Just at this moment, someone suddenly flashed by in front of me, and then a ray of light flew towards me, hitting the big tree and turning an emergency turn. Then I fell into the ditch next to me
When I struggled to get up, I found that the person standing in front of me was Old Man Han. I didn’t understand, so I asked: Why are you here? Didn’t Mr. Zhuang go to you for a drink?
Old Man Han frowned and looked at me with interest and said: You kid is so lucky! You can't even die!
I smiled awkwardly and took the opportunity to look around, but I didn't find any trace of Shui Xin and said: Don't joke, where is the girl with me?
Old Man Han said: Lao Zhuang has taken the girl away and her cultivation has lost control. Why is the soul disintegrated? It’s very dangerous!
When I heard this, I quickly climbed out of the ditch and wanted to chase after me with an anxious look on my face. Old Man Han stopped me and said: Don’t be so anxious, young man, it’s useless if you go, at least it’s useless if you go now.
When I heard that Old Man Han had something in his words, I quickly saluted: You are a senior practitioner, and I would like to ask you to help me. I am very grateful to you.
As I said that, I wanted to kneel down to Old Man Han by learning what I did in film and television works, but Old Man Han held his right hand in a void and didn't let me kneel down
Lao Zhuangtou can stabilize her injuries and prevent the Yin Spirit from dissipating, but it is not that simple to reunite the soul. If you want me to take action, you always want me to know why she is like this, right?
After saying that, Old Man Han signaled me to follow him
We returned to the community and found a place where no one was sitting down.
On the way, I told Old Man Han in detail what happened.
Old Man Han lowered his head and was silent for a while before saying: There is no state of mind in the six realms, but he has great success... Taking you as the inner demon, I want to break through the three realms in a row, okay!
Old Man Han said three good things in a row, and I asked: Have you always figured out a solution?
Old Man Han glanced at me and shook his head and said: No! I mean, Lao Zhuangtou is worthy of being the leader of the Danxia Sect, the largest sect in China. Only he can think of this method.
After a pause, he continued: That girl is probably a yin and yang body. What is more rare is that she has achieved such cultivation...
I continued: Mr. Han, what do you mean by Yin and Yang Body? Are all the things you see in the inner demon realm true?
Mr. Han said: It may not be as you thought, but it is not far apart. If it is what you saw in the Demon Realm, will you still save her?
Why not save it? Of course I have to save it! I don't hesitate
Boy, you have to think clearly... Oh, I'll tell you clearly
Mr. Han smiled strangely for a while before he slowly said...
Mr. Han just heard Mr. Zhuang mention Shui Xin and said that she has a mental illness, but it is not a serious illness. She has the same feelings for the opposite sex and the same sex. To put it simply, it is bisexuality.
Bisexuality may be just a mental illness for ordinary people, but for practitioners, the problem is very serious.
What is the first thing to practice?
What is practice?
Is walking, sitting and lying down a practice?
Parents have some shortcomings, is it a practice to practice food, food, oil and salt?
If so, what kind of ideology will practice show?
According to what Mr. Han said, I instinctively thought of the four words "just to act properly", which is what many people often say about practicing practices to stop practice.
How to do it properly?
Zengzi said: I examine myself three times a day...
Cultivate, whether it is corrected or fully cultivated, solve the problem when encountering problems, which is to cultivate.
Shui Xin’s problem is a psychological problem. Logically speaking, she has achieved her current achievements. She must have faced her own psychological problems and has definitely been well solved, otherwise she would not be able to achieve her current cultivation level.
But when Mr. Han said that she had six realms of cultivation but did not have a great state of mind. I am afraid that this matter has not been completely resolved, or it has not been handled well
So Shui Xin's cultivation is so strange. In my opinion, she can't pass her level, so she cares about my views and thoughts about her, even if those are all from random thoughts in the inner demon realm.
Mr. Zhuang should have seen her problem long ago, so he ordered her to practice with me, to share the realm of inner demons, and hoped to break the mind obstacles once.
This may make Shui Xin experience the various tests from the fourth to the sixth realm again like re-cultivation, or she may succeed in one battle!
But Mr. Zhuang's plan failed
I told my thoughts, and Mr. Han nodded and said to me: You do have a very high level of understanding and are a good seedling of practice, but after all, your practice is still short, and you can think of some things but cannot see through them... If you don’t say these, you should go back and prepare. It is not that simple for a girl to reunite her soul. She must pass her own level, so Lao Zhuang asked me to tell you to clear the rooftop of your body tonight!
As soon as Mr. Han finished speaking, he sent me a divine thought: Why does the King of Hell retain his glorious wings?
Although the divine thought only has one sentence, the various cultivation levels it contains are very complicated. I don’t have that kind of cultivation, and I can only interpret what I can understand.
There are many names of the King of Hell, the most famous ones are Satan and Lucifer, but another story I know about Metatron can explain what Mr. Han asked.
Metatron, also known as Medanzo, is the legendary archangel and the king of hell who fell into eternal night.
Legend has it that when he fell into the darkness of the eternal night, he was burned by his magical dark flame for more than 1,300 years, and he could still maintain his glory afterwards, which proves that he has never betrayed his faith, and that he is only betrayed by himself.
The excessive pursuit of power and power triggered the backlash of the black flames that followed him for 1,300 years, and burned his soul for 1,300 years. In fact, this is his own attitude towards his own questioning and self-denial
To put it bluntly, his original intention to practice is contrary to his future practice requirements, so magic backlash appears
Miss Shui Xin's soul has dispersed, but it is actually her own punishment for herself.
She longs to get what she wants, and when this desire is denied by the person she longs to get, her disappointment and self-blame become hatred, and anger is angry with the way of self-existence, and the cultivation backfire occurs.
Mr. Han explained Shui Xin's illness to me, and asked me why the King of Hell can still maintain the glorious and holy angel wings?
This reminds me of a divine thought that Mr. Zhuang once sent me, telling the story of an old monk entering meditation for 1,300 years.
Now I find that they are all the same problem. They are entangled in pursuit of illusory things that they cannot obtain and have lost their true nature. They have doubts about what they have learned. There are three Pure Land doubts in Buddhism, namely: doubts about the master, doubts about the law, doubts about me.
They all violated the third article and developed a extreme mentality of self-doubt
I don’t know how Metatron retained his wings, but the monk who had been in meditation for 1,300 years was awakened by the path of the Tripitaka Master!
Thinking of this, I came to my senses and ran back to Xiao Yinhui's house.
Five golden flowers are back
Sister Xinci was tired of walking and fell asleep on the sofa
Xiao Yinhui was invited away by the property owner. It is said that someone from the police station also came, and Xiao Qi followed her.
Xiaoxi whispered to me in a mysterious and insult: Husband, listen to me, Aunt Xiaohui’s house is haunted!
Ah?What's the situation? I was surprised
Chu Yunyi also pulled the corner of my clothes and said: It's true, there are people from the police station. It is said that someone called the police and saw a dragon sucking water on the roof. He also saw a man and a woman flying in the sky.
Chu Yunyi stared at my eyes while saying that, as if she wanted to see something from my eyes. I smiled awkwardly and decided to wait until Xiao Yinhui and Xiaoqi come back before telling them the truth.
About half an hour later, Xiao Yinhui and Xiaoqi came back. Chu Yunyi hurriedly asked about the situation. Xiao Yinhui looked at me and said: Mr. Zhuang sent someone over and said that the crew made a movie and occupied our rooftop swimming pool, and also compensated me for 500,000 yuan in land occupation fee... Xiaohan, tell me clearly, is something happened?
Xiao Yinhui is still as smart as ever, and she suddenly thought it was related to me
Except for Miss Shui Xin’s private affairs, I basically said everything else…
The expected silence was only Xiaoxi looking at me with admiration and envy
Xiaoqi seemed to not care about these things, and after listening to me, he said: What do you smell?
I woke up the dreamer in one sentence. After falling into the ditch, I had not changed my clothes or took a bath. I had the smell of rotten tomatoes on my body...
It was midnight, when heaven and earth were in harmony, and when yin and yang were alternating, I secretly went to the rooftop alone
Mr. Zhuang had been waiting on the rooftop, and a red liquid was added to the swimming pool at some point. Miss Shui Xin was immersed in the middle of the bottom of the pool.
There was a howling sound in the distance, and in the blink of an eye, there was another person in front of me. It turned out to be Mr. Han
Mr. Han looked at the swimming pool, gave Mr. Zhuang a thumbs up and said: I admire him, what kind of magic medicine is used?
Mr. Zhuang said: Three dragon beard grass
Mr. Han also showed a surprised expression, looked at Chishui and looked at me and said: Boy is blessed! Get into the water quickly...
Mr. Zhuang didn't talk much nonsense, he gave me a divine thought
He asked me to meditate underwater and enter the state of meditation to stop the five senses. Then Mr. Han would send my soul into Shui Xin's closed spiritual world. I will know what to do then.
I haven't tried cutting off the five senses, but it's easy to do it
Just cut off the sense of spiritual consciousness to the outside world and immerse myself in the state of concentration without being affected. But after all, my cultivation level is low and I will not sleep like an old monk for more than a thousand years. If no one awakens me, my magic power will be enough to last for two or three days.
It was successful to cut off the five senses, but I forgot that I was also in the devil realm of death. When I entered the state of meditation, I saw the state. My beloved mother-in-law in front of me was being ravaged by two despicable men. The two of them were Liao Liwei and Wu Heping.
Strangely, now I know clearly that I am in the Demon Realm Tribulation, unlike when I entered the realm in the past, I thought I was real.
As if she was thinking, the sky was suddenly torn apart, and Shui Xin flew out of it. She was filled with colorful glows, and she pointed to Liao Liwei and Wu Heping expressionlessly. The two of them instantly turned into ashes. The mother-in-law broke away from the clutch and looked at Shui Xin in the sky with a happy and admiring look.
Shui Xin waved her hand with a peaceful and caring look on her face. She saw the auspicious clouds flying under her mother-in-law's feet floating in front of Shui Xin. Shui Xin gently lifted her mother-in-law's chin and gave her a kiss.
The torn sky widened again, and another fierce-looking Shui Xin walked out of the crack. She let out an roar to the kind Shui Xin and her mother-in-law without saying a word, and then a huge shadow spread out behind her. The shadow seemed to be able to swallow everything, and then the glow was shining everywhere, as if there were thousands of thorns at Shui Xin and her mother-in-law.
This is the thorn that Shui Xin had just learned. She almost hurt me two days ago. I shouted loudly in desperation, but I realized that they could not hear my voice at all, as if I was just a spectator and did not belong here.
I don't know how long it took for me to come. The same scene always happens again and again. The kind Shui Xin always appears at the critical moment of her mother-in-law, and the evil Shui Xin always comes out to destroy everything when she kisses.
This is the knot in Shui Xin's heart, but there is no me in her knot, so she doesn't know my existence. I can't wake her up. She needs her mother-in-law to change the current situation!
Thinking of this, I'll exit from the state of concentration
Boy, what's going on? Mr. Han asked me
I told you what I saw and heard. After hearing this, Mr. Zhuang's eyes lit up and said to me: Go and find Chu Yunyi quickly, I have something to explain.
……
Hello Mr. Zhuang. My mother-in-law was pulled to the rooftop by me to bow to Mr. Zhuang.
Mr. Zhuang didn't say a little nonsense, and sent a divine thought, which meant that the mother-in-law's practice was biased. If she could not correct the situation, she would not be able to live forever in this life. Now she had a chance, but this method was very dangerous...
I remember Shui Xin also said that mother-in-law needs to be born with wisdom in concentration, and to see the realm and know the subtle in order to return from the path of a sorcerer to the monk.
The mother-in-law said she was willing to give it a try without thinking too much. Mr. Han sighed and said: You are straightforward, but do you know that it is dangerous?
The mother-in-law shook her head, and Mr. Zhuang said: The danger is that you are not taking the initiative to enter the country, but Lao Han sent you into the country, so your self-awareness is very shallow. If Shui Xin's self-denial consciousness firmly kills you, then you will sink into her consciousness and never wake up again...
The mother-in-law frowned, raised her eyes to face my eyes, gritted her teeth and said: I'm willing to give it a try
Mr. Han said: This matter is barely possible. You must do what you sincerely to have a glimmer of hope, otherwise it will be doomed.
My mother-in-law looked at me and said firmly: If I can’t live forever in this life, there will be many regrets...
Of course I was worried about my mother-in-law, but Mr. Han secretly told me not to speak
In fact, there is no danger for the mother-in-law to enter Shui Xin's consciousness, but if she wants to enter the state of meditation, she must give her a sense of crisis, and it must be considered successful by relying on her own. The first step is not to hesitate. I think the mother-in-law took this first step very successfully...
When I struggled to get up, I found that the person standing in front of me was Old Man Han. I didn’t understand, so I asked: Why are you here? Didn’t Mr. Zhuang go to you for a drink?
Old Man Han frowned and looked at me with interest and said: You kid is so lucky! You can't even die!
I smiled awkwardly and took the opportunity to look around, but I didn't find any trace of Shui Xin and said: Don't joke, where is the girl with me?
Old Man Han said: Lao Zhuang has taken the girl away and her cultivation has lost control. Why is the soul disintegrated? It’s very dangerous!
When I heard this, I quickly climbed out of the ditch and wanted to chase after me with an anxious look on my face. Old Man Han stopped me and said: Don’t be so anxious, young man, it’s useless if you go, at least it’s useless if you go now.
When I heard that Old Man Han had something in his words, I quickly saluted: You are a senior practitioner, and I would like to ask you to help me. I am very grateful to you.
As I said that, I wanted to kneel down to Old Man Han by learning what I did in film and television works, but Old Man Han held his right hand in a void and didn't let me kneel down
Lao Zhuangtou can stabilize her injuries and prevent the Yin Spirit from dissipating, but it is not that simple to reunite the soul. If you want me to take action, you always want me to know why she is like this, right?
After saying that, Old Man Han signaled me to follow him
We returned to the community and found a place where no one was sitting down.
On the way, I told Old Man Han in detail what happened.
Old Man Han lowered his head and was silent for a while before saying: There is no state of mind in the six realms, but he has great success... Taking you as the inner demon, I want to break through the three realms in a row, okay!
Old Man Han said three good things in a row, and I asked: Have you always figured out a solution?
Old Man Han glanced at me and shook his head and said: No! I mean, Lao Zhuangtou is worthy of being the leader of the Danxia Sect, the largest sect in China. Only he can think of this method.
After a pause, he continued: That girl is probably a yin and yang body. What is more rare is that she has achieved such cultivation...
I continued: Mr. Han, what do you mean by Yin and Yang Body? Are all the things you see in the inner demon realm true?
Mr. Han said: It may not be as you thought, but it is not far apart. If it is what you saw in the Demon Realm, will you still save her?
Why not save it? Of course I have to save it! I don't hesitate
Boy, you have to think clearly... Oh, I'll tell you clearly
Mr. Han smiled strangely for a while before he slowly said...
Mr. Han just heard Mr. Zhuang mention Shui Xin and said that she has a mental illness, but it is not a serious illness. She has the same feelings for the opposite sex and the same sex. To put it simply, it is bisexuality.
Bisexuality may be just a mental illness for ordinary people, but for practitioners, the problem is very serious.
What is the first thing to practice?
What is practice?
Is walking, sitting and lying down a practice?
Parents have some shortcomings, is it a practice to practice food, food, oil and salt?
If so, what kind of ideology will practice show?
According to what Mr. Han said, I instinctively thought of the four words "just to act properly", which is what many people often say about practicing practices to stop practice.
How to do it properly?
Zengzi said: I examine myself three times a day...
Cultivate, whether it is corrected or fully cultivated, solve the problem when encountering problems, which is to cultivate.
Shui Xin’s problem is a psychological problem. Logically speaking, she has achieved her current achievements. She must have faced her own psychological problems and has definitely been well solved, otherwise she would not be able to achieve her current cultivation level.
But when Mr. Han said that she had six realms of cultivation but did not have a great state of mind. I am afraid that this matter has not been completely resolved, or it has not been handled well
So Shui Xin's cultivation is so strange. In my opinion, she can't pass her level, so she cares about my views and thoughts about her, even if those are all from random thoughts in the inner demon realm.
Mr. Zhuang should have seen her problem long ago, so he ordered her to practice with me, to share the realm of inner demons, and hoped to break the mind obstacles once.
This may make Shui Xin experience the various tests from the fourth to the sixth realm again like re-cultivation, or she may succeed in one battle!
But Mr. Zhuang's plan failed
I told my thoughts, and Mr. Han nodded and said to me: You do have a very high level of understanding and are a good seedling of practice, but after all, your practice is still short, and you can think of some things but cannot see through them... If you don’t say these, you should go back and prepare. It is not that simple for a girl to reunite her soul. She must pass her own level, so Lao Zhuang asked me to tell you to clear the rooftop of your body tonight!
As soon as Mr. Han finished speaking, he sent me a divine thought: Why does the King of Hell retain his glorious wings?
Although the divine thought only has one sentence, the various cultivation levels it contains are very complicated. I don’t have that kind of cultivation, and I can only interpret what I can understand.
There are many names of the King of Hell, the most famous ones are Satan and Lucifer, but another story I know about Metatron can explain what Mr. Han asked.
Metatron, also known as Medanzo, is the legendary archangel and the king of hell who fell into eternal night.
Legend has it that when he fell into the darkness of the eternal night, he was burned by his magical dark flame for more than 1,300 years, and he could still maintain his glory afterwards, which proves that he has never betrayed his faith, and that he is only betrayed by himself.
The excessive pursuit of power and power triggered the backlash of the black flames that followed him for 1,300 years, and burned his soul for 1,300 years. In fact, this is his own attitude towards his own questioning and self-denial
To put it bluntly, his original intention to practice is contrary to his future practice requirements, so magic backlash appears
Miss Shui Xin's soul has dispersed, but it is actually her own punishment for herself.
She longs to get what she wants, and when this desire is denied by the person she longs to get, her disappointment and self-blame become hatred, and anger is angry with the way of self-existence, and the cultivation backfire occurs.
Mr. Han explained Shui Xin's illness to me, and asked me why the King of Hell can still maintain the glorious and holy angel wings?
This reminds me of a divine thought that Mr. Zhuang once sent me, telling the story of an old monk entering meditation for 1,300 years.
Now I find that they are all the same problem. They are entangled in pursuit of illusory things that they cannot obtain and have lost their true nature. They have doubts about what they have learned. There are three Pure Land doubts in Buddhism, namely: doubts about the master, doubts about the law, doubts about me.
They all violated the third article and developed a extreme mentality of self-doubt
I don’t know how Metatron retained his wings, but the monk who had been in meditation for 1,300 years was awakened by the path of the Tripitaka Master!
Thinking of this, I came to my senses and ran back to Xiao Yinhui's house.
Five golden flowers are back
Sister Xinci was tired of walking and fell asleep on the sofa
Xiao Yinhui was invited away by the property owner. It is said that someone from the police station also came, and Xiao Qi followed her.
Xiaoxi whispered to me in a mysterious and insult: Husband, listen to me, Aunt Xiaohui’s house is haunted!
Ah?What's the situation? I was surprised
Chu Yunyi also pulled the corner of my clothes and said: It's true, there are people from the police station. It is said that someone called the police and saw a dragon sucking water on the roof. He also saw a man and a woman flying in the sky.
Chu Yunyi stared at my eyes while saying that, as if she wanted to see something from my eyes. I smiled awkwardly and decided to wait until Xiao Yinhui and Xiaoqi come back before telling them the truth.
About half an hour later, Xiao Yinhui and Xiaoqi came back. Chu Yunyi hurriedly asked about the situation. Xiao Yinhui looked at me and said: Mr. Zhuang sent someone over and said that the crew made a movie and occupied our rooftop swimming pool, and also compensated me for 500,000 yuan in land occupation fee... Xiaohan, tell me clearly, is something happened?
Xiao Yinhui is still as smart as ever, and she suddenly thought it was related to me
Except for Miss Shui Xin’s private affairs, I basically said everything else…
The expected silence was only Xiaoxi looking at me with admiration and envy
Xiaoqi seemed to not care about these things, and after listening to me, he said: What do you smell?
I woke up the dreamer in one sentence. After falling into the ditch, I had not changed my clothes or took a bath. I had the smell of rotten tomatoes on my body...
It was midnight, when heaven and earth were in harmony, and when yin and yang were alternating, I secretly went to the rooftop alone
Mr. Zhuang had been waiting on the rooftop, and a red liquid was added to the swimming pool at some point. Miss Shui Xin was immersed in the middle of the bottom of the pool.
There was a howling sound in the distance, and in the blink of an eye, there was another person in front of me. It turned out to be Mr. Han
Mr. Han looked at the swimming pool, gave Mr. Zhuang a thumbs up and said: I admire him, what kind of magic medicine is used?
Mr. Zhuang said: Three dragon beard grass
Mr. Han also showed a surprised expression, looked at Chishui and looked at me and said: Boy is blessed! Get into the water quickly...
Mr. Zhuang didn't talk much nonsense, he gave me a divine thought
He asked me to meditate underwater and enter the state of meditation to stop the five senses. Then Mr. Han would send my soul into Shui Xin's closed spiritual world. I will know what to do then.
I haven't tried cutting off the five senses, but it's easy to do it
Just cut off the sense of spiritual consciousness to the outside world and immerse myself in the state of concentration without being affected. But after all, my cultivation level is low and I will not sleep like an old monk for more than a thousand years. If no one awakens me, my magic power will be enough to last for two or three days.
It was successful to cut off the five senses, but I forgot that I was also in the devil realm of death. When I entered the state of meditation, I saw the state. My beloved mother-in-law in front of me was being ravaged by two despicable men. The two of them were Liao Liwei and Wu Heping.
Strangely, now I know clearly that I am in the Demon Realm Tribulation, unlike when I entered the realm in the past, I thought I was real.
As if she was thinking, the sky was suddenly torn apart, and Shui Xin flew out of it. She was filled with colorful glows, and she pointed to Liao Liwei and Wu Heping expressionlessly. The two of them instantly turned into ashes. The mother-in-law broke away from the clutch and looked at Shui Xin in the sky with a happy and admiring look.
Shui Xin waved her hand with a peaceful and caring look on her face. She saw the auspicious clouds flying under her mother-in-law's feet floating in front of Shui Xin. Shui Xin gently lifted her mother-in-law's chin and gave her a kiss.
The torn sky widened again, and another fierce-looking Shui Xin walked out of the crack. She let out an roar to the kind Shui Xin and her mother-in-law without saying a word, and then a huge shadow spread out behind her. The shadow seemed to be able to swallow everything, and then the glow was shining everywhere, as if there were thousands of thorns at Shui Xin and her mother-in-law.
This is the thorn that Shui Xin had just learned. She almost hurt me two days ago. I shouted loudly in desperation, but I realized that they could not hear my voice at all, as if I was just a spectator and did not belong here.
I don't know how long it took for me to come. The same scene always happens again and again. The kind Shui Xin always appears at the critical moment of her mother-in-law, and the evil Shui Xin always comes out to destroy everything when she kisses.
This is the knot in Shui Xin's heart, but there is no me in her knot, so she doesn't know my existence. I can't wake her up. She needs her mother-in-law to change the current situation!
Thinking of this, I'll exit from the state of concentration
Boy, what's going on? Mr. Han asked me
I told you what I saw and heard. After hearing this, Mr. Zhuang's eyes lit up and said to me: Go and find Chu Yunyi quickly, I have something to explain.
……
Hello Mr. Zhuang. My mother-in-law was pulled to the rooftop by me to bow to Mr. Zhuang.
Mr. Zhuang didn't say a little nonsense, and sent a divine thought, which meant that the mother-in-law's practice was biased. If she could not correct the situation, she would not be able to live forever in this life. Now she had a chance, but this method was very dangerous...
I remember Shui Xin also said that mother-in-law needs to be born with wisdom in concentration, and to see the realm and know the subtle in order to return from the path of a sorcerer to the monk.
The mother-in-law said she was willing to give it a try without thinking too much. Mr. Han sighed and said: You are straightforward, but do you know that it is dangerous?
The mother-in-law shook her head, and Mr. Zhuang said: The danger is that you are not taking the initiative to enter the country, but Lao Han sent you into the country, so your self-awareness is very shallow. If Shui Xin's self-denial consciousness firmly kills you, then you will sink into her consciousness and never wake up again...
The mother-in-law frowned, raised her eyes to face my eyes, gritted her teeth and said: I'm willing to give it a try
Mr. Han said: This matter is barely possible. You must do what you sincerely to have a glimmer of hope, otherwise it will be doomed.
My mother-in-law looked at me and said firmly: If I can’t live forever in this life, there will be many regrets...
Of course I was worried about my mother-in-law, but Mr. Han secretly told me not to speak
In fact, there is no danger for the mother-in-law to enter Shui Xin's consciousness, but if she wants to enter the state of meditation, she must give her a sense of crisis, and it must be considered successful by relying on her own. The first step is not to hesitate. I think the mother-in-law took this first step very successfully...