Many cheating women like to lie and give true love to themselves and their lover, which can reduce their psychological burden a little. In fact, they have low moral constraints. Without this lover, if they do, she will still cheat.
But this matter is really not a lie to Xu Huiying.
Xu Huiying completely fell in love with Han Chuyan when she was not leaving that countryside, and she was truly unswervingly.
Even if Xu Huiying, a man who had already struggled in Haidong City in the later stage, would definitely not cheat easily, but she could not change the fact that she cheated on Han Chuyan before.
What's more, Xu Huiying actually did not regret her and Han Chuyan's affairs.
Even if she was discovered by Xiaokan, she regretted that her child was hurt. She regretted that she had not been discovered for her 20 years of extramarital affair and relaxed her vigilance and was found. She even regretted that she forgot the consequences of the extramarital affair and even proposed the idea of matching her wife and her old lover.
Just this night, in Xu Huiying's intermittent description, Sun Xiaokan learned a lot about his mother Xu Huiying's past that he didn't know before.
When Xu Huiying was four years old, Sun Xiaokan's grandmother, Xu Huiying's mother, divorced Xu Huiying's biological father, and left the Demon City and returned to the countryside of Haidong City.
Then Xu Huiying's mother remarried. In order to give birth to a child for her stepfather, Xu Huiying was sent to her stepfather's sister, who was Xu Huiying's eldest aunt's house for three years. Xu Huiying was taken back when she was 15 years old.
She thought she was finally going to live again with her mother's stepfather and her already born sister.
But the stepfather told Xu Huiying that she was going to marry Sun Jinsheng, the son of Grandpa Sun in the same village.
Because the stepfather's biological daughter was sick, Grandpa Sun's family helped them through the difficulties.
The stepfather asked Xu Huiying to come back to repay her kindness and marry her only descendant Jin Sheng.
In 1986, 16-year-old Xu Huiying married 19-year-old Sun Jinsheng.
Immediately, Xu Huiying went to Nara Township, 20 kilometers away to become a rural primary school teacher.
Nara Township is a flood discharge area and is very poor, but the identity of the teacher still satisfies Xu Huiying.
Sun Jinsheng was assigned to serve as a substitute teacher in the suburbs of Haidong City.
Frankly speaking, although Xu Huiying's marriage does not have love, Sun Jinsheng is still honest and reliable.
Sun Jinsheng really loves Xu Huiying, who had already developed beautifully at that time, and Xu Huiying was also a beautiful girl when she married Sun Jinsheng.
To a certain extent, Xu Huiying was also very grateful to Sun Jinsheng's family at that time. After all, being a teacher at that time was a very respectful and self-identifying thing.
Although Sun Jinsheng and Xu Huiying have been separated from each other and do not have much passion, they can be considered dull and worry-free.
In 1987, Sun Xiaokan was born.
A warm family of three, a stable life and a rich life.
Although Xu Huiying has no love and is always separated from her husband, she feels like she has a sense of belonging.
But as time passes day by day, year by year, the sense of home gradually becomes a habit, and the lack of love will become more and more obvious, especially for women like Xu Huiying who have never experienced sweetness or passionate love.
Life was not settled before and I couldn't eat enough, so Xu Huiying's desire for love was forgotten in the corner.
Now that life is stable, teachers are full of food, and their demand for love is gradually emerging. With a few years of precipitation, the demand gradually becomes a desire.
As long as some preparations and opportunities are made, once Xu Huiying's desire for love is aroused, it will be a raging fire, which is enough to cover this sense of belonging.
In 1993, the spring breeze of the market economy also blew to the mainland.
On the way to Shanghai by chance, Xu Huiying passed by People's Park and saw the fashionable men and women who were in love at that time, and her mind was already thrilling.
In the evening, she watched "Titanic" with her female colleague who went to Shanghai to do business. Little Plum Leonardo's handsome appearance fascinated her, and the heart-wrenching love story performed by Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet in the movie made her cry.
Especially the climax part, yujump, jump, and the scene where Little Little Sinks to the bottom of the sea later made her cry.
She never longed for a passionate love like she was back then.
In her eyes, the real love is like the moving Titanic.
Since then, she has been extremely eager for the appearance of Leonardo in her life. As for whether Sun Jinsheng is Carl played by Billy Zane in her heart, I don’t know.
She has never been so upset for her mother: If she had not divorced at the age of four and had been called, wouldn’t she be the child of a senior cadre in the Demon City now?
Then she will definitely be able to reap her own passionate love.
Xu Huiying's floating heart gradually returned to reality until she left the demon city.
The two flowers bloom and each stand on one branch.
In 1993, Han Chutan, who was only 20 years old but had participated in the rotational battle in the south, retired and returned to his post.
He joined the army at the age of 16 and has participated in rotational battles and countless other battles.
According to his resume and contribution, he can easily get to the position of deputy battalion commander in the future.
Moreover, the border was becoming increasingly peaceful and the economy was developing, and there would not be too much danger.
Many people say it’s a pity for this change of career.
However, Han Chuyan's father suffered from hemiplegia at that time, and his mother had passed away, and his father had no one to take care of him. He had a dilemma of loyalty and filial piety since ancient times. He had no choice but to apply for a job and return to his hometown, Nara Township, which is the flood discharge area of Haidong City.
Because of his combat qualifications and contribution to the people's peaceful and peaceful life, he became the youngest deputy township head in the local area and of course, he was also the least powerful deputy township head.
He is in charge of the village education, culture, sports, etc., and is a clear and clear yamen.
Of course, with Han Chuyan's character tempered through hundreds of battles at that time, he would not care about these things.
However, sometimes, it may be destined by Mi Mi.
At that time, Xu Huiying had been living in the dormitory arranged in the township, just over ten meters away from Han Chuyan’s parents’ house.
Long before Han Chuyan's father had already favored him and Han Chuyan had returned from his career, Xu Huiying, who was kind-hearted, took the initiative to take care of Han Chuyan's father for a while under the vigorous spirit of learning from Lei Feng at that time.
Xu Huiying is essentially a kind person. After experiencing many misfortunes at that time, she still loves life. Seeing that the old man next door was hemiplegic, her son could not come back in a short time and no one could take care of him. She instinctively took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of the elderly.
Many years later, she recalled the action that made her and Han Chuyan live for the rest of her life countless times. Xu Huiying had to say that at that time, she really didn't think much about anything or had other thoughts, purposes and expectations.
Han Chuyan will never forget the moment when he first saw Xu Huiying after returning home professionally.
At that time, his colleague and another deputy township chief had already told him that an excellent people's teacher learned from Lei Feng to do good deeds and took care of his father for a while.
He really just wanted to meet that woman at that time. When he recalled it many years later, Han Chuyan had to say that he didn't think much about it at that time, at least before meeting Xu Huiying, he really had no other thoughts, goals and expectations.
But the moment I saw Xu Huiying, a seed quietly began to sprout in the hearts of the two.
But this matter is really not a lie to Xu Huiying.
Xu Huiying completely fell in love with Han Chuyan when she was not leaving that countryside, and she was truly unswervingly.
Even if Xu Huiying, a man who had already struggled in Haidong City in the later stage, would definitely not cheat easily, but she could not change the fact that she cheated on Han Chuyan before.
What's more, Xu Huiying actually did not regret her and Han Chuyan's affairs.
Even if she was discovered by Xiaokan, she regretted that her child was hurt. She regretted that she had not been discovered for her 20 years of extramarital affair and relaxed her vigilance and was found. She even regretted that she forgot the consequences of the extramarital affair and even proposed the idea of matching her wife and her old lover.
Just this night, in Xu Huiying's intermittent description, Sun Xiaokan learned a lot about his mother Xu Huiying's past that he didn't know before.
When Xu Huiying was four years old, Sun Xiaokan's grandmother, Xu Huiying's mother, divorced Xu Huiying's biological father, and left the Demon City and returned to the countryside of Haidong City.
Then Xu Huiying's mother remarried. In order to give birth to a child for her stepfather, Xu Huiying was sent to her stepfather's sister, who was Xu Huiying's eldest aunt's house for three years. Xu Huiying was taken back when she was 15 years old.
She thought she was finally going to live again with her mother's stepfather and her already born sister.
But the stepfather told Xu Huiying that she was going to marry Sun Jinsheng, the son of Grandpa Sun in the same village.
Because the stepfather's biological daughter was sick, Grandpa Sun's family helped them through the difficulties.
The stepfather asked Xu Huiying to come back to repay her kindness and marry her only descendant Jin Sheng.
In 1986, 16-year-old Xu Huiying married 19-year-old Sun Jinsheng.
Immediately, Xu Huiying went to Nara Township, 20 kilometers away to become a rural primary school teacher.
Nara Township is a flood discharge area and is very poor, but the identity of the teacher still satisfies Xu Huiying.
Sun Jinsheng was assigned to serve as a substitute teacher in the suburbs of Haidong City.
Frankly speaking, although Xu Huiying's marriage does not have love, Sun Jinsheng is still honest and reliable.
Sun Jinsheng really loves Xu Huiying, who had already developed beautifully at that time, and Xu Huiying was also a beautiful girl when she married Sun Jinsheng.
To a certain extent, Xu Huiying was also very grateful to Sun Jinsheng's family at that time. After all, being a teacher at that time was a very respectful and self-identifying thing.
Although Sun Jinsheng and Xu Huiying have been separated from each other and do not have much passion, they can be considered dull and worry-free.
In 1987, Sun Xiaokan was born.
A warm family of three, a stable life and a rich life.
Although Xu Huiying has no love and is always separated from her husband, she feels like she has a sense of belonging.
But as time passes day by day, year by year, the sense of home gradually becomes a habit, and the lack of love will become more and more obvious, especially for women like Xu Huiying who have never experienced sweetness or passionate love.
Life was not settled before and I couldn't eat enough, so Xu Huiying's desire for love was forgotten in the corner.
Now that life is stable, teachers are full of food, and their demand for love is gradually emerging. With a few years of precipitation, the demand gradually becomes a desire.
As long as some preparations and opportunities are made, once Xu Huiying's desire for love is aroused, it will be a raging fire, which is enough to cover this sense of belonging.
In 1993, the spring breeze of the market economy also blew to the mainland.
On the way to Shanghai by chance, Xu Huiying passed by People's Park and saw the fashionable men and women who were in love at that time, and her mind was already thrilling.
In the evening, she watched "Titanic" with her female colleague who went to Shanghai to do business. Little Plum Leonardo's handsome appearance fascinated her, and the heart-wrenching love story performed by Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet in the movie made her cry.
Especially the climax part, yujump, jump, and the scene where Little Little Sinks to the bottom of the sea later made her cry.
She never longed for a passionate love like she was back then.
In her eyes, the real love is like the moving Titanic.
Since then, she has been extremely eager for the appearance of Leonardo in her life. As for whether Sun Jinsheng is Carl played by Billy Zane in her heart, I don’t know.
She has never been so upset for her mother: If she had not divorced at the age of four and had been called, wouldn’t she be the child of a senior cadre in the Demon City now?
Then she will definitely be able to reap her own passionate love.
Xu Huiying's floating heart gradually returned to reality until she left the demon city.
The two flowers bloom and each stand on one branch.
In 1993, Han Chutan, who was only 20 years old but had participated in the rotational battle in the south, retired and returned to his post.
He joined the army at the age of 16 and has participated in rotational battles and countless other battles.
According to his resume and contribution, he can easily get to the position of deputy battalion commander in the future.
Moreover, the border was becoming increasingly peaceful and the economy was developing, and there would not be too much danger.
Many people say it’s a pity for this change of career.
However, Han Chuyan's father suffered from hemiplegia at that time, and his mother had passed away, and his father had no one to take care of him. He had a dilemma of loyalty and filial piety since ancient times. He had no choice but to apply for a job and return to his hometown, Nara Township, which is the flood discharge area of Haidong City.
Because of his combat qualifications and contribution to the people's peaceful and peaceful life, he became the youngest deputy township head in the local area and of course, he was also the least powerful deputy township head.
He is in charge of the village education, culture, sports, etc., and is a clear and clear yamen.
Of course, with Han Chuyan's character tempered through hundreds of battles at that time, he would not care about these things.
However, sometimes, it may be destined by Mi Mi.
At that time, Xu Huiying had been living in the dormitory arranged in the township, just over ten meters away from Han Chuyan’s parents’ house.
Long before Han Chuyan's father had already favored him and Han Chuyan had returned from his career, Xu Huiying, who was kind-hearted, took the initiative to take care of Han Chuyan's father for a while under the vigorous spirit of learning from Lei Feng at that time.
Xu Huiying is essentially a kind person. After experiencing many misfortunes at that time, she still loves life. Seeing that the old man next door was hemiplegic, her son could not come back in a short time and no one could take care of him. She instinctively took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of the elderly.
Many years later, she recalled the action that made her and Han Chuyan live for the rest of her life countless times. Xu Huiying had to say that at that time, she really didn't think much about anything or had other thoughts, purposes and expectations.
Han Chuyan will never forget the moment when he first saw Xu Huiying after returning home professionally.
At that time, his colleague and another deputy township chief had already told him that an excellent people's teacher learned from Lei Feng to do good deeds and took care of his father for a while.
He really just wanted to meet that woman at that time. When he recalled it many years later, Han Chuyan had to say that he didn't think much about it at that time, at least before meeting Xu Huiying, he really had no other thoughts, goals and expectations.
But the moment I saw Xu Huiying, a seed quietly began to sprout in the hearts of the two.