should be something called trust and respect among lovers
As for emotional communication or attachment between the teacher and the trainee, it cannot be called by love.
After walking through hell, I have written more than 60,000 words. Finally, I have finished laying the foundation.
The initial plan is to make the body abuse the main, the body abuse the first volume 2, the body abuse the first volume 3 + heart abuse the first volume ))))) finally break
The upper part is about 100,000 words. The main plot has been well conceived, and the breaking links have been basically thought of, but the order has not been determined yet.
The psychological causes of abused people are mainly the following factors:
1.That is, the article mentions endorphin addicts. This master-slave relationship is completely dominated by slaves. They take the initiative to find a trainer to ask them to be beaten to high. They often lie on a comfortable bed and light incense and music. Instead, they have extremely high requirements for trainer teachers. The whipping must be regular, not light or heavy.
There is a leather rope for the gang in Taiwan, and it is still a very famous teacher. He said that once the trainee was trained, the slave was high in the end. He was so tired that his shoulders were hospitalized for two weeks.
This is probably no different from having a massage. Adding a little role-playing is just to increase the fun
2.Some people with cold sexual feelings need appropriate pain to get an erection, just like the type mentioned in the article’s poor husband of Black Widow
This feeling of cold may have been acquired
Seeter Wang Fusheng in "How to See Floating Life Is Better to Dreams" and Jia Ming in Andy's "Sex and the City" are transformed into a monster that can only be sexually aroused by whipping because of his inhuman torture.
In fact, Yu in my article is also a bit cold and he repeatedly emphasizes his abstinence at the beginning.
3
Relieve stress
Many abused people are successful people in society and must play a role of being strong and powerful. Therefore, they are willing to be insulted and belittled in the bedroom and seek a psychological balance, just like the flood in their hearts needs a gate.
4.Childhood shadows
This can probably be used to explain all psychological problems, laugh
Sexual whipping is also known as the British vice, which shows its popularity in the UK. It is said that it is because British primary and secondary schools like corporal punishment.
5.Feeling guilty
Christianity believes that suffering in the flesh can cleanse the soul, so medieval monasteries often saw devout believers abuse themselves with thorns.
If it is incomprehensible due to cultural barriers, then for another example, if a hero in a martial arts novel feels guilty about others, then no matter how high his martial arts are, he will immediately change from a big S to a small M, and will never fight back if he is bullied by others, and even entrust his life to others, killing and cutting him at will.
Of course this is not something that both sides of SM voluntarily trust each other, they are purely guilty of seeking abuse
6.Desire for love and attention, that is, fear of loneliness
Slaves are exposed, publicly displayed and humiliated, and are also means to attract attention
They regard pain as the price of love in exchange for the existence of the abuser. Even if it is just an imagined existence and companionship, this is also the reason why the master can achieve remote control.
They are willing to be bound, whipped, pierced, and branded. They do not like pain, but like to be belonged. The words of Maud in "24/7"^^
7.Exchange of power
This is actually the least controversial thing in the SM theory. It believes that most of the so-called master and slave, punishment, etc., are not about pleasure or even sex, but are purely to prove the ritualization of the unequal status of both parties.
Slaves accept extreme humiliation on the one hand and pride themselves on the other hand. This is a paradox, but strange existence
This is what Zhang Ailing said in "Lust and Caution" The ultimate possession, the relationship between tiger and accomplice is also what Wang Xiaobo said: The female prisoner fell in love with the yamen runner, and the dead criminal fell in love with the executioner.
By completely giving up oneself and making oneself completely subordinate to the master, thus making oneself become part of the master and part of the absolute power he trusts.
So weak transforms into powerful, and by giving up, he seizes power that he could not have obtained.
This is the ultimate expression of sm, not about love, not about sex, or even about pleasure, but only belongs to
Well, I have to admit that I wrote this story just to find a shell for the outer packaging for these theories, although I don't know if it will be successful in the end
It is said that there are very few born misogynists, most of which are formed acquired. Because of the shadow of childhood, the setbacks in life, and the indescribable pain, they choose the extreme way of expressing SM, indulge in it like drug use, and regard surrender, humiliation, and harm as their own characteristics. This is their destiny.
Yu in the article is a person who is very hard to break on the outside and hard on the inside. Of course, it is not a way to break it. So what are the plans for this small m refining plan suitable for him?
This is what I want to explain below
Interested readers can also guess ^^
It will probably be stopped for a day or two before continuing. One is that there are too many things at the end of the year, and I feel a little confused. I wrote so much in one go, I want to sort it out
In the end, I should still follow my original idea. I will respect the readers' opinions, but this is the story I want to write.
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