After I heard Zhao Jianxin talk about his divorce from Chen Ying, I thought of a word and interrupted his narration because I saw Zhao Jianxin's expression extremely sad and painful.Undoubtedly, memories made him relive those heart-wrenching experiences again.I decided to comfort him with the breakup between Qiqi and I, and let him temporarily free himself from his memories.And I sensitively discovered some unusual doubts from Zhao Jianxin's story.
It is now around 10 o'clock in the evening, and the floor-to-ceiling night lights in the room have been turned on, soft but not dazzling.Outside the window was full of wind and rain, and the rustling sound of raindrops hitting the flowers and trees came through the window, disturbing people's minds.I jumped off the floor, closed the window, and sat back on my bed.
I said: Jianxin, I am very grateful for your trust in me. I am very grateful for your secret matters that you can tell me without reservation.You know I have had similar emotional experiences. We have all been betrayed by the people we love, and we are all deeply affected by emotions and scarred.Fortunately, as time goes by, we all seem to have survived.After experiencing this painful emotional journey, we will become stronger and smarter. This is the best gift that marriage failure and love setbacks can bring us.Therefore, we don’t need to always be addicted to the pain of the past and jump out to summarize it in time, which is not in vain for the painful struggles we have experienced in the past.Although your story seems to be not over yet, I seem to feel some doubts and want to communicate with you. Is it OK?
Zhao Jianxin looked up at me in confusion and hesitated: Brother He, what are your opinions on this? Why don’t you tell me about it?
Jianxin, you see, you successfully caught the offender on June 27, but on July 3, you and Chen Ying divorced. It seems that this is the result of the unfair affair between Chen Ying and the migrant worker Lai Jun, but don’t you think this is a bit anxious?In just a few days, you still have to run around to find Lai Jun and go to Taiyuan to be busy with official business. This took 5 days to leave you with detailed understanding of the reasons for Chen Ying’s cheating?It’s just about a day. This day is probably not enough. This is the first point.
Secondly, I have seen Chen Ying’s photos, which are indeed beautiful and unparalleled, and she is also a female doctoral student.Judging from the influence of the family environment and personal cultivation, Chen Ying may not be the kind of slut with a degenerate nature.I have never seen Lai Jun, a little migrant worker. According to what you say, he is a rascal villain with poor appearance, a low education, and he is like a soldier.The difference between the two of them is so huge that I think there must be something inside when they get together. I am afraid that just explaining the relationship between them with similar sexual desires is really unconvincing.What's more, Chen Ying herself said that she was raped, coerced after taking photos and videos. She was extremely proud of her face. Maybe she really had to commit herself to Lai Jun for those secretly taken photos and videos.
Chen Ying is a student who has been studying for many years and rarely experiences the wind and rain in society, so it is inevitable that there is insufficient social experience.She also works in a foreign-funded enterprise. The Germans have a rigorous personality and are even a bit rigid, but they are clear in structure and logic, pay attention to the distinction between public and private, and focus on personal work performance. I am afraid that they do not value the so-called interpersonal relationships of us Chinese.As the middle-level manager of Siemens, Chen Ying is the project manager of the product R&D department. I am afraid that the German boss has promoted and used her in a short period of time because she values her business and technical capabilities. She does not value her ability to deal with people.But from the perspective of the word project manager, it focuses more on technical strength and business capabilities, and communication and coordination skills are still second.
Let's assume that Chen Ying was raped by Lai Jun.People like Chen Ying undoubtedly lack the correct solution after being raped.She may be familiar with advanced scientific principles and is no problem, but she lacks coping experiences such as rape and secretly filming videos that are difficult for ordinary people to experience.To put it bluntly, if you and I encounter such incidents, I may be in a short period of time, let alone a beautiful female doctor with extreme self-esteem and self-pride?After she suddenly suffered a devastating blow that severely destroyed her self-esteem and confidence, she would inevitably be stimulated and had cognitive deviations.She is very likely to choose to endure and not call the police, which is the first choice for many raped women. This has been said in the past legal columns and relevant information.
Rape is a serious crime in almost all countries around the world because rape can cause serious psychological harm to the victim's woman, far more than physical harm.In the past, many women chose to commit suicide or silently because of this, and even parents did not call the police for their sake.Many rapists escape punishment because they reconcile with the victim in private and spend money to avoid disasters. This is very common.
Even if the victim calls the police, you know that our public security organs have always been simple and crude in their work, and are straightforward in their words.Their way of understanding the case is actually another psychological harm to the victim. You should have heard of this kind of report, so many people do not call the police for this concern.Even if the call to the police is smooth and the rapist is arrested, people's traditional concepts and vision will not give much sympathy to the victim. Instead, they will wear tinted glasses to treat the victim. How should you tell the victim to call the police?
So, I think Chen Ying did not call the police after being raped. Although her approach is not worthy of recognition, she may not call the police because of the above situations I mentioned.What's more, when Chen Ying saw Lai Jun taking photos and videos with her own eyes, after being tortured by Lai Jun for one night, she really might not call the police out of coercion.At that time, you were her closest person and were not around. Who should she discuss it?Even if you are by her side, I think if she can avoid your gaze, she may not tell you.She has always been in front of you, and will worry that you will despise her and look down on her because of this, let alone the cousin and sister-in-law who has a lower intimacy than you?Considering the above points, I think it is true that Chen Ying was raped, and it is unlikely that she will actively engage in Lai Jun.
It is now around 10 o'clock in the evening, and the floor-to-ceiling night lights in the room have been turned on, soft but not dazzling.Outside the window was full of wind and rain, and the rustling sound of raindrops hitting the flowers and trees came through the window, disturbing people's minds.I jumped off the floor, closed the window, and sat back on my bed.
I said: Jianxin, I am very grateful for your trust in me. I am very grateful for your secret matters that you can tell me without reservation.You know I have had similar emotional experiences. We have all been betrayed by the people we love, and we are all deeply affected by emotions and scarred.Fortunately, as time goes by, we all seem to have survived.After experiencing this painful emotional journey, we will become stronger and smarter. This is the best gift that marriage failure and love setbacks can bring us.Therefore, we don’t need to always be addicted to the pain of the past and jump out to summarize it in time, which is not in vain for the painful struggles we have experienced in the past.Although your story seems to be not over yet, I seem to feel some doubts and want to communicate with you. Is it OK?
Zhao Jianxin looked up at me in confusion and hesitated: Brother He, what are your opinions on this? Why don’t you tell me about it?
Jianxin, you see, you successfully caught the offender on June 27, but on July 3, you and Chen Ying divorced. It seems that this is the result of the unfair affair between Chen Ying and the migrant worker Lai Jun, but don’t you think this is a bit anxious?In just a few days, you still have to run around to find Lai Jun and go to Taiyuan to be busy with official business. This took 5 days to leave you with detailed understanding of the reasons for Chen Ying’s cheating?It’s just about a day. This day is probably not enough. This is the first point.
Secondly, I have seen Chen Ying’s photos, which are indeed beautiful and unparalleled, and she is also a female doctoral student.Judging from the influence of the family environment and personal cultivation, Chen Ying may not be the kind of slut with a degenerate nature.I have never seen Lai Jun, a little migrant worker. According to what you say, he is a rascal villain with poor appearance, a low education, and he is like a soldier.The difference between the two of them is so huge that I think there must be something inside when they get together. I am afraid that just explaining the relationship between them with similar sexual desires is really unconvincing.What's more, Chen Ying herself said that she was raped, coerced after taking photos and videos. She was extremely proud of her face. Maybe she really had to commit herself to Lai Jun for those secretly taken photos and videos.
Chen Ying is a student who has been studying for many years and rarely experiences the wind and rain in society, so it is inevitable that there is insufficient social experience.She also works in a foreign-funded enterprise. The Germans have a rigorous personality and are even a bit rigid, but they are clear in structure and logic, pay attention to the distinction between public and private, and focus on personal work performance. I am afraid that they do not value the so-called interpersonal relationships of us Chinese.As the middle-level manager of Siemens, Chen Ying is the project manager of the product R&D department. I am afraid that the German boss has promoted and used her in a short period of time because she values her business and technical capabilities. She does not value her ability to deal with people.But from the perspective of the word project manager, it focuses more on technical strength and business capabilities, and communication and coordination skills are still second.
Let's assume that Chen Ying was raped by Lai Jun.People like Chen Ying undoubtedly lack the correct solution after being raped.She may be familiar with advanced scientific principles and is no problem, but she lacks coping experiences such as rape and secretly filming videos that are difficult for ordinary people to experience.To put it bluntly, if you and I encounter such incidents, I may be in a short period of time, let alone a beautiful female doctor with extreme self-esteem and self-pride?After she suddenly suffered a devastating blow that severely destroyed her self-esteem and confidence, she would inevitably be stimulated and had cognitive deviations.She is very likely to choose to endure and not call the police, which is the first choice for many raped women. This has been said in the past legal columns and relevant information.
Rape is a serious crime in almost all countries around the world because rape can cause serious psychological harm to the victim's woman, far more than physical harm.In the past, many women chose to commit suicide or silently because of this, and even parents did not call the police for their sake.Many rapists escape punishment because they reconcile with the victim in private and spend money to avoid disasters. This is very common.
Even if the victim calls the police, you know that our public security organs have always been simple and crude in their work, and are straightforward in their words.Their way of understanding the case is actually another psychological harm to the victim. You should have heard of this kind of report, so many people do not call the police for this concern.Even if the call to the police is smooth and the rapist is arrested, people's traditional concepts and vision will not give much sympathy to the victim. Instead, they will wear tinted glasses to treat the victim. How should you tell the victim to call the police?
So, I think Chen Ying did not call the police after being raped. Although her approach is not worthy of recognition, she may not call the police because of the above situations I mentioned.What's more, when Chen Ying saw Lai Jun taking photos and videos with her own eyes, after being tortured by Lai Jun for one night, she really might not call the police out of coercion.At that time, you were her closest person and were not around. Who should she discuss it?Even if you are by her side, I think if she can avoid your gaze, she may not tell you.She has always been in front of you, and will worry that you will despise her and look down on her because of this, let alone the cousin and sister-in-law who has a lower intimacy than you?Considering the above points, I think it is true that Chen Ying was raped, and it is unlikely that she will actively engage in Lai Jun.