Chapter 88 Something wrong with my Ni'er

Pei Yi said, Dad, are you going out for a while? Are you going to change your clothes, or do you want to watch your daughter change clothes?

Gu Qingtan laughed silently and walked out the door, gradually reminiscing about it, feeling something was wrong, and a psychological noun, Elektra complex, instantly flashed through his mind.

The daughter's actions just now were throwing into her arms, acting coquettishly, hugging her neck, and even kissing... If these happened to her daughter of a few years old, it would be considered a relatively normal behavior.

Because the child did not form a gender concept when he was young, he did not know how to avoid suspicion, but if it happened to his daughter in his twenties, it would make him feel indescribable and weird.

Gu Qingtan couldn't help but lean against the wall and thought. The key factor in the formation of a female Oedipus complex lies in the absence of the role of father in the family in childhood.

After all, it's all his fault.

Once a person's emotional needs are missing, they will try every means to make up for it, so it usually develops into two situations:

One is that the daughter will overly rely on her mother, which is what he analyzed before; the other situation will make her fall in love with mature men who can take care of herself. No matter which situation is the case above, it is essentially hoped to get the love she has never received from others.

What if her real father came back at this time?

I don't need to say more about what will happen next.

Don’t ask for help from others.

Freud once said that the suppressed emotions and unexpressed emotions in people's hearts will never disappear. They are just buried alive and will one day burst out in an ugly way.

Desire is like a big flood. If it is blocked but not loosened, one day it will burst into dams and cause disasters.

Gu Qingtan couldn't help but sigh softly, with a headache.

Looking closely, the daughter's attachment to him should be mixed with a large part of the elements of worship and curiosity.

Perhaps in the years when she was away, she had constructed a father image in her subconscious, and the root of this image was some of her early deeds and the narratives of the people around her.

For example, her daughter is like a hero who knows a glorious and respected hero through an epic of heroes. She only sees the light on the surface, but not the shadow behind the light.

A person’s life is very complicated and should not be beautify or deified. If you want to know a person, you must be viewed dialectically.

And Yi'er's eyes were full of admiration and admiration, and she could no longer see anything else.

Gu Qingtan thought to herself that as her father, she was born with the responsibility of giving her daughter the correct guidance. At the same time, he was also a person who knew one thing very well, that is, the love of banning the forbidden. If you have a little indulgence, you will be out of control.

Next, he intends to circle her a platonic boundary.

Pei Yi spent some time to dress up, and Gu Qingtan stood outside the door waiting for her and thought about something by the way.

When she changed her clothes and walked out, she had completely changed her appearance. She wore a white sailor suit half-sleeved, a solid-color bow tie on her chest, a black and red plaid skirt that was above the knee, a white half-sized socks on her calves, and a pair of black and white canvas shoes on her feet, and her hair was tied into a high ponytail. The girl's pure and clean temperament suddenly appeared.

Gu Qingtan was slightly stunned. This girl definitely did it on purpose.

Because she looks almost the same age as her now, she deliberately dresses up a little tender and takes the youthful girlish route.

But she was not very old, so she combed her hair, put on her JK uniform, and changed into white silk, and now she returned to her school days.

Pei Yi held the corner of her skirt and walked around in front of him, smiling and said, "Does it look good, Dad?"

Of course it looks good.Gu Qingtan nodded slightly, feeling emotion, Dad missed many beautiful moments in your growth, as if you grew up in an instant and became a big girl.And you are willing to show these to your father now, which really touched him.

Pei Yi naturally took her father's arm and snorted softly. Is there anything else I want to say except these?Dad, seeing that he has fair skin, beautiful and long legs, can’t he praise him more...

Yi'er, for you, these do not constitute the standards of beauty.

Gu Qingtan tried to avoid using a preaching tone and briefly explained to her daughter how capital defined the concepts of popular culture and fashion, while the public subtly accepted the standards of beauty they defined, such as fair skin, beautiful appearance, long legs, big chest, thin waist, and a squinted buttock.

And his daughter is not a girl that can be restrained by these standards, and there is no need to pay too much attention to it.

In fact, Gu Qingtan still had some feelings in his heart and did not tell his daughter.

In the past, there was never a shortage of women with fair skin, beautiful and long legs around him. If you play with it... you will find that having a good appearance and figure can't be called a beauty at all. At best, it's just a beautiful vase.

It is important to know that beauty is in the bones, not in the skin, and not in criticism.

Under the repeated similar aesthetics, aesthetic fatigue and even a bit of a greasy taste will inevitably arise.

Sometimes, he even feels that the female stars being pushed are all made according to the same mold, like silicone dolls produced on an assembly line. When he buys them, he often gets idle only once or twice. It’s not like throwing them away, and it takes up space if he doesn’t throw them away.

At the beginning, Mr. Pei seemed to be merciless everywhere, but in fact he was particularly ruthless.

What really makes him feel particularly good is the kind of clean body, beautiful appearance, and good personality. He will even care more when going to bed.

I still remember that there was a third-tier outdated little star named Chen Lingjun. He was a stupid and stupid girl in his bones. Even if he was kneeling on the ground and playing the flute, he dared to raise his head and open his eyes to look at him. He looked like the heroine came out of a romance novel.

……

Pei Yi shook her father's arm gently and asked him why he didn't speak anymore.

Gu Qingtan came to his senses and said, nothing.

She turned her face and said angrily, Humph, Dad, you said so much, but you just refused to praise her for being beautiful!Why don’t you admit it?

Gu Qingtan smiled and said that her daughter is naturally the cutest and most beautiful in the world. There is no doubt about this.

But he couldn't say it directly, otherwise she would be proud. Then he should ask, Dad, who is better looking at me or mom?

He could still see his daughter's little thoughts.

Okay, go downstairs for breakfast.

When Pei Yi heard that there was food to eat, he hurriedly pulled him and Dengdeng ran downstairs.