Chapter 151 Emotional Label

Whenever you blame others, have you ever thought that not everyone in this world has the superior conditions you have?

Xia Wangshu said with a humility and arrogance, if I really like Qingtan’s money rather than his, then he wouldn’t like me at all.

If love is mixed with money and material desires, it can be said that it is no longer pure, but if it is mixed with something else, such as family affection or sexual desires, isn’t it still not pure?

Whether pure or impure, it should be decided by the parties involved, rather than being criticized by standing on the moral high ground.In this world, it’s snowing for everyone, and everyone has their own hiddenness and brightness.

Moreover, if you take a step back, love without material foundation will eventually be a poor couple.

Gu Youhuang closed her beautiful eyes, slowly opened them, and looked at Xia Wangshu.

I am in a mood now and don't want to talk to you anymore.You are indeed changing, but I still can't like you.

Emotions can influence a person's thoughts. Gu Youhuang realized that because she hated Xia Wangshu, she invisibly labeled her negative label.

It reminded her of one thing:

When she was in high school, she had a friend who was very beautiful, had a good family background, and looked very good when she smiled, but her grades were not very good. Most importantly, she also liked her younger brother.

Gu Youhuang was in her heart and labeled her friend as having a stupid head when sleeping in class, so whenever her friend asked for help with her assists or inquire about her brother's preferences, she would be very bored, and then she would sarcastically say that she was a fool.

At that time, Gu Youhuang did not realize that it was because she wanted to monopolize her younger brother, so when she saw a girl who liked her, she would naturally hate her, not because the other party was stupid.

In fact, she has always used herself as her standard to ask girls who like her younger brother. Once she finds out that the other person is inferior to her in any aspect, she will involuntarily feel a strong sense of superiority and contempt in her heart. In fact, even she herself can't realize this emotion, and is completely controlled by her subconscious.

For example, it may be easier to understand. Someone went to the line, but the person who was sent to the line never joined other people's team in his lifetime, so he naturally felt angry.

But later, when Gu Youhuang really got to know that friend, she realized that she had just seen some aspects and did not notice her shining points. The other party was very good at Japanese, had N1 level, and planned to study abroad in the future. Therefore, her high school grades were not important to her, and her label was torn off.

At this time, Gu Youhuang was vaguely aware of something. Only the weak liked to label, and each label was a simplified cognition, which contained subjective emotions.

The education she has always received is to find rules, which are objective and logical cognition.

Emotional labels can make people's behavior lose their rationality and logic.

So Gu Youhuang took the initiative to admit his mistake to his friends.

My friend smiled and said to her, Sister Youhuang, I thought you called me a fool because you liked me. It turned out that you really hate me, Ah, and I was sad.

The two finally reached a settlement.

In fact, it’s pretty good to be angry and embarrassed, but at least I know that I’m wrong.

The same is true now.

She analyzed her heart: Xia Wangshu did something that did not match the label that was labeled, and her first reaction was actually anger. What does this mean?It means she is repeating the same mistake.

Accuses of others often mean one's own frustration, that is, the behavior of others does not meet your expectations.In other words, it is essentially anger at your own powerlessness.

The powerlessness of being sent to others who have been sent to the line, and the powerlessness of being sent to others who have not discovered and stopped being sent to the line in advance.

Gu Youhuang also realized this and felt that since she said it now, she was just angry, so she should not say anything, and there was nothing to say.

That's all, I like to do it myself.After saying that, she stood up and left.

Xia Wangshu sat for a while, then returned to the room alone, lay on the bed and sent a message to his boyfriend, but he did not reply in time. Maybe he was fooling around outside... He felt inexplicably tired and unspeakable depression.

After that time, she no longer had the desire to talk to her. She looked at the book search on her mobile phone, which she had read "Jane Eyre" many times.

This was specially recommended to her by her mother who was a teacher in middle school after knowing that she had a rich boyfriend, aiming to help her learn the concept of independence and self-love.

However, Xia Wangshu went back and forth before he could see from the cracks of the words that money came. The core of the contradiction here was money. Jane Eyrun was because she had no money and went back because she had money.

As long as she has money, she can also support Qingtan...

……

On the other hand, Gu Qingtan and Lin Qiuluan's conversation continued.

She talked to him, and the more she talked, the more she felt frightened. Mr. Gu’s understanding of his father’s ideas was so deep that he talked about and some secrets. It was like he had read those diaries, and his appearance and temperament... But in the past twenty years, he had never heard of his father having a son outside.

You just asked me a lot of questions in one breath. Can I ask you a question?Gu Qingtan suddenly said.

Of course, you can ask.

Is your mother okay?he asked half-swerkingly.

In fact, this is a bit redundant. Last year's Spring Festival Gala, he remembered that Sister Lin went on stage and sang a red song with others. She was almost the age of knowing her destiny, and her figure was still so slim, and she looked nothing changed at all.

Upon hearing this, Lin Qiuluan looked at him deeply. After pondering for a long time, she sighed and reminded, what you want to ask should be my "sister".

Gu Qingtan was slightly stunned. How intelligent he was. He quickly figured out the key to the matter. Sister Lin was pregnant before marriage and could only bring the child to the name of her mother-in-law and father-in-law.

No wonder it was Bai Yan and Qiu Luan...

So Gu Qingtan followed her words and continued, "How are your sister?"

Lin Qiuluan glared at him and curled her lips. She always felt that he was not at ease. She was very good, you don’t need to care about her!She is now the executive vice president of the All-China Federation of Art Troupes and a national first-class actor. Most people can’t see her. If you want to see her, then see her on TV!

Gu Qingtan couldn't help but laugh and didn't intend to care about it like a child, although this child is several years older than him now.

Lin Qiuluan always felt that his eyes looked at him were a little different. How should she describe it? It was the very doting look that made her feel very numb.

This time I saw him, I always felt like he had changed, and I had a particularly strange and strong feeling, as if he and her had an inner connection, but they didn’t have a deep friendship before and didn’t understand each other. It seemed that love at first sight was not the case, but as I got along with him slowly, I was getting closer and closer.

Can't stay any longer.

Lin Qiuluan took a deep breath and calmed down her mood.

It's getting late, it's time for me to go back to the bureau.

Gu Qingtan doesn’t want to keep you, I’ll give you it.

He kept sending her downstairs, watching her get into the police car with a bag of evidence and drive away.