After Awei graduated from university, Murong Jieqiong arranged for him to be his deputy.
The purpose of doing this is to first let him be trained in actual work, cultivate his organizational ability, and be familiar with the business, so that he can inherit this industry at the appropriate time in the future
Every day, mother and son go to work together
During the first period, she basically taught step by step
Awei's people are also extremely smart, quickly adapted to the environment, and have their own unique insights in many aspects.
Murong Jieqiong saw Awei's progress and was very happy that Awei's knowledge, temperament and gentle demeanor, coupled with his unique insights and modest attitude when encountering things, he was very respected and loved by his colleagues.
People say that Awei's temperament and demeanor are very similar to Murong Jieqiong, but they are still far from being mature in their work.
Indeed, everything about Awei was done by Murong Jieqiong since he was a child.
She is shaping him according to her ideal man, which is naturally consistent with her in many ways.
As for his immaturity, it is certainly inevitable for young people who are new to the world.
Murong Jieqiong knew these things well
Half a year after Awei returned to China, his work gradually adapted and his talents began to be displayed.
At this time, Murong Jieqiong promoted him to become executive deputy general manager. Many of the company's daily affairs were handled by Awei, and she herself, except for presiding over important meetings and large-scale negotiations, generally did not go to work.
In this way, she finally had time to relax at home!
A strong woman who has achieved great success in the business world at home and abroad is ready to retire!
She wants to use her main energy to be a good mother in the second half of her life!
So, she thought of Awei's lifelong event: she should ask Awei to find a girlfriend, get married, and get married!
At this time, many girls pursued Sima Wei and often came to play at home, actively getting close to Awei and Murong Jieqiong.
But Awei was not enthusiastic about them, he just treated them as ordinary friends
Once Murong Jieqiong asked him during a chat: Awei, when you were in school, I told you not to have a girlfriend too early, that is to let you study with peace of mind and become a talent as soon as possible. Now that you have graduated from college and are not young, you should choose a girlfriend with good looks and stay in a period of time. If you are satisfied, you can get married and your mother wants to hold her grandson!
Awei asked in confusion: OK mom, I have something unknown: Why can I have children after getting married? Why can't men and women get along with each other?
When Murong Jieqiong heard this, she was a little amused: Why doesn’t this child even know basic sexual knowledge?
But it's no wonder, because he has been studying in school and has been in contact with decent friends, how could he talk about this issue?
Moreover, my education on him never involved sexual issues
It seems that it's time to make up for the lessons
So she said to Awei: Child, you are not young anymore. You should know some sexual knowledge. I will give you a general idea. In the future, you can find some books on sex by yourself. OK?
Mommy, what is sex?
Sex literally refers to gender, that is, there are differences in physiological structure between men and women. One is the difference in the chest: the breasts of women are expanded like a big steamed bun, and the nipples are also large; while the breasts of men are flat. The second difference is that the genitals. The male genitals are protruding strips, called penis, and in sex books, they are also called Yuzhu; while in sex books, the female genitals are hole-shaped, called vagina, and in sex books, they are also called Yumen. This is what is called the difference between external genitals. In addition, the inner genitals are also different. Women have ovaries, which are where eggs are produced, and the uterus is the place where fetus grows. The male genitals have semen, that is, the scrotum, which can produce and store sperm.
Awei asked: Mommy, why do men and women have different genital structures? Men have prominent strips and women have holes?
This is the greatness of creation. After listening to my introduction below, you will understand. Now I will tell you another meaning of sex, that is, sexual intercourse between men and women, also known as intercourse, which is called sexual intercourse. Because of the differences between men and women, men can insert the genitals into the woman's genitals to connect and form a new whole. Therefore, sexual intercourse is called "combination". Under sexual impulse, a man will discharge sperm and shoot into the woman's vagina, and then enter the uterus. If it can be combined with the eggs that have been stored there, it will form a fertilized egg and fertilized egg and grow in the uterus and gradually become a human form. By nine months, it will mature. It is for the baby, and it leaves the uterus and then comes out of the vagina. It is called childbirth. You can understand why men and women may not have children when they get along.
Awei realized and nodded repeatedly: Mommy, I understand. If men and women do not have sexual intercourse, they cannot produce fertilized eggs and cannot give birth, then, can any two men and women have children through sexual intercourse?
She nodded and continued:Yes, from a physiological point of view, it is like this that all men and women with fertility have sex as long as they have sex, there is a possibility of pregnancy and having children. However, what kind of men and women can have sex? The principles of ancient and modern times are different in ancient times. They are chaotic intercourse, regardless of age or relatives, and even brothers and sisters, parents and children can have sex. Later, with the development of human civilization, the form of marriage is constantly changing. At first, it is forbidden to intercourse between the elder and the younger, and then brothers with the same blood relationship are forbidden.If the sisters get married, it is the main husband and wife system, that is, each man has a main wife, and each woman has a main husband, which is relatively stable, and there can still be polygamy. Finally, monogamy has developed from then on, and there will be ethics of sexual intercourse, that is, not any man and woman can have sexual intercourse at will, but can only be between husband and wife. Others are called illegal behaviors, especially forbidden to have sexual intercourse between parents, children, brothers and sisters, otherwise it is called "incest"
Why ban it?
This is mainly because the offspring born from inbreeding often have extremely serious deformities, physiological defects, or congenital intellectual deficiency, etc.
Mommy, can couples have children at any time?
In principle, this is the case, but it may not be possible to succeed at any time. Because successful sexual intercourse requires both parties to have sexual impulses. Otherwise, the male penis will not be erect, so how can it be inserted into the woman's vagina? The female vagina will also be very dry and the penis cannot move. The sexual intercourse cannot be carried out even if one party forces the other party to have sex, both parties will feel pain. Then, what fun can there be?
So how can we make everyone impulsive?
First of all, both parties love each other and like each other, and under certain conditions, they will have sexual impulses.
That is to say, two people must have sexual impulses at the same time to have sexual intercourse. Otherwise, if one person is impulsive and the other person is not impulsive, it is impossible to have sexual intercourse?
That's natural, she replied
So how can we make both of us have sexual impulses at the same time?
This requires "flirting", that is, when one party has the desire for sexual intercourse and the other party has no, one should do everything possible to arouse the other party's excitement and also have an impulse. This is the so-called "foreplay" foreplay, you can both enter the best situation and then you can get married.
So, how to flirt? Awei grabbed Mommy's hand and asked anxiously
She smiled and looked at him, stroked his hair with one hand, and replied: There are naturally many ways to flirt: one is to use words, such as saying beautiful words to the other party, expressing one's love, moving and excited, and you can also say some words related to sex to arouse the other party's impulse; the other is to use actions to express one's affection, such as embracing the other party, touching the other party's skin, kissing the other party, etc. Do you know?
Oh, I understand. If you want to arouse the other person's sexual desire, you must take the initiative to say things, or touch and kiss. But I don't know, where should you touch?
As long as the two are in love, being fond of any part of the body will cause sexual desire, but there are several areas on the body that are sexually sensitive areas in these places. As long as you caress a little, you will immediately arouse the other person's impulse and develop sexual desire.
Mommy, where are the sexually sensitive areas on your body?
She said: There is a difference between men and women, and everyone is different. Generally speaking, the sexually sensitive areas of men are mainly penis and lips; in addition to lips and vagina, women are also more sensitive to earlobes, the inner side of the thigh heel, and the armpits. Among them, the breasts and clitoris can be said to be the two most sensitive areas of women, and almost all women are like this.
What is clitoris?
Murong Jieqiong didn't know how to answer, but after thinking about it, he asked Awei to go to the study to get a piece of paper and a pen
She then drew a picture of a female vulva on the paper
Then he said: Look, this is the figure of the female external genitals. She pointed to a place with a pen and said: This is the vaginal opening. During sexual intercourse, the male genitals are inserted from here. The pointy part of the two ends is called the labia. The inner circle is called the labia minora. The outer circle is called the labia majora between the labia majora. Look, there is a hole here that is the urethra opening. The place where the woman urinates and there is a small flesh ball below, which is the clitoris. Don’t look at it so small, in a sense, this is the most sensitive part of a woman.
Awei listened with relish and kept nodding
Murong Jieqiong said: Okay, today I will talk about the content of sexual knowledge, so there is a science called sexual science, also known as "sexual science". You might as well find a book. Speaking of this, she stretched out her waist, raised her head, and said: It's better to do this. I have a small book called "Naked Ape". It makes a physiological and psychological analysis of the process of intercourse between men and women. I found it for you to recite it.
As she said that, she entered the room and took a booklet and said: Sex usually goes through three distinctive stages: couple, pre-couple activities and intercourse itself
1. The intercourse stage (court stage - using visual organs and vocal organs to contact each other. It is commonly called the courtship stage. This stage is often provocative, and it is inconsistent, sometimes frightened, sometimes eager to try, sometimes flirting. If the sexual signals of both parties are very strong, uneasy and hesitation will weaken these sexual signals, including complex facial expressions, body postures and voice changes. The latter includes highly specialized and symbolic voice signals in the language. But equally important, these voice signals emit unique tones for different properties. People often say that lovers in love always whisper sweet and uninformed whispers. This sentence clearly shows that what they say is actually irrelevant, but what is important is the meaning of the tone itself.
㈡Pre-coital stage (flirting stage - contact between bodies. At this time, couples often go out together to play together, and physical contact increases. First, contact with hands, arms and arms, and then mouth-to-face, mouth-to-mouth contact, embrace each other in static or dynamics. Sudden runs, chases, jumps, dances, etc. are very common, and the children's game mode will reappear.
Most of the activities in the coupon stage are carried out in public, but once you enter the pre-couple stage, you must avoid others and try to stay away from others as much as possible.
During the pre-coat stage, the number of times of lying flat position increases sharply, the contact between the bodies is more frequent, and the longer and less intense shoulder-to-shoulder postures continue to give way to the more intimate face-to-face postures. These postures can be maintained for several minutes or even hours. During this period, the voice signals and visual signals gradually lose their importance, while the tactile signals are becoming more and more frequent. These signals include small movements of various parts of the body, especially fingers, hands, lips and tongue, and the various force of different sizes of clothes. The tactile stimulation of the skin on the skin gradually spreads throughout the body.
In this stage, the mouth-to-mouth contact is the most frequent and lasts the longest. The strength from the lips ranges from gentle to violent. When the reaction reaches intensity, frequent tongue movements are used to stimulate the sensitive skin in the mouth. The lips and tongue are often used to stimulate other parts of the other person's body, especially the earlobes, neck and genitals. Men are particularly focused on the woman's breasts and nipples. Here, the contact between the lips and tongue changes to a careful licking and sucking action. After this contact, the other person's genitals may also become objects of this type of action. When this happens, the man's attention is generally focused on the woman's clitoris, while the woman focuses on the man's penis, although other parts may not be ignored.
In addition to kissing and licking, the mouth is also used to bite each part of the other person's body lightly and heavily. Generally speaking, it is very lightly, but sometimes it is very heavy and even painful.
In the gaps in stimulating the other person's body with the mouth, there is often a lot of skin caressing the hands and fingers to fumble the surface of the other person's whole body, especially the face, the arms and genitals are similar to the mouth. Men pay special attention to the woman's breasts and nipples wherever they are placed. The fingers are always stroking them, and they pinch them from time to time. The woman holds the man's penis and strokes it rhythmically.
In addition to the contact between the mouth, hands and the whole body, when the pre-coital activity reaches a intensity level, there will be a tendency to rub the genitals rhythmically on each other's body, arms and thighs will be entangled with each other, muscles will twitch from time to time, the body will be tense and relaxed for a while.
These are all sexual stimulations received by both parties during intermittent pre-coital activities, which leads to a physiological state of sexual arousal, and prepares for the occurrence of intercourse behavior
㈢ Couple stage (love stage - genital intercourse The behavior starts with the insertion of a man's penis into a woman's vagina. Generally, common couple position is that both sides lie on the face to face. The man is above the woman, and the woman's legs are separated. Although this position can have many changes, it is the simplest and most typical position. At this time, the man's crotch is rhythmically pressing downward. Although its strength changes infinitely, under unhindered conditions, the downward pressing movement is usually very rapid and deep. As the intercourse progresses, the contact between the mouth and hands is reduced, and even less subtle and complex. Even so, these secondary stimulation forms still work to a certain extent in most intercourse processes.
Compared with the pre-coat stage, the intercourse stage is much shorter. In most cases, a man will have ejaculation within a few minutes. Unless he uses a delaying strategy. If the man extends the intercourse time, the woman can eventually reach a violent orgasm. The feeling is as intense as the man and feels like a man. From a physiological point of view, in addition to being unable to ejaculate, it is also exactly the same as the man. Some women can quickly reach orgasm, while some women cannot reach orgasm at all, but generally it is not said that they reach orgasm within ten to twenty minutes after the beginning of the intercourse.
Men can overcome the time factor and use methods to extend the pre-couple stimulation time and increase the intensity of stimulation to make the woman enter a sexual arousal before the penis is inserted, which leads to the woman to orgasm. Of course, he can also use self-control to delay the arrival of orgasm, or continue to maintain intercourse or rest after ejaculation, before the penis is weak, and then intercourse again. In this case, since the man's sexual desire is weakened, it takes more time to reach orgasm again, so that the woman will have enough time to reach orgasm. After the two parties reach orgasm, they usually feel exhausted. They need to relax, rest for a while, or simply fall asleep.
Now we have to switch from sexual stimulation to sexual response. How do the body respond to such intense stimulation? Whether a man or a woman, his heart rate, blood pressure and breathing will increase significantly. These changes begin with pre-couple activities. When the climax of the intercourse reaches the normal heart rate of the neck is 70 to 80 hops per minute. In the early stage of sexual arousal, it rises to 90 to 100 hops, when the high excitement is 130 hops, when the climax reaches 150 hops, the blood pressure rises from 120 to 200, or even 250 hops. With the beginning of sexual arousal, the breath becomes deeper and deeper, and when the climax is reached, the breath is panting, and the rhythmic moan is often accompanied by rhythmic moans. At this time, the face will deform, the mouth opens, and the nostrils are enlarged, like an athlete who has reached the limit or a person with severe itching deficiency.
Another change in sexual arousal state is the sudden change in blood distribution. The blood flows into the body to the surface of the body and the large amount of excess blood flow into the skin will cause a series of purposeful consequences. It not only makes the body hot, so it is burning with desire, but also causes special changes in many specific parts. It will appear distinctive sexual blushing when it is highly excited. This is the most common among women. The blushing starts in the stomach and upper abdomen, then spreads to the upper part of the breast and the upper breast, then moves to both sides and the middle part of the breast, and finally reaches the lower part of the breast. The face and neck may also be affected.In some women with strong reactions, the blush will spread to the lower abdomen, shoulders, elbows. When reaching orgasm, it will reach the thighs, buttocks, and back. Some people even have a layer of blush on the surface of their bodies. They describe blush as measles-like, as if it is a visual signal. In a few cases, blush will also occur on men. It starts from the upper abdomen and then spreads to the chest. The neck and face sometimes cover the shoulders. Once the arms and thighs reach orgasm, the sexual blush will disappear quickly. The order of its disappearance is exactly the opposite of the order when it appears.
In addition to sexual blushing and systemic blood vessel dilation, various retractable organs will also experience obvious vascular congestion. The reason is that the artery blood supply speed is too fast, exceeding the blood vessel delivery capacity. This can last for a long time because the congested organs themselves will close the blood transfusion ducts. This usually occurs in the lips, earlobes, nipples and genitals of men or women, as well as women's breasts, lips become thicker and bright red, and more protruding than usual; the soft tissue part of the nose Swelling, dilated nostrils; earlobes will also become thick and swollen. Men or women's nipples will become swollen and erect. This is especially true for women (the reason is not only blood vessel congestion, but also the contraction of the nipple muscles is also a reason). Women's nipples can increase by one centimeter, the diameter of the nipple increases by half a centimeter, the areola around the nipple is slightly swollen, and the color turns dark. The volume of women's breasts increases significantly. When reaching orgasm, the breasts of women generally increase by 25% compared to normal volume, becoming harder, plump, and protruding.
The genitals of men and women also undergo a series of obvious changes as sexual excitement continues. A woman's vaginal wall is congested greatly, causing the vagina to moisturize quickly. Sometimes this phenomenon occurs in the first few seconds before sexual intercourse. Two-thirds of the tube wall on the inner side of the vagina will prolong and expand. In the highly excited stage, its total length increases to ten centimeters and approaches orgasm, the third part of the outer side of the vagina will expand. When it reaches orgasm, this part will produce muscle twitching for two to four seconds, and then it will contract rhythmically every 08 seconds. Each orgasm usually has three to fifteen times. Such rhythmic muscle contractions.
During sexual arousal, the female external genitals increased significantly and opened the labia majora and swelled, which increased by two to three times than normal size. The labia minora was also increased by two to three times larger than usual, and protruded to the protective layer of the labia majora, thereby increasing the total length of the vagina by one centimeter. As the sexual arousal continued, the labia minora had a second change. In addition to congestion and protrusion, its color also changed to bright red.
After the sexual arousal begins, the clitoris (the corresponding element of the man's penis) also increases and protrudes. However, when a strong excitement is reached, the swollen labia often covers up this change. Put the clitoris under its own barrier. Although the clitoris cannot feel the direct stimulation of the man's penis, because it is swollen and bulging and very sensitive, it can still indirectly feel the rhythmic pressure applied to it when the man's penis is pressed down.
As the sexual arousal began, the man's penis also changed drastically. After severe blood vessel congestion, the original weak and relaxed state changed from the original soft and loose state to the firm erection. The length suddenly increased and the diameter also increased greatly.
When a man reaches orgasm, his penis muscles twitch strongly. The several twitches that start from ejaculation into the vagina are the strongest. The interval is 08 seconds, which is completely consistent with the interval between vaginal contraction during orgasm.
During sexual excitement, due to the tightening of the scrotum, the testicles are not moving very freely. When the vas deferens contracts, they will lift the testicles upwards to make them close to the body. Due to congestion, the volume of the testicles will increase by 50 to 100%.
Once orgasm reaches orgasm, all the above changes will be restored quickly, and the intercourser will quickly recover from exhaustion to normal and quiet physiological state. There is another point worth mentioning in the orgasm reaction. What comes from orgasm is that it is a lot of sweating, both men and women. This has nothing to do with the size of the force during sexual activity. Although this is true, it is related to the intensity of the orgasm. Sweat is generally distributed on the back, legs and chest, and the armpits may also sweat. In severe cases, the entire torso, from the shoulder scapula to the thigh, sweat will also seep sweat from the palms and soles of the feet; if there are sexual blushing patches on the face, then the forehead and upper lip may sweat.
After reading it, she asked: Do you understand this time?
That’s great, I’ll read it myself again. Awei benefited a lot and said: Thank you mommy for giving me a sex education class!
No thanks! Parents have the responsibility to provide preliminary sex education to their children. It is said that the father should do it for the son, but your father is not at home, so you have to do it by your mother! How about it, you should find a girlfriend quickly. I hope to hold my grandson with you soon.
The purpose of doing this is to first let him be trained in actual work, cultivate his organizational ability, and be familiar with the business, so that he can inherit this industry at the appropriate time in the future
Every day, mother and son go to work together
During the first period, she basically taught step by step
Awei's people are also extremely smart, quickly adapted to the environment, and have their own unique insights in many aspects.
Murong Jieqiong saw Awei's progress and was very happy that Awei's knowledge, temperament and gentle demeanor, coupled with his unique insights and modest attitude when encountering things, he was very respected and loved by his colleagues.
People say that Awei's temperament and demeanor are very similar to Murong Jieqiong, but they are still far from being mature in their work.
Indeed, everything about Awei was done by Murong Jieqiong since he was a child.
She is shaping him according to her ideal man, which is naturally consistent with her in many ways.
As for his immaturity, it is certainly inevitable for young people who are new to the world.
Murong Jieqiong knew these things well
Half a year after Awei returned to China, his work gradually adapted and his talents began to be displayed.
At this time, Murong Jieqiong promoted him to become executive deputy general manager. Many of the company's daily affairs were handled by Awei, and she herself, except for presiding over important meetings and large-scale negotiations, generally did not go to work.
In this way, she finally had time to relax at home!
A strong woman who has achieved great success in the business world at home and abroad is ready to retire!
She wants to use her main energy to be a good mother in the second half of her life!
So, she thought of Awei's lifelong event: she should ask Awei to find a girlfriend, get married, and get married!
At this time, many girls pursued Sima Wei and often came to play at home, actively getting close to Awei and Murong Jieqiong.
But Awei was not enthusiastic about them, he just treated them as ordinary friends
Once Murong Jieqiong asked him during a chat: Awei, when you were in school, I told you not to have a girlfriend too early, that is to let you study with peace of mind and become a talent as soon as possible. Now that you have graduated from college and are not young, you should choose a girlfriend with good looks and stay in a period of time. If you are satisfied, you can get married and your mother wants to hold her grandson!
Awei asked in confusion: OK mom, I have something unknown: Why can I have children after getting married? Why can't men and women get along with each other?
When Murong Jieqiong heard this, she was a little amused: Why doesn’t this child even know basic sexual knowledge?
But it's no wonder, because he has been studying in school and has been in contact with decent friends, how could he talk about this issue?
Moreover, my education on him never involved sexual issues
It seems that it's time to make up for the lessons
So she said to Awei: Child, you are not young anymore. You should know some sexual knowledge. I will give you a general idea. In the future, you can find some books on sex by yourself. OK?
Mommy, what is sex?
Sex literally refers to gender, that is, there are differences in physiological structure between men and women. One is the difference in the chest: the breasts of women are expanded like a big steamed bun, and the nipples are also large; while the breasts of men are flat. The second difference is that the genitals. The male genitals are protruding strips, called penis, and in sex books, they are also called Yuzhu; while in sex books, the female genitals are hole-shaped, called vagina, and in sex books, they are also called Yumen. This is what is called the difference between external genitals. In addition, the inner genitals are also different. Women have ovaries, which are where eggs are produced, and the uterus is the place where fetus grows. The male genitals have semen, that is, the scrotum, which can produce and store sperm.
Awei asked: Mommy, why do men and women have different genital structures? Men have prominent strips and women have holes?
This is the greatness of creation. After listening to my introduction below, you will understand. Now I will tell you another meaning of sex, that is, sexual intercourse between men and women, also known as intercourse, which is called sexual intercourse. Because of the differences between men and women, men can insert the genitals into the woman's genitals to connect and form a new whole. Therefore, sexual intercourse is called "combination". Under sexual impulse, a man will discharge sperm and shoot into the woman's vagina, and then enter the uterus. If it can be combined with the eggs that have been stored there, it will form a fertilized egg and fertilized egg and grow in the uterus and gradually become a human form. By nine months, it will mature. It is for the baby, and it leaves the uterus and then comes out of the vagina. It is called childbirth. You can understand why men and women may not have children when they get along.
Awei realized and nodded repeatedly: Mommy, I understand. If men and women do not have sexual intercourse, they cannot produce fertilized eggs and cannot give birth, then, can any two men and women have children through sexual intercourse?
She nodded and continued:Yes, from a physiological point of view, it is like this that all men and women with fertility have sex as long as they have sex, there is a possibility of pregnancy and having children. However, what kind of men and women can have sex? The principles of ancient and modern times are different in ancient times. They are chaotic intercourse, regardless of age or relatives, and even brothers and sisters, parents and children can have sex. Later, with the development of human civilization, the form of marriage is constantly changing. At first, it is forbidden to intercourse between the elder and the younger, and then brothers with the same blood relationship are forbidden.If the sisters get married, it is the main husband and wife system, that is, each man has a main wife, and each woman has a main husband, which is relatively stable, and there can still be polygamy. Finally, monogamy has developed from then on, and there will be ethics of sexual intercourse, that is, not any man and woman can have sexual intercourse at will, but can only be between husband and wife. Others are called illegal behaviors, especially forbidden to have sexual intercourse between parents, children, brothers and sisters, otherwise it is called "incest"
Why ban it?
This is mainly because the offspring born from inbreeding often have extremely serious deformities, physiological defects, or congenital intellectual deficiency, etc.
Mommy, can couples have children at any time?
In principle, this is the case, but it may not be possible to succeed at any time. Because successful sexual intercourse requires both parties to have sexual impulses. Otherwise, the male penis will not be erect, so how can it be inserted into the woman's vagina? The female vagina will also be very dry and the penis cannot move. The sexual intercourse cannot be carried out even if one party forces the other party to have sex, both parties will feel pain. Then, what fun can there be?
So how can we make everyone impulsive?
First of all, both parties love each other and like each other, and under certain conditions, they will have sexual impulses.
That is to say, two people must have sexual impulses at the same time to have sexual intercourse. Otherwise, if one person is impulsive and the other person is not impulsive, it is impossible to have sexual intercourse?
That's natural, she replied
So how can we make both of us have sexual impulses at the same time?
This requires "flirting", that is, when one party has the desire for sexual intercourse and the other party has no, one should do everything possible to arouse the other party's excitement and also have an impulse. This is the so-called "foreplay" foreplay, you can both enter the best situation and then you can get married.
So, how to flirt? Awei grabbed Mommy's hand and asked anxiously
She smiled and looked at him, stroked his hair with one hand, and replied: There are naturally many ways to flirt: one is to use words, such as saying beautiful words to the other party, expressing one's love, moving and excited, and you can also say some words related to sex to arouse the other party's impulse; the other is to use actions to express one's affection, such as embracing the other party, touching the other party's skin, kissing the other party, etc. Do you know?
Oh, I understand. If you want to arouse the other person's sexual desire, you must take the initiative to say things, or touch and kiss. But I don't know, where should you touch?
As long as the two are in love, being fond of any part of the body will cause sexual desire, but there are several areas on the body that are sexually sensitive areas in these places. As long as you caress a little, you will immediately arouse the other person's impulse and develop sexual desire.
Mommy, where are the sexually sensitive areas on your body?
She said: There is a difference between men and women, and everyone is different. Generally speaking, the sexually sensitive areas of men are mainly penis and lips; in addition to lips and vagina, women are also more sensitive to earlobes, the inner side of the thigh heel, and the armpits. Among them, the breasts and clitoris can be said to be the two most sensitive areas of women, and almost all women are like this.
What is clitoris?
Murong Jieqiong didn't know how to answer, but after thinking about it, he asked Awei to go to the study to get a piece of paper and a pen
She then drew a picture of a female vulva on the paper
Then he said: Look, this is the figure of the female external genitals. She pointed to a place with a pen and said: This is the vaginal opening. During sexual intercourse, the male genitals are inserted from here. The pointy part of the two ends is called the labia. The inner circle is called the labia minora. The outer circle is called the labia majora between the labia majora. Look, there is a hole here that is the urethra opening. The place where the woman urinates and there is a small flesh ball below, which is the clitoris. Don’t look at it so small, in a sense, this is the most sensitive part of a woman.
Awei listened with relish and kept nodding
Murong Jieqiong said: Okay, today I will talk about the content of sexual knowledge, so there is a science called sexual science, also known as "sexual science". You might as well find a book. Speaking of this, she stretched out her waist, raised her head, and said: It's better to do this. I have a small book called "Naked Ape". It makes a physiological and psychological analysis of the process of intercourse between men and women. I found it for you to recite it.
As she said that, she entered the room and took a booklet and said: Sex usually goes through three distinctive stages: couple, pre-couple activities and intercourse itself
1. The intercourse stage (court stage - using visual organs and vocal organs to contact each other. It is commonly called the courtship stage. This stage is often provocative, and it is inconsistent, sometimes frightened, sometimes eager to try, sometimes flirting. If the sexual signals of both parties are very strong, uneasy and hesitation will weaken these sexual signals, including complex facial expressions, body postures and voice changes. The latter includes highly specialized and symbolic voice signals in the language. But equally important, these voice signals emit unique tones for different properties. People often say that lovers in love always whisper sweet and uninformed whispers. This sentence clearly shows that what they say is actually irrelevant, but what is important is the meaning of the tone itself.
㈡Pre-coital stage (flirting stage - contact between bodies. At this time, couples often go out together to play together, and physical contact increases. First, contact with hands, arms and arms, and then mouth-to-face, mouth-to-mouth contact, embrace each other in static or dynamics. Sudden runs, chases, jumps, dances, etc. are very common, and the children's game mode will reappear.
Most of the activities in the coupon stage are carried out in public, but once you enter the pre-couple stage, you must avoid others and try to stay away from others as much as possible.
During the pre-coat stage, the number of times of lying flat position increases sharply, the contact between the bodies is more frequent, and the longer and less intense shoulder-to-shoulder postures continue to give way to the more intimate face-to-face postures. These postures can be maintained for several minutes or even hours. During this period, the voice signals and visual signals gradually lose their importance, while the tactile signals are becoming more and more frequent. These signals include small movements of various parts of the body, especially fingers, hands, lips and tongue, and the various force of different sizes of clothes. The tactile stimulation of the skin on the skin gradually spreads throughout the body.
In this stage, the mouth-to-mouth contact is the most frequent and lasts the longest. The strength from the lips ranges from gentle to violent. When the reaction reaches intensity, frequent tongue movements are used to stimulate the sensitive skin in the mouth. The lips and tongue are often used to stimulate other parts of the other person's body, especially the earlobes, neck and genitals. Men are particularly focused on the woman's breasts and nipples. Here, the contact between the lips and tongue changes to a careful licking and sucking action. After this contact, the other person's genitals may also become objects of this type of action. When this happens, the man's attention is generally focused on the woman's clitoris, while the woman focuses on the man's penis, although other parts may not be ignored.
In addition to kissing and licking, the mouth is also used to bite each part of the other person's body lightly and heavily. Generally speaking, it is very lightly, but sometimes it is very heavy and even painful.
In the gaps in stimulating the other person's body with the mouth, there is often a lot of skin caressing the hands and fingers to fumble the surface of the other person's whole body, especially the face, the arms and genitals are similar to the mouth. Men pay special attention to the woman's breasts and nipples wherever they are placed. The fingers are always stroking them, and they pinch them from time to time. The woman holds the man's penis and strokes it rhythmically.
In addition to the contact between the mouth, hands and the whole body, when the pre-coital activity reaches a intensity level, there will be a tendency to rub the genitals rhythmically on each other's body, arms and thighs will be entangled with each other, muscles will twitch from time to time, the body will be tense and relaxed for a while.
These are all sexual stimulations received by both parties during intermittent pre-coital activities, which leads to a physiological state of sexual arousal, and prepares for the occurrence of intercourse behavior
㈢ Couple stage (love stage - genital intercourse The behavior starts with the insertion of a man's penis into a woman's vagina. Generally, common couple position is that both sides lie on the face to face. The man is above the woman, and the woman's legs are separated. Although this position can have many changes, it is the simplest and most typical position. At this time, the man's crotch is rhythmically pressing downward. Although its strength changes infinitely, under unhindered conditions, the downward pressing movement is usually very rapid and deep. As the intercourse progresses, the contact between the mouth and hands is reduced, and even less subtle and complex. Even so, these secondary stimulation forms still work to a certain extent in most intercourse processes.
Compared with the pre-coat stage, the intercourse stage is much shorter. In most cases, a man will have ejaculation within a few minutes. Unless he uses a delaying strategy. If the man extends the intercourse time, the woman can eventually reach a violent orgasm. The feeling is as intense as the man and feels like a man. From a physiological point of view, in addition to being unable to ejaculate, it is also exactly the same as the man. Some women can quickly reach orgasm, while some women cannot reach orgasm at all, but generally it is not said that they reach orgasm within ten to twenty minutes after the beginning of the intercourse.
Men can overcome the time factor and use methods to extend the pre-couple stimulation time and increase the intensity of stimulation to make the woman enter a sexual arousal before the penis is inserted, which leads to the woman to orgasm. Of course, he can also use self-control to delay the arrival of orgasm, or continue to maintain intercourse or rest after ejaculation, before the penis is weak, and then intercourse again. In this case, since the man's sexual desire is weakened, it takes more time to reach orgasm again, so that the woman will have enough time to reach orgasm. After the two parties reach orgasm, they usually feel exhausted. They need to relax, rest for a while, or simply fall asleep.
Now we have to switch from sexual stimulation to sexual response. How do the body respond to such intense stimulation? Whether a man or a woman, his heart rate, blood pressure and breathing will increase significantly. These changes begin with pre-couple activities. When the climax of the intercourse reaches the normal heart rate of the neck is 70 to 80 hops per minute. In the early stage of sexual arousal, it rises to 90 to 100 hops, when the high excitement is 130 hops, when the climax reaches 150 hops, the blood pressure rises from 120 to 200, or even 250 hops. With the beginning of sexual arousal, the breath becomes deeper and deeper, and when the climax is reached, the breath is panting, and the rhythmic moan is often accompanied by rhythmic moans. At this time, the face will deform, the mouth opens, and the nostrils are enlarged, like an athlete who has reached the limit or a person with severe itching deficiency.
Another change in sexual arousal state is the sudden change in blood distribution. The blood flows into the body to the surface of the body and the large amount of excess blood flow into the skin will cause a series of purposeful consequences. It not only makes the body hot, so it is burning with desire, but also causes special changes in many specific parts. It will appear distinctive sexual blushing when it is highly excited. This is the most common among women. The blushing starts in the stomach and upper abdomen, then spreads to the upper part of the breast and the upper breast, then moves to both sides and the middle part of the breast, and finally reaches the lower part of the breast. The face and neck may also be affected.In some women with strong reactions, the blush will spread to the lower abdomen, shoulders, elbows. When reaching orgasm, it will reach the thighs, buttocks, and back. Some people even have a layer of blush on the surface of their bodies. They describe blush as measles-like, as if it is a visual signal. In a few cases, blush will also occur on men. It starts from the upper abdomen and then spreads to the chest. The neck and face sometimes cover the shoulders. Once the arms and thighs reach orgasm, the sexual blush will disappear quickly. The order of its disappearance is exactly the opposite of the order when it appears.
In addition to sexual blushing and systemic blood vessel dilation, various retractable organs will also experience obvious vascular congestion. The reason is that the artery blood supply speed is too fast, exceeding the blood vessel delivery capacity. This can last for a long time because the congested organs themselves will close the blood transfusion ducts. This usually occurs in the lips, earlobes, nipples and genitals of men or women, as well as women's breasts, lips become thicker and bright red, and more protruding than usual; the soft tissue part of the nose Swelling, dilated nostrils; earlobes will also become thick and swollen. Men or women's nipples will become swollen and erect. This is especially true for women (the reason is not only blood vessel congestion, but also the contraction of the nipple muscles is also a reason). Women's nipples can increase by one centimeter, the diameter of the nipple increases by half a centimeter, the areola around the nipple is slightly swollen, and the color turns dark. The volume of women's breasts increases significantly. When reaching orgasm, the breasts of women generally increase by 25% compared to normal volume, becoming harder, plump, and protruding.
The genitals of men and women also undergo a series of obvious changes as sexual excitement continues. A woman's vaginal wall is congested greatly, causing the vagina to moisturize quickly. Sometimes this phenomenon occurs in the first few seconds before sexual intercourse. Two-thirds of the tube wall on the inner side of the vagina will prolong and expand. In the highly excited stage, its total length increases to ten centimeters and approaches orgasm, the third part of the outer side of the vagina will expand. When it reaches orgasm, this part will produce muscle twitching for two to four seconds, and then it will contract rhythmically every 08 seconds. Each orgasm usually has three to fifteen times. Such rhythmic muscle contractions.
During sexual arousal, the female external genitals increased significantly and opened the labia majora and swelled, which increased by two to three times than normal size. The labia minora was also increased by two to three times larger than usual, and protruded to the protective layer of the labia majora, thereby increasing the total length of the vagina by one centimeter. As the sexual arousal continued, the labia minora had a second change. In addition to congestion and protrusion, its color also changed to bright red.
After the sexual arousal begins, the clitoris (the corresponding element of the man's penis) also increases and protrudes. However, when a strong excitement is reached, the swollen labia often covers up this change. Put the clitoris under its own barrier. Although the clitoris cannot feel the direct stimulation of the man's penis, because it is swollen and bulging and very sensitive, it can still indirectly feel the rhythmic pressure applied to it when the man's penis is pressed down.
As the sexual arousal began, the man's penis also changed drastically. After severe blood vessel congestion, the original weak and relaxed state changed from the original soft and loose state to the firm erection. The length suddenly increased and the diameter also increased greatly.
When a man reaches orgasm, his penis muscles twitch strongly. The several twitches that start from ejaculation into the vagina are the strongest. The interval is 08 seconds, which is completely consistent with the interval between vaginal contraction during orgasm.
During sexual excitement, due to the tightening of the scrotum, the testicles are not moving very freely. When the vas deferens contracts, they will lift the testicles upwards to make them close to the body. Due to congestion, the volume of the testicles will increase by 50 to 100%.
Once orgasm reaches orgasm, all the above changes will be restored quickly, and the intercourser will quickly recover from exhaustion to normal and quiet physiological state. There is another point worth mentioning in the orgasm reaction. What comes from orgasm is that it is a lot of sweating, both men and women. This has nothing to do with the size of the force during sexual activity. Although this is true, it is related to the intensity of the orgasm. Sweat is generally distributed on the back, legs and chest, and the armpits may also sweat. In severe cases, the entire torso, from the shoulder scapula to the thigh, sweat will also seep sweat from the palms and soles of the feet; if there are sexual blushing patches on the face, then the forehead and upper lip may sweat.
After reading it, she asked: Do you understand this time?
That’s great, I’ll read it myself again. Awei benefited a lot and said: Thank you mommy for giving me a sex education class!
No thanks! Parents have the responsibility to provide preliminary sex education to their children. It is said that the father should do it for the son, but your father is not at home, so you have to do it by your mother! How about it, you should find a girlfriend quickly. I hope to hold my grandson with you soon.
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