Mom, you have to show confidence and majesty, otherwise those people will think you are easy to bully and will climb onto your head. Over time, no one will take you seriously and you don’t have any burden. They say theirs, those who say behind their backs that you have no real ability to move on through relationships are purely looking for trouble and jealous of you, they just can’t do anything to you, so they say bad things about you, which makes you embarrassed. In fact, you have a different idea. It’s nothing. Nowadays, no one depends on relationships, no one goes through the back door, and who is successful with real ability. I’m afraid there are not many! They are all trying their best to climb the dragon and attach to the phoenix, and sharpen their heads to find a backstage for themselves.
Meng Jingyun nodded outside the door
Give a realistic example
Li Qiaoling suddenly lowered her voice, glanced out of the door with a conditioned reflex, and leaned forward on the table.
What are you going to say, mysterious
Seeing this, Qiu Min leaned forward, glanced at her daughter, and signaled her to say!
Li Qiaoling whispered: Let’s take Aunt Xiulan as an example. How she was like back then? You work in the hospital together. You know the best. There is nothing at home. To be honest, I think she is not as good as you, and not as beautiful as you!
Where is it!
Even though he said that, Qiu Min was still happy in her heart. You can tell by looking at the bright colors in her eyes.
Li Qiaoling is really right. Qiu Min graduated from high school. In that era, high school students were very educated.
Before she got a nurse, she had been working as a teacher in the elementary school of her hometown brigade. She was considered a cultural person in the village.
It is precisely because of this reason that she and her husband have no common language. Because of their personality, although they didn't quarrel, they were all strangers. After all, the education they received is not the same.
It was said that Qiu Min had a city household registration before, because the Cultural Revolution went to the countryside to go to her husband's village, and the two were confused. There was nothing to say about the later things, just like those of that era.
I can't go back to the city, so I became a teacher on the team and lived a life. This is how I have been doing for more than ten years.
The couple had no relationship. If their daughter Qiu Min hadn't left long ago, this time because her daughter was in high school, she simply quit her teacher's job and came to the city. Finally, she met He Xiulan at the parent-teacher meeting and then got a job in the hospital.
It is precisely because of this that Li Qiaoling was instilled by her mother's thoughts since she was a child, and she became very utilitarian and matured early.
Listen to me and say it, Aunt Xiulan is a realistic example. She will seize opportunities, be scheming, use her own favorable conditions, and use some beauty tricks to catch the boy's heart.
The boy Li Qiaoling said naturally was Meng Jingyun. Although the mother and daughter whispered very lowly, they still couldn't escape the ears outside the door.
Look at her now, when she comes back from China, it is a drastic change. Her temperament has changed, her identity has changed, and her knowledge has also changed. She starts a company, is a boss, manages hundreds of people under her command, and speaks a fashionable foreign language. Now she is still a trendy figure at the forefront of fashion, and the dream lover of thousands of young men. What is this relying on?
Qiu Min is not a fool, so he naturally knows, so he curled his lips, what's the point!
There are two kinds of people who will succeed in modern society. One is those who are solid and willing to work hard, stick to their ideals, and work hard to grasp the pulse of the world. They have a forward-looking vision and can always be at the forefront of every step. The other is a person like her. It can be said to be a wrong way. But in this era of laughing at the poor but not prostitutes, who still cares about your past, and only sees the results.
Bah, you shouldn't
Of course, hehe!
Li Qiaoling smiled with her lips and raised her feet to press her feet on the stool, which seemed extremely relaxed. I am not asking you to sacrifice your lust and please the boy, but I just give you an example. We still have to be strong in life, right!
I don't know, I want you to say
Qiu Min gave her daughter a look
You know, but you are too weak and polite to everyone. Because of this, there is no majesty. Those below are not afraid of you. Officials, when they have the authority of the official, they must be solemnly majestic, and they cannot get along with the people below. They must be alienated and speak less, so that they cannot guess and see through. When giving orders, they must be affirmative, confident, and cold in their expressions, which reveal an unquestionable meaning. Why do people say that the superiors are lonely? This is the reason. You can observe that the women living in Xiyuan are all government officials, especially the mayor Chen Tao. They have a face of the king of hell all day long, and they rarely smile when they see anyone.
It's so hard! Mom can't learn it
Qiu Min shook her head
You must learn, otherwise your future will end here. Can't you still see it?
What?
Aunt Xiulan asked you to go to Fengdu this time, obviously it was cultivating you
Qiu Min nodded, I know this
Do you see the deeper meaning?
Isn't it just that I'm going to teach my experience in the past? My mother is also the store manager now, so
I'm not saying this
That's it?
Feng is the capital of our Jiangdu. After that, the company will definitely grow bigger and bigger, radiating across the country. Aunt Xiulan is the general agent of the Z region. Now I send you to Fengdu. What do you mean later?
You mean?
Li Qiaoling nodded, she wants to train you to be the general agent of a province. Soon, the company will definitely set up a regional branch in Fengdu, and you will be the best candidate for the leader of this company. So you have to seize this opportunity, but don’t let the people below snatch it away.
How big should this be the general agent of a province!
My daughter said that Qiu Min was completely confused. No, no, I will talk to Xiulan. I can't do this.
Meng Jingyun smiled
Mom, how can you do this
Li Qiaoling is a little sorry for her. If you don’t think about yourself, you should also consider me. When I graduate in the future, you can work hard for a few years with your connections. Even if it’s for me, you can work hard, can you do it?
The power of maternal love is powerful. With the encouragement of Li Qiaoling's eyes, a powerful energy was growing in Qiu Min's heart for no reason, yes!
Li Qiaoling smiled
Meng Jingyun smiled with interest outside. In his eyes, the mother and daughter wanted success. They could help them with waves, but he would not do that.
For Meng Jingyun, it feels good to stand at the top occasionally and see how the civilians struggle below.
Li Qiaoling's insight is really extraordinary. A little woman can see the times so thoroughly. He Xiulan was indeed clinging to him at the beginning. Meng Jingyun saw this clearly.
Just as Meng Jingyun turned around and was about to leave, he suddenly heard something about him in the room.
Mom, do you like him too?
who!
Qiu Min felt panicked, but her face remained calm
Who else
No
real?
Why am I lying to you?
Qiu Min turned around and said: OK OK, go back and rest, I still need to read the information
Li Qiaoling looked at her mother meaningfully, then okay, you should rest early too
As he said that, he turned around and left, but suddenly turned around and asked: Is it possible that he is interested in you
How is it possible? Why are you always thinking about it? We can’t control who they like. Go back and go to bed soon. We will go to school tomorrow!
oh!
Li Qiaoling nodded
She asked her mother three times, and two of them were sudden attacks. Although Qiu Min looked normal and could not see any problems, Li Qiaoling keenly noticed several of her mother's subtle physical movements.
When Qiu Min answered the question twice suddenly, he subconsciously touched his chest while answering the question. Although he did not have this movement in the middle, the reaction was even more obvious. He turned his body directly and pointed his shoulder at her.
Recently, Li Qiaoling borrowed a book in Meng Jingyun's study. Regarding psychology, it talks about the meaning of non-verbal behavior expression.
There is a brain limbic system in the human brain, which controls all subconscious behaviors of the human body.
The new cerebral cortex, this is the thinking system
The brain limbic system is the most honest brain, because the commands it gives will not lie, and it is all subconscious behavior without thinking.
The new cerebral cortex is a thinking system, and the instructions it provides are instructions that are only given after thinking, so in psychology, her brain that calls her lying
When people are lying, their expressions and words are only reflected after being filtered by the new cerebral cortex, so it is difficult to see through the flaws.
But at the same time, the brain limbic system will also have some movements, which are subconscious and soothing. After research, everyone has different soothing movements.
But most women will subconsciously caress their breasts, which is like concealing their hearts when they are in a different mind, afraid that others will see through them. And when they encounter sensitive topics, they will subconsciously look at you with their arms, which is also a manifestation of concealing the five internal organs.
Li Qiaoling's judgment on Qiu Min's speechless behavior is that her mother is lying about her problems just now, and why she lies is self-evident.
In fact, she also knew that the relationship between her mother and her father has been in name only over the years, and there was a gap. From then on, as Qiu Min's position in the company became higher and higher, living conditions became better and better, vision, living habits, consumption concepts, values, outlook on life, taste, everything will change. With such consequences, the distance between the two people will only go further and further.
This is inevitable, and it is also the ending of the two.
Although she didn't want to see it, she had seen it since she was a child. Fortunately, although her father was honest, he did not lack a feminine relationship in the village. From now on, he and Widow Zhang didn't have to sneak in.
The bridge returns to the bridge, the road returns to the road
No wonder, no wonder Meng Jingyun is so good at grasping a woman's mind. There are so many women willing to follow him. Li Qiaoling sighed in her heart. She used to think Meng Jingyun had a pair of eyes that were insightful to the hearts of the people. Whenever she got along with each other, she didn't talk much, but she could always talk to her heart.
Only then did I realize that this guy doesn't study normally, but he puts all his energy into it. Psychology is actually studying such a profound and difficult subject.
Li Qiaoling found that there were many books on this in Meng Jingyun's study, including linguistics, sociology, behavioral science, etc. I don't know how this guy's brain grew. He could learn such profound things, but he didn't learn it.
Now it seems that this guy is probably pretending
Sometimes she thought that the more she came into contact with Meng Jingyun, she found that she could not see through Meng Jingyun. She didn't know what he was thinking. She was unfathomable and could only look up.
While walking, Li Qiaoling shook her head and sighed, opened the door, walked out with her head down
Qiu Min turned her head and looked at the door, her cheeks turned red only then
Clever!
At first, Li Qiaoling turned around suddenly and vaguely saw Meng Jingyun walking from the darkness and smiled, "You haven't slept yet because you're so late!"
Didn't you sleep?
Meng Jingyun asked back
Me, I'm going to sleep now
I don't know why, when she saw Meng Jingyun, her heartbeat would accelerate. Especially when she felt her bright eyes wandering on her, she felt like she didn't put her hands anywhere. It seemed that any movement would reveal her thoughts.
Come out of your mom's room?
Um!
Did you just say bad things about me
Meng Jingyun suddenly asked
Where is it!
Although he strongly opposed it, Li Qiaoling nodded subconsciously, "You, what basis do you have to say bad things about me!"
This girl is getting better and better. I don’t know how she feels... No, it just depends on you being nervous. If you didn’t say bad things about me, why are you nervous? Haha, kidding, don’t take it seriously
Huh! Li Qiaoling gave Meng Jingyun a blank look, I'm going to sleep
Oh, don't hurry to leave, I have something to say
What?
Meng Jingyun lit a cigarette slowly and sat down and said!
Turning around, Meng Jingyun naturally put his hand on her shoulder, walked to a swinging chair and sat down
Winter night, the wind is bleak, the plum blossoms in the garden, the fences, and the ivy on the walls have changed colors under the light of the green searchlights.
Li Qiaoling wears very little, wearing a purple suspender tight leotard, short and narrow skirt, surrounded by plump and full chest, with exquisite curves, showing the water snake waist, S curve
The dress is tight, like a straight skirt covering the plump waist. From the side, the waist is curved, with the front and the back raised
Looking from behind, under the narrow skirt, the plump and hips are extremely expanding, round and smooth without a trace of wrinkles, under the narrow skirt, smooth and smooth legs, round and long
The hem of the skirt was very short, and when I sat on the swaying, I almost slid to the back of my butt. The chair was made of iron mesh, which was very cool.
The full rich breasts, under the tulle apron, emit bursts of milk fragrance, and in the hazy, a squeezed groove and valley are revealed
Flawless skin is so white
Li Qiaoling shrank her arms and touched her shoulders
Meng Jingyun took off the windbreaker and put it on her. What's the matter? It's so cold.
Li Qiaoling stomped her feet, but she didn't sit down again, but stood
Nothing is wrong
Meng Jingyun touched her nose, but she still let it go
Oh! Then I'm asleep
Don't you think the night is beautiful tonight?
Don't think
Li Qiaoling took off her clothes and gave Meng Jingyun a hurried departure, but the next moment she found that her hand had been caught. What are you doing? I am not your woman. Don’t think that if I live in your house, you can do whatever you want. If this happens, I will move out with my mother.
Li Qiaoling said without looking back
But then she felt her coat put on her body again, and a gentle voice said in her ear, "It's cold at night, be careful of the cold."
Li Qiaoling didn't dare to raise her head, she was extremely embarrassed, and she nodded vaguely and left without looking back.
Nizi, so proud!
Meng Jingyun turned around and looked at the black shadow walking away
She walked slowly
When he passed by, Liu Qing glanced at Meng Jingyun, said nothing, walked away
Meng Jingyun tilted her head and thought for a while, smiled inexplicably, turned around and came to Qiu Min's door again, and knocked on the door.
Meng Jingyun nodded outside the door
Give a realistic example
Li Qiaoling suddenly lowered her voice, glanced out of the door with a conditioned reflex, and leaned forward on the table.
What are you going to say, mysterious
Seeing this, Qiu Min leaned forward, glanced at her daughter, and signaled her to say!
Li Qiaoling whispered: Let’s take Aunt Xiulan as an example. How she was like back then? You work in the hospital together. You know the best. There is nothing at home. To be honest, I think she is not as good as you, and not as beautiful as you!
Where is it!
Even though he said that, Qiu Min was still happy in her heart. You can tell by looking at the bright colors in her eyes.
Li Qiaoling is really right. Qiu Min graduated from high school. In that era, high school students were very educated.
Before she got a nurse, she had been working as a teacher in the elementary school of her hometown brigade. She was considered a cultural person in the village.
It is precisely because of this reason that she and her husband have no common language. Because of their personality, although they didn't quarrel, they were all strangers. After all, the education they received is not the same.
It was said that Qiu Min had a city household registration before, because the Cultural Revolution went to the countryside to go to her husband's village, and the two were confused. There was nothing to say about the later things, just like those of that era.
I can't go back to the city, so I became a teacher on the team and lived a life. This is how I have been doing for more than ten years.
The couple had no relationship. If their daughter Qiu Min hadn't left long ago, this time because her daughter was in high school, she simply quit her teacher's job and came to the city. Finally, she met He Xiulan at the parent-teacher meeting and then got a job in the hospital.
It is precisely because of this that Li Qiaoling was instilled by her mother's thoughts since she was a child, and she became very utilitarian and matured early.
Listen to me and say it, Aunt Xiulan is a realistic example. She will seize opportunities, be scheming, use her own favorable conditions, and use some beauty tricks to catch the boy's heart.
The boy Li Qiaoling said naturally was Meng Jingyun. Although the mother and daughter whispered very lowly, they still couldn't escape the ears outside the door.
Look at her now, when she comes back from China, it is a drastic change. Her temperament has changed, her identity has changed, and her knowledge has also changed. She starts a company, is a boss, manages hundreds of people under her command, and speaks a fashionable foreign language. Now she is still a trendy figure at the forefront of fashion, and the dream lover of thousands of young men. What is this relying on?
Qiu Min is not a fool, so he naturally knows, so he curled his lips, what's the point!
There are two kinds of people who will succeed in modern society. One is those who are solid and willing to work hard, stick to their ideals, and work hard to grasp the pulse of the world. They have a forward-looking vision and can always be at the forefront of every step. The other is a person like her. It can be said to be a wrong way. But in this era of laughing at the poor but not prostitutes, who still cares about your past, and only sees the results.
Bah, you shouldn't
Of course, hehe!
Li Qiaoling smiled with her lips and raised her feet to press her feet on the stool, which seemed extremely relaxed. I am not asking you to sacrifice your lust and please the boy, but I just give you an example. We still have to be strong in life, right!
I don't know, I want you to say
Qiu Min gave her daughter a look
You know, but you are too weak and polite to everyone. Because of this, there is no majesty. Those below are not afraid of you. Officials, when they have the authority of the official, they must be solemnly majestic, and they cannot get along with the people below. They must be alienated and speak less, so that they cannot guess and see through. When giving orders, they must be affirmative, confident, and cold in their expressions, which reveal an unquestionable meaning. Why do people say that the superiors are lonely? This is the reason. You can observe that the women living in Xiyuan are all government officials, especially the mayor Chen Tao. They have a face of the king of hell all day long, and they rarely smile when they see anyone.
It's so hard! Mom can't learn it
Qiu Min shook her head
You must learn, otherwise your future will end here. Can't you still see it?
What?
Aunt Xiulan asked you to go to Fengdu this time, obviously it was cultivating you
Qiu Min nodded, I know this
Do you see the deeper meaning?
Isn't it just that I'm going to teach my experience in the past? My mother is also the store manager now, so
I'm not saying this
That's it?
Feng is the capital of our Jiangdu. After that, the company will definitely grow bigger and bigger, radiating across the country. Aunt Xiulan is the general agent of the Z region. Now I send you to Fengdu. What do you mean later?
You mean?
Li Qiaoling nodded, she wants to train you to be the general agent of a province. Soon, the company will definitely set up a regional branch in Fengdu, and you will be the best candidate for the leader of this company. So you have to seize this opportunity, but don’t let the people below snatch it away.
How big should this be the general agent of a province!
My daughter said that Qiu Min was completely confused. No, no, I will talk to Xiulan. I can't do this.
Meng Jingyun smiled
Mom, how can you do this
Li Qiaoling is a little sorry for her. If you don’t think about yourself, you should also consider me. When I graduate in the future, you can work hard for a few years with your connections. Even if it’s for me, you can work hard, can you do it?
The power of maternal love is powerful. With the encouragement of Li Qiaoling's eyes, a powerful energy was growing in Qiu Min's heart for no reason, yes!
Li Qiaoling smiled
Meng Jingyun smiled with interest outside. In his eyes, the mother and daughter wanted success. They could help them with waves, but he would not do that.
For Meng Jingyun, it feels good to stand at the top occasionally and see how the civilians struggle below.
Li Qiaoling's insight is really extraordinary. A little woman can see the times so thoroughly. He Xiulan was indeed clinging to him at the beginning. Meng Jingyun saw this clearly.
Just as Meng Jingyun turned around and was about to leave, he suddenly heard something about him in the room.
Mom, do you like him too?
who!
Qiu Min felt panicked, but her face remained calm
Who else
No
real?
Why am I lying to you?
Qiu Min turned around and said: OK OK, go back and rest, I still need to read the information
Li Qiaoling looked at her mother meaningfully, then okay, you should rest early too
As he said that, he turned around and left, but suddenly turned around and asked: Is it possible that he is interested in you
How is it possible? Why are you always thinking about it? We can’t control who they like. Go back and go to bed soon. We will go to school tomorrow!
oh!
Li Qiaoling nodded
She asked her mother three times, and two of them were sudden attacks. Although Qiu Min looked normal and could not see any problems, Li Qiaoling keenly noticed several of her mother's subtle physical movements.
When Qiu Min answered the question twice suddenly, he subconsciously touched his chest while answering the question. Although he did not have this movement in the middle, the reaction was even more obvious. He turned his body directly and pointed his shoulder at her.
Recently, Li Qiaoling borrowed a book in Meng Jingyun's study. Regarding psychology, it talks about the meaning of non-verbal behavior expression.
There is a brain limbic system in the human brain, which controls all subconscious behaviors of the human body.
The new cerebral cortex, this is the thinking system
The brain limbic system is the most honest brain, because the commands it gives will not lie, and it is all subconscious behavior without thinking.
The new cerebral cortex is a thinking system, and the instructions it provides are instructions that are only given after thinking, so in psychology, her brain that calls her lying
When people are lying, their expressions and words are only reflected after being filtered by the new cerebral cortex, so it is difficult to see through the flaws.
But at the same time, the brain limbic system will also have some movements, which are subconscious and soothing. After research, everyone has different soothing movements.
But most women will subconsciously caress their breasts, which is like concealing their hearts when they are in a different mind, afraid that others will see through them. And when they encounter sensitive topics, they will subconsciously look at you with their arms, which is also a manifestation of concealing the five internal organs.
Li Qiaoling's judgment on Qiu Min's speechless behavior is that her mother is lying about her problems just now, and why she lies is self-evident.
In fact, she also knew that the relationship between her mother and her father has been in name only over the years, and there was a gap. From then on, as Qiu Min's position in the company became higher and higher, living conditions became better and better, vision, living habits, consumption concepts, values, outlook on life, taste, everything will change. With such consequences, the distance between the two people will only go further and further.
This is inevitable, and it is also the ending of the two.
Although she didn't want to see it, she had seen it since she was a child. Fortunately, although her father was honest, he did not lack a feminine relationship in the village. From now on, he and Widow Zhang didn't have to sneak in.
The bridge returns to the bridge, the road returns to the road
No wonder, no wonder Meng Jingyun is so good at grasping a woman's mind. There are so many women willing to follow him. Li Qiaoling sighed in her heart. She used to think Meng Jingyun had a pair of eyes that were insightful to the hearts of the people. Whenever she got along with each other, she didn't talk much, but she could always talk to her heart.
Only then did I realize that this guy doesn't study normally, but he puts all his energy into it. Psychology is actually studying such a profound and difficult subject.
Li Qiaoling found that there were many books on this in Meng Jingyun's study, including linguistics, sociology, behavioral science, etc. I don't know how this guy's brain grew. He could learn such profound things, but he didn't learn it.
Now it seems that this guy is probably pretending
Sometimes she thought that the more she came into contact with Meng Jingyun, she found that she could not see through Meng Jingyun. She didn't know what he was thinking. She was unfathomable and could only look up.
While walking, Li Qiaoling shook her head and sighed, opened the door, walked out with her head down
Qiu Min turned her head and looked at the door, her cheeks turned red only then
Clever!
At first, Li Qiaoling turned around suddenly and vaguely saw Meng Jingyun walking from the darkness and smiled, "You haven't slept yet because you're so late!"
Didn't you sleep?
Meng Jingyun asked back
Me, I'm going to sleep now
I don't know why, when she saw Meng Jingyun, her heartbeat would accelerate. Especially when she felt her bright eyes wandering on her, she felt like she didn't put her hands anywhere. It seemed that any movement would reveal her thoughts.
Come out of your mom's room?
Um!
Did you just say bad things about me
Meng Jingyun suddenly asked
Where is it!
Although he strongly opposed it, Li Qiaoling nodded subconsciously, "You, what basis do you have to say bad things about me!"
This girl is getting better and better. I don’t know how she feels... No, it just depends on you being nervous. If you didn’t say bad things about me, why are you nervous? Haha, kidding, don’t take it seriously
Huh! Li Qiaoling gave Meng Jingyun a blank look, I'm going to sleep
Oh, don't hurry to leave, I have something to say
What?
Meng Jingyun lit a cigarette slowly and sat down and said!
Turning around, Meng Jingyun naturally put his hand on her shoulder, walked to a swinging chair and sat down
Winter night, the wind is bleak, the plum blossoms in the garden, the fences, and the ivy on the walls have changed colors under the light of the green searchlights.
Li Qiaoling wears very little, wearing a purple suspender tight leotard, short and narrow skirt, surrounded by plump and full chest, with exquisite curves, showing the water snake waist, S curve
The dress is tight, like a straight skirt covering the plump waist. From the side, the waist is curved, with the front and the back raised
Looking from behind, under the narrow skirt, the plump and hips are extremely expanding, round and smooth without a trace of wrinkles, under the narrow skirt, smooth and smooth legs, round and long
The hem of the skirt was very short, and when I sat on the swaying, I almost slid to the back of my butt. The chair was made of iron mesh, which was very cool.
The full rich breasts, under the tulle apron, emit bursts of milk fragrance, and in the hazy, a squeezed groove and valley are revealed
Flawless skin is so white
Li Qiaoling shrank her arms and touched her shoulders
Meng Jingyun took off the windbreaker and put it on her. What's the matter? It's so cold.
Li Qiaoling stomped her feet, but she didn't sit down again, but stood
Nothing is wrong
Meng Jingyun touched her nose, but she still let it go
Oh! Then I'm asleep
Don't you think the night is beautiful tonight?
Don't think
Li Qiaoling took off her clothes and gave Meng Jingyun a hurried departure, but the next moment she found that her hand had been caught. What are you doing? I am not your woman. Don’t think that if I live in your house, you can do whatever you want. If this happens, I will move out with my mother.
Li Qiaoling said without looking back
But then she felt her coat put on her body again, and a gentle voice said in her ear, "It's cold at night, be careful of the cold."
Li Qiaoling didn't dare to raise her head, she was extremely embarrassed, and she nodded vaguely and left without looking back.
Nizi, so proud!
Meng Jingyun turned around and looked at the black shadow walking away
She walked slowly
When he passed by, Liu Qing glanced at Meng Jingyun, said nothing, walked away
Meng Jingyun tilted her head and thought for a while, smiled inexplicably, turned around and came to Qiu Min's door again, and knocked on the door.