The three of us sat at the same table and started to eat and drink.Lao Hou changed his previous rudeness and arrogance, chatted and laughed at the dinner table, frequently advised me to drink, and used public chopsticks to clothe me vegetables, so attentive.
Brother Yan, you are stuck at home lately and can’t walk around and hold it up?Lao Hou and I asked me after a glass of wine.
Well, I have been bored at home these days and can’t go out to move. I can only think about it when I’m idle.Recently I have read some things about SM online and it feels interesting.
Oh, so you are interested in SM too?A gentleman like you is also interesting to us for this, but I really feel a little puzzled.Old Hou asked with a smile as he stared at my eyes.
I can't say I'm very interested, but I know that you and Xiaoyu are a pair of master-slave relationships, which aroused my curiosity about SM, so I want to know about SM.Don’t say that SM is really of some origin, and it cannot be simply evaluated for its good or bad.In order to achieve my goal of this trip tonight, I said a few words against my will.
Yes, according to my temper and personality, I had just had a conflict with Lao Hou, so I would not come to his house to have a meal with a shame, but I have my plans.For this goal, I have to be shameless and say something against my will.
Haha, you finally got to know it. This is probably Xiaoyu's credit.Come on, let’s eat and drink first. After eating and drinking, I will teach you a good class.Lao Hou seemed to be in a good mood and said with a laugh.
Brother Hou, that's great.Let’s have a meal first, and you can tell me in detail after the meal.I said with an impatient look.
After dinner, the three of us sat around the sofa in the living room, drinking tea while listening to Lao Hou Xian talking about SM topics.Lao Hou touched his fat belly and began to instill his long speech in me.
Brother Yan, our SM circle is not as dark and terrifying as outsiders say. Otherwise, will anyone still be interested in SM?All scared away!Think about it, is this the reason?
To me, SM is not a sex game, nor is it a way of sex, but a pure way of life.The spirit and specific content of SM are not only reflected in sexual life, but also more throughout daily life.SM's original intention is sexual abuse, and naturally it has more sexual colors and substance.In our daily life, we can be filled with sexual excitement and pleasure at every moment, which is what we dream of.Through this activity of SM, I can feel the fulfillment and value of life more.
I think that in order to enjoy the fun of SM, we must grasp two basic principles: one is the principle of voluntaryness, and all SM activities are completely voluntary by the participants, although there are some forced colors in form; the other is the principle of safety, including the health and safety of S and M and the social reputation security.
Being able to truly understand and implement these two principles will avoid many unnecessary worries.Everyone says that SMs need mutual trust, and I agree.But trust is not a kindness, nor is it a friend's loyalty.With emotional fusion and psychological mutual dependence, we still need to abide by the above two principles.I think to have fun on SM, you must be relaxed, and SM without psychological humiliation is not SM.
Some people like to tie up, some like to whip, some like to abusive group P, etc., but they just can't accept humiliation.In the SM training state, if you cannot completely give up your self-esteem and personality, you will not be able to reach the state of full commitment and will not be able to enjoy the essence of SM.
Only the conquest of the soul is the true conquest, and the submission of the spirit is the true conquest.Those who can be punished may not be humiliated, and those who can be punished will definitely be punished.There is no psychological humiliation, S is just a tool for M to experience pleasure.Only with psychological humiliation can spiritual conquest be achieved and the SM of lifestyle can be achieved.
What is the humiliation in SM?I think humiliation is the root of SM.No matter what criminal law or form of training, it is necessary to achieve the effect of humiliation, which can cause a strong psychological stimulus and then cause a strong physical shock to finally achieve sexual pleasure.Only complete sexual pleasure can make people give up everything.
There are many ways to humiliate, including verbal humiliation, clothing humiliation, behavioral humiliation, lifestyle humiliation, etc.No matter what method you take, you have to cause a feeling of humiliation in M's heart.But humiliation is not dirty, not slander, not disgust, not neglect.The master slave of SM must be full of appreciation for humiliation. Only when it becomes S's inner pursuit can M truly accept it.It’s like some people who go to prostitutes, they hate prostitutes in their hearts, so they cannot have a perfect enjoyment.Only when you respect her existence and value can you truly feel the pleasure.
To play SM well, you must have certain basic qualities as S and M.First of all, it is common qualities, which include the basic character education of S and M. Believe in SM, you must have a strong sexual desire, a certain aesthetic pursuit, a dedication, and a fundamental idea of trusting and being kind to others.
I don't think M is a pet.Many people regard M as a pet, which is also one of the biggest misunderstandings in our Chinese SM circle.M The values that need to be cognized should be humiliation and abuse are happiness and happiness.Pets need to be cared for, feel sorry for, be willful, and even coax them.This is the difference between M and pets.
If the pleasure does not come from the abuse itself, but expects the care of the owner after the abuse, then it is not a real M, and the S who does this is not a real S.
Wanting to be a pet is a manifestation of emotional fragility and lack of confidence. M's value comes from their understanding of SM, from beliefs and emotional pursuits. With these, M has confidence.S's emotions towards M are by no means love pity, but appreciation, which constitutes S's love beyond everything.
Is there love in SM, and what is it?You will definitely ask this question.My answer is certainly there.When M dedicates everything to S, gives up all moral and material desires, gives up all self-esteem and personal interests, and takes S's happiness as happiness, this kind of emotion transcends all emotions in the world.When S devotes all his efforts to shape a perfect M, to understand and maximize M's pleasure, and let M feel the value of life in this kind of life, this kind of effort is impossible to imagine if it is left without feelings.
However, love in SM has many essential differences from love in general lifestyle.In general love, dedication and patience are advocated, while SM regards dedication as enjoyment and patience as desire.There is no moral and moral burden in SM. Everything they do is completely in their hearts, and is filled with true joy and pleasure at all times.
Generally speaking, love is often said to be unconditional, but in fact there are many conditions.And SM's love must also meet certain conditions, which is that participants must have common SM recognition and implement SM's lifestyle recognition.SM creates feelings because of content, and is definitely not for the sake of feelings.
In the SM world, abuse is love. The deeper the abuse, the deeper the love.Abuse is form and means, and love is the result and purpose.Abuse and love are indistinguishable.
Without SM’s life content, SM’s feelings will collapse.Although some people call themselves slave owners, that actually has nothing to do with SM.Just like in the couple's life or lover's relationship, what exactly is called and get along is their own business.Due to the fundamental difference between morality and values, it is difficult to make sense to measure SM with the common code of conduct in reality. This is why real SM suitors and ordinary enthusiasts often have cognitive conflicts.
Brother Yan, you are stuck at home lately and can’t walk around and hold it up?Lao Hou and I asked me after a glass of wine.
Well, I have been bored at home these days and can’t go out to move. I can only think about it when I’m idle.Recently I have read some things about SM online and it feels interesting.
Oh, so you are interested in SM too?A gentleman like you is also interesting to us for this, but I really feel a little puzzled.Old Hou asked with a smile as he stared at my eyes.
I can't say I'm very interested, but I know that you and Xiaoyu are a pair of master-slave relationships, which aroused my curiosity about SM, so I want to know about SM.Don’t say that SM is really of some origin, and it cannot be simply evaluated for its good or bad.In order to achieve my goal of this trip tonight, I said a few words against my will.
Yes, according to my temper and personality, I had just had a conflict with Lao Hou, so I would not come to his house to have a meal with a shame, but I have my plans.For this goal, I have to be shameless and say something against my will.
Haha, you finally got to know it. This is probably Xiaoyu's credit.Come on, let’s eat and drink first. After eating and drinking, I will teach you a good class.Lao Hou seemed to be in a good mood and said with a laugh.
Brother Hou, that's great.Let’s have a meal first, and you can tell me in detail after the meal.I said with an impatient look.
After dinner, the three of us sat around the sofa in the living room, drinking tea while listening to Lao Hou Xian talking about SM topics.Lao Hou touched his fat belly and began to instill his long speech in me.
Brother Yan, our SM circle is not as dark and terrifying as outsiders say. Otherwise, will anyone still be interested in SM?All scared away!Think about it, is this the reason?
To me, SM is not a sex game, nor is it a way of sex, but a pure way of life.The spirit and specific content of SM are not only reflected in sexual life, but also more throughout daily life.SM's original intention is sexual abuse, and naturally it has more sexual colors and substance.In our daily life, we can be filled with sexual excitement and pleasure at every moment, which is what we dream of.Through this activity of SM, I can feel the fulfillment and value of life more.
I think that in order to enjoy the fun of SM, we must grasp two basic principles: one is the principle of voluntaryness, and all SM activities are completely voluntary by the participants, although there are some forced colors in form; the other is the principle of safety, including the health and safety of S and M and the social reputation security.
Being able to truly understand and implement these two principles will avoid many unnecessary worries.Everyone says that SMs need mutual trust, and I agree.But trust is not a kindness, nor is it a friend's loyalty.With emotional fusion and psychological mutual dependence, we still need to abide by the above two principles.I think to have fun on SM, you must be relaxed, and SM without psychological humiliation is not SM.
Some people like to tie up, some like to whip, some like to abusive group P, etc., but they just can't accept humiliation.In the SM training state, if you cannot completely give up your self-esteem and personality, you will not be able to reach the state of full commitment and will not be able to enjoy the essence of SM.
Only the conquest of the soul is the true conquest, and the submission of the spirit is the true conquest.Those who can be punished may not be humiliated, and those who can be punished will definitely be punished.There is no psychological humiliation, S is just a tool for M to experience pleasure.Only with psychological humiliation can spiritual conquest be achieved and the SM of lifestyle can be achieved.
What is the humiliation in SM?I think humiliation is the root of SM.No matter what criminal law or form of training, it is necessary to achieve the effect of humiliation, which can cause a strong psychological stimulus and then cause a strong physical shock to finally achieve sexual pleasure.Only complete sexual pleasure can make people give up everything.
There are many ways to humiliate, including verbal humiliation, clothing humiliation, behavioral humiliation, lifestyle humiliation, etc.No matter what method you take, you have to cause a feeling of humiliation in M's heart.But humiliation is not dirty, not slander, not disgust, not neglect.The master slave of SM must be full of appreciation for humiliation. Only when it becomes S's inner pursuit can M truly accept it.It’s like some people who go to prostitutes, they hate prostitutes in their hearts, so they cannot have a perfect enjoyment.Only when you respect her existence and value can you truly feel the pleasure.
To play SM well, you must have certain basic qualities as S and M.First of all, it is common qualities, which include the basic character education of S and M. Believe in SM, you must have a strong sexual desire, a certain aesthetic pursuit, a dedication, and a fundamental idea of trusting and being kind to others.
I don't think M is a pet.Many people regard M as a pet, which is also one of the biggest misunderstandings in our Chinese SM circle.M The values that need to be cognized should be humiliation and abuse are happiness and happiness.Pets need to be cared for, feel sorry for, be willful, and even coax them.This is the difference between M and pets.
If the pleasure does not come from the abuse itself, but expects the care of the owner after the abuse, then it is not a real M, and the S who does this is not a real S.
Wanting to be a pet is a manifestation of emotional fragility and lack of confidence. M's value comes from their understanding of SM, from beliefs and emotional pursuits. With these, M has confidence.S's emotions towards M are by no means love pity, but appreciation, which constitutes S's love beyond everything.
Is there love in SM, and what is it?You will definitely ask this question.My answer is certainly there.When M dedicates everything to S, gives up all moral and material desires, gives up all self-esteem and personal interests, and takes S's happiness as happiness, this kind of emotion transcends all emotions in the world.When S devotes all his efforts to shape a perfect M, to understand and maximize M's pleasure, and let M feel the value of life in this kind of life, this kind of effort is impossible to imagine if it is left without feelings.
However, love in SM has many essential differences from love in general lifestyle.In general love, dedication and patience are advocated, while SM regards dedication as enjoyment and patience as desire.There is no moral and moral burden in SM. Everything they do is completely in their hearts, and is filled with true joy and pleasure at all times.
Generally speaking, love is often said to be unconditional, but in fact there are many conditions.And SM's love must also meet certain conditions, which is that participants must have common SM recognition and implement SM's lifestyle recognition.SM creates feelings because of content, and is definitely not for the sake of feelings.
In the SM world, abuse is love. The deeper the abuse, the deeper the love.Abuse is form and means, and love is the result and purpose.Abuse and love are indistinguishable.
Without SM’s life content, SM’s feelings will collapse.Although some people call themselves slave owners, that actually has nothing to do with SM.Just like in the couple's life or lover's relationship, what exactly is called and get along is their own business.Due to the fundamental difference between morality and values, it is difficult to make sense to measure SM with the common code of conduct in reality. This is why real SM suitors and ordinary enthusiasts often have cognitive conflicts.