I'm not a bad woman, and I don't want to say I'm a bad woman, but I cheated.
This is such an incredible thing for the Chinese classical woman who has always been very innocent and conservative in her mind. However, this incredible thing happened to me after all. For me, it completely caused a major earthquake in my mind.
My name is Xu Jing. I am 28 years old. I have lived a happy life for two years after my husband was diagnosed with prostatitis half a year ago, and our quality of life has begun to decline. Our in life quarrels have also begun to become more and more. Gradually, my husband has also become silent and often stayed home all night. In the face of my questioning, my husband just told me that he became taciturn because of his work pressure.
I am a woman, and a very normal woman. I can understand my husband's current state, because my husband is under great work pressure and his physical condition has some problems, which has caused us to live a normal life between our husband and wife. This puts him a lot of physical and mental pressure. I have repeatedly advised my husband to go to the hospital to see it, which will improve his condition and regain his strength. However, my husband never refused to go to the hospital for face and just went to the pharmacy to buy some medicine, but the effect of these medicines is not obvious.
But I am a normal woman, and I am only 28 years old this year, and I also have normal physiological needs. How can I be satisfied with my husband's condition?
If a normal person cannot get physical needs for a long time, it will make people more manic. So later, I often start quarreling with my husband over some small things. Once the quarrels, my husband will never return all night, leaving me alone in the empty room. I can imagine how uncomfortable it is, who has a strong need for physical needs.
Because I love my husband and I don’t want our lives to continue like this, I decided to explain this to my husband, otherwise our marital status would be difficult to continue, let alone our happiness. So I decided to take my husband to the hospital for treatment, hoping to completely cure his illness and let him return to his previous state of might. After I told my husband about my thoughts, my husband agreed and decided to let me accompany him to the hospital for treatment this weekend.
On weekends, my husband and I got up early in the morning and went to the hospital to queue up.
My husband registered for the menstruation department, but it is strange that there are many people in the menstruation department. It seems that many people in the city are constantly being influenced by tobacco and alcohol because of work pressure and frequent stimulation of tobacco and alcohol.
After a series of examinations, the doctor finally concluded that the husband's sexual ability is actually caused by high stress and there are no organic lesions. The doctor finally prescribed some traditional Chinese medicine for the husband without any side effects. In addition, it is recommended that the husband have a good rest period, because according to the husband's description and corresponding examinations, the husband's body is relatively fatigued because he often works overtime and stays up late. Therefore, it is better to take a rest period to restore sexual function.
After returning from the hospital, my husband seemed to be depressed because the doctor's advice obviously made him very embarrassed, because he has been working in this position for three or four years. According to the company's talent training this year, my husband should be able to achieve the position of department manager this year. However, the other two young backbones of the company have performed very well recently, and the leaders are also very optimistic. They need to compete for the job.
Therefore, over the past period of time, my husband has been facing such great pressure. My husband also said that after his appreciation is successful, we will start to have a child, but now my husband is not even able to have a normal sex life due to the huge work pressure. This makes me really dissatisfied with because I long for a normal couple life.
After a long time of communication with my husband, my husband decided to take a break from this year's annual leave first, and then he would do his best to prepare for the competition after he returned to the company after taking annual leave.
My husband is an old employee, so today's paid annual leave is 15 days, plus the 10 days of rest, my husband's department leader specially approved my husband to take one month off.
By the way, I forgot to tell everyone here what my husband is called. My husband’s full name is Yang Feng, so I always call him Feng.
The second day after my husband took a vacation, he decided to go back to his hometown in rural Hunan to have a good rest and take a good rest, and by the way, he took a good look at his parents from both sides. This made up for the regret of not having time to accompany both sides when he was busy during the holidays and the Chinese New Year.
When my husband was preparing to take a leave, my husband's parents, including my parents, hoped that I could also take a leave at the same time to accompany him to go back to his hometown to have a good rest. However, when my company was officially busy at this time, it was absolutely impossible for the company to approve me to take a leave.
Because I work in a foreign trade company, but my job is mainly civil and translation. However, because my business is quite popular recently, it is very difficult to take leave at this time, so the dream of going home with my husband has not come true.
I had severe insomnia the night my husband was on vacation, because even though my husband was not good at sexual ability, at least he was still a man, and he could talk to me and sleep with me in his arms. At least he wouldn't be so indifferent. So I kept calling my husband at 10 o'clock that night, saying that I miss him very much, and my husband was also worried about me, so I kept reminding my husband to take care of his illness in his hometown. My husband was also very moved when he heard it on the phone and promised me to take care of his illness in peace of mind during the days I went back to my hometown and to take care of his illness.
But something unexpected happened on the third night after my husband went back.
This is such an incredible thing for the Chinese classical woman who has always been very innocent and conservative in her mind. However, this incredible thing happened to me after all. For me, it completely caused a major earthquake in my mind.
My name is Xu Jing. I am 28 years old. I have lived a happy life for two years after my husband was diagnosed with prostatitis half a year ago, and our quality of life has begun to decline. Our in life quarrels have also begun to become more and more. Gradually, my husband has also become silent and often stayed home all night. In the face of my questioning, my husband just told me that he became taciturn because of his work pressure.
I am a woman, and a very normal woman. I can understand my husband's current state, because my husband is under great work pressure and his physical condition has some problems, which has caused us to live a normal life between our husband and wife. This puts him a lot of physical and mental pressure. I have repeatedly advised my husband to go to the hospital to see it, which will improve his condition and regain his strength. However, my husband never refused to go to the hospital for face and just went to the pharmacy to buy some medicine, but the effect of these medicines is not obvious.
But I am a normal woman, and I am only 28 years old this year, and I also have normal physiological needs. How can I be satisfied with my husband's condition?
If a normal person cannot get physical needs for a long time, it will make people more manic. So later, I often start quarreling with my husband over some small things. Once the quarrels, my husband will never return all night, leaving me alone in the empty room. I can imagine how uncomfortable it is, who has a strong need for physical needs.
Because I love my husband and I don’t want our lives to continue like this, I decided to explain this to my husband, otherwise our marital status would be difficult to continue, let alone our happiness. So I decided to take my husband to the hospital for treatment, hoping to completely cure his illness and let him return to his previous state of might. After I told my husband about my thoughts, my husband agreed and decided to let me accompany him to the hospital for treatment this weekend.
On weekends, my husband and I got up early in the morning and went to the hospital to queue up.
My husband registered for the menstruation department, but it is strange that there are many people in the menstruation department. It seems that many people in the city are constantly being influenced by tobacco and alcohol because of work pressure and frequent stimulation of tobacco and alcohol.
After a series of examinations, the doctor finally concluded that the husband's sexual ability is actually caused by high stress and there are no organic lesions. The doctor finally prescribed some traditional Chinese medicine for the husband without any side effects. In addition, it is recommended that the husband have a good rest period, because according to the husband's description and corresponding examinations, the husband's body is relatively fatigued because he often works overtime and stays up late. Therefore, it is better to take a rest period to restore sexual function.
After returning from the hospital, my husband seemed to be depressed because the doctor's advice obviously made him very embarrassed, because he has been working in this position for three or four years. According to the company's talent training this year, my husband should be able to achieve the position of department manager this year. However, the other two young backbones of the company have performed very well recently, and the leaders are also very optimistic. They need to compete for the job.
Therefore, over the past period of time, my husband has been facing such great pressure. My husband also said that after his appreciation is successful, we will start to have a child, but now my husband is not even able to have a normal sex life due to the huge work pressure. This makes me really dissatisfied with because I long for a normal couple life.
After a long time of communication with my husband, my husband decided to take a break from this year's annual leave first, and then he would do his best to prepare for the competition after he returned to the company after taking annual leave.
My husband is an old employee, so today's paid annual leave is 15 days, plus the 10 days of rest, my husband's department leader specially approved my husband to take one month off.
By the way, I forgot to tell everyone here what my husband is called. My husband’s full name is Yang Feng, so I always call him Feng.
The second day after my husband took a vacation, he decided to go back to his hometown in rural Hunan to have a good rest and take a good rest, and by the way, he took a good look at his parents from both sides. This made up for the regret of not having time to accompany both sides when he was busy during the holidays and the Chinese New Year.
When my husband was preparing to take a leave, my husband's parents, including my parents, hoped that I could also take a leave at the same time to accompany him to go back to his hometown to have a good rest. However, when my company was officially busy at this time, it was absolutely impossible for the company to approve me to take a leave.
Because I work in a foreign trade company, but my job is mainly civil and translation. However, because my business is quite popular recently, it is very difficult to take leave at this time, so the dream of going home with my husband has not come true.
I had severe insomnia the night my husband was on vacation, because even though my husband was not good at sexual ability, at least he was still a man, and he could talk to me and sleep with me in his arms. At least he wouldn't be so indifferent. So I kept calling my husband at 10 o'clock that night, saying that I miss him very much, and my husband was also worried about me, so I kept reminding my husband to take care of his illness in his hometown. My husband was also very moved when he heard it on the phone and promised me to take care of his illness in peace of mind during the days I went back to my hometown and to take care of his illness.
But something unexpected happened on the third night after my husband went back.