I first started to get in touch with the Internet in junior high school. Driven by curiosity, I immersed myself step by step and enjoyed it.
Like everyone who has just been online, once you come into contact, you are immediately impressed by its infinite charm.
There is a feeling of broad vision and sudden enlightenment
The first impression the Internet gave me was that I could easily and quickly find a large amount of knowledge and information in various aspects.
Later, I came into contact with QQ and felt it was so wonderful. I could communicate with people from all over the world, chat with netizens without any scruples, and reveal my thoughts.
At the beginning, there were a few friends who were chatting with me, greeting each other, talking about work and life, and experience and mood.
Feeling pretty good
I had a little feeling with one of the netizens, sent photos to each other, left contact information to each other, and videoed once
I happened to break up with my college partner and didn't know my ex-boyfriend yet
He said he liked me very much and asked me to see him. For more information, I also had some impulses in this regard.
But he didn't contact me for more than ten days later. Later, a woman called me and said it was his girlfriend. After seeing our chat history, I woke up as if I was dreaming.
Later he also explained to me that he had always wanted to break up with his girlfriend and wanted to see me. I said let me talk about it later. I also changed my phone number.
After that, I met my ex-boyfriend and I rarely communicated with that netizen. I consciously distanced him from him, but I would occasionally greet him and say peace.
Later, for some reason, the account I used suddenly couldn't get on. Maybe the QQ account was stolen and I never contacted that netizen, including many friends in that account
What are netizens?
It may be someone you are not a relative but you often miss
It may be someone who is not a lover but makes you emotionally attached
It may also be someone who is not a lover but makes you rely on your feelings.
It may even be someone who is not a lover but you are obsessed with.
Since I met my ex-boyfriend, I have basically no emotional issues when chatting. In addition to real relatives and friends, I also have very few voice and videos with ordinary netizens.
I don't want to be casual in reality, and I don't want to be casual online either
As I got fresh and curiosity, and heard some bad online experiences from some friends, I gradually stopped chatting often. Some friends saw that I didn’t often online, so many friends ignored me.
To be honest, I don’t really believe in the Internet now. I also know that the Internet is just a tool and carrier. Maybe the ones I really don’t believe in should be unfamiliar people.
With the popularity of smartphones and the emergence of WeChat, we live in the world of the Internet every moment.
Needless to say, the benefits of the Internet can allow us to browse a lot of information and truly know the world without going out.
It can help us work, study, live, entertainment, communication, online shopping, send and receive red envelopes, capital flow, etc.
Like many attractive things, the Internet is also a double-edged sword. Pros and cons coexist. The scale of good and bad is difficult to grasp, and it is often separated by a line. The so-called slight difference can lead to a thousand miles of mistakes.
While it brings us unparalleled convenience, it may also bring us a lot of troubles, even diseases and harms.
The Internet may make strangers familiar, but it may make familiar people unfamiliar.
There is no time to spend with parents, lovers, children, and friends, but there is a lot of time to hold the phone and smile foolishly. I often have nothing to say with people close to me, but I have a smile with people thousands of miles away.
After getting married, my husband didn't like me to chat, so I chatted less online. One is because I didn't like it very much, and the other is to avoid unnecessary conflicts with my husband.
Sometimes my husband comes back very late, and doesn't like to stay at home on holidays, and doesn't communicate much with me when I'm fine.
Men may cheat because of impulse, and women may cheat because of loneliness. Although I did not cheat, I started to contact some different types of QQ groups online.
At most, I was in more than ten groups at the same time. In order to attract people, I had an account with the number of friends that exceeded the upper limit.
At the beginning, it was just some ordinary chat groups, such as dance exchange groups, poetry couplet groups, food, clothing, housing and transportation groups
Later, I joined some groups and chatted with each other a little ambiguously, posting some pornographic pictures and pornographic video files
Some of the more taboo groups, such as Wenai Group, SM Group, and Madam Group.
I also briefly talked about each other's privacy with a few friends in the group.
At the same time, I was also pulled into many groups that mainly include group videos, such as singing and dancing groups, and AV movies. I also danced in several officially recommended green song and dance groups.
There are also some simple porn groups, so-called show, the men and women on the videos may show their temptation, or masturbate alone, or have sex on the videos.
There are some such fixed groups that need to be verified on video and then changed to the group business card, that is, verify the gender.
Sometimes you have to make some gestures according to management requirements to prevent using videos to impersonate a live video
I have been on video twice to change the group's business card, but I have never taken it off
I was surprised to see their open performances. It was fresh. I couldn't figure out what their psychology was because of, and I was so unloved, but I quickly told me rationally that this shouldn't be the ugliest thing on the Internet.
It is different from watching movies by myself. I must not get used to this feeling, otherwise it will easily get deeper and deeper, which is very dangerous
So, in the future, I will refuse
After that, I quit many groups, and now I rarely watch the groups, and I haven't had any videos for a long time
Some people may not understand why some people are so obscene and evil on the Internet when they are usually hypocritical?
In fact, it is not difficult to understand carefully. There are good and evil in human nature.
The online world has much less constraints than the real world, and the evil side of human nature is also easy to highlight.
In reality, morality and law regulate people's words and deeds
The two complement each other and go hand in hand. No matter what is missing, society will not develop healthily.
Morality can give people a bottom line in their hearts, and law can make people have some concerns and dare not do evil.
There is a more obvious difference between Eastern and Western cultures, that the West pays more attention to law, and the East pays more attention to morality.
Regarding morality, the West is a culture of guilt, and the East is a culture of shame.
Simply put, the culture of guilt means that when a person makes a mistake, he will first feel guilty, and he will feel uneasy, so he often goes to church to confess.
Shame culture means that when people make mistakes, the first thing they think is that they are afraid that others will be embarrassed and affect their image. Therefore, they often worship gods and Buddhas for blessings.
Therefore, since most of the people you face on the Internet are strangers and things, even if you do something wrong, no one knows it, and you won’t worry about embarrassing or affecting your image. The Internet does not have strict supervision
Without moral constraints and the lack of law, it is easy for some people to be careless, break through the bottom line of morality, indulge themselves, and even hurt others.
What we need to do is to try our best to restrain ourselves, protect ourselves, treat others well, and beware of others.
No matter how wonderful the Internet world is, it cannot affect the happy life in reality. The Internet should serve our work, study, leisure and entertainment, and make our lives colorful. We should never sacrifice happiness in reality to indulge in the Internet and linger in illusion.
Don't put the cart before the horse
The Internet is just a tool. We must be good at using tools to serve us, rather than being used by tools, so that it will be a real rebellion.
Like everyone who has just been online, once you come into contact, you are immediately impressed by its infinite charm.
There is a feeling of broad vision and sudden enlightenment
The first impression the Internet gave me was that I could easily and quickly find a large amount of knowledge and information in various aspects.
Later, I came into contact with QQ and felt it was so wonderful. I could communicate with people from all over the world, chat with netizens without any scruples, and reveal my thoughts.
At the beginning, there were a few friends who were chatting with me, greeting each other, talking about work and life, and experience and mood.
Feeling pretty good
I had a little feeling with one of the netizens, sent photos to each other, left contact information to each other, and videoed once
I happened to break up with my college partner and didn't know my ex-boyfriend yet
He said he liked me very much and asked me to see him. For more information, I also had some impulses in this regard.
But he didn't contact me for more than ten days later. Later, a woman called me and said it was his girlfriend. After seeing our chat history, I woke up as if I was dreaming.
Later he also explained to me that he had always wanted to break up with his girlfriend and wanted to see me. I said let me talk about it later. I also changed my phone number.
After that, I met my ex-boyfriend and I rarely communicated with that netizen. I consciously distanced him from him, but I would occasionally greet him and say peace.
Later, for some reason, the account I used suddenly couldn't get on. Maybe the QQ account was stolen and I never contacted that netizen, including many friends in that account
What are netizens?
It may be someone you are not a relative but you often miss
It may be someone who is not a lover but makes you emotionally attached
It may also be someone who is not a lover but makes you rely on your feelings.
It may even be someone who is not a lover but you are obsessed with.
Since I met my ex-boyfriend, I have basically no emotional issues when chatting. In addition to real relatives and friends, I also have very few voice and videos with ordinary netizens.
I don't want to be casual in reality, and I don't want to be casual online either
As I got fresh and curiosity, and heard some bad online experiences from some friends, I gradually stopped chatting often. Some friends saw that I didn’t often online, so many friends ignored me.
To be honest, I don’t really believe in the Internet now. I also know that the Internet is just a tool and carrier. Maybe the ones I really don’t believe in should be unfamiliar people.
With the popularity of smartphones and the emergence of WeChat, we live in the world of the Internet every moment.
Needless to say, the benefits of the Internet can allow us to browse a lot of information and truly know the world without going out.
It can help us work, study, live, entertainment, communication, online shopping, send and receive red envelopes, capital flow, etc.
Like many attractive things, the Internet is also a double-edged sword. Pros and cons coexist. The scale of good and bad is difficult to grasp, and it is often separated by a line. The so-called slight difference can lead to a thousand miles of mistakes.
While it brings us unparalleled convenience, it may also bring us a lot of troubles, even diseases and harms.
The Internet may make strangers familiar, but it may make familiar people unfamiliar.
There is no time to spend with parents, lovers, children, and friends, but there is a lot of time to hold the phone and smile foolishly. I often have nothing to say with people close to me, but I have a smile with people thousands of miles away.
After getting married, my husband didn't like me to chat, so I chatted less online. One is because I didn't like it very much, and the other is to avoid unnecessary conflicts with my husband.
Sometimes my husband comes back very late, and doesn't like to stay at home on holidays, and doesn't communicate much with me when I'm fine.
Men may cheat because of impulse, and women may cheat because of loneliness. Although I did not cheat, I started to contact some different types of QQ groups online.
At most, I was in more than ten groups at the same time. In order to attract people, I had an account with the number of friends that exceeded the upper limit.
At the beginning, it was just some ordinary chat groups, such as dance exchange groups, poetry couplet groups, food, clothing, housing and transportation groups
Later, I joined some groups and chatted with each other a little ambiguously, posting some pornographic pictures and pornographic video files
Some of the more taboo groups, such as Wenai Group, SM Group, and Madam Group.
I also briefly talked about each other's privacy with a few friends in the group.
At the same time, I was also pulled into many groups that mainly include group videos, such as singing and dancing groups, and AV movies. I also danced in several officially recommended green song and dance groups.
There are also some simple porn groups, so-called show, the men and women on the videos may show their temptation, or masturbate alone, or have sex on the videos.
There are some such fixed groups that need to be verified on video and then changed to the group business card, that is, verify the gender.
Sometimes you have to make some gestures according to management requirements to prevent using videos to impersonate a live video
I have been on video twice to change the group's business card, but I have never taken it off
I was surprised to see their open performances. It was fresh. I couldn't figure out what their psychology was because of, and I was so unloved, but I quickly told me rationally that this shouldn't be the ugliest thing on the Internet.
It is different from watching movies by myself. I must not get used to this feeling, otherwise it will easily get deeper and deeper, which is very dangerous
So, in the future, I will refuse
After that, I quit many groups, and now I rarely watch the groups, and I haven't had any videos for a long time
Some people may not understand why some people are so obscene and evil on the Internet when they are usually hypocritical?
In fact, it is not difficult to understand carefully. There are good and evil in human nature.
The online world has much less constraints than the real world, and the evil side of human nature is also easy to highlight.
In reality, morality and law regulate people's words and deeds
The two complement each other and go hand in hand. No matter what is missing, society will not develop healthily.
Morality can give people a bottom line in their hearts, and law can make people have some concerns and dare not do evil.
There is a more obvious difference between Eastern and Western cultures, that the West pays more attention to law, and the East pays more attention to morality.
Regarding morality, the West is a culture of guilt, and the East is a culture of shame.
Simply put, the culture of guilt means that when a person makes a mistake, he will first feel guilty, and he will feel uneasy, so he often goes to church to confess.
Shame culture means that when people make mistakes, the first thing they think is that they are afraid that others will be embarrassed and affect their image. Therefore, they often worship gods and Buddhas for blessings.
Therefore, since most of the people you face on the Internet are strangers and things, even if you do something wrong, no one knows it, and you won’t worry about embarrassing or affecting your image. The Internet does not have strict supervision
Without moral constraints and the lack of law, it is easy for some people to be careless, break through the bottom line of morality, indulge themselves, and even hurt others.
What we need to do is to try our best to restrain ourselves, protect ourselves, treat others well, and beware of others.
No matter how wonderful the Internet world is, it cannot affect the happy life in reality. The Internet should serve our work, study, leisure and entertainment, and make our lives colorful. We should never sacrifice happiness in reality to indulge in the Internet and linger in illusion.
Don't put the cart before the horse
The Internet is just a tool. We must be good at using tools to serve us, rather than being used by tools, so that it will be a real rebellion.
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