Chapter 105 Persuasion (I)

I interrupted Zhao Jianxin's story with a word: Xiao Zhao, did this guy Lai Jun get the retribution he deserves?

Zhao Jianxin said calmly: It should be, but I can't say with certainty that he was really evaporated.

Since Lai Jun has evaporated and Chen Ying has remarried and you have found your happy destination, what knots do you still have?

I still have a knot in my heart, but I am Chen Ying.I still can’t figure out what kind of relationship she and Lai Jun have. Why do she say such hurtful words like ‘He is better than you’ when she divorces?Could it be that she resents me to abandon her?But she obviously did the wrong thing first, but I did it later!These days, when I think of Chen Ying and these past events, I feel sad and sad, and I feel like I have returned to my mental state after my divorce.Zhao Jianxin said sadly.

You said that Xiao Zhou knew about Chen Ying, and she advised you to forgive Chen Ying and not to be upset about the old things.How do you think about this?I asked him again.

Wenwen had a fight with me over this matter.Since I met her, I have never quarreled with her, but unexpectedly, I had a big fight because of Chen Ying.

Have you ever wondered why this is?Xiao Zhao.Logically speaking, without your divorce from Chen Ying, you and Xiao Zhou would not be able to get along. She should be glad that Chen Ying cheated on her. There is no need for you to lose peace because of Chen Ying's affairs?I continued to ask in depth.

Wenwen complained that I was ruthless and heartless. She was standing on a woman's standpoint, of course she was aimed at women.She asked me, if she met someone like Lai Jun and was raped and coerced, would I kick her out of the house immediately, willing to be poor and sick, and never forgive her if she dies?This is my heart disease, and I suddenly became angry, and we had a big fight because of it.

Wenwen cried for a while and ignored me for several days, and did as usual, but she didn't sleep with me.It was my father-in-law who came to my house, so she had no choice but to sleep with me again, but I was not allowed to touch her.Until I came to Xi'an for a meeting, we did not make up completely.But I know she is a good woman and I won’t care about her.

After divorced Chen Ying, I admit that Chen Ying has always been in my heart, but it doesn’t mean that I should forgive her.Just to cure her illness, she easily married the man nine years older than her. She is too mean. Is she still the arrogant and self-respecting Chen Ying in the past?Zhao Jianxin was still angry when he talked about these things.

I laughed: Xiao Zhao, speaking of this, you are really a lucky guy. You have met two of your true loves one after another, but you cannot erase Chen Ying's love for you because of Xiao Zhou's love for you.Since ancient times, I have only heard new people laugh. Who would like to listen to old people crying? If you can't have Xiao Zhou, you will be unkind to Chen Ying.I think Xiao Zhou’s disunderstanding of your approach is not just because she is a woman. When I heard that Xiao Zhou’s personality and doing things, I feel that she may be looking at Chen Ying’s cheating from a kind and fair standpoint.

Although Chen Ying also found her home, the age difference between the two sides is 9 years old, and it is inevitable that there will be inconsistency in some aspects. I think she married that doctor more out of gratitude.Think about it, a woman is helpless and poor and sick in a different place. There is a person who cares about her and loves her. Her ex-husband has long been broken with her. The two have no future. What are she waiting for if she doesn't get married?Not to mention Chen Ying is a weak woman, if she was a big man like me, in that situation, and when she met such a female doctor, I would marry her.Wrong, I will marry her.You can marry Xiao Zhou, is Chen Ying going to live a life-threatening life for you?Your thoughts are unfair.

Zhao Jianxin said with a whisper: Didn’t I say that I was persuaded by my mother to change my mind and look for her again, but I didn’t expect that she would get married less than a year after the divorce, but I only got out of that shadow for a long time after the divorce.From this perspective, I am also extremely dissatisfied with Chen Ying.

Xiao Zhao, your idea is even more wrong.At that time, you had completely broken up because of the parents of both sides. Do Chen Ying still dare to have expectations for you?Do you still have expectations for Chen Ying after that incident?You answer me.I refuted him without hesitation.

Zhao Jianxin was speechless after hearing this.

I continued: It’s a pity for you. You actually missed an opportunity to save Chen Ying and you.When Chen Ying was entangled by Lai Jun in Shenzhen for money, you should not reject her flatly, but promised her that you would go to Shenzhen to find her in person.Of course, you will say that you didn’t know the truth about Chen Ying being raped at that time, but you are the ones who have known each other for 7 years.Chen Ying and Lai Jun’s half-month affair is actually not considered an affair in the complete sense, and it easily defeated your seven-year relationship.Is this defeat unjust?

Are you not confident about your seven-year relationship?Is your seven-year relationship not as strong as their half-month affair?You look at the problem from your perspective and perspective, and have never thought about Chen Ying. Even your resignation was not imposed on you by Chen Ying's cheating, but by you, you are angry. Please forgive my straightforwardness.

I stopped, took a sip of beer and continued: Your marriage tragedy with Chen Ying can be characterized as a personality tragedy, and you are all wrong.Chen Ying is too arrogant and too face-loving; you are too paranoid, which is what the saying goes, but in fact you also love your face.You are all too pursuing perfect character, but the final outcome is imperfect, or even tragedy.The essence of your marriage tragedy is an absolute character tragedy.

It is wrong for Chen Ying to not call the police, and it is wrong to complain about you. It is also wrong to have some complaints about you. In order not to let you suffer the harm caused by her cheating, she is willing to bear the infamy and sacrifice her own happiness to protect or save your face, but you cannot help but admit that this is also her painstaking efforts.You don't believe Chen Ying's explanation on the evening of July 2, but I, an outsider, absolutely believe what she is telling the truth.

In the conversation with Chen Ying's cousin's wife, she showed that she was awake again. She realized her love for you. She was still willing to be with you and she was willing to tell you the whole truth.It’s just a pity that Ah, just in response to that sentence, the truth will bring pain, while ignorance will bring happiness.How great it would be for her not to say to you the words "I like to have sex with Lai Jun." That sentence will be a great psychological harm to any husband.But Chen Ying is indeed honest and confessing to you, but she is a bit pedantic, and she can even be said to be brainless.She should not say anything when she listens to her cousin's wife.

Of course, you also said later that I understand these truths by watching rape videos and listening to recordings and knowing that I have made a mistake. I cannot wrongly accuse you of this.

Chen Ying was already traumatized after her divorce. She paid a heavy price for her cheating and found a husband of not the same age. I have to say that you have your responsibility.It was your hasty divorce that forced her to go desperately and was bullied by Lai Jun again in Shenzhen. It was you who was determined not to give her money, forcing her to take risks and fight with Lai Jun. In the end, she had to marry a divorced doctor.I believe that even if you and the doctor were there for her to choose, she would still choose you, but unfortunately you were not there at the time.