This chapter is still based on narrative. If you don’t like meat plays, please go around!
The Chinese New Year is over quickly, and it is the day to go to work on the seventh day of the first lunar month
The first thing I did was to go to the unit to guard the company's opening. I did not attend the scene in person. Xiaojun and Yingzi were in charge. Once the firecrackers were set off, even if the new year opened.
Because of the restaurant, Xue Jiao came back on the seventh day of the first lunar month
I chose the auspicious day of the eighth day of the lunar month and started business.
What surprised me was that Xiaolong also followed his sister and left before the fifteenth day of the first lunar month.
I took time to have fun with him for a few days
A few things happened in March of the Chinese New Year. A new building purchased by Yingzi has also been renovated. I can move in after I put the smell on it.
At the beginning of the month, I personally led the team to Dalian. First, I visited Uncle Zhao. He also listened to his project manager's report on the project progress and construction quality. He was very satisfied with everything we did.
He also cared about whether our company made a profit or lost money. I smiled but didn't answer. He smiled and nodded.
He is very concerned about my career development, and I also briefly introduced my job changes last year to Uncle Zhao. He is very happy with my performance in my job this year
I was happy and told me repeatedly that I should do business and not relax my career.
He hopes that I will go hand in hand with each other
But at the same time, I also warn me that everything must be stable
I talked with him about buying a villa. In fact, he had known for a long time that I was interested in buying the property he developed. I think it must be the secretary and sister who had already been venting with him.
He meant to give me a premium apartment, but I didn't accept it
To be honest, it cannot be accepted
Originally, the last time the favor debt was not replaced, but if I add a new favor debt, my dad will have to rob me.
After my repeated insistence, he called the sales manager without saying a call and told me in person that he would sell a set at a cost price and I would choose the floor position at will. All the fees that should be exempted will be exempted.
With the direct benefit of Uncle Zhao, I bought the villa I had liked before and paid the full payment, and completed all the procedures for less than one million.
Xiaojun also stayed, after all, he was still in charge of the project finishing work.
Before leaving, Xiaojun accompanied me to several decoration companies and made a decoration plan
I handed him over the specific matters of the house decoration to him.
Because I was in a hurry, I couldn't get together with my secretary and sister. Let's make an appointment to chat next time
After I came back, I talked to my parents about buying a house
Mom is very happy, thinking that I have grown up and have my own opinions
Dad scolded me, he thought I shouldn't take advantage of others anymore
Later I explained to my father that I bought it with cash. Although the discount is very strong, it seems that we have taken advantage of it. From the perspective of economic interests, they actually don’t lose anything.
After listening to my words, my dad's anger subsided a little
At the end of the month, all the finishing work of Xiaojun was completed, and the remaining funds were also entered into the company account, and then the villa decoration work started. I also sent him the decoration money.
In mid-April, unexpectedly, the bureau adjusted my job position
To be honest, I didn't hear any news before
The appointment was also completed, and I was appointed as the deputy director of the office by the Party Committee of the County Bureau.
The work environment has changed, and the level and vision have also changed, so the work has become busier
To be honest, I am not willing to take on this hot potato from the bottom of my heart. What role is the office director? People who are not in the system do not understand how difficult this role is.
Being an office director is not difficult, and it is not easy to say it is easy. You must be diligent and quick. No mistake is the result. Everything is based on the principle of satisfaction of the leader and satisfaction of the masses.
Take drinking as an example. The office director must do a lot of escort skills, be able to drink, sing, tell jokes, liven up the atmosphere, take good care of both the guest and the host, and be negligent.
Therefore, after a banquet, there is only alcohol and no dry goods in your stomach, so you have to find something to fill your stomach.
The office director is not a leader, but a senior secretary and serviceman of the leader. Everything about him is the leader, and of course, it also includes time. Therefore, he must be on standby 24/7 and be ready to serve the leader at all times.
When the leader goes out, he must prepare the vehicle early and arrange the reception along the way.
The leader must book a private room in advance and prepare dishes and drinks according to the level and hobbies of the guests.
When the leaders have a meeting, they must arrange the venue in advance, formulate the meeting agenda, implement the participants, and arrange the meeting times of leaders at all levels.
When the leader goes to meet the superior, he must prepare the front station in advance, prepare relevant gifts, contact the superior's office director, secretary and driver, and negotiate arrangements.
As an office director, you must have the all-round skills of Panjin Oil
Nearly 100 people in the unit have weddings and funerals almost every day, and they are sick and hospitalized. They must be given timely condolences on behalf of their leaders.
For example, evaluating professional titles, adjusting wages, children going to school, and employment, we must solve our problems for our leaders
When serving the leader, you must be in place on time; when accompanying the leader, you must not be offside; when the leader is not present, you must be in place in time; when the leader is not present, you must be in place in time;
When the leader goes out or is inconvenient to come forward, the office director will act as the leader and assume the responsibility of the leader. As the saying goes, raising troops for a thousand days and using troops for a moment
You must give full play to your intelligence, dispatch troops, arrange work, and do things perfectly, because you represent the leader at this time, and you must satisfy the leader and the people will be satisfied.
You must also attribute the credit to the leaders in a timely manner, leave it to the leaders who are late and make the masses thank the leaders. It is because the leaders are well-known and smart in decision-making. The office director is always the green leaves that foil the red flowers.
It is becoming increasingly difficult to be an office director today. It not only serves the main leaders, but also serves the wife and children of the main leaders and aunts and aunts. The deputy leaders in the unit, their wives and children and relatives, cannot be sluggish at all.
When there is a conflict of interest, you must be able to practice Tai Chi, and to distinguish between improper and improper.
Less than a year after I was promoted, I was re-adjusted to a new position, which made people staring at this position very dissatisfied and jealous.
They think that my qualifications are too shallow, I don’t have the heavy responsibility of working for a long time, and I don’t have the responsibility to take on this important task.
Since taking office, many discordant voices have been heard constantly in my ears
Fortunately, the director and the director-in-chief's eyes are bright and supportive and recognized for my work.
In fact, if you want to sit firmly and securely, you need to rely on the following two points: First, you must please your leader and be strong.
Second, we must balance and handle various interpersonal relationships well, so as to achieve the role of connecting the past and the future.
Only by doing these two points can I gain a foothold. The facts prove that I have both of these points
In order to break this unfavorable situation, I do a lot of work, whether it is interpersonal relationships or jobs, I do it beautifully
Finally, those discordant voices shut up and extinguish them
It fought a beautiful turnaround battle, and it also established its power and made its name!
To put it bluntly, it seems that a few words are quite simple to say, but it's so fucking tired
There is a reason why I was adjusted.
It seems that the office director is old and has worked in this position for so many years. He needs to select some important positions from young people to give way to young people.
In fact, the former office director was a cunning person
When he was in power, the party group of the game was very good. He was so awesome that he only listened to the director and the deputy director in charge. The remaining deputy players had no choice but to take advantage of them, and they also got angry with these deputy players a lot.
It is inevitable to offend people, so it has become a grudge with some people
The old director retired, the former executive was transferred to other counties, and his good days were coming to an end.
According to common sense, before the first and second leaders were transferred, they should be transferred to a position with abundant fuel. I don’t know why he was not arranged.
We are the director who has been serving less than a year ago, and our executive deputy director also came up when the party group was adjusted last year. He was also a deputy director before, but not a executive director.
I've been very angry with this old guy before
Since I came up, I have intentionally or unintentionally adjusted personnel matters in front of the top leader.
After all, the top leader is a foreign monk, so it mainly depends on these local cadres to play their role. If they are not maintained properly, they will not be able to carry out their work.
In order to unite other members of the Party Group, the top leader listened to the personnel suggestions of the Executive Deputy Director.
This executive deputy director is a local and has a very good relationship with my father.
He did a lot of work to bring me up, and he also felt that I had the ability to do this job.
In addition, the top leader has a good impression of me and I also recognize me as a young man, so this matter is natural, even if it is basically done
When asking for the former director's candidate, he called me
In fact, this person is not his father's connection, but he knows that the relationship between the director and my father is not ordinary, so this old fox has a favor.
Finally, we were transferred to positions
I reported to my parents the news that I was transferred to my post as soon as possible. While my parents were happy for me, they encouraged and warned me to do my best. My father taught me a lot of the mystery of the way to be an official
Listen to me, everything needs to be understood through practice
As soon as I arrived, I was listed as a key development target by the bureau's party branch and reported to the superior party committee as an activist.
Subsequently, in early May, he participated in an activist training class organized by the county party committee organization department.
During the few days of training, we studied the history of the Party, the Party Constitution, as well as Marxism-Leninism, Mao Zedong Thought, Deng Xiaoping Theory, the Three Represents, etc., as well as some current affairs.
Through this training, I made many friends from different fields and fields
After the training, we took an exam, and my grades were pretty good
Then I accepted the organization's comments and several conversations, and it went smoothly in early July. I was established as a probationary party member and officially became a regular one a year later.
Let's go back to business
In mid-2006, in order to develop the company, after research by several of us, we planned to find a suitable business place.
I got news in advance through my friends working in the Construction Committee that the best location in the county town should develop a commercial shopping center, which integrates catering, entertainment, shopping, apartments, etc.
I also saw the entire planning and design drawings at the first time.
Judging from the drawings, there are several business services on the street with an area of about 300 square meters. I was a little moved at the time and was thinking about how to get a set in advance.
Through the recommendation of the leader in charge of construction, I met Mr. Zhou, the developer who developed this land at that time. During the first meeting, I also talked to him about my ideas for pre-order.
The boss is just happy to do things, and he promised to reserve one for me at once.
It's a lot to do with my own background
As a businessman, if he doesn’t understand the other party’s true nature, will he care who you are?
The first time I came into contact with Mr. Zhou, I was very impressed by me. I was less than forty years old. I was not tall, only about 1.7 meters tall. I had a slightly fat figure. I had a pair of big eyes and were very energetic.
He is casual in dressing, talks very talkatively, and treats people very modestly
Not like a big boss with a net worth of hundreds of millions at all
Later, after getting in touch with each other, I also learned that Mr. Zhou is also a local, with three brothers in his family, and he is the second.
He is the only one who does business, and the other two are all going on a career
The eldest brother is the vice president of the Municipal Procuratorate and is in charge of anti-corruption.
The third brother is the captain of the Provincial Criminal Police Corps
In the eyes of outsiders, this brother is awesome enough, but his true strength, background and background are as big as the central department and department departments, even if he goes to Beijing, he is as good as a unit below the department and department bureau, as long as he goes to the flat road as a unit below the department bureau, he is like walking on the road.
This topic is a bit sensitive, it's okay not to talk about it
There is no need to question Mr. Zhou's strength. In our area, we are considered to be both black and white.
Maybe the destined opportunity, so I met Mr. Zhou at that time
We have also become buddies and partners
Brother Zhou has always taken good care of me, the little brother in business, and looks at me very much.
He has a high evaluation and recognition of me in his heart. He believes that I have a stable personality, high IQ and EQ, and good communication skills.
Mature thinking, smart and capable, honest and trustworthy, and efficient
He also pointed out many shortcomings to me, but these shortcomings were formally the reasons he appreciated me, so we became good friends
From the time we met in 2006 to the years when our company transferred in 2012, he left me with the closed circuit of several low-voltage TVs and fiber optic cable laying in the developed properties.
I also asked him why he returned to a small county town for development with such strength. Brother Zhou told me that he came back because he came out of his hometown and had a special feeling for his hometown.
He chose to come back to make some contribution to his hometown.
Another important reason was that the county party committee and county government invited him back at that time.
If the county government does not issue corresponding support policies, I think as a smart businessman, even if he has feelings for his hometown, if there are no preferential policy conditions, a businessman will carefully consider investment.
Anyone who has done engineering knows that he is afraid that the developer will not pay cash to use the rooftop account.
I want to say to these people, that's what you encounter with a big fool without strength
If a truly capable developer is not short of money
I worked with Brother Zhou for those years, and usually the settlement is cash.
There are also times when I use the money to pay off the debt. Even if I use the goods to pay off the debt, I have never suffered any losses.
Brother Zhou likes to let me go out for fun, fishing, hot springs, and some tea when I’m not busy.
As long as I'm free of charge,
If he gets familiar with him, he will not treat me as an outsider.
I also talked about their family's history of making a fortune
In the mid-1980s, due to family business, his father took his brothers and three out to develop the county town.
At the beginning, his family started out as a pesticide and fertilizer.
Later, by chance, the steel business started, but unexpectedly it was booming. At the best time, his business accounted for 80% of our region.
But I also vaguely felt that his family could do business so big and Brother Saner could do so well. It was not just by relying on his own efforts, but also certain external factors, which later confirmed my guess
To be honest, the reason why I like this business service is mainly because it meets the needs of our company's development.
When I was about to pay, I didn't know where the landlord and sister found out that I was going to buy a business service. She highly recommended me to buy her house and offered me a price of 2 million yuan.
If she wants to take over, she can make some money in terms of price
I didn't reply directly to her, I asked her to consider it
I was thinking about comparing these two properties in a comprehensive comparison. First of all, the location of her house was slightly worse according to the newly opened location.
Secondly, the newly opened is a 300-level flat floor paving on the street
Hers is the first and second floors. The area on the first floor is less than 100 square meters, and the area on the second floor is slightly larger, which obviously does not meet my needs.
The price she offered was slightly higher than the price in my heart.
If I took her plate for rent, the rent would definitely not be too high in this situation.
I discussed with the two girls, but Xue Jiao didn't say anything, but Yingzi gave me a good suggestion. She asked me to buy both places. Her point of view was to rent one for office and the other for rent.
She believes that our company is in the development stage and it is not suitable to change the location frequently. If the business premises remain unchanged, they can spend money on decoration.
Yingzi stopped me for another reason. She had consulted her husband for Feng Shui. Our current business premises are good, which is conducive to making money and also to the chief official position.
Although I don't believe it very much, I still listened to Yingzi's suggestion and decided to buy both properties.
So, I handed over the bargaining task to Yingzi. The girl did not disappoint me, and found an important news that there was a reason why the elder sister was eager to take action in her house.
Because the eldest sister's son is not good or worry-free, he always causes trouble
When he was fighting with someone, he accidentally beat him to a second-degree disability and was arrested. In order to save people and compensate, he urgently needed money, so he was eager to take action. In the end, Yingzi pushed the price to 1.6 million.
According to the market valuation at that time, her house can be worth about 1.8 million yuan.
Because I learned about the difficulties of the elder sister, I took the initiative to add 100,000 yuan to her during the transaction and made a deal of 1.7 million yuan.
The elder sister is very grateful, but because we added some extra money, we became friends
Later we got deeper into the relationship. I also had a certain understanding of their background. At the same time, the elder sister knew what my surname was.
Especially because her brother-in-law is also the top leader of a real-estate unit and is very familiar with my father, I received a lot of help and care from them in the subsequent business.
To be honest, everyone will encounter difficulties. If you don’t take advantage of your conscience, you may become a good person. If you help others, you will make a lot of good relationships.
Another business service paid the full payment, and the developer gave me some discounts and paid for 2.4 million yuan.
As soon as the house was obtained, it was rented by China Construction Bank for 800,000 yuan in five years.
They opened a savings house and still rented it, but the rent has increased by more than twice
Around 2010, the president of CCB talked about buying my house for 8 million yuan, but I didn't agree.
Now the valuation has increased by more than six times as much as I bought it
To be honest, I have made a lot of money in those years and I understand the principle that eggs cannot be placed in one basket.
In fact, I can quickly accumulate so much wealth and have an inseparable connection with a person
This person is Yingzi
Yingzi is a very powerful woman. She shows her gentle and virtuous side to her family.
In career, she is the strongest pillar behind me and the charm of this woman is not how sexy she is in the bed
Instead, she has a keen investment vision and keen insight and foresight of the market, and her ability is innate.
Why at the end of the previous chapter, I mentioned that 2006 was a year of sorrow and joy
I also explained the general situation in the first half of the year, including real estate purchase and personal work.
Only the love story with two girls is missing
The second half of 2006 was the beginning of my most decadent and painful
I lost Xuejiao
Sometimes life is like this. If you plant flowers and flowers without blooming, you will not bloom without thinking. If you plant willows and willows will become shade.
It also made me realize two other sentences: What you lose is not the end, what you have is not the true love
In mid-June, Xue Jiao got pregnant unexpectedly again. This was the third time she had conceived a baby for me, but it was also the last time that this pregnancy became an important fuse for me to lose her.
Why are you pregnant again?
It was also because my sister was careless and didn't take birth control pills in time.
I also discussed with Jiaomei at that time. Since I am pregnant, please stay.
Although we have not entered the marriage hall yet, we should not mislead ourselves and have children first
After all, both of the previous two disappeared unexpectedly, and I was particularly concerned about this pregnancy
As soon as I got pregnant, I didn't let her stay in the restaurant, and left everything to someone trusted by the girl.
I also hired a professional nanny to take care of her diet and daily life. All arrangements are made and I can only feel at ease if I arrange them properly.
The company's business situation in the second half of the year is pretty good, and the sales are OK
In early July, through relationships, I undertook the network transformation project of two institutions.
I deliberately pulled Xiaojun back from Dalian. As for villa decoration, Xiaojun handed it over to the local company employees he trusted in.
Yingzi is still in charge of the technical construction on the company, and Xiaojun is in charge of the technical construction. I have nothing to worry about.
Soon, October was approaching, and the villa decoration work in Dalian was coming to an end.
I took my parents to see it once. Whether it was the location of the house, the layout of the house, or the stable decoration style, my parents were very satisfied and liked it.
Because time is in a hurry, I returned without contacting Uncle Zhao and the others.
Looking at Xue Jiao's slightly raised belly, a woman gave birth to the crystallization of love for her beloved man. As her man, she can no longer ignore her.
Although he has never been recognized by his mother, as his man, he no longer blindly defends himself at this time.
I want to take the initiative to solve the current dilemma
Everyone knows that for various reasons, Zhang Xiaoyu and I were showing off to coax the old man.
My mother thought Xiaoyu and I were in good condition, so the two old men had already discussed and urged us to get the wedding done quickly.
Xiaoyu and I also threw out all kinds of words and shirked
Both parents were very unhappy. Although they were unhappy, they still had no way to deal with us for the time being
In fact, my mother knows her son best, and she knows the best that there is no break between me and Jiaomei.
Although Xiaoyu and I got along well on the surface, in fact, she had seen through me for them to show them
Always criticize me, telling me all kinds of interests, which makes me very upset
Just after returning from Dalian, I brought my pregnant girl back home. Although Xuejiao was still a little timid and resistant, she also knew that there would definitely be no good results when she returned.
But for me and for this child, I didn't say anything to go back with me
I planned to use my child to threaten my mother and let her promise what she promised us, but things did not develop in the direction I imagined, but instead caused both sides to suffer losses and turned into fierce quarrels and endless resentment
As a loser, I led my beautiful girl to flee in panic
I thought things would fall for a while
But my mother took advantage of the victory and finally won a great victory
My love with Jiaomei ended because of my mother's recklessness.
This is how things happened. I left with my beautiful girl that day
As soon as we left, my mother was very angry and furious
Spread all the resentment on my father
He scolded me for being unfaithful and unfilial, and blamed me for telling me about this matter to Lao Zhang's family
Then my mother did another thing, which made me really unable to forgive her for a while.
Shortly after the conflict with my mother, that is, mid-November
I was selected by the municipal bureau to inspect and study in Yunnan for two weeks
It is said to be an investigation and study, but it is actually a traveling place
At that time, the country was not strict in management, and there were many trainings like this for selling dog meat with sheep's head.
Under the guise of studying and investigating, doing travel
To be honest, I only study for one or two days, and the rest of my time is just a walk and play
Now such so-called good things are gone, and Wenzhuang, which breeds corruption, has also disappeared.
Whoever violates the Party’s discipline and national laws will suffer!
As a person within the system, I agree with the strength and determination of national political corruption. If I don’t rectify it, I will really destroy the party and the country.
As he talked, the topic went off the wrong way
In the days when I left, something happened
My mother didn't know what channel she learned about Jiaomei's restaurant location, and she brought a group of people to smash the restaurant.
Fortunately, Jiaomei was not present at that time. If she were present, I guess the angry mother would do something even more extreme.
Although he avoided the first wave of attacks, he failed to avoid the second wave
The unlucky girl was blocked by her crazy mother at home. She didn't even say insults, but the people she brought with her also attacked and beat her
The clothes were torn by the man my mother took, and she pushed her to the ground. Unexpectedly, Jiaomei bleeded continuously on the spot and was sent to the hospital. The child was not saved in the end.
When my mother looked at Xue Jiao who was bleeding, she was really frightened and she was relieved.
First reaction to save lives of one big and one small in time
At the same time, I regret my irrationality and recklessness
My father also came to the scene and scolded her, scolded her for being irrational, scolded her for not being worthy of being a qualified mother, and scolded her for being a murder
Complaining her son is not at home, how to explain to her son when she comes back
Mother is like a child who does something wrong, allowing his father to scold him
After treatment, the adults are fine, but Xuejiao lost her child again
I really can't imagine what Xue Jiao was feeling at that time. Jiaomei must be very sad and sad when she cried, but more of it was helpless.
When I got the bad news at the first time, I asked for leave and rushed back home in advance
Actually, I had a premonition before. People say that people have a sixth sense or something. At first, I didn't believe it very much.
Just a few days before and after what happened, my right eyelid kept pounding wildly
To be honest, I am a materialist, I only believed in atheism before, and I am very repulsive of superstitious behavior.
But some things are really not explained clearly by science
The old saying goes: The left eye twitches wealth, the right eye twitches disaster Ah, the occurrence of disaster also confirms the credibility of the old saying
On the way back, although I was very anxious
I really want to fly to her side to protect her immediately
But the journey is long, but I am not a superman
I thought a lot of questions on the plane
Why is it so unhappy for her to be with me?
Why do you always feel that someone is blocking it?
Is there something wrong?
Or shouldn’t we have this fate?
I couldn't find the answer I wanted at the time
As soon as I got home, I headed straight to the hospital, but I was still one step late, and Xuejiao was taken away by her family.
I know my mother did a very excessive job in this matter, but after I came back, I didn't complain or blame her for anything
On the way back, I thought about having a big fight with my mother to vent my dissatisfaction
But when I got home, I felt soft when I saw my mother's apology and confession.
Facing the mother who gave birth to me and raised me, I finally gave up the idea of hurting another person's heart
I have a lot of resentment to vent, and I can't hold it in my heart, and I chose to punish and vent myself by buying drunk
I learned through Yingzi that on my way back, Jiaomei's family also arrived.
She took the girl away as soon as possible, and she didn't know where she went.
I didn't stop and took Yingzi to the beautiful girl's house and went there
I kept dialing Jiaomei's number on the road, and the sound of the user being unable to connect was always heard inside, which disappointed me. The family was empty. I tried to contact Xiaolong, but he didn't know where he was.
Actually, what I don’t know is that Jiaomei was taken to the provincial hospital by her family to continue treatment. She recovered very quickly and was discharged from the hospital in less than a week.
Then they went home, and just happened to be the time to find her. In this way, my beautiful girl missed her.
I was searching for it outside, but I didn't expect that Jiaomei and her family had returned home
Although Xiaolong knew that I had been here and secretly told his sister that this was happening, Jiaomei did not respond to my actions at that time because her parents were both angry.
Not long after, I went to Jiaomei's house several times, but I never saw her.
Although she knew my actions through Xiaolong every time I went, she never responded to my search because she had lost confidence in me
Although Xiaolong has a good relationship with me, his position on this matter is on the side of his family. Every time I go, I will communicate with him, and I will never get any answers from him.
Every time I go, I am scolded by my sister's parents, and I even get beaten
In order to find the girl, I endured it all.
I know that this time I really hurt Xue Jiao's heart, and she completely gave up.
When I was discouraged by the girl and both Wan Lan was destroyed, I went to Mount Wutai alone in order to vain myself.
Where, I met an expert. After his guidance, I realized that the fate between people is deep and shallow.
In his opinion, although I will never lack the company of women around me, my marriage and feelings are ups and downs because of my personal emotions that will affect my career and wealth.
According to the master, a person's destiny is created based on the birth date and horoscope.
If there is no emotional factor, from the perspective of my horoscope, I should be a business or political figure.
Although what he said at that time was a bit exaggerated, I felt that he had a lot of trickery and was not trustworthy.
I also asked him about the emotional issues that bother me
He replied: The dream surrounded by fireworks is just because of love and unforgettable love; all four elements are nothing but passing clouds. Even if you look back five hundred times in your previous life, you will only be able to pass by once in this life.
This expert also told me that I will experience two marriages in my life, and also showed me what year the next relationship crisis will occur, and my personal relationship will eventually stabilize after the age of 34.
He also told me that he had a son and a daughter
When he asked him, he smiled but didn't answer, and only told me that too many secrets cannot be revealed
When he was about to part, he gave me a few words: All things in the world are true and false, face them with a smile, don't complain, leisurely, as you please, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as
To be honest, I was in the grief of losing my sister at that time. I really didn't understand his last few words, and I also understood the true meaning of the master's words.
After the Spring Festival in 2007, I came back from Mount Wutai and went to her home again
Finally, I saw the beautiful girl I missed day and night
Xuejiao's attitude is very cold, so cold that I don't know her
I tried to keep it, and she didn't care about anything I said
The moment I was about to force her away, another person I unexpectedly struck out and knocked me to the ground
When I saw the person coming clearly, I knew and understood that everything about Jiaomei and I were gone.
This time I was knocked down as a loser. I was hurt not only by my flesh, but by my heart
I completely lost my sweet girl. A girl who once loved me so much, a girl who had nurtured our love crystallization many times, and she completely left me.
I got up and patted the dust on my body, put the bag in my hand on the ground, and slowly stood up. Although I saw it in the dark, Xue Jiao intentionally wanted to come forward to help me, but she was pulled by the people around me.
Looking at Zhao Tiedan and Xue Jiao across the street, they smiled
And wish them happiness as a loser. I pointed to the bag on the ground and told Jiaomei that the money inside was what she deserved in the past two years.
The two of them just looked at the bags on the ground, and neither of them moved or said anything.
When I finished talking about this with tears, the moment I turned around and left silently, I heard the heart-wrenching cry of the woman behind me, and my tears rolled down as well.
I wanted to turn around and rush over, but for some reason, I didn't stop. I didn't... really... I know that our fate has ended...
Just like that, without saying goodbye, I walked away quietly with pain...
Along the way, I kept playing the classic old song... Tears were flowing through the dam...
I don't know why love is like this, I imagine it, but I can't find the direction in you, let alone how to forget, standing in the rain, tears are in my eyes, I don't know where to go, and my heart keeps calling you, I keep looking for you, should I walk away quietly or stay bravely, I don't know if so much helplessness can be done again, should I walk away quietly or should I wait here to wait. You understand that the love I give you can never go away...
Later, I learned from Xiaolong that shortly after I left, his sister agreed to Zhao Tiedan's proposal.
Afterwards, the two left their hometown and went to Beijing after getting married.
It's been a few years since I met Xue Jiao
For so many years, I have always felt guilty about Xuejiao because I failed to protect her. The main responsibility lies in me.
I know that all the mistakes are wrong with me. I shouldn’t let down the expectations of your girl, I shouldn’t be too willful, I shouldn’t ignore my mother’s advice, and many things shouldn’t be...
Everything has become a thing of the past now
Maybe the story should end when it is written. In fact, this is just a paragraph in my life. It’s still the same sentence. What you lose does not mean the end, what you have does not mean true love.
The girl left, but fortunately Yingzi is still by my side. I put all my feelings on her and she silently accompanied me, slowly walking out of the haze of the relationship
Because my mother was irrational about Xuejiao, I also doubted Yingzi, if Yingzi was tricked by her afterwards
My mother later told me the truth, and this matter had nothing to do with Yingzi, and it was the result of my mother sending someone to follow me.
Because of this, I almost wronged Yingzi
Xiaoyu knows a lot of things, but he didn't tell her family about mine. To be honest, I'm very grateful for her handling.
Because we often have to make appointments together for acting. During that time, when I was the most decadent, it was the time when she was in the worst mood. The two of us often whispered together again and spoke up again, and they often spoke up their own unhappiness in their hearts.
It's not because of my gratitude to Xiaoyu, I just feel that Xiaoyu and I were acting to coax Uncle and Aunt Zhang very happily. Don't let Xiaoyu passively be in front of my parents because of this incident.
More importantly, I don't want to have any bad views on me because of this
From the end of 2006 to early 2007, I misled my essential work a lot
When the leader always asks for leave, the director also saw that my condition was not very good during that period. I gave me a lot of vacations to take care of me.
The company's performance is pretty good. The two small project tasks undertaken in the second half of the year were successfully accepted and they were waiting for the payment to be paid.
Yingzi also gave me the financial statements for last year. Fortunately, I didn't work in vain for a year. Although the expenses were quite large, the profits decreased according to the previous year, but there was still a profit of nearly three million.
Although I was not in a state during that period, I didn’t leave any of the thanks to the various people before the New Year. I was responsible for the command of my back. Xiaojun and Yingzi worked on their behalf.
After the Chinese New Year, I completely broke up with the girl. I also calmed down, refreshed my heart and prepared for it
Seeing that I was in a better mood, my mother also tentatively asked me about my emotional questions.
After experiencing this emotional catastrophe, I no longer consider this kind of problem that upsets me
I also told my mother that you should not force me, either
My mother also saw that I didn't want to communicate and discuss with her, so she gave up
I switched my energy and attention to work and business
Let busyness dilute the painful past
Although sometimes I occasionally think of every bit of the past, I can only suppress myself and hide the most beautiful part deeply in the deepest part of my heart
People often say that time is the best medicine to heal the trauma of the soul
After the Chinese New Year, I did a few things
I sold Xue Jiao's car
The house where Xue Jiao lives was left in her name, so she stayed
To be honest, for a while, I didn't dare to pass by that community, I was afraid of seeing things and thinking about people
Yingzi has been idle for several years since she cleaned up her house.
As for the restaurant, I transferred it out half a year since that incident happened
The company's legal person and equity have been adjusted accordingly, and the legal person has been replaced by Yingzi
The original shares of Xuejiao were allocated to Xiaojun and Yingzi respectively
Some people may have questions: Can you change your equity and legal person without the consent and authorization of the legal person?
The answer is certainly not
I didn't come forward, so I asked Yingzi to find an accounting firm and spent 3,000 yuan to get everything done
As for how they work, I don't care, I just want the result
To be honest, I can do this little thing myself, but it is better to spend a small amount of money to walk the main road if you need to take a lot of favors.
My emotional world is single, and only Yingzi is left by my side, so I don’t have to be distracted. I put all my feelings on her
Because of the girl's affairs, I simply moved out of the house and lived alone at home. I felt very upset when I saw my mother. I didn't want to make her angry, so I had to choose to be alone and quiet.
Occasionally Yingzi will come to accompany me, we have sex together, discuss the company's planning and development
Although Yingzi knew that Xuejiao had completely left me, she had never expressed her intention to be with me
Later I understood why she didn't ask for it, because she saw Xue Jiao being injured and was completely exhausted. Finally, she withdrew miserably, and she didn't want to be the second one.
Recognize and accompany me silently, and don’t have love without blessings and recognition
During that time, Yingzi became a bridge and link for communication between me and my mother. I didn’t want to go home to see my mother, so Yingzi forced me back.
Yingzi will inform her mother of any psychological fluctuations as soon as possible if she has any of her psychological changes.
On the contrary, if my mother is not feeling well and she is in a bad mood, Yingzi will tell me the first time
I understand what Yingzi did. She hoped that my relationship with her mother would get better as soon as possible. She did a lot of work in the meantime, which was really difficult for her.
This year, our company encountered a blowout development, forming a situation of fighting on four fronts at the same time.
1. Continue to undertake the weak projects of Uncle Zhao’s subsequent development of the property, from the initial four items to six.
Second, Brother Zhou handed me the small project of the development project (although the project volume is not as good as Uncle Zhao, but the cooperation with Brother Zhou also made a good start). Third, several units that had completed network upgrades and renovations in the early stage had a good feedback on the quality of the software and hardware involved in the project, which also led to several subsequent units taking the initiative to come to the door.
4. Sales of traditional electronics industry
After research, he unanimously passed that Xiaojun was the commander-in-chief of the engineering technology in the implementation of installation engineering technology, and he also formulated a specific plan.
First, Deli's deputy went to Dalian to take charge of Uncle Zhao's property. Second, he personally took charge of his home and supervised it directly. Third, Mr. Zhou's project was also carried out by him in the local unit.
As for marketing and planning, it is assigned to Yingzi's jurisdiction
In order to fight at the same time on the fourth line, our company temporarily recruited a group of outstanding talents from recent graduates from counterpart colleges to support the problem of personnel shortage in technical construction.
As for our employees, this year is really tiring, constantly welcoming and dealing with various activities and inspections.
The reception part made me exhausted. Drinking is a trivial matter, the key is...
Why……
It's really hard to describe
All the guests come. If someone has any needs, we must let him or her satisfy him or her.
Only when the guests are happy can the leaders be satisfied
What to do? It can save worry and be able to do better so that all aspects can be satisfied? I have also thought about it
To be honest, I really didn't want to take this snare at first, but I couldn't help it. Even though I made me younger, I was attracted by my leader.
Although it was difficult and tiring, I had the intention to retreat, but then I still gritted my teeth and held on.
Truth be honest, the job of a big manager is really not something you can take on.
After working for more than a year, I also worked out the trick.
Especially for reception, you must go to various public places
Although the country did not manage food and drink at that time very much, it was accused of it within the scope of national policies.
You can definitely hear the leader's complaints from the leader
At that time, I also had a baby, and the idea of setting up a hospitality place
I discussed it with Yingzi, and the matter was immediately put on the agenda. Yingzi looked for a suitable venue and built a small farmhouse-type place
Soon Yingzi found a very suitable venue and drove me to take a look.
To be honest, I fell in love with it at first sight
The courtyard is rectangular and has an area of about 3500 square meters.
There is a small pond next to the river in the site. It is said that there is a culvert at the bottom of the pond that leads to the river water, and there are fish inside.
There are also many poplar trees that have been planted around the courtyard for nearly 20 years, and there are some fruit trees in the garden.
There is also a dilapidated house in the yard, nothing else
After a rough look, these appendages
When asked, the asking price is not expensive, and the procedures are very complete, but the only thing I don’t like is the location from the village to the courtyard. It requires a dirt road less than 200 meters and needs to be renovated.
I went back and considered the solution, but I felt it was not difficult to implement it.
In a few days, I bought it in the name of Yingzi.
Then I explained my thoughts to Yingzi and left all the things here to Yingzi with full responsibility.
Yingzi moved quickly, and the venue started to implement it as soon as it took over.
With the help of friends from many related units such as the construction and design department, the land department and other related procedures, the design drawings, project budgets, construction teams and various related procedures have been found and completed.
Then he gave the horticulture design to a horticulture design company for construction
June has entered the blink of an eye, and the construction has entered the later stage
From purchasing to construction, I went to the construction site several times, and the construction quality and progress were very satisfying.
By the time I went there again at the end of June, the project progress had already entered the interior decoration stage of the house, and the gardening construction had also entered the finishing work. All the settings of the courtyard have been basically completed.
Standing on the roof of the main building, looking down at the full view, the gardening design is very beautiful
The original courtyard earth wall was replaced with red brick cement walls, and the gardener pruned and removed the original poplar trees.
The small pond in the southeast of the main building has been expanded and newly repaired in its original area, and weeping willows have been planted around it. There are also multiple fishing spots and sunshades installed in the middle of the willow trees. A small path paved with pebbles was built around the pond, and an ornamental courtyard was built on the water surface a little west of the pond.
There are two high-end greenhouses built in the southwest, which can not only plant vegetables, but also plant flowers and plants, as well as chickens, ducks, pig houses with brick structures, etc.
Located directly at the south end of the main building, only a few small roads and pavilions leading to various leisure points were built. The original fruit trees did not move, but they were moved from the new location and added many varieties.
There are several gardening and leisure venues and simple entertainment facilities in the middle of the courtyard. The entire courtyard is equipped with multiple audio equipment and lighting laser lights.
A lot of ornamental vegetation suitable for growth in the Northeast and laying lawns
Near the main building, there is an open space of about 600 square meters separated from the inside by a garden wall. A site is poured with cement. It can be parked and temporarily used for dining in summer.
Four above-ground garages and a storage room are built on the west wall.
A small boiler room is built next to the west of the main building
The main door is located on the east side of the main building, with a guard booth and a guard room at the north gate. There are also multiple surveillance probes installed in the yard.
The main building is designed as four floors, with a total area of nearly 1,600 square meters and a semi-underground floor for kitchens, storage rooms, employee dormitories, and security monitoring rooms.
There is an uphill platform on the outside of the main floor, and a large luxury private room in the room, and several small private rooms.
There is a multi-functional entertainment and dining venue of nearly 300 square meters on the second floor, which can be sung and dance, and can also be held for small entertainment and dining activities.
The manager and supervisor's office is also located on the second floor
There are two luxurious suites on the east and west sides of the third floor, and multiple ordinary rooms on the north and south sides of the middle aisle
The suite is equipped with all the equipment, which can be accommodated and entertained
The interior decoration is very high-end and luxurious. Yingzi used the design and construction of three-star hotels. What she did made me very satisfied.
When the construction was about to be completed, Yingzi calculated the specific cost for me
Purchase 200,000 places
It cost less than 60,000 yuan to go through various procedures in the future
It cost 50,000 yuan to lay bricks and road materials
220,000 yuan was spent on horticulture design and construction contracting
The construction of the main building and ancillary facilities cost 630,000 yuan, including labor, material, etc.
The monitoring equipment is made by the company itself, not counting as manual, and it has used nearly 80,000 materials from its own equipment.
What is left is that more than 900,000 yuan was spent on decorating and purchasing corresponding equipment, and about 500,000 yuan was spent on decorating manual materials. The remaining electrical products and electronic equipment were purchased or ready-made equipment by the company.
There are also dining tables, dining chairs, tableware, kitchen utensils, etc. involved in furniture, such as work supplies, seats and benches, sofas, beds, mahjong machines, etc.
The total cost is as high as about 2.6 million, which is another smaller number.
Yingzi is still in charge of all matters in the garden alone, and then hires a professional hotel management team and corresponding service personnel.
To outsiders, the boss here is a young and beautiful woman. Many regular customers know that I am the real boss here.
Yingzi serves as general manager, and she divides the business into four parts
1. The hotel management team is responsible for the lobby, restaurant, customer service, security, cashier, etc.
2. The kitchen contracted to the outside team
3. Procurement, transportation, breeding, personnel management, finance, management of external maintenance personnel, personnel logistics support, etc.
4. Have professional management, and they hire female service staff
I named this place as a private club and named it: "Nanyuanzi" At the beginning, we did not open to the public, and in the early stage we only targeted the reception work of our unit
Because of its reputation, many related units and government departments have been asking for help, and I have to let this place go a little bit.
But it is only for the hospitality work of various institutions
To be honest, my original idea was very simple. First, I was to find a quiet place for the unit's hospitality, and the other was to use it for your own private entertainment and leisure.
But later it changed its taste, but the advantage is that there are too many people, so the benefits naturally increase, and a problem is that there is not enough place.
There was no way, in the spring of the following year, it was newly expanded, and approved by the town's land planning department, and consulted with the local village, and approved two pieces of land for us.
A 1,000 square meter area along the east side of the garden has been added, a dedicated parking lot and a garage has been built, and two new small villas have been built for higher-level character receptions.
More than 1,000 square meters to the west are converted into a breeding planting base
The nearby paddy fields were also contracted for rice cultivation
From 2007 to the end of 2012, in the courtyard beside the small village of Linjiang, there were frequent vehicles coming and going, and the scenery was very beautiful.
Shortly after it was completed in early August that year, I invited the first and second leaders of our unit to experience it alone. The leaders fell in love with it all at once, and then all the receptions and activities were brought here.
We have whatever we want to eat. Except for fresh seafood, we have everything we have.
Fish and meat are raised by yourself, rice is grown by yourself, soybean oil is squeezed by your own small pressing machine
Plant fresh vegetables by yourself in all seasons of the year
Especially in summer, picking from trees in the fruit yard
The evaluation given by guests who have been here describes us as a paradise
During the construction period, something happened. Yingzi's grandfather died unexpectedly in mid-May that year.
Because Yingzi is busy with her career, I am busy at work and have no time to take care of my grandparents.
What happened was like this. One day in early May, it was raining outside, and my grandfather had to go out for a walk. The nanny had no choice but to support him out for some breath. Unexpectedly, she accidentally slipped and kowtowed to her head when she was down the steps.
At first I thought it was just a skin trauma, but it became serious at night and I kept sleeping and not waking up.
When I received the nanny and found that the situation was wrong, it was too late to go to the hospital for a CT scan. I found that there had been a lot of bleeding in the cranioma and I didn't have to go through craniotomy surgery.
The doctor was afraid that he would not be able to get off the operating table, so he did not dare to have a craniotomy. He just suggested that the family prepare for the funeral.
When I heard the news, my mother and father had already arrived. Yingzi had already cried in her mother's arms.
Two days later, grandpa left
I accompanied Yingzi to deal with grandpa's funeral and sent the ashes back to my hometown
Because a leader came to the province to inspect, I left early, and my parents accompanied Yingzi to bury my grandfather.
Another thing happened during the process of burying my grandfather.
I remember I told you before that Yingzi's biological mother ran away with a person from the neighboring village when she was three years old because of this incident. Yingzi's father couldn't think of it and committed suicide.
On the day when my grandfather was seventh, Yingzi's biological mother didn't know what channel she learned that Yingzi was back, so she took the initiative to find Yingzi and wanted to recognize her biological girl.
The scenes were out of control at that time, but my mother later told me personally.
After all, when Yingzi's mother left her, Xiaoyingzi was only less than three years old, so she didn't have much impression of her mother.
Suddenly a woman called herself Yingzi's mother, no one can accept it
Let's not consider whether this woman is Yingzi's biological mother. Let's talk about the piece of flesh that fell off your body for so many years. You don't feel sorry for it, no matter how you ask.
Not worthy of being a mother or a woman
A tiger poisonous woman is not even as good as a beast
It didn't appear early or late, but it just appeared at this time
Where is your intention?
After confirmation by the villagers, the group of people who came were indeed Yingzi's biological mother, uncle, aunt and old grandmother.
My mother's suppressed emotions finally broke out of control and broke out. She insisted on asking Yingzi for justice in front of everyone!
Mom scolded these people and spitted out blood!
Faced with my mother's accusations and abuses, no one dared to refute them, especially her mother, who was inferior to her beast, knelt at Yingzi's feet and cried.
Yingzi didn't want to see them either, and turned his back to these beasts and turned a blind eye!
My mother was afraid that Yingzi would not be able to withstand the multiple blows and led a group of villagers to bomb all these people who were not human.
After quickly finishing my grandfather's funeral, I took Yingzi away
The Chinese New Year is over quickly, and it is the day to go to work on the seventh day of the first lunar month
The first thing I did was to go to the unit to guard the company's opening. I did not attend the scene in person. Xiaojun and Yingzi were in charge. Once the firecrackers were set off, even if the new year opened.
Because of the restaurant, Xue Jiao came back on the seventh day of the first lunar month
I chose the auspicious day of the eighth day of the lunar month and started business.
What surprised me was that Xiaolong also followed his sister and left before the fifteenth day of the first lunar month.
I took time to have fun with him for a few days
A few things happened in March of the Chinese New Year. A new building purchased by Yingzi has also been renovated. I can move in after I put the smell on it.
At the beginning of the month, I personally led the team to Dalian. First, I visited Uncle Zhao. He also listened to his project manager's report on the project progress and construction quality. He was very satisfied with everything we did.
He also cared about whether our company made a profit or lost money. I smiled but didn't answer. He smiled and nodded.
He is very concerned about my career development, and I also briefly introduced my job changes last year to Uncle Zhao. He is very happy with my performance in my job this year
I was happy and told me repeatedly that I should do business and not relax my career.
He hopes that I will go hand in hand with each other
But at the same time, I also warn me that everything must be stable
I talked with him about buying a villa. In fact, he had known for a long time that I was interested in buying the property he developed. I think it must be the secretary and sister who had already been venting with him.
He meant to give me a premium apartment, but I didn't accept it
To be honest, it cannot be accepted
Originally, the last time the favor debt was not replaced, but if I add a new favor debt, my dad will have to rob me.
After my repeated insistence, he called the sales manager without saying a call and told me in person that he would sell a set at a cost price and I would choose the floor position at will. All the fees that should be exempted will be exempted.
With the direct benefit of Uncle Zhao, I bought the villa I had liked before and paid the full payment, and completed all the procedures for less than one million.
Xiaojun also stayed, after all, he was still in charge of the project finishing work.
Before leaving, Xiaojun accompanied me to several decoration companies and made a decoration plan
I handed him over the specific matters of the house decoration to him.
Because I was in a hurry, I couldn't get together with my secretary and sister. Let's make an appointment to chat next time
After I came back, I talked to my parents about buying a house
Mom is very happy, thinking that I have grown up and have my own opinions
Dad scolded me, he thought I shouldn't take advantage of others anymore
Later I explained to my father that I bought it with cash. Although the discount is very strong, it seems that we have taken advantage of it. From the perspective of economic interests, they actually don’t lose anything.
After listening to my words, my dad's anger subsided a little
At the end of the month, all the finishing work of Xiaojun was completed, and the remaining funds were also entered into the company account, and then the villa decoration work started. I also sent him the decoration money.
In mid-April, unexpectedly, the bureau adjusted my job position
To be honest, I didn't hear any news before
The appointment was also completed, and I was appointed as the deputy director of the office by the Party Committee of the County Bureau.
The work environment has changed, and the level and vision have also changed, so the work has become busier
To be honest, I am not willing to take on this hot potato from the bottom of my heart. What role is the office director? People who are not in the system do not understand how difficult this role is.
Being an office director is not difficult, and it is not easy to say it is easy. You must be diligent and quick. No mistake is the result. Everything is based on the principle of satisfaction of the leader and satisfaction of the masses.
Take drinking as an example. The office director must do a lot of escort skills, be able to drink, sing, tell jokes, liven up the atmosphere, take good care of both the guest and the host, and be negligent.
Therefore, after a banquet, there is only alcohol and no dry goods in your stomach, so you have to find something to fill your stomach.
The office director is not a leader, but a senior secretary and serviceman of the leader. Everything about him is the leader, and of course, it also includes time. Therefore, he must be on standby 24/7 and be ready to serve the leader at all times.
When the leader goes out, he must prepare the vehicle early and arrange the reception along the way.
The leader must book a private room in advance and prepare dishes and drinks according to the level and hobbies of the guests.
When the leaders have a meeting, they must arrange the venue in advance, formulate the meeting agenda, implement the participants, and arrange the meeting times of leaders at all levels.
When the leader goes to meet the superior, he must prepare the front station in advance, prepare relevant gifts, contact the superior's office director, secretary and driver, and negotiate arrangements.
As an office director, you must have the all-round skills of Panjin Oil
Nearly 100 people in the unit have weddings and funerals almost every day, and they are sick and hospitalized. They must be given timely condolences on behalf of their leaders.
For example, evaluating professional titles, adjusting wages, children going to school, and employment, we must solve our problems for our leaders
When serving the leader, you must be in place on time; when accompanying the leader, you must not be offside; when the leader is not present, you must be in place in time; when the leader is not present, you must be in place in time;
When the leader goes out or is inconvenient to come forward, the office director will act as the leader and assume the responsibility of the leader. As the saying goes, raising troops for a thousand days and using troops for a moment
You must give full play to your intelligence, dispatch troops, arrange work, and do things perfectly, because you represent the leader at this time, and you must satisfy the leader and the people will be satisfied.
You must also attribute the credit to the leaders in a timely manner, leave it to the leaders who are late and make the masses thank the leaders. It is because the leaders are well-known and smart in decision-making. The office director is always the green leaves that foil the red flowers.
It is becoming increasingly difficult to be an office director today. It not only serves the main leaders, but also serves the wife and children of the main leaders and aunts and aunts. The deputy leaders in the unit, their wives and children and relatives, cannot be sluggish at all.
When there is a conflict of interest, you must be able to practice Tai Chi, and to distinguish between improper and improper.
Less than a year after I was promoted, I was re-adjusted to a new position, which made people staring at this position very dissatisfied and jealous.
They think that my qualifications are too shallow, I don’t have the heavy responsibility of working for a long time, and I don’t have the responsibility to take on this important task.
Since taking office, many discordant voices have been heard constantly in my ears
Fortunately, the director and the director-in-chief's eyes are bright and supportive and recognized for my work.
In fact, if you want to sit firmly and securely, you need to rely on the following two points: First, you must please your leader and be strong.
Second, we must balance and handle various interpersonal relationships well, so as to achieve the role of connecting the past and the future.
Only by doing these two points can I gain a foothold. The facts prove that I have both of these points
In order to break this unfavorable situation, I do a lot of work, whether it is interpersonal relationships or jobs, I do it beautifully
Finally, those discordant voices shut up and extinguish them
It fought a beautiful turnaround battle, and it also established its power and made its name!
To put it bluntly, it seems that a few words are quite simple to say, but it's so fucking tired
There is a reason why I was adjusted.
It seems that the office director is old and has worked in this position for so many years. He needs to select some important positions from young people to give way to young people.
In fact, the former office director was a cunning person
When he was in power, the party group of the game was very good. He was so awesome that he only listened to the director and the deputy director in charge. The remaining deputy players had no choice but to take advantage of them, and they also got angry with these deputy players a lot.
It is inevitable to offend people, so it has become a grudge with some people
The old director retired, the former executive was transferred to other counties, and his good days were coming to an end.
According to common sense, before the first and second leaders were transferred, they should be transferred to a position with abundant fuel. I don’t know why he was not arranged.
We are the director who has been serving less than a year ago, and our executive deputy director also came up when the party group was adjusted last year. He was also a deputy director before, but not a executive director.
I've been very angry with this old guy before
Since I came up, I have intentionally or unintentionally adjusted personnel matters in front of the top leader.
After all, the top leader is a foreign monk, so it mainly depends on these local cadres to play their role. If they are not maintained properly, they will not be able to carry out their work.
In order to unite other members of the Party Group, the top leader listened to the personnel suggestions of the Executive Deputy Director.
This executive deputy director is a local and has a very good relationship with my father.
He did a lot of work to bring me up, and he also felt that I had the ability to do this job.
In addition, the top leader has a good impression of me and I also recognize me as a young man, so this matter is natural, even if it is basically done
When asking for the former director's candidate, he called me
In fact, this person is not his father's connection, but he knows that the relationship between the director and my father is not ordinary, so this old fox has a favor.
Finally, we were transferred to positions
I reported to my parents the news that I was transferred to my post as soon as possible. While my parents were happy for me, they encouraged and warned me to do my best. My father taught me a lot of the mystery of the way to be an official
Listen to me, everything needs to be understood through practice
As soon as I arrived, I was listed as a key development target by the bureau's party branch and reported to the superior party committee as an activist.
Subsequently, in early May, he participated in an activist training class organized by the county party committee organization department.
During the few days of training, we studied the history of the Party, the Party Constitution, as well as Marxism-Leninism, Mao Zedong Thought, Deng Xiaoping Theory, the Three Represents, etc., as well as some current affairs.
Through this training, I made many friends from different fields and fields
After the training, we took an exam, and my grades were pretty good
Then I accepted the organization's comments and several conversations, and it went smoothly in early July. I was established as a probationary party member and officially became a regular one a year later.
Let's go back to business
In mid-2006, in order to develop the company, after research by several of us, we planned to find a suitable business place.
I got news in advance through my friends working in the Construction Committee that the best location in the county town should develop a commercial shopping center, which integrates catering, entertainment, shopping, apartments, etc.
I also saw the entire planning and design drawings at the first time.
Judging from the drawings, there are several business services on the street with an area of about 300 square meters. I was a little moved at the time and was thinking about how to get a set in advance.
Through the recommendation of the leader in charge of construction, I met Mr. Zhou, the developer who developed this land at that time. During the first meeting, I also talked to him about my ideas for pre-order.
The boss is just happy to do things, and he promised to reserve one for me at once.
It's a lot to do with my own background
As a businessman, if he doesn’t understand the other party’s true nature, will he care who you are?
The first time I came into contact with Mr. Zhou, I was very impressed by me. I was less than forty years old. I was not tall, only about 1.7 meters tall. I had a slightly fat figure. I had a pair of big eyes and were very energetic.
He is casual in dressing, talks very talkatively, and treats people very modestly
Not like a big boss with a net worth of hundreds of millions at all
Later, after getting in touch with each other, I also learned that Mr. Zhou is also a local, with three brothers in his family, and he is the second.
He is the only one who does business, and the other two are all going on a career
The eldest brother is the vice president of the Municipal Procuratorate and is in charge of anti-corruption.
The third brother is the captain of the Provincial Criminal Police Corps
In the eyes of outsiders, this brother is awesome enough, but his true strength, background and background are as big as the central department and department departments, even if he goes to Beijing, he is as good as a unit below the department and department bureau, as long as he goes to the flat road as a unit below the department bureau, he is like walking on the road.
This topic is a bit sensitive, it's okay not to talk about it
There is no need to question Mr. Zhou's strength. In our area, we are considered to be both black and white.
Maybe the destined opportunity, so I met Mr. Zhou at that time
We have also become buddies and partners
Brother Zhou has always taken good care of me, the little brother in business, and looks at me very much.
He has a high evaluation and recognition of me in his heart. He believes that I have a stable personality, high IQ and EQ, and good communication skills.
Mature thinking, smart and capable, honest and trustworthy, and efficient
He also pointed out many shortcomings to me, but these shortcomings were formally the reasons he appreciated me, so we became good friends
From the time we met in 2006 to the years when our company transferred in 2012, he left me with the closed circuit of several low-voltage TVs and fiber optic cable laying in the developed properties.
I also asked him why he returned to a small county town for development with such strength. Brother Zhou told me that he came back because he came out of his hometown and had a special feeling for his hometown.
He chose to come back to make some contribution to his hometown.
Another important reason was that the county party committee and county government invited him back at that time.
If the county government does not issue corresponding support policies, I think as a smart businessman, even if he has feelings for his hometown, if there are no preferential policy conditions, a businessman will carefully consider investment.
Anyone who has done engineering knows that he is afraid that the developer will not pay cash to use the rooftop account.
I want to say to these people, that's what you encounter with a big fool without strength
If a truly capable developer is not short of money
I worked with Brother Zhou for those years, and usually the settlement is cash.
There are also times when I use the money to pay off the debt. Even if I use the goods to pay off the debt, I have never suffered any losses.
Brother Zhou likes to let me go out for fun, fishing, hot springs, and some tea when I’m not busy.
As long as I'm free of charge,
If he gets familiar with him, he will not treat me as an outsider.
I also talked about their family's history of making a fortune
In the mid-1980s, due to family business, his father took his brothers and three out to develop the county town.
At the beginning, his family started out as a pesticide and fertilizer.
Later, by chance, the steel business started, but unexpectedly it was booming. At the best time, his business accounted for 80% of our region.
But I also vaguely felt that his family could do business so big and Brother Saner could do so well. It was not just by relying on his own efforts, but also certain external factors, which later confirmed my guess
To be honest, the reason why I like this business service is mainly because it meets the needs of our company's development.
When I was about to pay, I didn't know where the landlord and sister found out that I was going to buy a business service. She highly recommended me to buy her house and offered me a price of 2 million yuan.
If she wants to take over, she can make some money in terms of price
I didn't reply directly to her, I asked her to consider it
I was thinking about comparing these two properties in a comprehensive comparison. First of all, the location of her house was slightly worse according to the newly opened location.
Secondly, the newly opened is a 300-level flat floor paving on the street
Hers is the first and second floors. The area on the first floor is less than 100 square meters, and the area on the second floor is slightly larger, which obviously does not meet my needs.
The price she offered was slightly higher than the price in my heart.
If I took her plate for rent, the rent would definitely not be too high in this situation.
I discussed with the two girls, but Xue Jiao didn't say anything, but Yingzi gave me a good suggestion. She asked me to buy both places. Her point of view was to rent one for office and the other for rent.
She believes that our company is in the development stage and it is not suitable to change the location frequently. If the business premises remain unchanged, they can spend money on decoration.
Yingzi stopped me for another reason. She had consulted her husband for Feng Shui. Our current business premises are good, which is conducive to making money and also to the chief official position.
Although I don't believe it very much, I still listened to Yingzi's suggestion and decided to buy both properties.
So, I handed over the bargaining task to Yingzi. The girl did not disappoint me, and found an important news that there was a reason why the elder sister was eager to take action in her house.
Because the eldest sister's son is not good or worry-free, he always causes trouble
When he was fighting with someone, he accidentally beat him to a second-degree disability and was arrested. In order to save people and compensate, he urgently needed money, so he was eager to take action. In the end, Yingzi pushed the price to 1.6 million.
According to the market valuation at that time, her house can be worth about 1.8 million yuan.
Because I learned about the difficulties of the elder sister, I took the initiative to add 100,000 yuan to her during the transaction and made a deal of 1.7 million yuan.
The elder sister is very grateful, but because we added some extra money, we became friends
Later we got deeper into the relationship. I also had a certain understanding of their background. At the same time, the elder sister knew what my surname was.
Especially because her brother-in-law is also the top leader of a real-estate unit and is very familiar with my father, I received a lot of help and care from them in the subsequent business.
To be honest, everyone will encounter difficulties. If you don’t take advantage of your conscience, you may become a good person. If you help others, you will make a lot of good relationships.
Another business service paid the full payment, and the developer gave me some discounts and paid for 2.4 million yuan.
As soon as the house was obtained, it was rented by China Construction Bank for 800,000 yuan in five years.
They opened a savings house and still rented it, but the rent has increased by more than twice
Around 2010, the president of CCB talked about buying my house for 8 million yuan, but I didn't agree.
Now the valuation has increased by more than six times as much as I bought it
To be honest, I have made a lot of money in those years and I understand the principle that eggs cannot be placed in one basket.
In fact, I can quickly accumulate so much wealth and have an inseparable connection with a person
This person is Yingzi
Yingzi is a very powerful woman. She shows her gentle and virtuous side to her family.
In career, she is the strongest pillar behind me and the charm of this woman is not how sexy she is in the bed
Instead, she has a keen investment vision and keen insight and foresight of the market, and her ability is innate.
Why at the end of the previous chapter, I mentioned that 2006 was a year of sorrow and joy
I also explained the general situation in the first half of the year, including real estate purchase and personal work.
Only the love story with two girls is missing
The second half of 2006 was the beginning of my most decadent and painful
I lost Xuejiao
Sometimes life is like this. If you plant flowers and flowers without blooming, you will not bloom without thinking. If you plant willows and willows will become shade.
It also made me realize two other sentences: What you lose is not the end, what you have is not the true love
In mid-June, Xue Jiao got pregnant unexpectedly again. This was the third time she had conceived a baby for me, but it was also the last time that this pregnancy became an important fuse for me to lose her.
Why are you pregnant again?
It was also because my sister was careless and didn't take birth control pills in time.
I also discussed with Jiaomei at that time. Since I am pregnant, please stay.
Although we have not entered the marriage hall yet, we should not mislead ourselves and have children first
After all, both of the previous two disappeared unexpectedly, and I was particularly concerned about this pregnancy
As soon as I got pregnant, I didn't let her stay in the restaurant, and left everything to someone trusted by the girl.
I also hired a professional nanny to take care of her diet and daily life. All arrangements are made and I can only feel at ease if I arrange them properly.
The company's business situation in the second half of the year is pretty good, and the sales are OK
In early July, through relationships, I undertook the network transformation project of two institutions.
I deliberately pulled Xiaojun back from Dalian. As for villa decoration, Xiaojun handed it over to the local company employees he trusted in.
Yingzi is still in charge of the technical construction on the company, and Xiaojun is in charge of the technical construction. I have nothing to worry about.
Soon, October was approaching, and the villa decoration work in Dalian was coming to an end.
I took my parents to see it once. Whether it was the location of the house, the layout of the house, or the stable decoration style, my parents were very satisfied and liked it.
Because time is in a hurry, I returned without contacting Uncle Zhao and the others.
Looking at Xue Jiao's slightly raised belly, a woman gave birth to the crystallization of love for her beloved man. As her man, she can no longer ignore her.
Although he has never been recognized by his mother, as his man, he no longer blindly defends himself at this time.
I want to take the initiative to solve the current dilemma
Everyone knows that for various reasons, Zhang Xiaoyu and I were showing off to coax the old man.
My mother thought Xiaoyu and I were in good condition, so the two old men had already discussed and urged us to get the wedding done quickly.
Xiaoyu and I also threw out all kinds of words and shirked
Both parents were very unhappy. Although they were unhappy, they still had no way to deal with us for the time being
In fact, my mother knows her son best, and she knows the best that there is no break between me and Jiaomei.
Although Xiaoyu and I got along well on the surface, in fact, she had seen through me for them to show them
Always criticize me, telling me all kinds of interests, which makes me very upset
Just after returning from Dalian, I brought my pregnant girl back home. Although Xuejiao was still a little timid and resistant, she also knew that there would definitely be no good results when she returned.
But for me and for this child, I didn't say anything to go back with me
I planned to use my child to threaten my mother and let her promise what she promised us, but things did not develop in the direction I imagined, but instead caused both sides to suffer losses and turned into fierce quarrels and endless resentment
As a loser, I led my beautiful girl to flee in panic
I thought things would fall for a while
But my mother took advantage of the victory and finally won a great victory
My love with Jiaomei ended because of my mother's recklessness.
This is how things happened. I left with my beautiful girl that day
As soon as we left, my mother was very angry and furious
Spread all the resentment on my father
He scolded me for being unfaithful and unfilial, and blamed me for telling me about this matter to Lao Zhang's family
Then my mother did another thing, which made me really unable to forgive her for a while.
Shortly after the conflict with my mother, that is, mid-November
I was selected by the municipal bureau to inspect and study in Yunnan for two weeks
It is said to be an investigation and study, but it is actually a traveling place
At that time, the country was not strict in management, and there were many trainings like this for selling dog meat with sheep's head.
Under the guise of studying and investigating, doing travel
To be honest, I only study for one or two days, and the rest of my time is just a walk and play
Now such so-called good things are gone, and Wenzhuang, which breeds corruption, has also disappeared.
Whoever violates the Party’s discipline and national laws will suffer!
As a person within the system, I agree with the strength and determination of national political corruption. If I don’t rectify it, I will really destroy the party and the country.
As he talked, the topic went off the wrong way
In the days when I left, something happened
My mother didn't know what channel she learned about Jiaomei's restaurant location, and she brought a group of people to smash the restaurant.
Fortunately, Jiaomei was not present at that time. If she were present, I guess the angry mother would do something even more extreme.
Although he avoided the first wave of attacks, he failed to avoid the second wave
The unlucky girl was blocked by her crazy mother at home. She didn't even say insults, but the people she brought with her also attacked and beat her
The clothes were torn by the man my mother took, and she pushed her to the ground. Unexpectedly, Jiaomei bleeded continuously on the spot and was sent to the hospital. The child was not saved in the end.
When my mother looked at Xue Jiao who was bleeding, she was really frightened and she was relieved.
First reaction to save lives of one big and one small in time
At the same time, I regret my irrationality and recklessness
My father also came to the scene and scolded her, scolded her for being irrational, scolded her for not being worthy of being a qualified mother, and scolded her for being a murder
Complaining her son is not at home, how to explain to her son when she comes back
Mother is like a child who does something wrong, allowing his father to scold him
After treatment, the adults are fine, but Xuejiao lost her child again
I really can't imagine what Xue Jiao was feeling at that time. Jiaomei must be very sad and sad when she cried, but more of it was helpless.
When I got the bad news at the first time, I asked for leave and rushed back home in advance
Actually, I had a premonition before. People say that people have a sixth sense or something. At first, I didn't believe it very much.
Just a few days before and after what happened, my right eyelid kept pounding wildly
To be honest, I am a materialist, I only believed in atheism before, and I am very repulsive of superstitious behavior.
But some things are really not explained clearly by science
The old saying goes: The left eye twitches wealth, the right eye twitches disaster Ah, the occurrence of disaster also confirms the credibility of the old saying
On the way back, although I was very anxious
I really want to fly to her side to protect her immediately
But the journey is long, but I am not a superman
I thought a lot of questions on the plane
Why is it so unhappy for her to be with me?
Why do you always feel that someone is blocking it?
Is there something wrong?
Or shouldn’t we have this fate?
I couldn't find the answer I wanted at the time
As soon as I got home, I headed straight to the hospital, but I was still one step late, and Xuejiao was taken away by her family.
I know my mother did a very excessive job in this matter, but after I came back, I didn't complain or blame her for anything
On the way back, I thought about having a big fight with my mother to vent my dissatisfaction
But when I got home, I felt soft when I saw my mother's apology and confession.
Facing the mother who gave birth to me and raised me, I finally gave up the idea of hurting another person's heart
I have a lot of resentment to vent, and I can't hold it in my heart, and I chose to punish and vent myself by buying drunk
I learned through Yingzi that on my way back, Jiaomei's family also arrived.
She took the girl away as soon as possible, and she didn't know where she went.
I didn't stop and took Yingzi to the beautiful girl's house and went there
I kept dialing Jiaomei's number on the road, and the sound of the user being unable to connect was always heard inside, which disappointed me. The family was empty. I tried to contact Xiaolong, but he didn't know where he was.
Actually, what I don’t know is that Jiaomei was taken to the provincial hospital by her family to continue treatment. She recovered very quickly and was discharged from the hospital in less than a week.
Then they went home, and just happened to be the time to find her. In this way, my beautiful girl missed her.
I was searching for it outside, but I didn't expect that Jiaomei and her family had returned home
Although Xiaolong knew that I had been here and secretly told his sister that this was happening, Jiaomei did not respond to my actions at that time because her parents were both angry.
Not long after, I went to Jiaomei's house several times, but I never saw her.
Although she knew my actions through Xiaolong every time I went, she never responded to my search because she had lost confidence in me
Although Xiaolong has a good relationship with me, his position on this matter is on the side of his family. Every time I go, I will communicate with him, and I will never get any answers from him.
Every time I go, I am scolded by my sister's parents, and I even get beaten
In order to find the girl, I endured it all.
I know that this time I really hurt Xue Jiao's heart, and she completely gave up.
When I was discouraged by the girl and both Wan Lan was destroyed, I went to Mount Wutai alone in order to vain myself.
Where, I met an expert. After his guidance, I realized that the fate between people is deep and shallow.
In his opinion, although I will never lack the company of women around me, my marriage and feelings are ups and downs because of my personal emotions that will affect my career and wealth.
According to the master, a person's destiny is created based on the birth date and horoscope.
If there is no emotional factor, from the perspective of my horoscope, I should be a business or political figure.
Although what he said at that time was a bit exaggerated, I felt that he had a lot of trickery and was not trustworthy.
I also asked him about the emotional issues that bother me
He replied: The dream surrounded by fireworks is just because of love and unforgettable love; all four elements are nothing but passing clouds. Even if you look back five hundred times in your previous life, you will only be able to pass by once in this life.
This expert also told me that I will experience two marriages in my life, and also showed me what year the next relationship crisis will occur, and my personal relationship will eventually stabilize after the age of 34.
He also told me that he had a son and a daughter
When he asked him, he smiled but didn't answer, and only told me that too many secrets cannot be revealed
When he was about to part, he gave me a few words: All things in the world are true and false, face them with a smile, don't complain, leisurely, as you please, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as you like, as
To be honest, I was in the grief of losing my sister at that time. I really didn't understand his last few words, and I also understood the true meaning of the master's words.
After the Spring Festival in 2007, I came back from Mount Wutai and went to her home again
Finally, I saw the beautiful girl I missed day and night
Xuejiao's attitude is very cold, so cold that I don't know her
I tried to keep it, and she didn't care about anything I said
The moment I was about to force her away, another person I unexpectedly struck out and knocked me to the ground
When I saw the person coming clearly, I knew and understood that everything about Jiaomei and I were gone.
This time I was knocked down as a loser. I was hurt not only by my flesh, but by my heart
I completely lost my sweet girl. A girl who once loved me so much, a girl who had nurtured our love crystallization many times, and she completely left me.
I got up and patted the dust on my body, put the bag in my hand on the ground, and slowly stood up. Although I saw it in the dark, Xue Jiao intentionally wanted to come forward to help me, but she was pulled by the people around me.
Looking at Zhao Tiedan and Xue Jiao across the street, they smiled
And wish them happiness as a loser. I pointed to the bag on the ground and told Jiaomei that the money inside was what she deserved in the past two years.
The two of them just looked at the bags on the ground, and neither of them moved or said anything.
When I finished talking about this with tears, the moment I turned around and left silently, I heard the heart-wrenching cry of the woman behind me, and my tears rolled down as well.
I wanted to turn around and rush over, but for some reason, I didn't stop. I didn't... really... I know that our fate has ended...
Just like that, without saying goodbye, I walked away quietly with pain...
Along the way, I kept playing the classic old song... Tears were flowing through the dam...
I don't know why love is like this, I imagine it, but I can't find the direction in you, let alone how to forget, standing in the rain, tears are in my eyes, I don't know where to go, and my heart keeps calling you, I keep looking for you, should I walk away quietly or stay bravely, I don't know if so much helplessness can be done again, should I walk away quietly or should I wait here to wait. You understand that the love I give you can never go away...
Later, I learned from Xiaolong that shortly after I left, his sister agreed to Zhao Tiedan's proposal.
Afterwards, the two left their hometown and went to Beijing after getting married.
It's been a few years since I met Xue Jiao
For so many years, I have always felt guilty about Xuejiao because I failed to protect her. The main responsibility lies in me.
I know that all the mistakes are wrong with me. I shouldn’t let down the expectations of your girl, I shouldn’t be too willful, I shouldn’t ignore my mother’s advice, and many things shouldn’t be...
Everything has become a thing of the past now
Maybe the story should end when it is written. In fact, this is just a paragraph in my life. It’s still the same sentence. What you lose does not mean the end, what you have does not mean true love.
The girl left, but fortunately Yingzi is still by my side. I put all my feelings on her and she silently accompanied me, slowly walking out of the haze of the relationship
Because my mother was irrational about Xuejiao, I also doubted Yingzi, if Yingzi was tricked by her afterwards
My mother later told me the truth, and this matter had nothing to do with Yingzi, and it was the result of my mother sending someone to follow me.
Because of this, I almost wronged Yingzi
Xiaoyu knows a lot of things, but he didn't tell her family about mine. To be honest, I'm very grateful for her handling.
Because we often have to make appointments together for acting. During that time, when I was the most decadent, it was the time when she was in the worst mood. The two of us often whispered together again and spoke up again, and they often spoke up their own unhappiness in their hearts.
It's not because of my gratitude to Xiaoyu, I just feel that Xiaoyu and I were acting to coax Uncle and Aunt Zhang very happily. Don't let Xiaoyu passively be in front of my parents because of this incident.
More importantly, I don't want to have any bad views on me because of this
From the end of 2006 to early 2007, I misled my essential work a lot
When the leader always asks for leave, the director also saw that my condition was not very good during that period. I gave me a lot of vacations to take care of me.
The company's performance is pretty good. The two small project tasks undertaken in the second half of the year were successfully accepted and they were waiting for the payment to be paid.
Yingzi also gave me the financial statements for last year. Fortunately, I didn't work in vain for a year. Although the expenses were quite large, the profits decreased according to the previous year, but there was still a profit of nearly three million.
Although I was not in a state during that period, I didn’t leave any of the thanks to the various people before the New Year. I was responsible for the command of my back. Xiaojun and Yingzi worked on their behalf.
After the Chinese New Year, I completely broke up with the girl. I also calmed down, refreshed my heart and prepared for it
Seeing that I was in a better mood, my mother also tentatively asked me about my emotional questions.
After experiencing this emotional catastrophe, I no longer consider this kind of problem that upsets me
I also told my mother that you should not force me, either
My mother also saw that I didn't want to communicate and discuss with her, so she gave up
I switched my energy and attention to work and business
Let busyness dilute the painful past
Although sometimes I occasionally think of every bit of the past, I can only suppress myself and hide the most beautiful part deeply in the deepest part of my heart
People often say that time is the best medicine to heal the trauma of the soul
After the Chinese New Year, I did a few things
I sold Xue Jiao's car
The house where Xue Jiao lives was left in her name, so she stayed
To be honest, for a while, I didn't dare to pass by that community, I was afraid of seeing things and thinking about people
Yingzi has been idle for several years since she cleaned up her house.
As for the restaurant, I transferred it out half a year since that incident happened
The company's legal person and equity have been adjusted accordingly, and the legal person has been replaced by Yingzi
The original shares of Xuejiao were allocated to Xiaojun and Yingzi respectively
Some people may have questions: Can you change your equity and legal person without the consent and authorization of the legal person?
The answer is certainly not
I didn't come forward, so I asked Yingzi to find an accounting firm and spent 3,000 yuan to get everything done
As for how they work, I don't care, I just want the result
To be honest, I can do this little thing myself, but it is better to spend a small amount of money to walk the main road if you need to take a lot of favors.
My emotional world is single, and only Yingzi is left by my side, so I don’t have to be distracted. I put all my feelings on her
Because of the girl's affairs, I simply moved out of the house and lived alone at home. I felt very upset when I saw my mother. I didn't want to make her angry, so I had to choose to be alone and quiet.
Occasionally Yingzi will come to accompany me, we have sex together, discuss the company's planning and development
Although Yingzi knew that Xuejiao had completely left me, she had never expressed her intention to be with me
Later I understood why she didn't ask for it, because she saw Xue Jiao being injured and was completely exhausted. Finally, she withdrew miserably, and she didn't want to be the second one.
Recognize and accompany me silently, and don’t have love without blessings and recognition
During that time, Yingzi became a bridge and link for communication between me and my mother. I didn’t want to go home to see my mother, so Yingzi forced me back.
Yingzi will inform her mother of any psychological fluctuations as soon as possible if she has any of her psychological changes.
On the contrary, if my mother is not feeling well and she is in a bad mood, Yingzi will tell me the first time
I understand what Yingzi did. She hoped that my relationship with her mother would get better as soon as possible. She did a lot of work in the meantime, which was really difficult for her.
This year, our company encountered a blowout development, forming a situation of fighting on four fronts at the same time.
1. Continue to undertake the weak projects of Uncle Zhao’s subsequent development of the property, from the initial four items to six.
Second, Brother Zhou handed me the small project of the development project (although the project volume is not as good as Uncle Zhao, but the cooperation with Brother Zhou also made a good start). Third, several units that had completed network upgrades and renovations in the early stage had a good feedback on the quality of the software and hardware involved in the project, which also led to several subsequent units taking the initiative to come to the door.
4. Sales of traditional electronics industry
After research, he unanimously passed that Xiaojun was the commander-in-chief of the engineering technology in the implementation of installation engineering technology, and he also formulated a specific plan.
First, Deli's deputy went to Dalian to take charge of Uncle Zhao's property. Second, he personally took charge of his home and supervised it directly. Third, Mr. Zhou's project was also carried out by him in the local unit.
As for marketing and planning, it is assigned to Yingzi's jurisdiction
In order to fight at the same time on the fourth line, our company temporarily recruited a group of outstanding talents from recent graduates from counterpart colleges to support the problem of personnel shortage in technical construction.
As for our employees, this year is really tiring, constantly welcoming and dealing with various activities and inspections.
The reception part made me exhausted. Drinking is a trivial matter, the key is...
Why……
It's really hard to describe
All the guests come. If someone has any needs, we must let him or her satisfy him or her.
Only when the guests are happy can the leaders be satisfied
What to do? It can save worry and be able to do better so that all aspects can be satisfied? I have also thought about it
To be honest, I really didn't want to take this snare at first, but I couldn't help it. Even though I made me younger, I was attracted by my leader.
Although it was difficult and tiring, I had the intention to retreat, but then I still gritted my teeth and held on.
Truth be honest, the job of a big manager is really not something you can take on.
After working for more than a year, I also worked out the trick.
Especially for reception, you must go to various public places
Although the country did not manage food and drink at that time very much, it was accused of it within the scope of national policies.
You can definitely hear the leader's complaints from the leader
At that time, I also had a baby, and the idea of setting up a hospitality place
I discussed it with Yingzi, and the matter was immediately put on the agenda. Yingzi looked for a suitable venue and built a small farmhouse-type place
Soon Yingzi found a very suitable venue and drove me to take a look.
To be honest, I fell in love with it at first sight
The courtyard is rectangular and has an area of about 3500 square meters.
There is a small pond next to the river in the site. It is said that there is a culvert at the bottom of the pond that leads to the river water, and there are fish inside.
There are also many poplar trees that have been planted around the courtyard for nearly 20 years, and there are some fruit trees in the garden.
There is also a dilapidated house in the yard, nothing else
After a rough look, these appendages
When asked, the asking price is not expensive, and the procedures are very complete, but the only thing I don’t like is the location from the village to the courtyard. It requires a dirt road less than 200 meters and needs to be renovated.
I went back and considered the solution, but I felt it was not difficult to implement it.
In a few days, I bought it in the name of Yingzi.
Then I explained my thoughts to Yingzi and left all the things here to Yingzi with full responsibility.
Yingzi moved quickly, and the venue started to implement it as soon as it took over.
With the help of friends from many related units such as the construction and design department, the land department and other related procedures, the design drawings, project budgets, construction teams and various related procedures have been found and completed.
Then he gave the horticulture design to a horticulture design company for construction
June has entered the blink of an eye, and the construction has entered the later stage
From purchasing to construction, I went to the construction site several times, and the construction quality and progress were very satisfying.
By the time I went there again at the end of June, the project progress had already entered the interior decoration stage of the house, and the gardening construction had also entered the finishing work. All the settings of the courtyard have been basically completed.
Standing on the roof of the main building, looking down at the full view, the gardening design is very beautiful
The original courtyard earth wall was replaced with red brick cement walls, and the gardener pruned and removed the original poplar trees.
The small pond in the southeast of the main building has been expanded and newly repaired in its original area, and weeping willows have been planted around it. There are also multiple fishing spots and sunshades installed in the middle of the willow trees. A small path paved with pebbles was built around the pond, and an ornamental courtyard was built on the water surface a little west of the pond.
There are two high-end greenhouses built in the southwest, which can not only plant vegetables, but also plant flowers and plants, as well as chickens, ducks, pig houses with brick structures, etc.
Located directly at the south end of the main building, only a few small roads and pavilions leading to various leisure points were built. The original fruit trees did not move, but they were moved from the new location and added many varieties.
There are several gardening and leisure venues and simple entertainment facilities in the middle of the courtyard. The entire courtyard is equipped with multiple audio equipment and lighting laser lights.
A lot of ornamental vegetation suitable for growth in the Northeast and laying lawns
Near the main building, there is an open space of about 600 square meters separated from the inside by a garden wall. A site is poured with cement. It can be parked and temporarily used for dining in summer.
Four above-ground garages and a storage room are built on the west wall.
A small boiler room is built next to the west of the main building
The main door is located on the east side of the main building, with a guard booth and a guard room at the north gate. There are also multiple surveillance probes installed in the yard.
The main building is designed as four floors, with a total area of nearly 1,600 square meters and a semi-underground floor for kitchens, storage rooms, employee dormitories, and security monitoring rooms.
There is an uphill platform on the outside of the main floor, and a large luxury private room in the room, and several small private rooms.
There is a multi-functional entertainment and dining venue of nearly 300 square meters on the second floor, which can be sung and dance, and can also be held for small entertainment and dining activities.
The manager and supervisor's office is also located on the second floor
There are two luxurious suites on the east and west sides of the third floor, and multiple ordinary rooms on the north and south sides of the middle aisle
The suite is equipped with all the equipment, which can be accommodated and entertained
The interior decoration is very high-end and luxurious. Yingzi used the design and construction of three-star hotels. What she did made me very satisfied.
When the construction was about to be completed, Yingzi calculated the specific cost for me
Purchase 200,000 places
It cost less than 60,000 yuan to go through various procedures in the future
It cost 50,000 yuan to lay bricks and road materials
220,000 yuan was spent on horticulture design and construction contracting
The construction of the main building and ancillary facilities cost 630,000 yuan, including labor, material, etc.
The monitoring equipment is made by the company itself, not counting as manual, and it has used nearly 80,000 materials from its own equipment.
What is left is that more than 900,000 yuan was spent on decorating and purchasing corresponding equipment, and about 500,000 yuan was spent on decorating manual materials. The remaining electrical products and electronic equipment were purchased or ready-made equipment by the company.
There are also dining tables, dining chairs, tableware, kitchen utensils, etc. involved in furniture, such as work supplies, seats and benches, sofas, beds, mahjong machines, etc.
The total cost is as high as about 2.6 million, which is another smaller number.
Yingzi is still in charge of all matters in the garden alone, and then hires a professional hotel management team and corresponding service personnel.
To outsiders, the boss here is a young and beautiful woman. Many regular customers know that I am the real boss here.
Yingzi serves as general manager, and she divides the business into four parts
1. The hotel management team is responsible for the lobby, restaurant, customer service, security, cashier, etc.
2. The kitchen contracted to the outside team
3. Procurement, transportation, breeding, personnel management, finance, management of external maintenance personnel, personnel logistics support, etc.
4. Have professional management, and they hire female service staff
I named this place as a private club and named it: "Nanyuanzi" At the beginning, we did not open to the public, and in the early stage we only targeted the reception work of our unit
Because of its reputation, many related units and government departments have been asking for help, and I have to let this place go a little bit.
But it is only for the hospitality work of various institutions
To be honest, my original idea was very simple. First, I was to find a quiet place for the unit's hospitality, and the other was to use it for your own private entertainment and leisure.
But later it changed its taste, but the advantage is that there are too many people, so the benefits naturally increase, and a problem is that there is not enough place.
There was no way, in the spring of the following year, it was newly expanded, and approved by the town's land planning department, and consulted with the local village, and approved two pieces of land for us.
A 1,000 square meter area along the east side of the garden has been added, a dedicated parking lot and a garage has been built, and two new small villas have been built for higher-level character receptions.
More than 1,000 square meters to the west are converted into a breeding planting base
The nearby paddy fields were also contracted for rice cultivation
From 2007 to the end of 2012, in the courtyard beside the small village of Linjiang, there were frequent vehicles coming and going, and the scenery was very beautiful.
Shortly after it was completed in early August that year, I invited the first and second leaders of our unit to experience it alone. The leaders fell in love with it all at once, and then all the receptions and activities were brought here.
We have whatever we want to eat. Except for fresh seafood, we have everything we have.
Fish and meat are raised by yourself, rice is grown by yourself, soybean oil is squeezed by your own small pressing machine
Plant fresh vegetables by yourself in all seasons of the year
Especially in summer, picking from trees in the fruit yard
The evaluation given by guests who have been here describes us as a paradise
During the construction period, something happened. Yingzi's grandfather died unexpectedly in mid-May that year.
Because Yingzi is busy with her career, I am busy at work and have no time to take care of my grandparents.
What happened was like this. One day in early May, it was raining outside, and my grandfather had to go out for a walk. The nanny had no choice but to support him out for some breath. Unexpectedly, she accidentally slipped and kowtowed to her head when she was down the steps.
At first I thought it was just a skin trauma, but it became serious at night and I kept sleeping and not waking up.
When I received the nanny and found that the situation was wrong, it was too late to go to the hospital for a CT scan. I found that there had been a lot of bleeding in the cranioma and I didn't have to go through craniotomy surgery.
The doctor was afraid that he would not be able to get off the operating table, so he did not dare to have a craniotomy. He just suggested that the family prepare for the funeral.
When I heard the news, my mother and father had already arrived. Yingzi had already cried in her mother's arms.
Two days later, grandpa left
I accompanied Yingzi to deal with grandpa's funeral and sent the ashes back to my hometown
Because a leader came to the province to inspect, I left early, and my parents accompanied Yingzi to bury my grandfather.
Another thing happened during the process of burying my grandfather.
I remember I told you before that Yingzi's biological mother ran away with a person from the neighboring village when she was three years old because of this incident. Yingzi's father couldn't think of it and committed suicide.
On the day when my grandfather was seventh, Yingzi's biological mother didn't know what channel she learned that Yingzi was back, so she took the initiative to find Yingzi and wanted to recognize her biological girl.
The scenes were out of control at that time, but my mother later told me personally.
After all, when Yingzi's mother left her, Xiaoyingzi was only less than three years old, so she didn't have much impression of her mother.
Suddenly a woman called herself Yingzi's mother, no one can accept it
Let's not consider whether this woman is Yingzi's biological mother. Let's talk about the piece of flesh that fell off your body for so many years. You don't feel sorry for it, no matter how you ask.
Not worthy of being a mother or a woman
A tiger poisonous woman is not even as good as a beast
It didn't appear early or late, but it just appeared at this time
Where is your intention?
After confirmation by the villagers, the group of people who came were indeed Yingzi's biological mother, uncle, aunt and old grandmother.
My mother's suppressed emotions finally broke out of control and broke out. She insisted on asking Yingzi for justice in front of everyone!
Mom scolded these people and spitted out blood!
Faced with my mother's accusations and abuses, no one dared to refute them, especially her mother, who was inferior to her beast, knelt at Yingzi's feet and cried.
Yingzi didn't want to see them either, and turned his back to these beasts and turned a blind eye!
My mother was afraid that Yingzi would not be able to withstand the multiple blows and led a group of villagers to bomb all these people who were not human.
After quickly finishing my grandfather's funeral, I took Yingzi away
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