When I started writing this article, I was experiencing the symptoms of menopause. I often suddenly had a hot and flushed face, sweating, uneven heart rhythm, and my mood was unstable. I wanted to give up several times. So this article was written intermittently for a long time before I finished it. I often thought I was a romantic and sad person. Unfortunately, my spouse's personality was always concerned about following the necessary behavior of traditional ethics. We have been married for more than 30 years and are still a couple who have never quarreled and respected each other. But whenever I want to be romantic, he is still dull and cares about physical health or image problems in traditional ethics. From young to now, when I have insomnia at night, I often stretch out my hand to touch him who is sleeping by his side or leaning against him with his body, and he is always pushed and dragged by him for various reasons. This is my motivation for writing this article. Although in real life, we are still envious of people and never heard of quarrels.Model couple