Chapter 139

So, my aunt, I now understand why I was able to attract a girl like Yan Yunru, who was favored by men almost in their horizons.At that time, I was good at studying and studying at the best, and both music and sports were good.But later, I was immersed in the spirit of a scholar, worked hard to do questions and study, and only hoped to rely on learning to exchange for everything, and formed a path dependence.Is this one of the reasons why I took the big shot?

There is no big mistake in this. The ability to do questions and the ability to be sexually attractive is very consistent with traditional logic in our land.

Yeah?

This attraction has only been in East Asia for more than a thousand years, and in the West for hundreds of years, and may never have existed in Black Africa.Of course, in some closed special scenarios, such as in East Asian middle schools, when the elimination rate of selective exams is extremely high and there is a high probability of success in getting into prestigious schools, sports, music and art are blocked, and the ability to do questions, especially mathematics and physics that are difficult and require IQ, is highly emphasized and even established as the only value scale. Then, the question-maker will also make many girls, especially those who are diligent and studious but have mediocre grades, because of their good grades.Especially this kind of future is a bright future, which refers to the kind who can be the best on others. For example, if a top student becomes a cadre, he will have no worries about food and clothing, and if he does not study, he will not be able to find a decent job or even have enough food.

Sun Xiaokan: Auntie, I understand that once you get out of this environment, or if your relationship with good grades and a bright future is falsified, this feeling will soon disappear.

Xu Yuling: It is Ah. There is a rule that all kinds of talents and abilities are related to the serious sexual charm of men in women. In the evolutionary sense, the lower the level, the earlier it appears, and the subconscious, that is, the more you can perceive without complex understanding, the stronger the correlation between sexual charm, and vice versa.

For example, in students' courses, sports is the most sexually attractive. This is the core survival ability in millions of years of evolution. Many sports skills directly originated from hunting and war.

It can be said that the sexual attraction of athletes has the deepest evolutionary psychological foundation.

Music and art, such arts that have existed in prehistoric times, played an important role in the evolutionary history of Homo sapiens. Their sexual charm is second only to sports, and singers and painters are also very attractive.

Chinese should be viewed in one way or two, and language has also existed since prehistoric times, and has played a core role in important matters such as building Homo sapiens community and organizing and collaborating.

But writing is a product of a civilized society, and history is much closer.

In daily life, a person who can speak and is more at ease in the love field than a pen that is slow.

The various science and engineering disciplines developed in modern times are the things that are most distant from evolutionary psychology and are also the ones with the weakest correlation with sexual charm.

The little boy learns guitar because the skill of playing guitar itself can flirt with girls, and it is chasing the ecological niche of the gene provider; and doing questions for flirting with girls is definitely not attracting girls because of the ability to do questions themselves, but the implicit connection between the questions and fame and fortune, and the ecological niche of the donor is chasing.

Sun Xiaokan: I understand. In Yan Yunru's heart, I used to be a sports student, a student master, a questioner, music, and a pen.

That is, they have both the identities of lovers and the offerors.

But later, because of academics, the attribute of music gradually disappeared.

Later, Han Chuyan may have shown a higher level of sports in her mind, especially after they had sex, I was completely destroyed in the most important level of sports.

That's why she was particularly obsessed with Han Chuyan for a while.

But later, she found that the donors and their safety bottom line were threatened, so she became afraid and began to choose to return.

Knowing the truth just makes her angry, does not mean that my attraction in her mind will rise.

Xu Yuling: The world and the times are still diverse.

I experienced the 1980s, which was both a literary craze and a spring of science, but young men at that time knew that flirting with girls had to write poetry, not a good study of mathematics, physics and chemistry.

As technology develops and iterates, some skills will also be replaced by skills with the same niche.

For example, being able to take pictures replaced being able to draw.

In the Titanic era, poor painters could counterattack capitalists by painting private paintings for noble ladies.

Nowadays, literary and artistic youth have to rely on playing SLRs to avoid cheating.

Singing, dancing, playing rap, electronic music. It seems very low-level, but this kind of thing that primitive people can play well is more sexually attractive than the high-level science and engineering that modern people can only learn by racking their brains and losing their hair.

In addition, East Asian cultural and educational systems are contrary to this law.

Music, physical and aesthetics, the course that can enhance sexual charm is the deputy subject and can be randomly squeezed by mathematics classes.

Especially sports, which is dangerous. Many primary school physical education classes are useless now, and they are wearing glasses at a young age.

A clever tongue and sweet words are derogatory words, but a slow word has its own praise.

The boys trained in this system often fail in sexual competition in an environment where they advocate sports since childhood, practice speeches, debates and various language expressions since childhood, and are relatively despised by mathematics, physics and chemistry, and all kinds of literary and artistic hobbies. Assuming the same appearance, economic conditions, etc., sexual competition is often awkward.

Sun Xiaokan: Then what should I do in the future?

Xu Yuling: Change your current lifestyle. Yan Yunru has divorced anyway.

After working on the recent big things, you may have a relatively relaxed time, and you will have to turn back to the way you were in high school.

Your confidence will be restored and your life will be richer and colorful again.

Although I like your boss, I like the way you are snatching your head at work, as your relative, I hope you will become more sunny, charming and confident.

In this way, you can get out of the psychological shadow of losing Yan Yunru, and at the same time, Yan Yunru's affairs will cause you less psychological losses.

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Although, in a short time, there is no possibility of getting Yan Yunru again.

However, this does not prevent Han Chuyan from occasionally recalling the little things about his sex with Yan Yunru.

Especially when Xu Huiying also participated.

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Han Chuyan likes the feeling of Zheng Tingting licking her balls the most, or the feeling of gently rubbing his balls with those slender jade hands with the gentlest charm in the world.

But now, looking at the flawless face of the little beauty lying on the bed with her eyes blindfolded, he wanted Yan Yunru to do Zheng Tingting's business for herself.

Especially when her mother-in-law is also present.