I was born in a small town in the north. Although I grew up in the city, my habit of favoring boys over girls was very serious. My grandfather gave birth to four daughters in total. Only my uncle, the third one, was admitted to a university in this province. However, in order to save tuition, my uncle was still very successful in attending a normal university in this province. After graduation, I stayed in Nanjing for a short time and worked as a small civil servant and went into business. I married my aunt, a very delicate and gentle Shanghai girl.