Since resigning about six months of pregnancy, Ru has been at home and has not gone out to work.
However, after such days, my wife felt that she seemed to be isolated from society. She was also a good university graduate, received higher education, and could not be a housewife for the rest of her life.
So, she discussed with me and Uncle Kong and said she wanted to find a job and return to the workplace.
I fully understand and agree with her idea of continuing to work, but Uncle Kong is not very happy because when Ru is not at work, he can spend time with her and maintain a close relationship. If Ru goes out to work, everything will be out of his control.
The reason he and Ru told him was that he could not take care of Doudou alone
After Ru and I communicated, we made a tacit decision - we asked a nanny to come to our house to help take care of the children, Ru went to work
In this way, Uncle Kong has no better reason to stop him.
The process of finding a job is also smooth. With the help of the headhunter, I quickly found a job in business operations and management in a large foreign company.
The new company where Ru goes to work is located in Dongfang Xintiandi. I can pass there by driving to and from get off work. In this way, every morning, I get up earlier than usual and take her to work first, and pick her up after get off work.
Returning to work in society and working in a new company, Ru is very excited. She keeps talking to me about work every day when to and from get off work
The workplace where she went to work was a good atmosphere. There were more young people among her colleagues, and there were not many conflicts of interest or politics between people.
At the same time, foreign companies are also more particular about their dressing atmosphere. They will not appear in state-owned enterprises or private enterprises because of their exquisite dressing.
Ru put on makeup seriously every day, dressed up herself and went out to work with me.
Gradually, Ru and I seemed to be back to the day when we just got married without Uncle Kong appeared.
In contrast, due to the lack of common topics and the reduction of time spent together, Ru and Uncle Kong no longer had the same intimacy as before. I felt that my wife began to resist getting along with him.
It feels like they are mutual, and Uncle Kong naturally feels the subtle changes in the relationship, but he is powerless to stop this change. He begins to become irritable, goes out to find someone to drink, and then comes back drunk.
The more he did this, the more disgusted Ru felt. She tried to avoid getting along with the old man alone, and would be with me every day after get off work. If she wanted to take her children out for a walk on weekends, she would also take me with her.
I am very happy about my wife's emotional (and physical) return
However, things changed again at this time.
One day in September 2008, the company leader came to me and said he was planning to set up a new department in Guangzhou and asked me if I would like to go over and be the person in charge.
To be honest, I didn't see any chance of promotion when I continued to stay in the Beijing Corporation, but I was a little reluctant to leave Ru who had just returned to her relationship.
After much consideration, I think men should put their career first, so I made up my mind to decide to go to Guangzhou.
My idea is that if there is stability there, I can consider letting Ru and her children go to Guangzhou too. If my wife wants to work, she can find another thing there to do.
Those days, Ru also saw that I had something to do. Later, when I told her, Ru couldn't help crying, hugged me and said she wanted to go to Guangzhou with me.
In fact, she is a very emotional and dependent woman, because she had no father when she was a child and had always lacked a sense of security.
My thought at that time was that going to Guangzhou to build a new department was a brand new challenge for me, and it might succeed or fail. I was unsure. But Ru Gang found a very good job, and I didn't want her to sacrifice for me to quit her job and go to Guangzhou.
Based on this consideration, my decision was to go to Guangzhou to develop first. If I do well in a year, I would take Ru and my child over together.
I spent a lot of time and finally got my job done. The condition was that I would go home to see her once a month, or let her come to Guangzhou to see me.
The last question left is Uncle Kong
After I left, would I let him stay or would I let him leave too
Let him stay, he inevitably asked to sleep with Ru again, and Ru had already begun to feel distant from him at that time.
If he was asked to leave, where could he go or would he be willing to leave
So I discussed with Ru privately and solicited her opinions
Ru also showed a dilemma. Although she didn't want to get along alone with Uncle Kong, if she asked him to leave, she would be alone with her children and a nanny at home, and she felt that there was suddenly no one to rely on.
After thinking about it, I decided to let Uncle Kong stay at home first. If Ru really feels bad, I can quit my job and go to Guangzhou to reunite with me.
The separation was soon reached the end of 2008 after the 11th day of the year, I flew to Guangzhou to start a new work and life here. Soon I met a girl that I couldn't forget - Xiaoling
Xiaoling is a pretty Hunan girl. After graduating from university that summer, she started working in our Guangzhou company. After I arrived, I was arranged to second it to my department for a year.
Xiao Ling is not tall, about 163, has a slim figure and even looks a little slim. Her dressing style seems to always be the simple and youthful route. Jeans, T-shirts, long skirts, cropped pants, and canvas shoes are the ones I see her wearing the most.
Xiaoling is very smart and has a lively personality. The work she gives is always done well. I like working with her very much.
When she was free, she also liked to chat with me, listen to me telling stories about my time in college, listen to me telling life in Beijing, telling my past relationships and love stories with my wife.
That year, Xiaoling was 22 years old, just 10 years younger than me.
I asked Xiaoling why she didn't fall in love. Xiaoling said she had a childhood friend, but because the boy went to university in Xi'an and Xiaoling was studying in Guangzhou, the two of them had never been together. The boy graduated and went to study in the UK. Because of the distance and young age, the two always quarreled, broke up and got back together, and finally broke up.
Because we are all alone, we often eat, walk, chat together after get off work. After a long time, I unconsciously fell in love with this young, energetic and curious girl.
For me, my previous work and family life in Beijing were a bit depressed, and the sky seemed much clearer in Guangzhou.
Xiaoling and I got closer and closer, and finally crossed the final limit
After a long time, Ru also knew that she thought it was because she was not good, and that she had an inappropriate relationship with Uncle Kong, which led to my abandonment.
In the blink of an eye, it was the Spring Festival in 2009. I called Ru and asked her where she planned to spend the Spring Festival. Ru said she planned to take Doudou back to Chongqing to see her mother and stepfather.
During the conversation, I asked Uncle Kong, and Ru told me that Uncle Kong had returned to the Northeast and would not return to Beijing again.
I was a little surprised, but I didn't ask why.
At the end of the phone, Ru hopes that I will live a happy life, at least I will be happier than with her, and she will start her own new life. After saying this, she can no longer control her emotions and she burst into tears.
I don’t know what to say, but I feel so sad when I go to comfort Ru. It’s because I can’t grasp life and my happy family is broken.
It has been two and a half years since I met Ru again
A fashionable woman came in from the cafe. When she approached, it was Ru. Her outfit made me shine. Her hair was tied up, with big ring earrings, Burberry's windbreaker, tight dress, black embroidered stockings, high heel sandals, and Chanel's bag
Here, we talked about our respective lives for more than two years
However, after such days, my wife felt that she seemed to be isolated from society. She was also a good university graduate, received higher education, and could not be a housewife for the rest of her life.
So, she discussed with me and Uncle Kong and said she wanted to find a job and return to the workplace.
I fully understand and agree with her idea of continuing to work, but Uncle Kong is not very happy because when Ru is not at work, he can spend time with her and maintain a close relationship. If Ru goes out to work, everything will be out of his control.
The reason he and Ru told him was that he could not take care of Doudou alone
After Ru and I communicated, we made a tacit decision - we asked a nanny to come to our house to help take care of the children, Ru went to work
In this way, Uncle Kong has no better reason to stop him.
The process of finding a job is also smooth. With the help of the headhunter, I quickly found a job in business operations and management in a large foreign company.
The new company where Ru goes to work is located in Dongfang Xintiandi. I can pass there by driving to and from get off work. In this way, every morning, I get up earlier than usual and take her to work first, and pick her up after get off work.
Returning to work in society and working in a new company, Ru is very excited. She keeps talking to me about work every day when to and from get off work
The workplace where she went to work was a good atmosphere. There were more young people among her colleagues, and there were not many conflicts of interest or politics between people.
At the same time, foreign companies are also more particular about their dressing atmosphere. They will not appear in state-owned enterprises or private enterprises because of their exquisite dressing.
Ru put on makeup seriously every day, dressed up herself and went out to work with me.
Gradually, Ru and I seemed to be back to the day when we just got married without Uncle Kong appeared.
In contrast, due to the lack of common topics and the reduction of time spent together, Ru and Uncle Kong no longer had the same intimacy as before. I felt that my wife began to resist getting along with him.
It feels like they are mutual, and Uncle Kong naturally feels the subtle changes in the relationship, but he is powerless to stop this change. He begins to become irritable, goes out to find someone to drink, and then comes back drunk.
The more he did this, the more disgusted Ru felt. She tried to avoid getting along with the old man alone, and would be with me every day after get off work. If she wanted to take her children out for a walk on weekends, she would also take me with her.
I am very happy about my wife's emotional (and physical) return
However, things changed again at this time.
One day in September 2008, the company leader came to me and said he was planning to set up a new department in Guangzhou and asked me if I would like to go over and be the person in charge.
To be honest, I didn't see any chance of promotion when I continued to stay in the Beijing Corporation, but I was a little reluctant to leave Ru who had just returned to her relationship.
After much consideration, I think men should put their career first, so I made up my mind to decide to go to Guangzhou.
My idea is that if there is stability there, I can consider letting Ru and her children go to Guangzhou too. If my wife wants to work, she can find another thing there to do.
Those days, Ru also saw that I had something to do. Later, when I told her, Ru couldn't help crying, hugged me and said she wanted to go to Guangzhou with me.
In fact, she is a very emotional and dependent woman, because she had no father when she was a child and had always lacked a sense of security.
My thought at that time was that going to Guangzhou to build a new department was a brand new challenge for me, and it might succeed or fail. I was unsure. But Ru Gang found a very good job, and I didn't want her to sacrifice for me to quit her job and go to Guangzhou.
Based on this consideration, my decision was to go to Guangzhou to develop first. If I do well in a year, I would take Ru and my child over together.
I spent a lot of time and finally got my job done. The condition was that I would go home to see her once a month, or let her come to Guangzhou to see me.
The last question left is Uncle Kong
After I left, would I let him stay or would I let him leave too
Let him stay, he inevitably asked to sleep with Ru again, and Ru had already begun to feel distant from him at that time.
If he was asked to leave, where could he go or would he be willing to leave
So I discussed with Ru privately and solicited her opinions
Ru also showed a dilemma. Although she didn't want to get along alone with Uncle Kong, if she asked him to leave, she would be alone with her children and a nanny at home, and she felt that there was suddenly no one to rely on.
After thinking about it, I decided to let Uncle Kong stay at home first. If Ru really feels bad, I can quit my job and go to Guangzhou to reunite with me.
The separation was soon reached the end of 2008 after the 11th day of the year, I flew to Guangzhou to start a new work and life here. Soon I met a girl that I couldn't forget - Xiaoling
Xiaoling is a pretty Hunan girl. After graduating from university that summer, she started working in our Guangzhou company. After I arrived, I was arranged to second it to my department for a year.
Xiao Ling is not tall, about 163, has a slim figure and even looks a little slim. Her dressing style seems to always be the simple and youthful route. Jeans, T-shirts, long skirts, cropped pants, and canvas shoes are the ones I see her wearing the most.
Xiaoling is very smart and has a lively personality. The work she gives is always done well. I like working with her very much.
When she was free, she also liked to chat with me, listen to me telling stories about my time in college, listen to me telling life in Beijing, telling my past relationships and love stories with my wife.
That year, Xiaoling was 22 years old, just 10 years younger than me.
I asked Xiaoling why she didn't fall in love. Xiaoling said she had a childhood friend, but because the boy went to university in Xi'an and Xiaoling was studying in Guangzhou, the two of them had never been together. The boy graduated and went to study in the UK. Because of the distance and young age, the two always quarreled, broke up and got back together, and finally broke up.
Because we are all alone, we often eat, walk, chat together after get off work. After a long time, I unconsciously fell in love with this young, energetic and curious girl.
For me, my previous work and family life in Beijing were a bit depressed, and the sky seemed much clearer in Guangzhou.
Xiaoling and I got closer and closer, and finally crossed the final limit
After a long time, Ru also knew that she thought it was because she was not good, and that she had an inappropriate relationship with Uncle Kong, which led to my abandonment.
In the blink of an eye, it was the Spring Festival in 2009. I called Ru and asked her where she planned to spend the Spring Festival. Ru said she planned to take Doudou back to Chongqing to see her mother and stepfather.
During the conversation, I asked Uncle Kong, and Ru told me that Uncle Kong had returned to the Northeast and would not return to Beijing again.
I was a little surprised, but I didn't ask why.
At the end of the phone, Ru hopes that I will live a happy life, at least I will be happier than with her, and she will start her own new life. After saying this, she can no longer control her emotions and she burst into tears.
I don’t know what to say, but I feel so sad when I go to comfort Ru. It’s because I can’t grasp life and my happy family is broken.
It has been two and a half years since I met Ru again
A fashionable woman came in from the cafe. When she approached, it was Ru. Her outfit made me shine. Her hair was tied up, with big ring earrings, Burberry's windbreaker, tight dress, black embroidered stockings, high heel sandals, and Chanel's bag
Here, we talked about our respective lives for more than two years
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