Like the last time, Zhang Weiwei was reborn on Tuesday evening. This time he was already numb. Since he could not end this cycle of reincarnation even if he committed suicide, then just accept it calmly. After many reincarnations, he could give up his feelings with Wang Tianqing and start a new life. Or he would not trigger the time travel mechanism and live peacefully. Or he would use this mechanism to get everything he wanted... Of course, before this, the first thing he had to do is to forget Wang Tianqing.
So he began a numb life like a walking dead. A week later, he found that even if he didn't contact Wang Tianqing, he would automatically travel back the next day after Wang Tianqing found another man to go to bed, so he could only live in this way.
After several reincarnations, he tried to spend money shopping, find groups of beautiful women, or go to extreme sports to kill, or even kill people... But he was difficult to find the happiness and sense of belonging in the years he fell in love with Wang Tianqing, as if he was experiencing other people's lives.
On that day, Zhang Weiwei asked me out for a drink again, and the two of them randomly found a teppanyaki stall on the side of the road.
After daily greetings, Zhang Weiwei suddenly asked: Brother x, do you believe in fate?
Believe in Ah, I always believe in it, what? I continued to talk about it
No, Zhang Weiwei shook her head, but said nothing, and drank with her head
Have you had a cold war with your wife recently? I asked
After hearing this, Zhang Weiwei's expression suddenly became very frustrated and said: It's hard to describe it
The two continued to drink and chat, but the topic they talked about was unprecedentedly profound
Brother x, why do you think I have so few friends? Zhang Weiwei suddenly asked
I hesitated for a long time before saying: Maybe because you are a very purposeful person.
Seeing him silent, I continued: You are too addicted to getting things in your relationship with others. Whether you are with Tianqing or with me, you are attracted by what you want in us, so you are always careful about what you need to pay to get what you think of.
And you are very talented in this regard and know how to exchange for what you want. Because of this, you cherish every chip you have very much, so you don’t have many other friends because you are unwilling to give these chips in exchange for what you don’t want to get.
The chips I mentioned seem to have a scientific name called social currency, but I think it would be too cold-blooded if I am really good friends or lovers.
I also have a deeper understanding after getting married. Sometimes I feel that I have made a lot of money in my family, but I can’t get back the same amount of rewards, but now I can get rid of this discomfort more and more, especially when the couple is together, so you can’t change the other person and can only change your own affairs.
Then your wife cheated on her. Can you change yourself and accept this kind of thing? Zhang Weiwei asked
That's not. After all, this thing is not without a bottom line. If the other party touches this bottom line, then he will definitely not be willing to cherish this relationship. Then it is better to say that peaceful separation is a good choice.
Of course, there is also an open marriage, and I don’t think it’s necessarily unhappy. Of course, everything is based on your love and mutual understanding, and you can’t be unilaterally open.
Listening to my words, Zhang Weiwei showed a thoughtful expression, silently drinking wine...
The next morning, Zhang Weiwei sat up from the bed, stood there motionless for a long time before she started washing, changing clothes, and going out.
He came downstairs of Wang Tianqing again and called her down.
Qingqing, I'm here to break up with you. Zhang Weiwei looked at her heartbreaking girlfriend in front of her, and said so
What do you mean? Wang Tianqing stared at him with a wide eyes and asked in a bad tone
There is nothing else, it's just that I suddenly realized that I really don't understand you, so I'm tired. Zhang Weiwei put her hands in her trouser pockets, but her eyes looked into the distance, with a sigh
Zhang Weiwei, what do you mean? Don’t force yourself, and then blame me, right? Let’s explain clearly, why did I make you confused? I made you tired? Wang Tianqing said angrily
Then tell me first, why don’t I just want to be stingy? Zhang Weiwei asked in a dark and calm manner, it seems that he has become much more Buddhist after death.
You know what you did last night. After Wang Tianqing said that, she turned around and left.
Last night? Brother X and I were drinking... Zhang Weiwei was stunned. After saying that, her pupils suddenly magnified and she hurriedly called her: Wait!
You said last night? Zhang Weiwei asked, and then she seemed to remember something and murmured: Last time she said you went to ktv last night... Landao ktv?
Seeing Wang Tianqing turn around and stop talking, just looking at herself but not denying it, he looked horrified and his voice trembled: Did you see me last night?
Humph... Wang Tianqing sneered with her arms, but this meant that she affirmed the answer
Wait for me to have a thread... Zhang Weiwei no longer was Buddhist, grabbed his head with both hands, and his brain was short-circuited for a moment
Have you always... seen me yesterday? Zhang Weiwei asked in certainty
Are you nervous? What does it mean? Wang Tianqing doesn't understand what he is saying at all
Zhang Weiwei suddenly remembered something and asked: Can you forgive me? I was wrong! I went to... I was prostituted yesterday
Aren't you going to break up? Wang Tianqing said disdainfully
No more distinction, no more distinction! I was a fool just now! Zhang Weiwei quickly explained
Why should I forgive you? Wang Tianqing asked with displeasure
Anything is OK, I'm really wrong, you say it's OK
Then I'll find another man to sleep with, okay? Wang Tianqing asked angrily
Ah? Zhang Weiwei looked bitter and thought to herself why she got back
Can someone change another person? Zhang Weiwei begged
No! Wang Tianqing said: Why do you go to prostitute me and I forgive you? It won’t work until I get there?
Didn’t I spend money to buy services? Zhang Weiwei whispered with no confidence
Zhang Weiwei, go to death, Wang Tianqing was instantly angry and scolded: Today you will break up if you don’t say anything, and then ask me to forgive you for going for a prostitution. After that, it won’t work. I will spend money to buy services. Can it work?
Don't the men all do this? Zhang Weiwei whispered
My Wang Tianqing's husband is not good! Either accept me sleeping with others once, and you have to wait outside the door, or we will finish it! Wang Tianqing said without any room for anything
Please wait for me to think about it. Zhang Weiwei was confused for a moment.
Think slowly, I'm going back to work, Wang Tianqing turned her head with a proud look on her face and went up.
Zhang Weiwei came to the familiar first-floor cafe again, and sat in the thought without saying a word after ordering something. He was struggling with whether to accept Wang Tianqing's conditions.
After all, cuckolding has been a shame deeply embedded in men's bones since ancient times.
He had thought of telling Wang Tianqing about the time travel to explain the reason for his prostitution, but could she believe it? She would only think that she would blame her and would not get angry!
He also thought, if men and women are equal and husband and wife equality are all serious, then I can tolerate you in this regard, and I also ask you to tolerate me. Is this request too much?
From Wang Tianqing's perspective, it is really fair to accept that he has flaws because he loves himself...
Zhang Weiwei sat there and flipped through the photos of Wang Tianqing on her phone over and over again. Her expression on her face was sometimes warm, sometimes melancholy, and sometimes lost her mind...
Finally, he finally made up his mind and opened WeChat. It took him 10 minutes to type 10 words.
I've thought about it, I accept what you said
It took a while before coming back: Don't think you said you would accept it. You drove to pick us up to the hotel when you got off work
OK! Zhang Weiwei typed this word heavily, but it seemed like she was exhausted
Wang Tianqing was sitting at the work station, holding her cell phone but was a little stunned. She didn't know what to go back for a while
On this day, Zhang Weiwei sat in the cafe on the first floor and didn't leave. She also ate lunch here. Wang Tianqing upstairs was also absent-minded all day. Seeing Xiaoxue worriedly, she kept asking her what was wrong.
In the afternoon, Xu Wei came to chat with him by going to the bathroom. Wang Tianqing looked at him and said: Xu Wei, come here, I want to ask you to help me.
……
After get off work, Zhang Weiwei sat in the driver's seat, while Xu Wei, who was a little cramped in the back seat, and Wang Tianqing, who looked down at his cell phone and did not speak.
He looked at Xu Wei's face through the rearview mirror, and he felt extremely disgusted and disgusted with this person, but he could not show his understanding of him, so he couldn't ask Wang Tianqing if he wanted to change someone
Xu Wei was a little restless when he was seen. Although he thought he could speak well, he didn't know what to say in this atmosphere. He could only look at his phone to cover up the embarrassment.
The car soon arrived at a nearby hotel. Zhang Weiwei had already booked a high-end suite with Wang Tianqing's name, and also booked a room next door for herself, just like she asked. She was guarding the door.
After sending the two into the room, Zhang Weiwei also returned to the room. He couldn't smoke and took out a pack of cigarettes and sucked hard in the room while unable to stop coughing.
Wang Tianqing and Xu Wei entered the room, and Xu Wei's eyes began to become a little erratic and slutty. He reached out to Wang Tianqing's waist, holding it, and said in a pretended magnetic voice: Tianqing...
You die! Wang Tianqing knocked off his hand alertly and glared at him angrily
I promised that you can act with me. I will help you change the attendance next month. Don't mess with me. Wang Tianqing said
Tianqing, you said that he has betrayed you once, why do you have to do it for him... It's better to indulge it once again. Xu Wei's hard work is coming again
How can I love come to my freedom? Since he can let me and you come in, he will still be my boyfriend. If you want to have a date, I'm not interested.
I think he is not worthy of your use of this to him. Xu Wei said that, and unbuttoned his shirt twice to reveal his developed chest muscles.
Is it worth it? Xu Wei, if you want to do this again, I will call him in and say you are raped. Then don’t let me play fairy dance with you. Wang Tianqing threatens
Uh... OK Xu Wei is just silly now
This is my good colleague. Come on, do squats with me. How loud are you panting? Are you looking for me to exercise if you don’t have time? We can only 5 minutes of panting.
I think you can underestimate my combat effectiveness... Xu Wei said aggrievedly
So, a man and a woman breathed rhythmically, but through the two doors, Zhang Weiwei, who had no idea of listening to the wall and the wall, didn't hear it at all. It was also a sign of throwing his eyes to the blind man.
Then Wang Tianqing drove Xu Wei away, went to the bathroom to take a hot shower, and blushed to find Zhang Weiwei.
Wow, you are going to lit the house. As soon as Wang Tianqing opened the door, she was almost overwhelmed by the smell of cigarettes in the room.
It's over? Zhang Weiwei asked in a hoarse voice
Yes, Wang Tianqing nodded, she felt a little embarrassed at this time
Come with me to this room, the smell of cigarettes in this room... Wang Tianqing said that, but thought of something again, saying: Forget it, open the window to dissipate the smell.
After saying that, I opened the windows and the air conditioner.
Zhang Weiwei looked at her busy sitting on the bed in a hotel bathrobe, not knowing what she felt like
After Wang Tianqing finished the drum, she sat next to him, reached out and poked him, stared at his face and asked: Why, are you unhappy?
Zhang Weiwei nodded, then shook her head, and said with a forced smile: If you can forgive me completely, I have nothing to be unhappy about.
If you can confess your mistake to me at the beginning and then lie to me that you just went in and saw something, I might have chosen to believe me and would not use this method with you
Wang Tianqing put her head on his shoulder and said softly: I forgive you now, but I agreed that you can't mention this to me later, nor can you dislike me
Zhang Weiwei touched her hair in love and said: This matter will be over from now on, no one will mention it.
Wang Tianqing used his fingertips to draw circles on his fat breasts that were no less than him, and whispered: Then would you like to stay here with me for a while now?
Zhang Weiwei's breath became heavy, and both of them turned their heads toward each other, their lips getting closer and closer
Wait! Zhang Weiwei suddenly remembered something and stood up
Do you dislike me?! Wang Tianqing's face turned dark
No! When is now? Zhang Weiwei quickly picked up his phone, covered his face and said: The grass, it’s past 8 o’clock, it’s over.
What's over?
Lottery Ah... Zhang Weiwei beat his chest and stamped his feet, suddenly looked at Wang Tianqing and asked: Wife, can we break up first?
Wang Tianqing's hair was almost angrily standing up and cursed: What do you mean?
I can't explain it to you...but do you want to be a billionaire?
……
The above is the story that happened to my buddy Zhang Weiwei. After asking for his consent, I sorted out the whole story and wrote this article
Let me tell you what I think about this matter
Now let alone couples. It is really common for some such gossiping incidents between couples. It's just that some people are kept in the dark, some choose to break the dead, some choose to pretend not to know, and some choose to swallow the grievances...
People with different personalities will make different choices under different background conditions
The way of handling Wang Tianqing is a typical broken window effect, just like fighting, if you hit me with 3 points, I will hit you with 4 points, you will hit me with 5 points, and then... beat each other to death
Isn't this the reason for this when all the conflicts between two people become increasingly serious?
Is the so-called true love exposing the softest part of oneself to the other person and preparing to be hurt in his heart?
In addition, I have read an article before saying that an expert survey said that 90% of Chinese couples have been prostitutes, and 50% of women have cheated. Although I expressed serious doubts about the accuracy of this data, did those experts take the risk of being beaten to do many interviews, or did they go to the door of others to listen to the data obtained from the wall?
But this proves that at least some people agree with this statement.
My colleagues, friends, and gay friends in the game. As long as a bunch of men are together, I can’t help but talk about my health care record. It seems that few men who have already started a family can keep their bodies as jade.
Even if a college student is in love, boys want to establish a relationship and go to check in a room when they find a girlfriend. Girls tend to rely on boys’ consideration and care, except for the few who are purely money-worshipping.
Men walk on the kidneys, women walk on the heart
Men tend to spend money to get a shot, and after solving their needs, they may not even know what the other person looks like; women want to find a man who knows cold and warm, who can comfort themselves, or who can pursue themselves and affirm their charm, and for this, she is willing to pay her own body as a price.
Therefore, there is some truth to the conclusion that men are prone to prostitution and women are prone to cheating.
This incident also made me think about whether there is a so-called bottom line in relationships between people. Just like my stern mother who was a child smashed the game console she saved for half a year to buy after spending pocket money. I felt that this had violated my bottom line, and I would never forgive her in my life.
When you grow up, you find that what people call the bottom line will change due to changes in time or emotions.
Just like this now, because Zhang Weiwei really loves Wang Tianqing very much. If he really changes his bottom line because of this love and breaks some of the principles he might have adhered to before, then is this true love or humble?
And if it is humble, then the person who fears oneself is afraid that the other party will have no bottom line, or is it just afraid of the opinions of others around you?
Through this incident, I also realized a truth: Can two close people really understand each other deeply? Is the so-called familiarity just because they are familiar with each other's words and deeds, thus becoming muscle memory?
Just like a partner who has been working with crosstalk for many years, she only cooperates in a specific way of getting along.
What if there is a premise that both of them are at a loss?
Of course, this is a false proposition for most ordinary people, but prostitution and cheating are a test question or a touchstone between husband and wife.
I think if there were so many couples who had such a thing, how would they deal with it? Will there be many women like Wang Tianqing who cheated because the other party went to prostitution, and those men who were prostitution? Is it because their love affair was not satisfied? Then is it also a causal cycle?
There is no final answer for everything
over
So he began a numb life like a walking dead. A week later, he found that even if he didn't contact Wang Tianqing, he would automatically travel back the next day after Wang Tianqing found another man to go to bed, so he could only live in this way.
After several reincarnations, he tried to spend money shopping, find groups of beautiful women, or go to extreme sports to kill, or even kill people... But he was difficult to find the happiness and sense of belonging in the years he fell in love with Wang Tianqing, as if he was experiencing other people's lives.
On that day, Zhang Weiwei asked me out for a drink again, and the two of them randomly found a teppanyaki stall on the side of the road.
After daily greetings, Zhang Weiwei suddenly asked: Brother x, do you believe in fate?
Believe in Ah, I always believe in it, what? I continued to talk about it
No, Zhang Weiwei shook her head, but said nothing, and drank with her head
Have you had a cold war with your wife recently? I asked
After hearing this, Zhang Weiwei's expression suddenly became very frustrated and said: It's hard to describe it
The two continued to drink and chat, but the topic they talked about was unprecedentedly profound
Brother x, why do you think I have so few friends? Zhang Weiwei suddenly asked
I hesitated for a long time before saying: Maybe because you are a very purposeful person.
Seeing him silent, I continued: You are too addicted to getting things in your relationship with others. Whether you are with Tianqing or with me, you are attracted by what you want in us, so you are always careful about what you need to pay to get what you think of.
And you are very talented in this regard and know how to exchange for what you want. Because of this, you cherish every chip you have very much, so you don’t have many other friends because you are unwilling to give these chips in exchange for what you don’t want to get.
The chips I mentioned seem to have a scientific name called social currency, but I think it would be too cold-blooded if I am really good friends or lovers.
I also have a deeper understanding after getting married. Sometimes I feel that I have made a lot of money in my family, but I can’t get back the same amount of rewards, but now I can get rid of this discomfort more and more, especially when the couple is together, so you can’t change the other person and can only change your own affairs.
Then your wife cheated on her. Can you change yourself and accept this kind of thing? Zhang Weiwei asked
That's not. After all, this thing is not without a bottom line. If the other party touches this bottom line, then he will definitely not be willing to cherish this relationship. Then it is better to say that peaceful separation is a good choice.
Of course, there is also an open marriage, and I don’t think it’s necessarily unhappy. Of course, everything is based on your love and mutual understanding, and you can’t be unilaterally open.
Listening to my words, Zhang Weiwei showed a thoughtful expression, silently drinking wine...
The next morning, Zhang Weiwei sat up from the bed, stood there motionless for a long time before she started washing, changing clothes, and going out.
He came downstairs of Wang Tianqing again and called her down.
Qingqing, I'm here to break up with you. Zhang Weiwei looked at her heartbreaking girlfriend in front of her, and said so
What do you mean? Wang Tianqing stared at him with a wide eyes and asked in a bad tone
There is nothing else, it's just that I suddenly realized that I really don't understand you, so I'm tired. Zhang Weiwei put her hands in her trouser pockets, but her eyes looked into the distance, with a sigh
Zhang Weiwei, what do you mean? Don’t force yourself, and then blame me, right? Let’s explain clearly, why did I make you confused? I made you tired? Wang Tianqing said angrily
Then tell me first, why don’t I just want to be stingy? Zhang Weiwei asked in a dark and calm manner, it seems that he has become much more Buddhist after death.
You know what you did last night. After Wang Tianqing said that, she turned around and left.
Last night? Brother X and I were drinking... Zhang Weiwei was stunned. After saying that, her pupils suddenly magnified and she hurriedly called her: Wait!
You said last night? Zhang Weiwei asked, and then she seemed to remember something and murmured: Last time she said you went to ktv last night... Landao ktv?
Seeing Wang Tianqing turn around and stop talking, just looking at herself but not denying it, he looked horrified and his voice trembled: Did you see me last night?
Humph... Wang Tianqing sneered with her arms, but this meant that she affirmed the answer
Wait for me to have a thread... Zhang Weiwei no longer was Buddhist, grabbed his head with both hands, and his brain was short-circuited for a moment
Have you always... seen me yesterday? Zhang Weiwei asked in certainty
Are you nervous? What does it mean? Wang Tianqing doesn't understand what he is saying at all
Zhang Weiwei suddenly remembered something and asked: Can you forgive me? I was wrong! I went to... I was prostituted yesterday
Aren't you going to break up? Wang Tianqing said disdainfully
No more distinction, no more distinction! I was a fool just now! Zhang Weiwei quickly explained
Why should I forgive you? Wang Tianqing asked with displeasure
Anything is OK, I'm really wrong, you say it's OK
Then I'll find another man to sleep with, okay? Wang Tianqing asked angrily
Ah? Zhang Weiwei looked bitter and thought to herself why she got back
Can someone change another person? Zhang Weiwei begged
No! Wang Tianqing said: Why do you go to prostitute me and I forgive you? It won’t work until I get there?
Didn’t I spend money to buy services? Zhang Weiwei whispered with no confidence
Zhang Weiwei, go to death, Wang Tianqing was instantly angry and scolded: Today you will break up if you don’t say anything, and then ask me to forgive you for going for a prostitution. After that, it won’t work. I will spend money to buy services. Can it work?
Don't the men all do this? Zhang Weiwei whispered
My Wang Tianqing's husband is not good! Either accept me sleeping with others once, and you have to wait outside the door, or we will finish it! Wang Tianqing said without any room for anything
Please wait for me to think about it. Zhang Weiwei was confused for a moment.
Think slowly, I'm going back to work, Wang Tianqing turned her head with a proud look on her face and went up.
Zhang Weiwei came to the familiar first-floor cafe again, and sat in the thought without saying a word after ordering something. He was struggling with whether to accept Wang Tianqing's conditions.
After all, cuckolding has been a shame deeply embedded in men's bones since ancient times.
He had thought of telling Wang Tianqing about the time travel to explain the reason for his prostitution, but could she believe it? She would only think that she would blame her and would not get angry!
He also thought, if men and women are equal and husband and wife equality are all serious, then I can tolerate you in this regard, and I also ask you to tolerate me. Is this request too much?
From Wang Tianqing's perspective, it is really fair to accept that he has flaws because he loves himself...
Zhang Weiwei sat there and flipped through the photos of Wang Tianqing on her phone over and over again. Her expression on her face was sometimes warm, sometimes melancholy, and sometimes lost her mind...
Finally, he finally made up his mind and opened WeChat. It took him 10 minutes to type 10 words.
I've thought about it, I accept what you said
It took a while before coming back: Don't think you said you would accept it. You drove to pick us up to the hotel when you got off work
OK! Zhang Weiwei typed this word heavily, but it seemed like she was exhausted
Wang Tianqing was sitting at the work station, holding her cell phone but was a little stunned. She didn't know what to go back for a while
On this day, Zhang Weiwei sat in the cafe on the first floor and didn't leave. She also ate lunch here. Wang Tianqing upstairs was also absent-minded all day. Seeing Xiaoxue worriedly, she kept asking her what was wrong.
In the afternoon, Xu Wei came to chat with him by going to the bathroom. Wang Tianqing looked at him and said: Xu Wei, come here, I want to ask you to help me.
……
After get off work, Zhang Weiwei sat in the driver's seat, while Xu Wei, who was a little cramped in the back seat, and Wang Tianqing, who looked down at his cell phone and did not speak.
He looked at Xu Wei's face through the rearview mirror, and he felt extremely disgusted and disgusted with this person, but he could not show his understanding of him, so he couldn't ask Wang Tianqing if he wanted to change someone
Xu Wei was a little restless when he was seen. Although he thought he could speak well, he didn't know what to say in this atmosphere. He could only look at his phone to cover up the embarrassment.
The car soon arrived at a nearby hotel. Zhang Weiwei had already booked a high-end suite with Wang Tianqing's name, and also booked a room next door for herself, just like she asked. She was guarding the door.
After sending the two into the room, Zhang Weiwei also returned to the room. He couldn't smoke and took out a pack of cigarettes and sucked hard in the room while unable to stop coughing.
Wang Tianqing and Xu Wei entered the room, and Xu Wei's eyes began to become a little erratic and slutty. He reached out to Wang Tianqing's waist, holding it, and said in a pretended magnetic voice: Tianqing...
You die! Wang Tianqing knocked off his hand alertly and glared at him angrily
I promised that you can act with me. I will help you change the attendance next month. Don't mess with me. Wang Tianqing said
Tianqing, you said that he has betrayed you once, why do you have to do it for him... It's better to indulge it once again. Xu Wei's hard work is coming again
How can I love come to my freedom? Since he can let me and you come in, he will still be my boyfriend. If you want to have a date, I'm not interested.
I think he is not worthy of your use of this to him. Xu Wei said that, and unbuttoned his shirt twice to reveal his developed chest muscles.
Is it worth it? Xu Wei, if you want to do this again, I will call him in and say you are raped. Then don’t let me play fairy dance with you. Wang Tianqing threatens
Uh... OK Xu Wei is just silly now
This is my good colleague. Come on, do squats with me. How loud are you panting? Are you looking for me to exercise if you don’t have time? We can only 5 minutes of panting.
I think you can underestimate my combat effectiveness... Xu Wei said aggrievedly
So, a man and a woman breathed rhythmically, but through the two doors, Zhang Weiwei, who had no idea of listening to the wall and the wall, didn't hear it at all. It was also a sign of throwing his eyes to the blind man.
Then Wang Tianqing drove Xu Wei away, went to the bathroom to take a hot shower, and blushed to find Zhang Weiwei.
Wow, you are going to lit the house. As soon as Wang Tianqing opened the door, she was almost overwhelmed by the smell of cigarettes in the room.
It's over? Zhang Weiwei asked in a hoarse voice
Yes, Wang Tianqing nodded, she felt a little embarrassed at this time
Come with me to this room, the smell of cigarettes in this room... Wang Tianqing said that, but thought of something again, saying: Forget it, open the window to dissipate the smell.
After saying that, I opened the windows and the air conditioner.
Zhang Weiwei looked at her busy sitting on the bed in a hotel bathrobe, not knowing what she felt like
After Wang Tianqing finished the drum, she sat next to him, reached out and poked him, stared at his face and asked: Why, are you unhappy?
Zhang Weiwei nodded, then shook her head, and said with a forced smile: If you can forgive me completely, I have nothing to be unhappy about.
If you can confess your mistake to me at the beginning and then lie to me that you just went in and saw something, I might have chosen to believe me and would not use this method with you
Wang Tianqing put her head on his shoulder and said softly: I forgive you now, but I agreed that you can't mention this to me later, nor can you dislike me
Zhang Weiwei touched her hair in love and said: This matter will be over from now on, no one will mention it.
Wang Tianqing used his fingertips to draw circles on his fat breasts that were no less than him, and whispered: Then would you like to stay here with me for a while now?
Zhang Weiwei's breath became heavy, and both of them turned their heads toward each other, their lips getting closer and closer
Wait! Zhang Weiwei suddenly remembered something and stood up
Do you dislike me?! Wang Tianqing's face turned dark
No! When is now? Zhang Weiwei quickly picked up his phone, covered his face and said: The grass, it’s past 8 o’clock, it’s over.
What's over?
Lottery Ah... Zhang Weiwei beat his chest and stamped his feet, suddenly looked at Wang Tianqing and asked: Wife, can we break up first?
Wang Tianqing's hair was almost angrily standing up and cursed: What do you mean?
I can't explain it to you...but do you want to be a billionaire?
……
The above is the story that happened to my buddy Zhang Weiwei. After asking for his consent, I sorted out the whole story and wrote this article
Let me tell you what I think about this matter
Now let alone couples. It is really common for some such gossiping incidents between couples. It's just that some people are kept in the dark, some choose to break the dead, some choose to pretend not to know, and some choose to swallow the grievances...
People with different personalities will make different choices under different background conditions
The way of handling Wang Tianqing is a typical broken window effect, just like fighting, if you hit me with 3 points, I will hit you with 4 points, you will hit me with 5 points, and then... beat each other to death
Isn't this the reason for this when all the conflicts between two people become increasingly serious?
Is the so-called true love exposing the softest part of oneself to the other person and preparing to be hurt in his heart?
In addition, I have read an article before saying that an expert survey said that 90% of Chinese couples have been prostitutes, and 50% of women have cheated. Although I expressed serious doubts about the accuracy of this data, did those experts take the risk of being beaten to do many interviews, or did they go to the door of others to listen to the data obtained from the wall?
But this proves that at least some people agree with this statement.
My colleagues, friends, and gay friends in the game. As long as a bunch of men are together, I can’t help but talk about my health care record. It seems that few men who have already started a family can keep their bodies as jade.
Even if a college student is in love, boys want to establish a relationship and go to check in a room when they find a girlfriend. Girls tend to rely on boys’ consideration and care, except for the few who are purely money-worshipping.
Men walk on the kidneys, women walk on the heart
Men tend to spend money to get a shot, and after solving their needs, they may not even know what the other person looks like; women want to find a man who knows cold and warm, who can comfort themselves, or who can pursue themselves and affirm their charm, and for this, she is willing to pay her own body as a price.
Therefore, there is some truth to the conclusion that men are prone to prostitution and women are prone to cheating.
This incident also made me think about whether there is a so-called bottom line in relationships between people. Just like my stern mother who was a child smashed the game console she saved for half a year to buy after spending pocket money. I felt that this had violated my bottom line, and I would never forgive her in my life.
When you grow up, you find that what people call the bottom line will change due to changes in time or emotions.
Just like this now, because Zhang Weiwei really loves Wang Tianqing very much. If he really changes his bottom line because of this love and breaks some of the principles he might have adhered to before, then is this true love or humble?
And if it is humble, then the person who fears oneself is afraid that the other party will have no bottom line, or is it just afraid of the opinions of others around you?
Through this incident, I also realized a truth: Can two close people really understand each other deeply? Is the so-called familiarity just because they are familiar with each other's words and deeds, thus becoming muscle memory?
Just like a partner who has been working with crosstalk for many years, she only cooperates in a specific way of getting along.
What if there is a premise that both of them are at a loss?
Of course, this is a false proposition for most ordinary people, but prostitution and cheating are a test question or a touchstone between husband and wife.
I think if there were so many couples who had such a thing, how would they deal with it? Will there be many women like Wang Tianqing who cheated because the other party went to prostitution, and those men who were prostitution? Is it because their love affair was not satisfied? Then is it also a causal cycle?
There is no final answer for everything
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