Chapter 182

I went to kindergarten to pick up Dodo. The little guy looked very excited when he saw me picking her up from school. He hung it on my neck like a koala, but it didn't come down. He just hung it around my neck until he was at home

Xiaoying smiled happily when she saw this scene, but there was always a hint of bitterness in her smile.

After picking up Dodo, Xiaoying and I took Dodo to a nearby restaurant, ordered a few of the family's favorite meals, and then drove to the hospital.

In the past five years, I bought a car myself. I can be regarded as a family with a house and a car. It can also be considered as a problem with the house and the car. After having a car, I feel that it is still more convenient to have a car.

Arrived at the hospital and the designated ward, we saw Aunt Zhang and her father

Five years have passed, Aunt Zhang is not much older, but her father is not as old as she is. Now he is in his 60s. He has no trace of black hair at this moment, all of which are white hair, and he is very thin and thin. He is a little better than being thin as he is. He is far less energetic than when he first got married five years ago.

When we entered the ward, Aunt Zhang was peeling an apple for her father, while her father was lying on the hospital bed to read the newspaper

I have to say that Aunt Zhang is really a very virtuous woman. After marrying her father, she washed clothes and cooked, was frugal, and took care of her father's life in an orderly manner. Moreover, Aunt Zhang has not had high requirements for life, so she wants to live a down-to-earth life. Treat my son Haohao and daughter Duoduo as her own. It can be said that our family has no dissatisfaction with Aunt Zhang, but only kindness and gratitude.

My father has entered middle age. After entering middle age, he began to be troubled by some common pains in the elderly.

This is related to my father's lifestyle habits, overwork and mental state when he was young.

When I was young, my family was poor, and my father had to drop out of school and work at a young age. After getting married, I had to support my parents, wife and children. When I grew up, I earned money to treat my mother, and then I suffered too much psychological pressure. Various reasons and everything were destined to be troubled by illness in my later years.

Three years ago, my father suffered from prostate hyperplasia, a common geriatric disease. As a result, the past three years have been affected by prostate diseases. Frequent urination, increased nocturnal urine, urgency, urinary incontinence, difficulty in urination, incomplete urine, residual urine, hematuria, urinary tract infection, bladder stones, kidney damage, long-term lower urinary tract obstruction, almost all male urinary diseases, father suffered from a disease of the urinary system.

In fact, this disease is not a very serious disease. It’s just that my father is careless about his own body. After having these diseases, he doesn’t care too much. He often buys some medicine and takes something.

Moreover, because this disease is a male disease, he concealed everyone. After all, he couldn't say it, so he was afraid of medical treatment.

Moreover, this disease is related to masturbation and excessive sexual life, so it is difficult for people who have this disease to speak out.

In the end, Aunt Zhang, who lives with her father every day, discovered this problem, because her father's sexual function was greatly affected by this disease, and she found her father's hematuria, etc. In the end, her father's urethra was squeezed by the hyperplasia prostate and could no longer urinate normally. Now she had to go to the hospital and temporarily treat and catheterize the hospital.

In private, Aunt Zhang told me that although this disease is hard to describe, I am my father's only son. Aunt Zhang needs to let me understand the situation so that my father can be treated.

Aunt Zhang told me that when she found out that her father had this disease, she bought medicine for her father, and at the same time told her father not to eat, avoid tobacco and alcohol, avoid spicy food, and prohibit sex life. Tobacco and alcohol and spicy food are the father's favorites. It took him to avoid stagnation and make him lose his life. Sex is forbidden just to avoid re-congestion of the prostate and aggravate the condition. However, my father did not do it as the instructions of Aunt Zhang and the doctor.

He secretly went outside to smoke and drink. Aunt Zhang found out that she had a quarrel with him for a long time, but it didn't work.

In order to avoid choosing a step to stimulate the prostate, Aunt Zhang, who was originally sexually keen, no longer had sex with her father. It was just that her father seemed to masturbate himself in secret to solve the problem.

I believe this, because in recent years, when my father and Aunt Zhang returned to my house to interact, I will also use surveillance to monitor a period of time.

I found that during that time, my father and Aunt Zhang had no sex life, and my father often secretly went to my bathroom in the middle of the night, and then saw familiar scenes, Xiaoying's clothes hanging on the heating, and masturbating her 22-centimeter penis

When I saw these scenes, I felt a little strange. Why did my father, who had Aunt Zhang, didn’t use it, but went to the bathroom to masturbate himself?

It turned out that Aunt Zhang gave her father abstinence because of her illness, but her father still couldn't change his sexual desire and had to masturbate.

Because of shame and other things, my father refused to let Aunt Zhang tell me, so he kept hiding it.

As a result, the condition has worsened and hematuria, renal colic and urinary tract are blocked, so I have to notify me and be admitted to the hospital

Seeing Xiaoying and I come in, Aunt Zhang put down the apple that had not been peeled yet, and quickly stood up to say hello to us. My father looked at Xiaoying and me with a complicated expression, and then quickly looked away.

There was also a hint of shyness on my face. After all, this disease is not a glorious disease, and the real reason for this disease is also some other stories and reasons. Of course, only I, my father and Xiaoying know about these stories and reasons.

Come, Duoduo, let grandpa hug... The father turned his gaze to Duoduo with a shy face, and a trace of doting flashed in his eyes. The words are not false at all

He missed his grandson and granddaughter so much, and at this time it was one of the best ways to divert the topic and attention.

Grandpa Yā... Duoduo saw his grandfather who loved him the most, and his chubby little face smiled into a little flower

Let's have dinner with dad, mom... I said to Aunt Zhang, we see all Aunt Zhang's efforts to her father and this family over the past few years. It can be said that the love she gives to this family is no less than that of my biological mother Fang.

Because my mother passed away early, I felt the mother's love again in Aunt Zhang

When Aunt Zhang and my father first got married, I called Aunt Zhang as my aunt. Later, the whole family began to recognize Aunt Zhang.

Later on Aunt Zhang’s birthday, our family and Aunt Zhang’s daughter celebrated Aunt Zhang’s birthday together. At that birthday party, I personally held a wine glass to Aunt Zhang and called out Mom

Although this title only has one word, the meaning it contains is indeed extraordinary. It represents too many things.

It moved Aunt Zhang so much that she burst into tears. Perhaps at that time she truly felt that everything she had given for this family was worth it.

The only family of five is Haohao. Haohao is still in school with his parents-in-law, so he can only come back on weekends to reunite with his family.

After my father got older, his appetite decreased significantly. It can be said that he was not happy without alcohol. He was not allowed to drink, so he naturally lowered his appetite a lot.

My father took a few simple bites and stopped eating it. Compared to before he got sick, my father had lost too much weight.

Aunt Zhang and Xiaoying also have very little appetite, so in the end, only I, the one who has a big appetite, and the one who eats slowly, are eating very hard.

In the end, Dodobao and I gathered all the remaining meals, and in the end, we had a fight over the ownership of the last Xiaolongbao.

, In the end, under the special favoritism of the rest of the family, the last Xiaolongbao was snatched away by Dodo.

The whole family is happy, everyone is very satisfied, everything seems to be back to the right, as long as my father's illness is cured, everything seems to be perfect

Mom, I'll help you clean up, Xiaoying, you'll accompany you dad. When I saw Aunt Zhang start to clean up the dishes and take out the trash, I hurriedly followed and went to the bathroom with Aunt Zhang to wash the dishes and chopsticks.

The reason why I kept up and left Xiaoying there was because I wanted to discuss and understand my father's condition with Aunt Zhang, and it involved male issues, so letting Xiaoying avoid it is the best choice, and Xiaoying and her father also know what's going on.

As for putting Xiaoying and his father alone, there was no camera in the ward. If it were in the past, I might have been worried, but now, I wouldn't worry about anything. My father has become a patient. Even if I want something to happen, it's different whether my father can get an erection now. And to give the two people a separate time appropriately, it can also eliminate some barriers and increase some natural relationships.

Mom, what do doctors say, I have been checking and observing for so long... Without my father and Xiaoying by my side, Aunt Zhang and I took back our original smiles. At this moment, our faces were a little serious and nervous. My father's actual situation seemed worse than I thought, but Aunt Zhang and I concealed my father and Xiaoying

It is not completely confirmed yet. The doctor has done all the urine and prostate fluid tests today, and the results will come out tomorrow... Aunt Zhang sighed, and the worries and sadness on her face were silent.

The doctor said nothing, how likely is my father to have prostate cancer? I sighed, and my heart tightened.

This disease is at a high incidence period, with a high incidence rate and a second only to lung cancer, so there is no way to explain it clearly, so I can only wait for the final result tomorrow. Aunt Zhang stroked her hair and said lightly, although I am already thirty-six years old.

But since she called Aunt Zhang's mother, Aunt Zhang has always played the role of mother and has always been thinking about me

Mom, don’t worry, even if you really have prostate cancer, it can definitely be cured. Nowadays, medicine is so developed that as long as it is not advanced or malignant tumors, it can basically be cured. Our family’s conditions are not bad, and you can afford any cost. Don’t worry... I comforted Aunt Zhang. To be honest, I have also learned about the situation of prostate cancer. I have no idea whether this disease can be cured, so I can only pretend to be strong and comfort Aunt Zhang.

Okay, let's go back so that you won't go back for a long time, so that your father can think more. At this stage, it's best to hide the condition from him. Don't let him know. And Xiaoying is the best. The fewer people know, the better... Aunt Zhang cleaned up the washed lunch box and bowls.

When we returned to the ward, everything was as usual. Xiaoying kept peeling the apples. When Aunt Zhang and I came back, we saw that four or five apples had been peeled from the fruit plate. This shows that after Aunt Zhang and I went out, Xiaoying kept peeling the apples. It was to divert attention and embarrassment, and my father was holding Dodo and telling her a story.

Seeing the warm picture now, my heart is really complicated. To be honest, although so many things have happened before, I sincerely hope that my father will not get that disease. After all, my mother died of cancer. I don’t want my father to follow in this footsteps. After all, the days ahead are still long, and I am very satisfied with the days now.

All the good or bad life in the future will depend on tomorrow's inspection results...

Note: Some common sense of disease in my work was partially searched online, and some were fabricated for plot needs. People who know medical knowledge do not have to be serious about this. Thank you...