Chapter 16 Sex

We have been married for more than three years, and because Chen Ying has to complete her doctoral degree and adapt to the new environment of foreign-funded enterprises, Zhoumen has never had a child.I am the only son in the family, and my parents have long hoped that we can have a child.My mother even personally promised that after Chen Ying had a child, she came over to pull her up in person, so we didn't have to worry about it, but only one of us asked to give birth to a boy. If we knew it was not a boy, we would give birth to another one, even if we were fined.

Chen Ying was a little unhappy about this and complained that her husband's family treated her as a machine for giving birth to a child.But her parents also urged her, and her parents were also eager to hold on to their grandson.The mother, a doctor, advised her to have a child quickly before she was 30 years old, otherwise it would be difficult to have a child after she was 30 years old.I have long wanted to have a child to tie Chen Ying's heart, because I know that children are the stabilizer of the family, and with children, I don't have to worry that some people who still miss Chen Ying will have their ideas.

After Chen Ying considered the opinions of these parties, she agreed to have a child.In fact, Chen Ying also likes children, so she likes cousin Li Binxu's son very much.

Her cousin and girlfriend also stayed in Nanjing after graduating from graduate school, and got married a month later than us.The two families live not far away, because everyone is in Nanjing, so they have closer contacts.In 2005, the couple already had their own children.Chen Ying decided to discuss buying a big house with me after she had a child this year.She feels that the living conditions are a little worse now. She likes to have an independent nursery room, and wants to have a study room that is separate from living. Of course, she also wants to have a guest room for parents of both parties to come to live.I thought about it and found that such a four-bedroom house must be more than 150 square meters, and it is difficult to bear the deposits and income we have at hand.Although I worked as a department manager after two years in the logistics company, with an annual income of nearly 200,000 yuan. Chen Ying also received subsidies during her PhD study, but that was not enough for her to spend alone.After all, we have only been married for more than 3 years and our daily expenses are also high, so we have not saved much money.Chen Ying was soon promoted after joining the work.In a foreign-funded enterprise like Siemens, her monthly income is just over 15,000, which has relieved my economic pressure.In order to facilitate Chen Ying's entry and exit, in March 2007, we bought another 16L automatic red Ford Focus, which cost nearly 170,000 yuan in front and back, and then we ate more than half of our savings.

Chen Ying and I drove around and looked around in the development zone in the city of Nanjing. In the attachment of Mochou Lake Park outside the inner ring, I took a fancy to a newly developed property. It is almost all high-rise buildings on the 21st floor. We valued an existing house with a four-bedroom, two-living and two-bathroom apartment on the 18th floor. The construction area is 178 square meters, 9QQ0 yuan per square meter, which costs approximately 1.6 million yuan, and the down payment requires 80,000 yuan a month.With our income, mortgage loans are inevitable and down payments are also a problem.

Since this is the case, I had to stretch out my hand to my parents with a thick face.Mom, don’t you always want to hold your grandson?But the conditions we live in are too poor now, and Xiaoying wants a big house with a nursery room.You should know her temper. If the conditions are not met, she will not be willing to give birth to her. Your grandson plan may be delayed later... My mother took out a passbook of 300,000 yuan for me without saying a word. Chen Ying's family was not to be outdone, and she also took out 300,000 yuan. In this way, we signed a house purchase contract with the developer in mid-May and paid a down payment of 480,000 yuan. Our deposit and the remaining funds supported by the elderly on both sides were more than enough to deal with the decoration, and the rest were handled.In order not to put too much pressure on ourselves, we have been mortgaged for 15 years.

After purchasing the house, we immediately entered the decoration stage. Our family was the first to renovate that unit.Because the couple of us both have work, we don’t have the time and ability to do the house decoration design by ourselves, so we found a house decoration design company called Tianqing with the recommendation of a friend.

We hand over the design and construction to each other, and we handle most of the decoration materials ourselves.This is not to save money, on the contrary, it may cost more.Because we have heard of examples of house decoration design companies using inferior materials as good ones and deceiving customers.In order to ensure the convenience of the indoor environment for maintenance and cleaning, for health and safety reasons, we decided to purchase environmentally friendly materials ourselves. The dosage and product names of these materials will be provided by the construction team for reference.

, Tianqing'House Decoration Design Company recommended a construction team under their company's name to us. The captain is a migrant worker named Lai Jun, from Poyuan County, Jiangxi Province.He is only about 17 meters tall, about 30 years old, he is black and thin, but he looks very energetic and looks honest and simple.His mouth is sweet, and his elder brother and sister shouts very attentively.

I laughed and ridiculed him for his blind name. Maybe he was older than mine.Seeing that I said this, Lai Jun was not lucky enough to say a lot of nonsense, so he took out his ID card to show me. It clearly stated that he was born in November 1981 and from Changyuan Village, Meilin Township, Ziyuan County, Jiangxi Province.It seems that he is really younger than our couple.

He seemed very satisfied with taking over this small project for my home decoration. When he bought wood and other decorative materials for the first time, he volunteered to lead us to the building materials market to purchase materials.

I have heard from my friend that you must not be polite when dealing with the decoration team, because both sides are in conflict.At this time, people cannot be kind or face-saving.It is to let the other party know that you are not easy to talk to, so that he can try his best to do what you want.For things like buying materials, the decoration team is profitable. They have been secretly colluding with the building materials merchants. If you are brought to the door by him, you can only wait for the building materials merchants to slap you.

Chen Ying suddenly became smart and realistic at this time. She carefully recorded the price of the decoration materials of the building materials manufacturer recommended by Lai Jun to us, and went around several stores around her, and found that there was a problem with the price.Chen Ying scolded Lai Jun with a stern face and gave him a warning.Lai Jun immediately became more regular. He hid in the inner room with the building materials manufacturer he recommended and discussed it for a while before coming out. The price he took out was about 10% cheaper than the ones we knew. We gave Lai Jun a face and bought the materials provided by the building materials manufacturer.

Lai Jun personally helped us to order goods, load and escort the car. It seemed that he was impressed by Chen Ying's momentum, and Chen Ying and I drove the car behind.

When I got home at night, Chen Ying sat on my lap, hugged my neck, and said to me with a gloomy face: Husband, look at your wife, right? I scolded Lai Jun, a migrant worker, and lowered the price by 10%.I said that when there is something big in our family, I will definitely take action. I will take action. Your wife, I keep my word and are smart.Don’t worry, you can go on a business trip if you should go on business trips, and leave it to me for decoration.In the past few years, you were almost all worried and laborious in this family, and you worked very hard, so this time it was time for me to take the lead in giving you the best.