Chapter 3

With the conscious efforts and guidance of many aspects, the family atmosphere, my relationship with my mother-in-law, and even the mother-daughter relationship between my mother-in-law and my daughter-in-law were very harmonious (in the first two parts, a friend asked about his father-in-law in the message, and his father-in-law was different from our province and was still at work. His parents-in-law belonged to most of the long-term ordinary couples, with deep family affection, but the relationship between husband and wife was average)

The above article mentioned two important locations in the breakthrough point of the relationship with my mother-in-law: the kitchen and the study

Let’s talk about the kitchen first. I don’t remember reading a sentence where I said that a family is in harmony, it depends on the kitchen. The kitchen of a harmonious family has the atmosphere of fireworks and a breath of life. The so-called cold pot and cold stove people feel cool, which reflects the importance of the kitchen.

The aunt who left the class did not care about morning and dinner, at most, she prepared the dishes before leaving home after get off work, or her mother-in-law would make dinner more

Usually I can see this scene after get off work: my wife who has already got home from get off work is taking care of her children, and my mother-in-law is busy in the kitchen. At this time, I was hungry and said hello to my wife and children, and I also went to the kitchen to say hello to my mother-in-law and communicated.

I might ask: Mom, what did you do so delicious? I'm hungry

My mother-in-law always answered with a smile and kindness. At the beginning, I would ask while leaning my head and upper body slightly over, approaching my mother-in-law, or looking over her shoulder to see the stove and the rice in the pot.

A young and hungry young man, a son-in-law who is better than a child, will definitely make her treat her with gentleness.

Slowly, sometimes I would also reach out to pinch the dish that had been cooked while talking. At this time, the other hand would be very kind and natural on her arm or shoulder.

When doing such actions, you must be natural so that others will not feel unnatural. Although the wife and children in the living room cannot see the subtle movements of the kitchen, they can accept such naturalness even if they see them. Everything depends on the foundation laid before.

It is also to make my mother-in-law get used to this kind of physical contact

In such a short but close contact, you can not only see her mature face, but also feel her body and softness on your hands, and smell her slight scent of hair. In fact, it is the smell of ordinary shampoo or conditioner, but it is the smell of mother-in-law, which is ten times better than aphrodisiacs.

Because there is a wife in the kitchen at night, it is usually the case. The kitchen in the morning is my paradise.

After the child was weaned, he slept with his mother-in-law

Love my baby deeply, and my mother-in-law always gets up early to prepare breakfast for her daughter and son-in-law. I am far away from home at work and need to leave home at 7:30

My wife's unit is very close to home, and she walks for 15 minutes and she goes to work at 9 o'clock, so she always runs to her mother's room to take her child to sleep for a while when she gets up at 6 o'clock to make breakfast. I will get up while my wife goes to her mother-in-law's room (it's not easy to do bad things, you have to work hard, brothers, how can you sleep in every day), usually exercise for a while and take a shower

Since I learned bad thoughts about my mother-in-law, I will also use this banner: helping my mother make breakfast sometimes during weekend breaks, I will also make some different breakfast for my family alone.

The kitchen glass door is opaque matte, which is really convenient

So although I am worried, I basically ensure that I will not be seen by people who suddenly approach. Moreover, due to my wife's laziness and sleepiness, I basically slept soundly in the morning, and in most cases I was woken up by my children.

With the preparation and progression in the front, the kitchen gradually became more charming in the morning. Usually, after I exercise, I would go to the kitchen to say hello to my mother-in-law before taking a shower to see if breakfast is good.

Without the disturbance of the third person, facing the gentle mother-in-law, I became bolder and gradually developed to put my hands on my mother-in-law's shoulder from behind and talk to her. In the first one or two times, I could clearly feel the slight tension on her shoulders and the unnatural expression on her face, but it was fleeting and was immediately changed by the conversation and topic.

My mother-in-law sometimes says a few words, such as: Why are you as hungry wolves so edible every day?

, or in your thirties, don't be like a child, sweating all over, go to the shower and don't catch a cold

Mature women are so angry, but the charm of mother-in-law cannot be expressed in words

I remember a small milestone. I slid my hand from behind from her shoulders down to her arms (I didn’t rashly leave my arms to hug her), then put my upper body on her back, and said to her head: Mom, you look so virtuous when cooking, a good wife and mother, why are XX (daughter-in-law’s nickname) so lazy?

My mother-in-law usually smiles and retorts: Don’t be unsatisfied, what’s wrong with my daughter? How many young people are there today?

This is offline, online on WeChat (later development to QQ). Generally, when lunch break or work is not busy in the afternoon, or when the child is sleeping, my mother-in-law has a long time to have free time, and I will insist on chatting with her, even if it is not every day, it is three or four times a week.

A woman needs company and care, so that her heart can rest in a sense of security

As long as I communicate, I will not be afraid of not making progress. I respect, care, humor, praise, understand, empathize, understand her delicately, give her support, and gradually leverage the heart of this sleeping mature woman. As a man and a son-in-law, do this perverse and exciting thing.

The care and guidance in life are also continuing. Let me share a small detail. My mother-in-law usually wears ordinary home clothes, pajamas, and home slippers at home. An elderly mature woman may no longer be confident in her skin. She also likes to wear concealer stockings. This is also one of the reasons why I am trapped in the stockings.

Sometimes she wears short stockings at home, usually flesh-colored. At first, I found that her short stockings were a bit thick and mature women's style. So when I was shopping in the supermarket with my wife, I took a bag of transparent and ultra-thin crystal flesh-colored stockings under the banner of buying daily necessities for my mother-in-law.

The premise of this incident was that my wife and I bought a lot of things, including the family’s daily necessities, the wife’s pantyhose, the bath towels, towels, and floss for the children and mother-in-law.

There are laundry detergent and disinfectant, so I will bring a pack of short stockings to avoid making my wife feel abrupt.

In the end, my mother-in-law's silk feet wrapped in ultra-thin transparent flesh-colored stockings always charmed my eyes, and it guided me to continue moving forward.