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Chapter 483 Sm Theory

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Just as Yang Letian sighed, the content in the picture changed again. Yu Jie raised her arm and slapped her two more times in the face on Kong Shengdong's face.

Fortunately, Yang Letian is no longer surprised, but he still suspects that Kong Shengdong will likely experience tinnitus the next day.

Yang Letian saw Yu Jie's lips move a few times, and then looked at her expression, as if he was scolding Kong Shengdong for not licking this part of her, and what about Kong Shengdong?

Then he lowered his head in vain and leaned back under her feet

Yu Jie nodded with satisfaction, then raised her lips lightly and glanced at her eyes. Before Yang Letian could see what she was trying to express, Kong Shengdong immediately reacted.

I saw him on all sides, then turned around and rushed his butt towards Yu Jie.

What is he going to do? Yang Letian was puzzled and confused

However, the next scene relieved Yang Letian's doubts. Yu Jie sat up from the bed, with her slender legs gently crossed her legs, and sat steadily on Kong Shengdong's back. It turned out that Yu Jie wanted to ride him as a horse!

In fact, Yu Jie has a standard figure and a light body. Kong Shengdong is a young man with a strong body, so he doesn't feel difficult to crawl by Yu Jie. This is not considered a physical and physical punishment for his physical strength. This is mainly a mental humiliation for him. Just think about it, riding a person as a horse, how humiliating it is!

But Kong Shengdong seemed to have already understood it well, or he was numb and unconscious. He looked relaxed and smiled, and he was so relaxed that he carried Yu Jie toward the door of another room with his back.

Soon, he climbed to the door, then raised his head, bit his hand with his mouth and pushed the door open, and then continued to crawl in with Yu Jie on his back.

Yang Letian looked at the wall decoration inside when the door was pushed open, and that room should be a bathroom.

Of course, at this time, the camera could no longer be found, and as the two of them entered, the door was closed immediately, and Yang Letian could not see it at all.

At this time, he looked at the long bar showing the progress below the player, and it was pointed to the end. The video was over.

Although the video was over, the surprise and shock caused by the content of the video to Yang Letian was so great that he wanted to figure out what this SM was?

So Yang Letian lay on the bed and looked at the computer to continue to check the information about SM.

In the eyes of most people, SM is an extremely perverted thing, and it specifically refers to sexual perversion. In fact, SM is regarded as sexual perversion originated from the Western Christian tradition, and has spread to the non-Western world with the development of colonialism and sexuality.

Christianity believes that the purpose of sex is reproduction. Any sexual behavior that is not for reproduction is unnatural, so masturbation, caressing, oral sex, and homosexuality are moral faults.

Although the early sexual science, which opposes this religious tradition, believes that the sex of non-reproductive patterns has nothing to do with morality, on the other hand, it also calls non-reproductive sex such as SM sexual perversions as some physiological or psychological abnormalities.

Under the development of modern national population birth control policies and contraceptive technology, reproduction is no longer the only purpose of sex, and sex is more for pleasure and pleasure. The sexual morality of the reproductive model has gradually been abandoned, masturbation is no longer regarded as an enemy by educators and parents, and anal sex has also been decried in many countries.

What's more, if it is natural to pursue pleasure in sexual activities, then these non-reproductive activities that promote sexual excitement are simply sexual norms, a sexual preference or taste habit, like various sexual positions and sex toys that can promote sexual excitement, and have no moral personality.

Many people think that SM is just a special sexual fetish for a few people. In fact, it is not special at all. Instead, it is very common. It is just that many people who engage in SM are unconsciously

Sexologists in the 19th century have noticed that many young couples or newlyweds will include various forms and degrees of scratching, pounding, or other forms of intense sex in sexual activities, while more people use role-playing and use different accessories to create an atmosphere.

In addition to the fierce and violent movements, the most common SM also has verbal violence, such as using taboo language in sexual behavior, swearing, or using words to defame or belittle the other party, etc.

In addition to these SMs that almost everyone is engaged in, SMs can also be further developed to achieve more complex and ritualized forms. Leather neck buckles and bindings commonly found in the media are well-known examples.

Seeing this, Yang Letian actually had a little understanding of what Jie had done just now, thinking that this was actually a sexual orientation and was not related to morality. Of course, Yang Letian was not quite satisfied with Jie's morality.

However, at this time, Yang Letian thought more about himself and felt that he had unconsciously had some SM methods. For example, when he treated Cao Fang in the past, he used the means of violent coercion. After all, this was actually a kind of SM, but he did not realize that after a deep understanding of SM, he felt that what he used was an SM method at the beginning.

For example, some of his methods of treating Xiaomei during sex a few days ago, such as slapping her butt and pinching her nipples. Are these true SMs?

Thinking of this, Yang Letian became more interested in SM, so he continued to read online information.

The universality of SM has its psychological basis

Freud believes that in a sexually repressed society, people have psychological shame, dislike, pain, fear, etc. about sex, which hinder sexual pleasure.

However, sexual perversion (i.e., non-reproductive sex) has the function of promoting sexual pleasure

For example, it is shameful to be naked, but when people like to take off their clothes during sex, they turn shame into sexual excitement

Similarly, people who like oral sex can turn disgust with their sexual organs into pleasure; people who like SM will turn psychological sexual activities that are originally linked to pain, fear, helplessness and other psychological activities into pleasure.

This is a very reasonable psychological mechanism

Freud believes that sexual perversion overcomes sexual repression, so it will not form psychofunctionality due to sexual repression.

In other words, SM performs the mentality of invasion and destruction in ritual behavior, but will not have mental illness.

Some psychologists say that if sexual activity is overly dependent on SM, it is pathological, which is actually a presupposition of reproductive patterns as a model of sexual activity.

But people who love SM, just like people who love oral sex or nude during sexual activities, have no psychological problems or inappropriateness.

In this way, SM should not be confused with sexual abuse

Sexual abuse is a physical abuse that is committed in vain and the other party's wishes, but SM is a drama conducted through full negotiation with the consent of both parties.

It makes sense for many sex researchers in Taiwan to call SM abusive love. Pleasure means that the other party’s pleasure is the main focus, while abuse means that both parties establish interactive roles and plays in a certain ritual program.

Most people will more or less play some abusive activities to help them liven up. Many people can relax their own rigidity and get pleasure only when they feel completely helpless under some clear and obvious power control.

In fact, it is precisely in this social environment full of inequality that imitate or pardy violence and domination, and establish a sense of trust and intimacy between both parties during the negotiation process, which is very different from real violence and domination.

Some feminists believe that SM shows male and female inequality or male violence, which is a misunderstanding of masturbation, because heterosexual SM does not necessarily dominate women with obedience, and the person who really dominates the whole process in SM is often the one who seems to be dominated.

The complex operation and interaction modes in SM still need to be understood without prejudice

SM is usually called sadistic love in China. This title is inaccurate. Its real meaning is sadistic and abuse. Love may only be one of the components of this relationship.

The nature of the subject is [abuse], which is a certain degree of compulsory behavior or language carried out under the voluntary situation of both parties.

It contains four meanings: A

Perform abnormal behaviors on the body of the abused person, which is what we call physical abuse; B

Perform insults in abnormal language, that is, in the humanistic sense, on the abused person; C

The mental abuse of the abuser during the abuse process; D

Giving, both parties achieve physical needs through specific language and behavior, and ultimately obtain spiritual enjoyment.

Although Yang Letian was very interested in this thing, it was almost one o'clock in the morning. The cup of coffee he drank could not stop the sleepyness, and gradually it was attacked by it. Yang Letian's eyes became smaller and smaller. Finally, he closed his eyes completely and fell asleep. Only the computer on the bed that had entered the screensaver state was emitting a faint light.

The next day at work, Yang Letian was still thinking about this in his mind, because the shock this incident brought him was too great. He never dreamed that Yu Jie would have such a hobby. She usually looked so noble and elegant, with a superb temperament, but she didn't expect that she actually had such a hobby behind her back, and it also made Yang Letian have a strong interest in SM.

Yang Letian has heard of SM. He has heard of it a little before, but he has not paid much attention to it. Now, after Yu Jie's videotape, coupled with the way he used to treat Cao Fang before and recently when he and Xiaomei had sex, he fell in love with slapping her butt, which made Yang Letian become more interested in SM.

So as soon as he entered the office, he couldn't wait to turn on the computer and continue to search for relevant information.