When we got home, after a simple wash, we hugged each other and fell on the bed
After the love lingering as usual, I fell asleep in deep thought, but I couldn't sleep. I remembered the post I hadn't finished reading, put on my clothes and got up, and came to the study room.
After turning on the computer, I lit a cigarette and found the post about wife swapping
Skipping the description of the sex scene, at the end of the post, this once confused man talked about marriage, and talked about...sex and love
For many years, we have stubbornly attributed sex to a way of expression of love. The unity of sex and love is the unity of spirit and flesh. We stubbornly believe that such love is perfect.
Because marriage is a product of private ownership and is also the most direct manifestation of private ownership, which includes ownership of sexual love between husband and wife, a power that cannot be interfered with by others.
The union of a couple gives both the union a sense of security and belonging, both legally and psychologically.
Feelings are the carrier and framework that supports such a relationship, and sex is the channel for communication within this framework.
Finally, through the constraints of human ethics, sex must be trapped in such a framework, and there must be no transcendence.
But why can't we regard sex as life behaviors like eating, dressing, sleeping, working, traveling, etc.?
As long as we can unswervingly love each other, why can't we let our bodies and minds go away to enjoy the process of sex?
Although the monogamous system can bring people a sense of security, such a system has a lack of competition. After that fresh period, both husband and wife gradually lose interest in each other, causing aesthetic fatigue.
The loss of interest makes them gradually lose their previous enthusiasm and commitment to the other person's body. Is this sexual harmony?
How many divorces are caused by disappointment in the same life and unattractive bodies between couples?
Why can't we avoid this
In everyone's heart, there is a psychological need to pursue novel and stimulation
If we can let go of our sexual constraints under the control of both parties and love each other deeply, why can't our bodies enjoy the ultimate joy?
This can make the couple feel a slight sense of loss, and by losing the other party's stimulation, it can stimulate the passion that the couple once did.
Once again, mutual understanding, communication and mutual attraction make the once boring marriage like the grave of love rejuvenate and strengthen the relationship
Aren’t these exactly what we desire to have?
why not?
……
I'm sweating all over when I read the full post
Although I know this is wrong, I don't know how to refute it
On the contrary, there is a deep desire hidden in my heart, as if it was stimulated and awakened, slowly wandering all over my body.
As if I was obsessed with it, I was thinking about this question crazily
Is it possible to separate sex and love?
Shouldn’t my wife’s body belong to me alone?
Why do I tremble all over when I think of the thought being pressed by others?
Am I enjoying this feeling?
Can I stand thinking of being entered by another man?
Will I give Si's wonderful body to other men to enjoy?
why not?
After the love lingering as usual, I fell asleep in deep thought, but I couldn't sleep. I remembered the post I hadn't finished reading, put on my clothes and got up, and came to the study room.
After turning on the computer, I lit a cigarette and found the post about wife swapping
Skipping the description of the sex scene, at the end of the post, this once confused man talked about marriage, and talked about...sex and love
For many years, we have stubbornly attributed sex to a way of expression of love. The unity of sex and love is the unity of spirit and flesh. We stubbornly believe that such love is perfect.
Because marriage is a product of private ownership and is also the most direct manifestation of private ownership, which includes ownership of sexual love between husband and wife, a power that cannot be interfered with by others.
The union of a couple gives both the union a sense of security and belonging, both legally and psychologically.
Feelings are the carrier and framework that supports such a relationship, and sex is the channel for communication within this framework.
Finally, through the constraints of human ethics, sex must be trapped in such a framework, and there must be no transcendence.
But why can't we regard sex as life behaviors like eating, dressing, sleeping, working, traveling, etc.?
As long as we can unswervingly love each other, why can't we let our bodies and minds go away to enjoy the process of sex?
Although the monogamous system can bring people a sense of security, such a system has a lack of competition. After that fresh period, both husband and wife gradually lose interest in each other, causing aesthetic fatigue.
The loss of interest makes them gradually lose their previous enthusiasm and commitment to the other person's body. Is this sexual harmony?
How many divorces are caused by disappointment in the same life and unattractive bodies between couples?
Why can't we avoid this
In everyone's heart, there is a psychological need to pursue novel and stimulation
If we can let go of our sexual constraints under the control of both parties and love each other deeply, why can't our bodies enjoy the ultimate joy?
This can make the couple feel a slight sense of loss, and by losing the other party's stimulation, it can stimulate the passion that the couple once did.
Once again, mutual understanding, communication and mutual attraction make the once boring marriage like the grave of love rejuvenate and strengthen the relationship
Aren’t these exactly what we desire to have?
why not?
……
I'm sweating all over when I read the full post
Although I know this is wrong, I don't know how to refute it
On the contrary, there is a deep desire hidden in my heart, as if it was stimulated and awakened, slowly wandering all over my body.
As if I was obsessed with it, I was thinking about this question crazily
Is it possible to separate sex and love?
Shouldn’t my wife’s body belong to me alone?
Why do I tremble all over when I think of the thought being pressed by others?
Am I enjoying this feeling?
Can I stand thinking of being entered by another man?
Will I give Si's wonderful body to other men to enjoy?
why not?