There are also some documents that make people feel very in-depth in the documents, such as "Slave Respects", which are as follows:
1. Remember, in SM games, M does not surrender to you, M is just surrendering to your inner fear, and you can only be the actor of M's inner fear.She ends up with M's expected fear, a sense of security and a sense of release that follows orgasm.
You just help M realize the deep desire for self-fear in her soul, helping her recreate the hallucinations in reality.So you are just a character in the play, don't expect to dominate M in reality.Unless you have a very strong personality charm compared to M, don’t use your realistic nature to conquer M, as it may lead to failure.
SM in reality exists, but that is the expansion of the game.At this time, the SM must have a relatively stable psychological advantage gap to ensure that both parties can quickly enter the SM state.Otherwise, once M develops any contempt and disdain for you, your game will end there.
2. In the game, you can conquer those Ms whose comprehensive conditions are much higher than yours, but don't think that's the truth.When your happiness reaches its peak and explodes, then, end the game and go home.If you foolishly think that this is due to your personal charm, and simply want to take M into your pocket and get both wealth and sex.Then I tell you, you won't be able to play this game for the second time.
Therefore, the principle of M training that is much higher than yours is: ignoring reality and focusing on games.Always remember that you are just an actor, once you can't get into the show.Then the SM relationship between you either collapses or becomes a real violence.
3. You must send M into a dream like a hypnotic master and discover what she desires most.And this process must be progressive step by step, and you must try to perceive it all.
As M enters peak happiness, her soul will escape from her flesh, and her flesh will become a machine faithfully performing your various commands.At this time, you can feel your soul as if you are penetrated into M's body and experience happiness that cannot be experienced in the conventional real world.
4. If you only use realistic means such as bundling, tying, and hitting to train M, you will find that you will soon fall into the dilemma of being unable to make any moves.Because the actual means are limited after all, and there are many trainings that are unbearable bottom lines for M, and it is dangerous to test the SM bottom lines too deeply.
S and M are individuals in society after all, and cannot exist without reality.And when you can't use more realistic means to train M, bringing her a fresh stimulation to experience safety fear, it is the day she left you, so you must keep in mind the importance of spiritual training.
You must deliberately require etiquette, politeness, and complex rules, levels, and titles and practice repeatedly.Remember, this is not a useless move. You need to make M a conditioned reflex through these repetitive mental means, so that you can inspire M's equal pleasure with minimal realistic means.Of course, it is also important to keep fresh, because SM is originally a game full of imagination.As the ancients said: Kung Fu is outside of poetry, a qualified S should enrich himself in all aspects so that he can gain the favor of M in the game.
5. You can find M in various professional chat rooms, or post your own M-recommendation advertisements in professional dating forums.The same thing is said, unless you have excellent language talent or training skills, don’t communicate too much with M in a homely manner.You have to learn to communicate with M in the game, otherwise the consequence is that you may become real friends but not SM partners.
6. Don’t communicate with M without being vulgar and unreasonable. When she doesn’t trust or recognize you, she will not be able to feel any pleasure in your reckless behavior.So just talk straightforwardly and communicate with M openly.I think that generally speaking, it is better to perform a scene game first to strengthen the character, so that both parties can quickly find the positioning.
7. Generally speaking, writing training is easier to master, but of course it is extremely difficult to reach the peak.Relatively speaking, voice and video training is difficult.Because it has high requirements for the smoothness and coherence of the game, S must be required to have a strong ability to control the overall situation. At the same time, the external images, accents and tones of S and M will have a great impact on the game.
Generally speaking, video training will be smoother when visually visible to one side.In this way, S has a lot of control space, and there is also a lot of mystery and fear and pressure on M, but generally speaking, if M has never seen S, he would not agree with this model.
8. Telephone training requires rich imagination and great cooperation. It is also quite difficult to do it well.So when you feel that you are not good at this.It’s better to use situational games or text messages to train.But the facts have proved that the stimulation of text messages is stronger than online chat, because from a sensory perspective, mobile text messages make people feel closer.
9. In fact, reality training is easier than voice and video training. The immersive feeling will help you cover up many of your innate shortcomings.Of course, you must use various means to cover up your shortcomings.For example, feeding M, cleaning up her body for M, and even coaching M to abide by etiquette are something that every S can do at will. It does not require very high skills, but it can inspire M's passion.
And remember, if you are a novice, it is best to keep the entire meeting process within the game situation, so that it is easier to succeed.Once the show is out, you will be dead forever, so it is better not to let M out of the show.It is best for you to go home before the show is out, and you can use text messages or online chat to communicate your thoughts afterwards.
10. The last thing to remember is that you still have your life.SM is not just yours, it is just ice cream on your dining table.Eating appropriately feels wonderful, and eating too much will cause diarrhea, so my last advice is: stop at the right time.
At the end of the article "The Experience of Slaves", there is a sentence: Only the conquest of the soul is true conquest, and spiritual surrender is true submission.This roughly illustrates some of the essence of SM.
There is another article about the popularization of common sense about SM, which is a bit different from what I saw on Baidu, but it is more in-depth and specific.I feel that this content should also be written by a senior SM person:
The English abbreviation of SM is Sadism AND Maschism, which literally translates as abuse and being abused, and the SM world translates as abuse.Usually, S refers to master, that is, master, and M refers to slave, that is, slave (the first letter in English is exactly the opposite, which is ridiculous).S has male S and female S, M has male M and female M.
In heterosexuality, it is generally male S to female M, that is, the male owner abuses the female slave, or the female owner abuses the male slave.In homosexuality, it is the male master to the male slave, and the female master to the female slave.
There are many M who never get married for life and are just eager to find an S.Whether S is a man or a woman, the space he has to look for is much greater.An S often has many M, that is, there are many slaves serving him (her).Both sides of SM are absolutely unequal. One side is superior and gives orders, while the other side obeys the orders and obeys absolutely.
(I think the above passage reveals a lot of reasons why S is obsessed with SM, because S does get most of the benefits in SM, just like the vested interests of reality in life. They are not crazy about SM, so who should be crazy about SM?)
There are three differences between abusive love and abuse (narrow sense): 1. Abusive love is voluntary between both parties, and abuse is not; 2. Abusive love is abuse that is negotiated and controlled by both parties in advance, and abuse is not; 3. During the abusive love process, both parties have sexual physiological and sexual psychological (mental enjoyment), and abuse is not.
Whether or not there is a relationship is not the main difference between abusive love and abuse, because abusive love is divided into abusive love with emotions and abusive love without emotions.Abusive love can have feelings, but it does not have to have feelings.
The true meaning of SM is a sexual activity that connects pleasure with pain, or a sexual activity that obtains pleasure through pain.It must be explained that the so-called pain has two connotations: one is physical pain, and the other is mental pain (such as the painful feeling caused by humiliation in the relationship between domination and obedience).
Many S or M people cannot reach a real orgasm in their general sex style. They must use their unique method, that is, the SM method, to reach orgasm.(This reminds me of Xiaoyu and I have said several times that her and her husband Lu?’s sex was not perfect, and this sentence should be about her situation.)
1. Remember, in SM games, M does not surrender to you, M is just surrendering to your inner fear, and you can only be the actor of M's inner fear.She ends up with M's expected fear, a sense of security and a sense of release that follows orgasm.
You just help M realize the deep desire for self-fear in her soul, helping her recreate the hallucinations in reality.So you are just a character in the play, don't expect to dominate M in reality.Unless you have a very strong personality charm compared to M, don’t use your realistic nature to conquer M, as it may lead to failure.
SM in reality exists, but that is the expansion of the game.At this time, the SM must have a relatively stable psychological advantage gap to ensure that both parties can quickly enter the SM state.Otherwise, once M develops any contempt and disdain for you, your game will end there.
2. In the game, you can conquer those Ms whose comprehensive conditions are much higher than yours, but don't think that's the truth.When your happiness reaches its peak and explodes, then, end the game and go home.If you foolishly think that this is due to your personal charm, and simply want to take M into your pocket and get both wealth and sex.Then I tell you, you won't be able to play this game for the second time.
Therefore, the principle of M training that is much higher than yours is: ignoring reality and focusing on games.Always remember that you are just an actor, once you can't get into the show.Then the SM relationship between you either collapses or becomes a real violence.
3. You must send M into a dream like a hypnotic master and discover what she desires most.And this process must be progressive step by step, and you must try to perceive it all.
As M enters peak happiness, her soul will escape from her flesh, and her flesh will become a machine faithfully performing your various commands.At this time, you can feel your soul as if you are penetrated into M's body and experience happiness that cannot be experienced in the conventional real world.
4. If you only use realistic means such as bundling, tying, and hitting to train M, you will find that you will soon fall into the dilemma of being unable to make any moves.Because the actual means are limited after all, and there are many trainings that are unbearable bottom lines for M, and it is dangerous to test the SM bottom lines too deeply.
S and M are individuals in society after all, and cannot exist without reality.And when you can't use more realistic means to train M, bringing her a fresh stimulation to experience safety fear, it is the day she left you, so you must keep in mind the importance of spiritual training.
You must deliberately require etiquette, politeness, and complex rules, levels, and titles and practice repeatedly.Remember, this is not a useless move. You need to make M a conditioned reflex through these repetitive mental means, so that you can inspire M's equal pleasure with minimal realistic means.Of course, it is also important to keep fresh, because SM is originally a game full of imagination.As the ancients said: Kung Fu is outside of poetry, a qualified S should enrich himself in all aspects so that he can gain the favor of M in the game.
5. You can find M in various professional chat rooms, or post your own M-recommendation advertisements in professional dating forums.The same thing is said, unless you have excellent language talent or training skills, don’t communicate too much with M in a homely manner.You have to learn to communicate with M in the game, otherwise the consequence is that you may become real friends but not SM partners.
6. Don’t communicate with M without being vulgar and unreasonable. When she doesn’t trust or recognize you, she will not be able to feel any pleasure in your reckless behavior.So just talk straightforwardly and communicate with M openly.I think that generally speaking, it is better to perform a scene game first to strengthen the character, so that both parties can quickly find the positioning.
7. Generally speaking, writing training is easier to master, but of course it is extremely difficult to reach the peak.Relatively speaking, voice and video training is difficult.Because it has high requirements for the smoothness and coherence of the game, S must be required to have a strong ability to control the overall situation. At the same time, the external images, accents and tones of S and M will have a great impact on the game.
Generally speaking, video training will be smoother when visually visible to one side.In this way, S has a lot of control space, and there is also a lot of mystery and fear and pressure on M, but generally speaking, if M has never seen S, he would not agree with this model.
8. Telephone training requires rich imagination and great cooperation. It is also quite difficult to do it well.So when you feel that you are not good at this.It’s better to use situational games or text messages to train.But the facts have proved that the stimulation of text messages is stronger than online chat, because from a sensory perspective, mobile text messages make people feel closer.
9. In fact, reality training is easier than voice and video training. The immersive feeling will help you cover up many of your innate shortcomings.Of course, you must use various means to cover up your shortcomings.For example, feeding M, cleaning up her body for M, and even coaching M to abide by etiquette are something that every S can do at will. It does not require very high skills, but it can inspire M's passion.
And remember, if you are a novice, it is best to keep the entire meeting process within the game situation, so that it is easier to succeed.Once the show is out, you will be dead forever, so it is better not to let M out of the show.It is best for you to go home before the show is out, and you can use text messages or online chat to communicate your thoughts afterwards.
10. The last thing to remember is that you still have your life.SM is not just yours, it is just ice cream on your dining table.Eating appropriately feels wonderful, and eating too much will cause diarrhea, so my last advice is: stop at the right time.
At the end of the article "The Experience of Slaves", there is a sentence: Only the conquest of the soul is true conquest, and spiritual surrender is true submission.This roughly illustrates some of the essence of SM.
There is another article about the popularization of common sense about SM, which is a bit different from what I saw on Baidu, but it is more in-depth and specific.I feel that this content should also be written by a senior SM person:
The English abbreviation of SM is Sadism AND Maschism, which literally translates as abuse and being abused, and the SM world translates as abuse.Usually, S refers to master, that is, master, and M refers to slave, that is, slave (the first letter in English is exactly the opposite, which is ridiculous).S has male S and female S, M has male M and female M.
In heterosexuality, it is generally male S to female M, that is, the male owner abuses the female slave, or the female owner abuses the male slave.In homosexuality, it is the male master to the male slave, and the female master to the female slave.
There are many M who never get married for life and are just eager to find an S.Whether S is a man or a woman, the space he has to look for is much greater.An S often has many M, that is, there are many slaves serving him (her).Both sides of SM are absolutely unequal. One side is superior and gives orders, while the other side obeys the orders and obeys absolutely.
(I think the above passage reveals a lot of reasons why S is obsessed with SM, because S does get most of the benefits in SM, just like the vested interests of reality in life. They are not crazy about SM, so who should be crazy about SM?)
There are three differences between abusive love and abuse (narrow sense): 1. Abusive love is voluntary between both parties, and abuse is not; 2. Abusive love is abuse that is negotiated and controlled by both parties in advance, and abuse is not; 3. During the abusive love process, both parties have sexual physiological and sexual psychological (mental enjoyment), and abuse is not.
Whether or not there is a relationship is not the main difference between abusive love and abuse, because abusive love is divided into abusive love with emotions and abusive love without emotions.Abusive love can have feelings, but it does not have to have feelings.
The true meaning of SM is a sexual activity that connects pleasure with pain, or a sexual activity that obtains pleasure through pain.It must be explained that the so-called pain has two connotations: one is physical pain, and the other is mental pain (such as the painful feeling caused by humiliation in the relationship between domination and obedience).
Many S or M people cannot reach a real orgasm in their general sex style. They must use their unique method, that is, the SM method, to reach orgasm.(This reminds me of Xiaoyu and I have said several times that her and her husband Lu?’s sex was not perfect, and this sentence should be about her situation.)
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